How to Plan Your Dream Wedding Perfectly
A wedding can be everything you’ve ever dreamed of but, to make it absolutely perfect you have to put in some serious effort. The wedding of your dreams require tons of planning, a reliable source to buy your gown, cake, prints, and everything else. The more time you leave yourself, the easier it will be. A 12 month plan is fairly standard and this guide will walk you through exactly how to pull off the most magical of nights!
12 Months before the wedding
A wedding doesn’t happen overnight. Actually, you would be lucky to pull it off in a year! Twelve months seems to be just enough time to check off the complete checklist for a wedding. There’s so much to squeeze in, like booking your photographer and videographer, and going through the lengthy (but oh so worth it!) wedding dress selection process.
Whether you have a few months or a few years to plan for the big day, every ceremony starts with a checklist for wedding planning. The trick is to start with solidifying your big ideas and then zeroing in on the details. First, choose your theme. The theme dictates everything else from the venue, the dress, the music, and all the way down to the color of the napkins.
8-10 months before the wedding
The next step on your checklist for the wedding day is booking your honeymoon. A rule of thumb is ‘the earlier you book, the more you save’. With your destination set, you can move on to the wedding cake. Great cake designers require around 9 months notice if you want to avoid disappointment, and choosing your ‘promise to always provide for each other’ is no easy task. Choosing the perfect combination of cake, filling, and icing can be overwhelming. On top of this, you can add the tiers, toppers, and decoration. With literally thousands of variations, it can seem impossible to choose. Don’t worry though, your cake designer is a pro and can walk you through the entire process
The next big task on your checklist for a wedding reception is the music, which is a list in of itself. There’s the immensely critical first dance, the father of the bride dance, and the entire reception playlist to worry about. Music sets the tone for the entire evening, so make sure to get bridesmaids involved for some great second opinions.
4-6 months before the wedding
Next stop on the bride checklist for wedding day are the bridesmaids’ dresses. Having started with deciding your theme followed closely by the wedding gown, choosing these dresses won’t be as difficult as it sometimes can be. However, you do want to make this decision early so that your best girls have time for fittings, alterations, and finding the best accessories. This is also the perfect time for creating your checklist for a wedding registry. You’ll want to give your guests more than enough time to shop for that perfect wedding gift!
2-3 months before the wedding
Three months seems like a lot of time, but there’s still so much to worry about. This is the time to scout the venue to plan all of your photoshoots, start crafting or buying your wedding favors, finalizing your speech, and so much more. Once you’ve created your checklist for wedding ceremony go back and assign how long you think you’ll need for each task, and leave a little room to breathe. Often enough, the unexpected happens – you’ve lost too much weight and have to alter your gown, the videographer double-books – and being the stress-free bride that you are, should plan to be able to adapt. Happily Ever After may seem like a long time, but it seems to go by in the blink of an eye. Plan smart and stay happy.
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