How can I get more aroused and have painless, pleasurable sex??
My husband and I both waited to have sex.
It was so painful for me he couldn’t penetrate me.
The gyno said my hymen was so thick I needed surgery.
So 5 months into marriage we finally were able to have sex two nights ago and then again last night but it didn’t feel good for me at all and it still was painful.
In all this time, despite the fact that our relationship is loving and strong and I love the physical and emotional closeness we have during foreplay, I can never get really wet or aroused down there.
I don’t get it.
I love my husband very much, and I am young and not on bc.
I feel guilty for it.