

{"id":86971,"date":"2023-06-22T12:34:08","date_gmt":"2023-06-22T12:34:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=86971"},"modified":"2025-05-05T11:00:47","modified_gmt":"2025-05-05T11:00:47","slug":"how-to-make-a-confused-man-want-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-make-a-confused-man-want-you\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Best Tips on How to Make a Confused Man Want You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-86975\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Shutterstock_1395298583.jpg\" alt=\"Young doubting couple looking at each other \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you entangled in a web of emotions with a confused guy who seems unsure about the relationship? Fear not, for we&rsquo;re here to guide you on a journey of understanding and provide you with effective strategies on how to make a confused man want you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to <\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/dionne-reid\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Dionne Eleanor Reid<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">, a relationship &amp; empowerment mentor:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Confusion can be a gateway to deeper truth.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By employing these proven techniques, you&rsquo;ll be able to break through the confusion, inspire clarity, and ignite a deep desire within him. Let&rsquo;s dive in and unravel the secrets to capturing his heart!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-do-you-tell-if-a-man-is-confused-about-you\"><\/span><b>How do you tell if a man is confused about you?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find yourself caught up in a whirlwind of mixed signals, <\/span><b>it&rsquo;s important to decipher whether the man you&rsquo;re interested in is truly confused about his feelings.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Recognizing the signs that indicate a man is confused about love can help you navigate this situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pay attention to his actions and words. Relationship coach, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.trysomethingmore.com\/warning-signs-that-hes-confused\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Julia McCurley<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> says that<\/span><b> a confused guy may show moments of intense affection, followed by distant and aloof behavior.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Understanding these will help you navigate the intricate terrain of him.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-ways-to-make-a-confused-man-want-you\"><\/span><b>15 ways to make a confused man want you<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here, we explore some proven ways how to make a confused man want you and pave the way for a deeper and more meaningful connection.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Give him space<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When dealing with a man confused about love or unsure of his feelings, it&rsquo;s important to respect his need for space. Allow him the time to process his emotions without pressuring him. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>Dionne Eleanor highlights that:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The one who allows healthy space without withdrawing love becomes magnetic.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This will demonstrate your understanding and patience, making you more desirable in his eyes.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/giving-a-man-space-to-pursue-you\/\" title=\"How to Give Space to a Man So He Pursues You\">How to Give Space to a Man So He Pursues You<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>2. Communicate openly<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Establish clear and honest communication channels with your confused guy. Encourage him to express his feelings openly, creating a safe space for him to share his uncertainties about the relationship. In her <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/intl\/blog\/intense-emotions-and-strong-feelings\/201508\/is-it-love-or-is-it-confusion\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">article<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, Mary Lamia, a clinical psychologist, suggests being a good listener and showing empathy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Be confident<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Confidence is attractive, especially to a man confused about love. Exude self-assurance and show him that you know your worth. When you believe in yourself, it can inspire him to see your value and become more certain about his feelings for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Focus on building a strong friendship<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you notice signs a guy is unsure of his feelings for you, try to build a friendship first.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, a confused guy may need to establish a strong foundation of friendship before fully committing to a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/have-a-romantic-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romantic relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Invest time in building a meaningful connection based on trust, shared interests, and mutual respect.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Show genuine interest<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Display a genuine interest in his life, passions, and aspirations. By demonstrating curiosity and actively engaging in conversations about his interests, you&rsquo;ll make him feel valued and understood, and develop deeper feelings for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Be supportive<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During moments of uncertainty, offer your support and encouragement. Let him know that you&rsquo;re there for him, no matter the circumstances.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/steps-to-becoming-a-supportive-partner\/\" title=\"20 Steps to Becoming a Supportive Partner\">20 Steps to Becoming a Supportive Partner<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>7. Maintain your independence<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it&rsquo;s important to invest time and effort into the relationship, don&rsquo;t forget to maintain your independence. Pursue your own hobbies and goals. This will intrigue a confused guy and make him see you as a well-rounded and desirable partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Showcase your positive qualities<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-86974\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Shutterstock_2138401909.jpg\" alt=\"Young thoughtful couple \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Highlight your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-to-look-for-in-a-guy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">positive qualities<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and strengths. Showcasing your intelligence, kindness, sense of humor, or any other admirable traits can captivate a confused man and make him see you in a new light.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Coach Eleanor Reid adds that:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A woman deeply aligned with herself creates radiance in every room she walks into.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><b>9. Be patient<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You need to wait when interested in someone confused about relationships and commitment.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with a confused guy requires patience. Remember that everyone processes their emotions differently, and it may take time for him to sort through his feelings. Avoid rushing him or putting unnecessary pressure on him to make a decision.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Focus on yourself<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While you work on making a confused man want you, don&rsquo;t neglect your own well-being and personal growth. Invest in self-care, pursue your passions, and prioritize your own happiness. When you radiate positivity and fulfillment, you become even more attractive to a confused man.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-focus-on-yourself-in-a-relationship\/\" title=\"20 Ways to Focus on Yourself in a Relationship\">20 Ways to Focus on Yourself in a Relationship<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>11. Maintain boundaries<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Setting clear boundaries is crucial when dealing with a confused guy. Make your expectations known and communicate what you&rsquo;re comfortable with. This will help a confused man understand the importance of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/questions-that-can-help-you-find-clarity-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">clarity in the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marriage and family therapist Sarri Gilman talks about &ldquo;Good boundaries free you&rdquo;. Watch below:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rtsHUeKnkC8\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. Create memorable experiences<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What&rsquo;s better than this when all you want to know is how to make a confused man want you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plan special moments together that create lasting memories. Engage in activities that strengthen your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/how-important-is-an-emotional-connection-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional connection<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and make him associate positive experiences with being around you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Demonstrate your loyalty<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be loyal and committed to the relationship. Show him that you are trustworthy and dedicated to building a future together. Avoid behaviors or actions that may raise doubts about your loyalty.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Dionne Eleanor Reid mentions:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Loyalty isn&rsquo;t about proving yourself&mdash;it&rsquo;s about being deeply rooted in your integrity and showing your humanity.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><b>14. Be understanding<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognize that confusion about love is a common human experience. Be understanding and compassionate towards his journey of self-discovery.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/understanding-relationships\/\" title=\"How to Improve Understanding in a Relationship\">How to Improve Understanding in a Relationship<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>15. Let him come to his own conclusion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A confused man needs to come to his own conclusion about his feelings for you. While you can employ various strategies to make him want you, it&rsquo;s essential to allow him the space and time to reach a decision.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with a confused man can be challenging, but by employing these strategies, you can increase your chances of making him want you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-86973\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Shutterstock_1437316184.jpg\" alt=\"Happy couple confronting each other \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-make-him-crave-you\"><\/span><b>How to make him crave you<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To make him crave you, focus on self-improvement and confidence. Embrace your unique qualities and showcase them authentically. Be attentive, supportive, and affectionate. By being your best self and nurturing the connection, you can ignite his desire and make him crave your presence.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Being-the-one-he-actually-wants-to-be-with\"><\/span><b>Being the one he actually wants to be with<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Navigating a relationship with a confused man can be challenging, but with the right strategies, you can inspire clarity and make him want you. Remember to communicate openly, maintain your individuality, and create positive experiences together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Dionne Eleanor points out:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Love doesn&rsquo;t beg for answers. It becomes the answer when you&rsquo;re rooted in your worth.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if the confusion persists or the relationship becomes overwhelming, seeking <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">couples counseling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can provide valuable guidance and support, and work towards a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you entangled in a web of emotions with a confused guy who seems unsure about the relationship? Fear not, for we&rsquo;re here to guide you on a journey of understanding and provide you with effective strategies on how to make a confused man want you. According to Dionne Eleanor Reid, a relationship &amp; empowerment mentor: Confusion can be a gateway to deeper truth. By employing these proven techniques, you&rsquo;ll be able to break through the confusion, inspire clarity, and ignite a deep desire within him. Let&rsquo;s dive in and unravel the secrets to capturing his heart! 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