

{"id":93752,"date":"2024-01-09T05:34:56","date_gmt":"2024-01-09T05:34:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=93752"},"modified":"2024-01-09T07:10:47","modified_gmt":"2024-01-09T07:10:47","slug":"personality-disorder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/personality-disorder\/","title":{"rendered":"What are Personality Disorders? Types, Symptoms &#038; Treatments"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-93755\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/2006035298-2.jpg\" alt=\"Couple comforting each other \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personality disorders, a group of enduring patterns of inner experience and behavior, can significantly impact relationships, causing distress and challenges for those involved. There are various types, including borderline, narcissistic, and avoidant personality disorders, each presenting distinct symptoms and characteristics.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Individuals with these disorders may struggle with forming and maintaining healthy connections, often leading to tumultuous relationships. Symptoms can range from intense mood swings to difficulty trusting others.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Treatment typically involves psychotherapy, aiming to help individuals understand and manage their behaviors. Recognizing the signs and seeking professional support is crucial for both affected individuals and their loved ones to navigate and improve <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-constitutes-healthy-relationship-dynamics\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship dynamics<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Understanding-personality-disorders-A-brief-overview\"><\/span><b>Understanding personality disorders: A brief overview<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personality disorders are enduring patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that deviate significantly from societal expectations, causing distress and impairment in various life areas. They encompass conditions like borderline, narcissistic, and avoidant personality disorders, each characterized by distinctive traits.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Impacting interpersonal relationships, these disorders often lead to challenges such as difficulty forming connections, emotional instability, and impaired social functioning. Symptoms vary but commonly include distorted self-perception and difficulty relating to others. Psychotherapy stands as the primary treatment, aiming to modify maladaptive patterns.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, what causes personality disorders? Personality disorders are believed to arise from a combination of genetic, biological, and environmental factors.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Genetic predisposition, childhood experiences such as abuse or neglect, brain abnormalities, environmental factors like an unstable family environment, and certain personality traits and temperamental factors can all contribute to the development of personality disorders. A nuanced understanding of these disorders is essential for effective intervention and improved overall well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-do-personality-disorders-impact-relationships\"><\/span><b>How do personality disorders impact relationships?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personality disorders exert a profound impact on relationships, creating intricate challenges for those involved. Individuals with these disorders often struggle with forming and maintaining connections due to ingrained patterns of behavior and distorted perceptions.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intense emotions, fear of abandonment, and difficulty trusting others characterize relationships affected by disorders like borderline or avoidant personality disorders. Narcissistic traits may lead to self-centered interactions, undermining the emotional well-being of partners.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communication breakdowns, frequent conflicts, and emotional instability are common, promoting an environment of unpredictability. Recognizing these patterns and seeking professional help is crucial for navigating and encouraging healthier relationships in the face of personality disorders.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3-types-of-personality-disorders-and-their-effects-on-relationship\"><\/span><b>3 types of personality disorders and their effects on relationship<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-93754\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/214784995.jpg\" alt=\"Couple sitting with psychologist \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Different personality disorders significantly impact relationships, influencing dynamics and creating challenges for those involved. Various types of personality disorders, such as borderline, narcissistic, and avoidant personality disorders, exhibit distinct characteristics that affect interpersonal connections. Here&rsquo;s a brief personality disorders list:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Borderline personality disorder (BPD)<\/b><\/h3>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intense fear of abandonment.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Impulsive behaviors and mood swings.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Struggles with self-identity.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>2. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)<\/b><\/h3>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Excessive need for admiration.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lack of empathy for others.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tendency to exploit relationships.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>3. Avoidant personality disorder (AvPD)<\/b><\/h3>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear of rejection and avoidance of social interactions.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Difficulty forming close relationships.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Low self-esteem impacting connections.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Developing-positive-relationships-with-personality-disorders\"><\/span><b>Developing positive relationships with personality disorders<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Establishing <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-build-positive-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">positive relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with individuals dealing with personality disorders requires patience, empathy, and effective communication. In the case of borderline personality disorder, offering consistent support and reassurance can help alleviate fears of abandonment.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For those with narcissistic personality disorder, maintaining clear boundaries while expressing understanding can contribute to healthier interactions. When dealing with avoidant personality disorder, creating a safe and non-judgmental environment encourages individuals to open up gradually.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Additionally, seeking professional guidance, such as couples therapy, provides valuable tools for navigating challenges. Building positive connections involves recognizing and addressing the unique needs of individuals with personality disorders, promoting understanding, and encouraging emotional well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/symptoms-of-avoidant-personality-disorder\/\" title=\"5 Common Symptoms of Avoidant Personality Disorder of Your Spouse\">5 Common Symptoms of Avoidant Personality Disorder of Your Spouse<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Prevalence-and-risk-factors-for-personality-disorders\"><\/span><b>Prevalence and risk factors for personality disorders<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personality disorders are complex mental health conditions characterized by enduring patterns of behavior, cognition, and inner experience that deviate markedly from the expectations of an individual&rsquo;s culture. The prevalence of personality disorders varies, but certain types are more common.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, among the most common personality disorders are borderline personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder, and obsessive-compulsive personality disorder.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Examples of personality disorders also include narcissistic, avoidant, and dependent personality disorders, each presenting unique challenges in social and personal functioning. To diagnose these conditions, clinicians often use a personality disorders test, which assesses symptoms against specific criteria.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Treatment for personality disorders typically involves psychotherapy, sometimes combined with medication. Understanding all personality disorders is crucial for effective treatment and management, as each disorder requires a tailored approach based on its specific symptoms and impact on the individual.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/aspd-in-relationships\/\" title=\"10 Effects of Antisocial Personality Disorder in Relationships\">10 Effects of Antisocial Personality Disorder in Relationships<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-the-signs-and-symptoms-of-personality-disorders\"><\/span><b>What are the signs and symptoms of personality disorders?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-93753\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/1622978896-1.jpg\" alt=\"Senior woman comforting sad woman \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personality disorders are marked by enduring patterns of behavior, cognition, and inner experience that significantly differ from the expectations of an individual&rsquo;s culture and can cause distress or impairment in personal, social, and occupational settings.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The signs and symptoms of personality disorders vary widely depending on the specific disorder, but generally, they include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unrealistic and inflexible thinking patterns, leading to problematic behaviors and interactions.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intense, unstable, or inappropriate emotional responses.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Difficulty controlling impulses, which may result in harmful behaviors.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Challenges in forming and maintaining relationships due to mistrust, social discomfort, or a tendency to misinterpret others&rsquo; intentions.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Persistent difficulties are evident in a variety of contexts, including work, school, and personal relationships.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fluctuating or distorted self-image or identity confusion.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In some disorders, there is an intense fear of being abandoned or left alone.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Struggle with adjusting to new situations or life changes.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, there might be a lack of accountability for personal actions and a tendency to blame others.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/dark-triad-personality\/\" title=\"Dark Triad Personality: Signs, Causes &#038; Ways to Deal\">Dark Triad Personality: Signs, Causes &#038; Ways to Deal<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-deal-with-a-partner-with-a-personality-disorder\"><\/span><b>How to deal with a partner with a personality disorder<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with a partner who has a personality disorder can be challenging, but understanding and proper strategies can make a significant difference in the relationship. Here are five ways to navigate this complex situation:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Understand the disorder<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Educating yourself about your partner&rsquo;s specific personality disorder is crucial. Each disorder has unique characteristics and challenges. For example, a partner with Borderline Personality Disorder may experience intense mood swings and fear of abandonment.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At the same time, someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder might display a lack of empathy and a need for admiration. Understanding the symptoms and behaviors associated with their disorder can help you respond more effectively and empathetically.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Communicate effectively<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/effective-relationship-communication-skills\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Effective communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is key in any relationship, but it&rsquo;s especially vital when dealing with a partner with a personality disorder. Use clear, direct, and non-confrontational language. Be an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/full\/10.1080\/10904018.2013.813234\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">active listener<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and try to understand their perspective.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoid blame and criticism, which can exacerbate the situation. Instead, focus on expressing your own feelings and needs in a respectful manner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Set healthy boundaries<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC9668888\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Setting boundaries<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is essential for your well-being and the health of the relationship. Boundaries might include limits on acceptable behavior, personal space, and time apart.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s important to communicate these boundaries clearly to your partner and to be consistent in enforcing them. Remember, boundaries are not about controlling the other person but about protecting your own emotional health.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Seek professional support<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with a partner with a personality disorder can be emotionally taxing. Professional support, both for your partner and yourself, can be very beneficial.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therapy can help your partner manage their symptoms and behaviors more effectively. Couples therapy can also be helpful in addressing relationship issues. Additionally, consider individual therapy for yourself to cope with the challenges and stressors of the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/grandiose-narcissistic-personality-disorder\/\" title=\"15 Potential Signs of Grandiose Narcissism &#038; Ways to Deal\">15 Potential Signs of Grandiose Narcissism &#038; Ways to Deal<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this video where Dr. Daniel Fox explains how it feels when the one you love has BPD and how you can help through their recovery:&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/m2aKmXq77n8?si=fOkwIlgygwJKUxSK\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Practice self-care<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Caring for someone with a personality disorder can be <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC7153420\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">overwhelming at times<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Taking care of your physical, emotional, and mental health is essential.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Engage in activities that you enjoy, maintain social connections, and ensure you have time for rest and relaxation. Practicing self-care can help you maintain your resilience and emotional strength, which is vital in supporting your partner effectively.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span><b>FAQs<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personality disorders are complex mental health conditions that require careful diagnosis and management. Here are some frequently asked questions to provide insight into understanding and addressing these disorders:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How are personality disorders diagnosed?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mental health professionals diagnose personality disorders through comprehensive assessments. These include detailed interviews, psychological evaluations, and sometimes questionnaires.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Diagnosis is based on specific criteria outlined in the DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders), considering the individual&rsquo;s long-term patterns of behavior and thoughts. It&rsquo;s a process that requires careful consideration of the person&rsquo;s history and current functioning.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What are the treatment options for personality disorders?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Treatment for personality disorders typically involves psychotherapy, also known as talk therapy. The specific type of therapy, such as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/cognitive-behavioral-therapy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), or psychodynamic therapy, depends on the disorder and individual needs.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Medications might be used to manage certain symptoms like anxiety or depression. Long-term treatment is often necessary, focusing on improving coping mechanisms, interpersonal skills, and emotional regulation.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Where can I learn more about personality disorders?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reliable sources for learning about personality disorders include mental health organizations like the American Psychological Association (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">APA<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">) and the National Institute of Mental Health (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nimh.nih.gov\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">NIMH<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These organizations provide detailed information on various personality disorders, their symptoms, and treatment options. Additionally, books, academic journals, and online resources like Psychology Today offer in-depth knowledge and recent research findings.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How can I find a therapist who specializes in treating personality disorders?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To find a therapist specializing in personality disorders, you can start by consulting your primary healthcare provider for referrals.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;Online therapist directories, such as those provided by the American Psychological Association, allow you to search for therapists with specific expertise. Additionally, local mental health clinics and hospitals may have specialists in personality disorders.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How can I support a loved one with a personality disorder?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Supporting a loved one with a personality disorder involves patience, understanding, and establishing healthy boundaries.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Educate yourself about the disorder, encourage them to seek professional help, and offer <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/ways-to-improve-emotional-support-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional support<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. It&rsquo;s essential to take care of your own mental health as well. Joining support groups or seeking therapy can provide guidance and coping strategies.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"In-a-nutshell\"><\/span><b>In a nutshell<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understanding and managing personality disorders requires a comprehensive approach. The key elements are accurate diagnosis, tailored treatment plans, education, and support.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you&rsquo;re seeking help for yourself or a loved one, professional guidance and personal resilience play vital roles in navigating these complex conditions.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Personality disorders, a group of enduring patterns of inner experience and behavior, can significantly impact relationships, causing distress and challenges for those involved. There are various types, including borderline, narcissistic, and avoidant personality disorders, each presenting distinct symptoms and characteristics.&nbsp; Individuals with these disorders may struggle with forming and maintaining healthy connections, often leading to tumultuous relationships. Symptoms can range from intense mood swings to difficulty trusting others.&nbsp; Treatment typically involves psychotherapy, aiming to help individuals understand and manage their behaviors. Recognizing the signs and seeking professional support is crucial for both affected individuals and their loved ones to navigate <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1392,"featured_media":93755,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[93],"tags":[2721],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93752"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1392"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=93752"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93752\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":93756,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93752\/revisions\/93756"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93755"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=93752"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=93752"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=93752"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}