Do Marriages and Workplace Make a Good Mix?
This is a very good question which you may well be asking, especially if you are considering getting married to someone in the same profession as you, or someone who is in the same field of work as you are.
Pros and cons
As with any profound topic there are pros and cons. Some of the pros might include having a shared interest and passion which would mean greater mutual understanding for what each one is experiencing in the workplace. A possible con might be that your interests may be restricted and absorbed within the one profession rather than having the balance of two different working perspectives within your marriage.
Top five professions
In order to better understand this question a study was made by Priceonomics in which they analyzed data from the US Census to establish how many people with a certain occupation are married to someone who has the same occupation or who is working in the same industry. Some interesting and surprising discoveries were made. The top five professions were as follows:
- Farming, Fishing and Forestry
- Healthcare practitioners
There were some variations when it came to gender minorities within certain professions. For example, women in construction work are very likely to marry someone in construction, and men in education are most likely to find a spouse also in education.
Similar schedules and interests
It can be noted that due to the inherent characteristics of certain occupations or professions it seems to make more sense to marry internally. These factors might include long hours such as the farming and agricultural sector, as well as the intense vision or mission involved in some profession such as education or healthcare, for example. Therefore having similar schedules and interests would be advantageous to the marriage.
Choose your spouse carefully
Whatever your profession, you need to consider your choice of spouse with the utmost of care. Whether or not you share the same occupation is one of many factors which go into creating a successful and fulfilling marriage. Marriage and workplace can indeed make a good mix as the saying goes “birds of a feather flock together”, but don’t forget that opposites can also attract. Make sure that it is your loving friendship with one another that is keeping you together rather than just your profession.
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