

{"id":98339,"date":"2024-04-23T11:01:53","date_gmt":"2024-04-23T11:01:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=98339"},"modified":"2026-01-02T17:45:44","modified_gmt":"2026-01-02T17:45:44","slug":"deal-with-jealous-girlfriends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/deal-with-jealous-girlfriends\/","title":{"rendered":"23 Ways How to Deal With a Jealous Girlfriend"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-98346\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/345522581-1.jpg\" alt=\"Couple having coffee \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in a relationship where your girlfriend gets jealous easily can be both challenging and delicate.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jealousy, a complex emotion often rooted in love, insecurity, or fear of loss, can strain the strongest of bonds.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>A <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/2158244013476054\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> published in the \"Journal of Social and Personal Relationships\" reveals that jealousy in small doses can actually be a sign of a healthy relationship, indicating emotional investment and care.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, <\/span><b>when it becomes overwhelming, it can lead to unwarranted disputes and discomfort. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This raises a pertinent question: do guys like a jealous girlfriend? The answer isn&rsquo;t straightforward. While some may interpret jealousy as a sign of love and commitment, for others, it&rsquo;s a red flag signaling trust issues.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Learning how to deal with jealous girlfriends requires patience, understanding, and a fair bit of wisdom. It&rsquo;s about finding a balance between reassurance and fostering a healthy, trusting relationship dynamic.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-does-it-mean-if-your-girlfriend-is-jealous\"><\/span><b>What does it mean if your girlfriend is jealous?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>When your girlfriend is jealous, it often means she feels threatened by perceived competition or fears losing you to someone else.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This feeling can stem from insecurities, past experiences, or even love. It&rsquo;s crucial to approach this delicately, understanding why your girlfriend is so jealous and addressing her concerns with empathy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>As per <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/319306102_A_systematic_review_of_romantic_jealousy_in_relationships\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, romantic jealousy can seriously affect health, impacting the person feeling it, their partner, and the person they are jealous of.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When jealousy becomes excessive, it can strain the relationship. Learning how to deal with jealous girlfriends involves clear communication, reassurance, and setting healthy boundaries. It&rsquo;s about reassuring her of your commitment while maintaining a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-lean-into-your-relationship-without-leaving-yourself-behind\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">balance of independence in the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/toxic-girlfriend\/\" title=\"13 Warning Signs of a Toxic Girlfriend &#038; How to Handle\">13 Warning Signs of a Toxic Girlfriend &#038; How to Handle<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-causes-jealousy-in-girlfriends\"><\/span><b>What causes jealousy in girlfriends?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jealousy in girlfriends can stem from a complex mix of factors, each intertwining to evoke feelings that challenge both individuals in a relationship. Understanding why your girlfriend might be feeling jealous is crucial in managing through these emotional hurdles.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Learning how to deal with jealous girlfriends and encouraging them on how to not be a jealous girlfriend involves reassurance, strengthening trust, and fostering open communication. It&rsquo;s not about whether guys like a jealous girlfriend; it&rsquo;s about understanding and empathy in the face of vulnerabilities.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Common causes include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Insecurities<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: A lack of self-esteem might lead her to doubt her worthiness in the relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Past experiences:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Previous betrayals can set the stage for future fears, making it hard to trust again.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Perceived threats:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Attention from others can trigger fears of losing the relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Comparison:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Social media often amplifies comparisons, making her feel less than others.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Lack of assurance:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Not feeling valued or reassured in the relationship can fuel jealousy.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Fear of abandonment:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Deep-rooted fears of being left can manifest as jealousy.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Communication gaps:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Misunderstandings or lack of open conversation can escalate insecurities.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-of-jealousy-in-a-relationship\/\" title=\"15 Signs of Jealousy in Relationships &#038; Ways to Deal With It\">15 Signs of Jealousy in Relationships &#038; Ways to Deal With It<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-deal-with-a-jealous-girlfriend-23-helpful-ways\"><\/span><b>How to deal with a jealous girlfriend: 23 helpful ways<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/TYhMEjKvO1w?si=ZRyQ5TOr6PJfiOBa\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribeYT_highlight\"><div class=\"subscribe_channel\">\r\n            <div class=\"subscribe_text\">Join millions <span class=\"sub_text1\">building healthier, happier<\/span> <span class=\"sub_text2\"> relationships.<\/span><\/div>\r\n            <a class=\"subscribe-btn-in-content\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Marriagedotcom?sub_confirmation=1\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/youtube_icon_small.png\" class=\"icon-left\" alt=\"YouTube\">\r\n            <span>Subscribe<\/span>\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/bell_icon_new.svg\" class=\"icon-right\" alt=\"Extra Icon\">\r\n            <\/a>\r\n        <\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with a jealous girlfriend can be challenging, but with understanding and patience, you can foster a healthier relationship. Here are 23 ways to help:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Communicate openly<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talk about feelings and concerns without judgment. Listening and expressing empathy shows you care and understand her perspective. Encouraging open communication can create a safe space for both of you to express concerns and strengthen your bond.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Reassure her<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Regularly express your love and commitment. Small gestures and words of affirmation can reassure her of your feelings and reduce insecurity. Consistent reassurance can help her feel secure in the relationship, fostering a deeper sense of trust and understanding.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Set boundaries together<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discuss and agree on boundaries that respect both your needs. This clarity can prevent misunderstandings and provide a sense of security. Establishing clear boundaries together can demonstrate mutual respect and consideration for each other&rsquo;s comfort levels.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Understand the root cause<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to understand why she feels jealous. Is it insecurity, past experiences, or something else? Addressing the root cause is key to long-term solutions. Understanding the root cause of her jealousy can lead to more effective and targeted support, addressing the issue at its core.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Be transparent<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-98345\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/217147789-2.jpg\" alt=\"Man trying to looking into woman's cell \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/344371541_Transparency_dilemma_in_interpersonal_relationships\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> discuss that romantic and intimate relationships develop when people open up, revealing their true selves to let others get closer.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Share your plans and who you&rsquo;re with, especially in situations that might trigger her jealousy. Transparency builds trust. Transparency can build a foundation of honesty and trust, reducing uncertainty and suspicion in the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Limit interactions that trigger jealousy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be mindful of actions that might trigger her feelings of jealousy and discuss ways you can both feel comfortable. Avoiding triggering interactions can minimize unnecessary tension and contribute to a more harmonious relationship dynamic.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Encourage independence<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage her to pursue her interests and hobbies. Independence can boost self-esteem and reduce dependency on the relationship for happiness. Supporting her independence can lead to a healthier and more balanced relationship built on individual growth and fulfillment.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Show patience<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understand that overcoming jealousy takes time. Be patient and supportive throughout the process. Patience demonstrates your commitment and understanding, fostering an environment of emotional support and stability.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Engage in joint activities<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spend quality time together doing activities you both enjoy. This strengthens your bond and creates positive experiences together. Engaging in shared activities can create cherished memories and strengthen your connection, promoting a sense of togetherness.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Seek professional help<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If jealousy is severely impacting the relationship, consider seeking help from a therapist who can provide strategies and insights. Seeking professional help together can demonstrate a shared commitment to overcoming challenges and nurturing the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. Focus on building trust<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-98344\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1299248902.jpg\" alt=\"Woman is being jealous looking at couple \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Work on building trust through consistent actions and reliability. Prioritizing trust-building efforts can lay the groundwork for a more secure and resilient relationship foundation.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. Avoid giving reasons for jealousy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be mindful of your actions and how they could be perceived.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to <\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/christiana-njoku\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Christiana Njoku<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">, LPC<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Don&rsquo;t give room to actions that will enable your girlfriend to <\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">begin to feel<\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\"> jealous.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoid situations that might give her a legitimate reason to feel jealous. Being mindful of potential triggers can help maintain a sense of emotional security and reduce unnecessary tension.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Give compliments<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Regularly express what you admire about her. Genuine compliments can boost her self-esteem and mitigate feelings of jealousy. Sincere compliments can uplift her spirits and reinforce positive self-perception, fostering a more confident outlook.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. Encourage social support<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage her to maintain a healthy social life outside the relationship. Strong support systems can lessen the intensity of jealous feelings. Supporting her social connections can contribute to a well-rounded support system, reducing reliance solely on the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. Practice empathy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to see things from her perspective. Understanding her feelings can help you respond more compassionately. Cultivating empathy can lead to more considerate and understanding responses, enhancing emotional connection and support.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>16. Set privacy limits<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While transparency is important, also establish privacy boundaries. Balancing openness with personal privacy is crucial. Balancing transparency with privacy can create a healthy boundary, fostering trust while respecting personal space.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>17. Handle conflicts calmly<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When disagreements arise, address them calmly and constructively, focusing on solutions rather than blame. Calm conflict resolution can strengthen your bond and create a sense of emotional security and stability.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>18. Limit social media exposure<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Social media can exacerbate jealousy. Discuss its impact and consider reducing usage or certain interactions that might fuel jealousy. Managing social media use can minimize potential triggers and promote a healthier emotional environment.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>19. Celebrate each other&rsquo;s successes<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show genuine happiness for her achievements. Celebrating each other reduces competition and promotes mutual support. Sharing in each other&rsquo;s triumphs can reinforce mutual support and diminish feelings of competition.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>20. Provide space<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, giving each other space can help. Time apart can allow for self-reflection and personal growth. Allowing space for personal growth and introspection can contribute to a more balanced and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/tips-to-build-harmonious-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">harmonious relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/dating-someone-with-trust-issues\/\" title=\"23 Practical Tips for Dating Someone With Trust Issues\">23 Practical Tips for Dating Someone With Trust Issues<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>21. Reframe negative thought<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Help her challenge and reframe negative thoughts that feed jealousy. Encouraging a positive mindset can make a big difference. Encouraging a positive mindset can contribute to a healthier emotional outlook and diminish feelings of jealousy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>22. Acknowledge her feelings<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Validate her feelings without necessarily agreeing with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Christiana Njoku highlights that:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>As much as you can, try and make her understand you acknowledge how she feels and reassure her of your love for her.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acknowledgment can make her feel heard and understood. Acknowledging her feelings can create a sense of validation and understanding, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/strengthen-emotional-intimacy-in-a-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">strengthening your emotional connection<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>23. Work on self-confidence together<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage activities and habits that build self-confidence, both as individuals and as a couple. Confidence can diminish jealousy over time. Building self-confidence as a couple can lead to a more positive and secure relationship dynamic, fostering mutual growth and support.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this unmissable podcast on building self-confidence by American presenter and author Mel Robbins:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/kMtNkJcJn3M?si=Db5BPVL1Odw3ER9U\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span><b>FAQs<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Facing jealousy in a relationship can be complex, often leaving you with more questions than answers. Whether it&rsquo;s deciphering the motives behind jealousy or understanding its implications on your relationship, it&rsquo;s crucial to approach these concerns thoughtfully. Here are some FAQs to help you understand and manage jealousy more effectively.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Should I stay with a jealous girlfriend?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Staying with a jealous girlfriend depends on the relationship&rsquo;s overall health and both partners&rsquo; willingness to address the jealousy constructively. If both are committed to understanding and working through the underlying issues, the relationship can grow stronger.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if jealousy leads to controlling behavior or distrust, it may be time to reevaluate.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Is jealousy a proof of love?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jealousy is not a proof of love; rather, it often signals insecurity or fear of losing someone important. While it&rsquo;s natural to experience some degree of jealousy, healthy love is built on trust and security, not fear and possessiveness. Communicating openly about feelings can help distinguish between love and jealousy.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Is jealousy a red flag?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jealousy can be a red flag, especially if it manifests as controlling behavior, restricts freedom, or leads to verbal or physical abuse. It indicates deeper issues that need to be addressed. Recognizing and addressing jealousy early can prevent it from escalating into more serious relationship problems.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Can jealousy end a relationship?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, unchecked jealousy can end a relationship. It can erode trust, foster insecurity, and lead to constant conflict. Healthy relationships require mutual respect and trust. Addressing jealousy constructively and seeking professional help if needed can help save the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Handling-jealousy-in-relationships\"><\/span><b>Handling jealousy in relationships<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with a jealous girlfriend requires patience, understanding, and open communication. Jealousy is not always a sign of distrust but often a plea for reassurance and connection. Recognizing the root causes of jealousy can transform challenges into opportunities for strengthening your relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By practicing empathy, setting healthy boundaries, and fostering an environment of trust and security, you can create a deeper bond with your partner. Remember, addressing jealousy is a journey that can lead to growth and a more profound, loving partnership.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Together, you can handle these situations, turning jealousy from a hurdle into a stepping stone for a stronger, healthier relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being in a relationship where your girlfriend gets jealous easily can be both challenging and delicate.&nbsp; Jealousy, a complex emotion often rooted in love, insecurity, or fear of loss, can strain the strongest of bonds.&nbsp; However, when it becomes overwhelming, it can lead to unwarranted disputes and discomfort. This raises a pertinent question: do guys like a jealous girlfriend? The answer isn&rsquo;t straightforward. While some may interpret jealousy as a sign of love and commitment, for others, it&rsquo;s a red flag signaling trust issues.&nbsp; Learning how to deal with jealous girlfriends requires patience, understanding, and a fair bit of wisdom. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1394,"featured_media":98346,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2502],"tags":[2605],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98339"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1394"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98339"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98339\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":115497,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98339\/revisions\/115497"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98346"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98339"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98339"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98339"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}