Can “ Bad “ Genes Be an Excuse for Crime or Divorce?
Can “bad” genes be an excuse for divorce and crime?
There is an opinion that “bad” genes can be an excuse for divorce, crime, domestic violence, cheating and so on.
But most of the people, and also I think that it’s not so. I am convinced that a person can choose his own way in life, that do not depend on the character of his or her parents.
Even if scientists think that the behavioral genes can be the cause of the worst in human personality (cheating, divorce, violence, divorce), in the situation when the person is in mess he or she should think “What I want: to get divorced, to hurt others or to live normally?”
If the answer is the first it looks like you have not enough motivation or possibility to change something in your life and after you will regret that you didn’t change your behavior, but if the answer is the second it is sure that you can change something.
Behavioral changes occur in minimum 90 days
Notice that most scientists consider that behavioral changes occur in minimum 90 days. So you should be patient and work daily to achieve your goals.
Every person can change his or her behavior just by working hard.
Love can help you in trouble: love for yourself, family, friends and for all human and nature. I have noticed when I was a child that fairy-tales had never a sad end and in the fight between good and bad, good wins every time. So we all should believe in fairy tales to survive this wicked world.
But most of the scientists still think that the behavioral genes of parents are transmitted to children. So let’s analyze this opinion: genetic factors play a big role in predispositions to criminal behavior, in 40-50% of cases.
The child who saw domestic violence at home is predisposed to crime, violence and so on. I think that lack of education, communication, and social activity are the causes.
Everything can be changed with some desire and motivation. For example, if you have your family and you want to hold it united you forget all the bad that happened to you in childhood and you’re concentrating on the happiness of your family.
As morality is your biggest orientation point you should just be yourself and do not find excuses for your behavior, but just work for your well-being.
We are responsible for our life
Most of the people still think that genetic factor can justify crime or divorce. Every person can be alive even on ashes of his life just if he fights, I don’t deny the existence of transmitting the behavioral genes to children, I just want to say that only we are responsible for our life.
One can inherit the mode his mother and father walks, speaks and other, but not crime predisposition or cheating, that is always your choice to be or not to be.
Controlling your anger will help you. Just understand that most of the people can’t deal with it because of the laziness or craze, but you can be the change you want to see in the world.
Are criminals made or born?
The question that I’m asking most of the times I am alone with my thoughts. I think they are influenced by the circumstances and lack of education and the situations when there is no one to help them.
You should believe in your spiritual power and fight with your bad wishes. The good side should always win if it doesn’t give some help to it.
Every human can do impossible with some love and self-confidence.
Limits exist just in your mind, be self-confident and help yourself in any situation. You should become your best friend and love yourself. After you will be happy and proud of yourself when you’ll excel. Every day is the best day for the development of your personality.
Someday you’ll see how the things have changed and will be surprised of how helpful was my article for you and your personality.
In a brief, you are the champion of the world, of your own world!
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