Should I marry my gf who is pregnant with my child?
I got my girlfriend pregnant.
She’s 6 months pregnant now and her family is wondering if we are planning to get married.
I’m not yet that ready to get married anytime soon.
Should I marry her? I am not going to run away from my obligation and responsibilities as the father of my child but I’m wondering if there is really a need to get married these days.
I’m starting to think that marriage is quite useless but maybe this is just an unconventional view.
My gf comes from a country where marriage is a big deal whereas I come from a country where it is more liberated and relaxed when it comes to marriage.
This results to a clash in our beliefs and culture.
I think I really need a foreign bride 101 lecture so I know what to expect if we do get married.
I’m quite confused as to what I should do next.
My life is a blur as of this moment and I need some words of wisdom.
I love my gf but the idea of marriage is just not appealing to me as of this moment.
In the end, marriage is about LOVE, not circumstances. If you don't love your girlfriend or legitimately see a future with her, then no. You should not marry her. What you should do is work on building a healthy relationship with her and finding ways to co-parent successfully, should your relationship ever come to an end.
There's an article called " Important Insights into When You Should Get Married " that seems to apply to your situation. I would give this article a look over.