How to Perform Oral Sex
Sometimes you know things by nature. Sex is one of those things that is known by nature. Learning sex is about sharing experiences and you try them all and see what suits you.
All the sex tips you can find in books or the internet don’t guarantee you the best pleasure, they are just mere experices shared by people. They share what they feel is best by nature.
Anyone can talk about sex. everyone can teach sex because sex is a need like your need for food. When someone tells you this type of food tastes good that doesn’t mean you cannot decide whether it is good for you or not.
But he just shares his experience with you and you can share your experience as well. So, you will be exchanging knowledge. This article is specifically talking about oral sex, which can be very important sexual activity.
This article would illustarte some key oral sex tips, like, how to perform oral sex, how to give the best oral sex and a few oral sex tricks to make your partner fo wild.
Well, what is oral sex? It is to use your mouth, tongue, and lips to stimulate men or women’s sexual organs. Oral sex is also called “going down” “blow job” “giving a head”.
There are also medical names with oral sex: oral sex on women is called cunnilingus, while oral sex on men is called fellatio. Throughout the article, I will be using these terms in parallel.
Oral sex or going down is as important as penetration as it makes the relation more intimate and hot. Many people, especially women don’t like to provide oral sex to their partner. These women are missing a very amazing feeling that penetration cannot compensate.
Let’s see some oral sex techniques on how to give good oral sex
Use your eyes; use your mind
The first tip on oral sex is to use your eyes to watch the simplest details in your partner’s penis and vagina. What is its color? How does it look like? Is it stiff? This will make you and your partner even more hornier.
Also, use your mind to imagine what will you do exactly without touching yet. This will help you in increasing your enthusiasm.
Use your hand
After meditating on your partner’s penis or vagina start to touch his/her sensitive parts gently or strongly depending on how she/he wants. Do this till she/he beg you to lick her/ his sexual organs.
Describe what you are doing
Your mouth will be busy doing the thing, but find a chance to tell your partner what are you doing exactly with horny words. You might say she/he knows what I am doing. And this is true.
But, actually, you narrate not for the sake of enlightenment but rather you narrate to increase pleasure. Narrating the whole thing will give you and your partner a kind of enthusiasm and pleasure. You will be in need to say it and she/he will be in need to hear it.
Don’t stick to one position
Use your body freely. Try different positions. Be creative. Don’t rely on positions found on the internet only. Try to find your own positions.
If you feel that one position is suitable for you that doesn’t mean to not try the other positions. The idea is to change positions. The more you use your body freely and confidently, the more pleasure you will have.
Do it randomly, any place, any time
Be spontaneous. If you feel you want to give ‘head’ in this particular place, just do it after asking for permission from your partner.
The best blow job you will ever do is when you do it spontaneously and freely. So try different times and different places. Be free!
Use stimulators in the background
You can use sex videos as a stimulator for you. Pick some new moves and tips. And act with the video, but don’t make these videos kill your creativity.
You are good, exactly like those people in the video because all of us have this desire which moves us. See how to give him a blowjob.
Use your hot breath
Just give a hot breath to your partner’s sensitive parts before giving a head and watch her/his facial expression. This will be an amazing feeling.
Breathe gently; don’t make a strong puff of air. And also, you can say sexual words there, so the breath that is coming out from talking will stimulate her/his nerve endings.
Kiss and touch your partner outside her/his panties
You won’t imagine how much it is interesting to kiss your partner outside her/his panties until you try.
The barrier between your lips and her/his sensitive part which is the panties will stimulate you more because you will be more enthusiastic to defeat this barrier by kissing strongly to make her/him feel your kisses.
And when you succeed, this will give you a sense of satisfaction.
Do not be shy; show enthusiasm; be natural and free
Never be shy to show your enthusiasm. As I said before be free and creative. Don’t feel shy. Be messy; it is okay. When you act freely with enthusiasm. You and your partner will feel the real pleasure.
Use all your senses, your eyes, your nose, your skin, your ear, and your tongue. Make eye contact; make use of your voice. Express your feelings with words and breaths and glances and touches.
Don’t be selfish. Show your feeling spontaneous and openly.
Her labia to be spread
Never be bashful to show yourself. Open your legs widely so your partner will reach different deep areas from different angles and sides while delivering cunnilingus.
If you spread your labia widely, both of you will enjoy this. See how to perform cunnilingus.
No need for deep-throating
In case your partner is very amped up about the idea of putting all his penis in your mouth, you can do it with no need for deep-throating.
Wrap your hand at the bottom of his penis and put the rest of it in your mouth. Or put the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth and hit your tongue with his penis.
No need to swallow the sperm coming
Many things need to be discussed before. Such as, will she suck the sperm or not. If not, he should warn her when he is about to cum.
It is not necessarily enjoyable to suck the sperm it is more enjoyable to see him ejaculating on your body or in another place.
Sit on his face
This position enables your partner to reach new areas more deeply from different angles. And this will give the woman a feeling that she is in control and this adds something new to the relation. But be careful not to pressure too much. See oral sex positions.
To blow job doesn’t mean to ignore other sensitive areas.
While you are giving a head you can touch and squeeze her/his nipples and her/his thighs. This will leave a feeling inside the receiver that all his/her body is controlled by you, not just a little area. And this increases joy.
Cooling can be very interesting
While you are having oral sex, your body becomes hot. So if you turn on a fan, this will make a pleasurable shock into your senses. The mix will be very beautiful: the warmth of his/her mouth and the air from the fan.
Have fun; let your nights be a wonder; let it be unforgettable. Use candles and soft music and enjoy yourselves; gratify each other. Be creative and natural.
Show your feelings and reactions openly. Don’t be hesitant to experience any new techniques in oral sex. And always make oral sex as a basic activity in your sexual deeds.
Do not be selfish! Remember that how much you will give, is how much you will get. Enjoy!
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