

{"id":86434,"date":"2023-05-27T07:54:11","date_gmt":"2023-05-27T07:54:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=86434"},"modified":"2024-07-18T11:54:10","modified_gmt":"2024-07-18T11:54:10","slug":"stay-at-home-moms-expectations-from-working-dad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/stay-at-home-moms-expectations-from-working-dad\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Ways to Meet Stay-At-Home Mom\u2019s Expectations From Working Dad"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-86438\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Shutterstock_364116125.jpg\" alt=\"Parents helping their children with homework \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Imagine a typical weekday morning in a bustling household: a working dad assists with getting the kids ready for school while the stay-at-home mom prepares breakfast and plans the day&rsquo;s activities.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This scene is a snapshot of everyday teamwork that significantly eases the daily responsibilities of a stay-at-home mom.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In families where one parent works outside and the other manages the home, each role brings its unique challenges and rewards.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognizing the stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from working dads and understanding how to meet them is essential for fathers.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This guide explores thoughtful ways for working dads to provide meaningful support, ensuring that the efforts of stay-at-home moms are fully appreciated and reciprocated, enriching the family&rsquo;s overall wellbeing.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-ways-to-meet-stay-at-home-mom%E2%80%99s-expectations-from-working-dads\"><\/span><b>10 ways to meet stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from working dads<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>&nbsp;<\/b><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/news\/press\/releases\/2011\/12\/working-moms\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> shows that working mothers are often happier than stay-at-home moms, due to the isolation and lack of validation. Therefore, help and acknowledgement from partners might be helpful.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is generally agreed upon that dads should help their wives who are stay-at-home moms, but the question is how much should a husband help a stay-at-home mom? Here are some steps for dads to fulfill the stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from working dad:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Recognize the challenges of being a stay-at-home mom<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from working dad are quite basic and logical. She wants you to know her struggle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first step to supporting your wife as a stay-at-home mom is to recognize the challenges she faces. Being a stay-at-home mom can be exhausting and isolating, especially when your wife feels like she is doing it all alone. This can lead to the stay-at-home mom being<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/family\/consequences-of-staying-in-an-unhappy-marriage\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unhappy in marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try this: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Schedule regular check-ins to discuss any new challenges and acknowledge her ongoing efforts, ensuring she doesn&rsquo;t feel isolated or overlooked.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>2. Set realistic expectations<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is important to set<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/realistic-expectations-in-a-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">realistic expectations<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for a stay-at-home mom. While it may be tempting to expect a perfectly clean house and well-behaved children, set realistic expectations that take into account the realities of being a stay-at-home mom.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try this: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Together, create a weekly schedule that highlights times when household chaos is acceptable, like during sick days or school breaks, to set manageable standards.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-86437\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Shutterstock_1606546540.jpg\" alt=\"Small kid preparing pie with parents \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Communicate openly<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communication is key in any relationship, and it is especially important when one partner is a stay-at-home mom with hardly any time to communicate. No doubt why it is one of the stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from working dad.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4852543\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Experts<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have proven that the quality of communication between a couple has a direct impact on the relationship satisfaction levels.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make an effort to communicate openly and honestly with your wife about your expectations, needs, and concerns. Listen and show empathy towards her struggles and encourage your wife to communicate her feelings and needs as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try this: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Establish a daily &ldquo;communication window&rdquo; where both of you can discuss the day without distractions, ensuring consistent, quality interaction.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/strategies-to-improve-communication-with-your-partner\/\" title=\"Research-Based Strategies to Improve Communication with Your Partner\">Research-Based Strategies to Improve Communication with Your Partner<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>4. Share responsibilities<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understand that it&rsquo;s not a stay-at-home mom vs working dad debate. You are partners and should act like equals.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is important for husbands to recognize that being a stay-at-home mom does not mean that their wives are responsible for everything related to the household and children.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>A study conducted by the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2013\/04\/130408133919.htm\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">University of Missouri-Columbia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> highlights that marriages become better when husbands share household responsibilities.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stay-at-home mom and working dad responsibilities include cooking, cleaning, and childcare to help ease the burden on your wife and do your bit to fulfill stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from working dad.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try this: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use a shared digital calendar or task app to visually split household and childcare duties, making it clear who is responsible for what each day.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/parenting\/parental-responsibilities\/\" title=\"Exploring the Meaning and Impact of Parental Responsibilities\">Exploring the Meaning and Impact of Parental Responsibilities<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>5. Support your wife&rsquo;s goals<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being a stay-at-home mom does not mean that your wife&rsquo;s goals and aspirations have to be put on hold. Encourage your wife to pursue her interests and goals, whether it&rsquo;s taking a class, starting a side business, or volunteering in the community.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try this: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Help her identify and set realistic milestones for her personal goals and check in regularly on her progress to show your ongoing support.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>6. Show appreciation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before you fully understand a stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from working dad, show her that she&rsquo;s valued.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show her that you value her contributions to the family and that you recognize the sacrifices she makes to care for your children and home. It is important to show your wife that you appreciate all the hard work she puts in as a stay-at-home mom, no matter how small.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try this: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Create a simple but meaningful routine, like leaving thank-you notes or small surprises, to regularly express your gratitude for her hard work.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/8-ways-to-show-appreciation-to-the-love-of-your-life\/\" title=\"How to Appreciate Someone You Love: 15 Meaningful Ways\">How to Appreciate Someone You Love: 15 Meaningful Ways<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>7. Make time for each other<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maintaining a healthy and happy marriage requires making time for each other. It can be difficult for stay-at-home moms to find time for themselves, but it is important for both partners to have time to recharge, connect, and spend time together.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try this: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plan monthly date nights that involve both planning and execution on your part, showing her that you&rsquo;re invested in nurturing your relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>8. Be flexible<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being a stay-at-home mom can be unpredictable, and it is important for husbands to be flexible and understanding when unexpected situations arise. Be willing to adjust your schedule or take on additional responsibilities when necessary to support your wife.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try this: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep a portion of your schedule deliberately open each week to accommodate any last-minute needs or changes from your wife&rsquo;s or children&rsquo;s side.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>9. Be supportive and understanding<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Above all, it is important to be supportive and understanding of your wife as a stay-at-home mom. Recognize that being a stay-at-home mom can be challenging and sometimes thankless work. Show your wife that you appreciate all that she does to care for your family.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try this: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Actively seek to learn more about the challenges and rewards of her day-to-day life by engaging in activities she usually handles alone, showing empathy and understanding.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/steps-to-becoming-a-supportive-partner\/\" title=\"20 Practical Steps to Becoming a Supportive Partner\">20 Practical Steps to Becoming a Supportive Partner<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>10. Seek professional help<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your wife is struggling with resentment or other negative feelings towards you or your marriage, it may be time to seek professional help.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A therapist or counselor can help both of you work through any issue and improve communication and understanding within your marriage to prevent them from causing further damage to your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try this: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Proactively offer to research and contact therapists, making it easier for her to agree to and begin the process if she feels overwhelmed or if there are ongoing issues affecting your relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/stay-at-home-mom-depression\/\" title=\"9 Symptoms of Stay-at-Home Mom Depression &#038; How to Deal\">9 Symptoms of Stay-at-Home Mom Depression &#038; How to Deal<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7-expectations-of-a-stay-at-home-mom\"><\/span><b>7 expectations of a stay-at-home mom<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When discussing the role of a stay-at-home mom, it&rsquo;s vital to set realistic expectations that respect her efforts and acknowledge the complexity of her day-to-day responsibilities. Here are some common expectations that can help clarify and guide the family dynamic:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Consistent childcare<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The primary expectation is that a stay-at-home mom provides consistent and nurturing care to the children. This includes managing their daily routines, from meals and educational activities to playtime and discipline.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>How a working dad can help: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take over specific childcare tasks regularly, like bedtime routines or morning preparations, to provide consistent support.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-86436\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Shutterstock_201010487.jpg\" alt=\"Couple shopping in super mart \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Maintenance of the household<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While not solely her responsibility, there is often an expectation that a stay-at-home mom will handle a significant portion of the daily household tasks, such as cleaning, laundry, and meal preparation.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>How a working dad can help: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Assign specific days or tasks where you take full responsibility, such as handling the weekend cleaning or doing laundry on certain days.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>3. Educational engagement<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Especially for younger children, a stay-at-home mom is expected to engage in basic educational activities that prepare or supplement preschool learning, like reading, basic math, and creative play.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>How a working dad can help: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dedicate time to engage in educational activities, like weekend reading sessions or helping with homework, to share the educational responsibilities.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>4. Emotional support and development<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Providing emotional support and fostering a supportive environment is key to learning how a husband should treat a stay-at-home mom. This involves teaching social skills, emotional regulation, and helping children build a healthy sense of self.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>How a working dad can help: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Actively participate in discussions about your child&rsquo;s challenges and achievements, providing emotional support and guidance.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/parenting\/mommy-brain\/\" title=\"What Is Mommy Brain, Its Symptoms, and How to Cope\">What Is Mommy Brain, Its Symptoms, and How to Cope<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>5. Scheduling and logistics<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Managing the family calendar, including scheduling doctor&rsquo;s appointments, extracurricular activities, and family events, often falls to the stay-at-home mom. These responsibilities emphasize the stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from the working dad to support her in managing these tasks effectively.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>How a working dad can help: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Help manage the family calendar by setting reminders for important appointments and events and ensuring you&rsquo;re actively involved in logistics planning.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>6. Budget management<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In many households, the stay-at-home mom may also manage the family budget, shopping, and other financial considerations to ensure the household runs smoothly within financial constraints.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>How a working dad can help: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take on certain financial responsibilities, such as managing bills or planning the family budget together to ensure financial tasks are shared.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>7. Self-care and personal development<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s reasonable to expect that a stay-at-home mom takes time for self-care and personal growth. This not only benefits her well-being but also sets a positive example for the children.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This aspect is crucial in balancing the stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from the working dad, as it requires understanding and space for her personal development.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>How a working dad can help: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage and facilitate her personal time for hobbies or relaxation, and make sure to take on more responsibilities during these times to fully support her well-being.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To learn more about how to rediscover your identity as a stay-at-home mother, watch this video:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/6tecnAZbnKk?si=0dFDIrwTjJ2X8DFo\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-much-should-a-working-dad-help-a-stay-at-home-mom\"><\/span><b>How much should a working dad help a stay-at-home mom<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The amount a working dad should help a stay-at-home mom varies based on individual family needs and circumstances, but the goal is always to ensure a fair distribution of responsibilities:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Balance efforts: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Efforts should be balanced in a way that acknowledges both the physical work of the stay-at-home mom and the working dad&rsquo;s professional commitments.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Regular involvement:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Daily involvement, even if minimal, helps maintain a sense of shared responsibility and partnership.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Weekend engagement:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Increased participation during weekends can provide significant relief and support.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Emotional support:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Consistent emotional support is crucial, including active listening and encouragement.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Adapt as needed:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The dynamic should adapt to changing family needs, requiring ongoing communication and flexibility.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Being-there-for-your-wife-and-children\"><\/span><b>Being there for your wife and children<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For working dads, stepping up to meet the expectations of a stay-at-home mom is not just about sharing tasks; it&rsquo;s about fostering a partnership where both parents feel equally valued and supported.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Begin today by reassessing how you can better contribute to household dynamics and the emotional well-being of your partner. Whether it&rsquo;s taking on more responsibilities at home or simply listening more attentively, every small step is significant.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember, the goal is to create a balanced, joyful home where the workload and emotional support are mutually shared.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Engage actively fulfilling stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from working dads, and watch as your family reaps the benefits of a harmonious, supportive environment.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Imagine a typical weekday morning in a bustling household: a working dad assists with getting the kids ready for school while the stay-at-home mom prepares breakfast and plans the day&rsquo;s activities.&nbsp; This scene is a snapshot of everyday teamwork that significantly eases the daily responsibilities of a stay-at-home mom.&nbsp; In families where one parent works outside and the other manages the home, each role brings its unique challenges and rewards.&nbsp; Recognizing the stay-at-home mom&rsquo;s expectations from working dads and understanding how to meet them is essential for fathers.&nbsp; This guide explores thoughtful ways for working dads to provide meaningful support, <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1377,"featured_media":86438,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[37],"tags":[2649],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86434"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1377"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=86434"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86434\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":103111,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86434\/revisions\/103111"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/86438"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=86434"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=86434"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=86434"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}