

{"id":84196,"date":"2023-03-16T09:35:07","date_gmt":"2023-03-16T09:35:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=84196"},"modified":"2025-01-08T14:06:45","modified_gmt":"2025-01-08T14:06:45","slug":"fantasy-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/fantasy-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Signs You&#8217;re In A Fantasy Relationship and How to Let it Go"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-84200\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/New-Project-2023-03-16T150054.141.jpg\" alt=\"Women sitting reading book \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to choosing the right type of relationship, it&rsquo;s hard to know where to start. The right relationship can be the most important thing in our lives, so choosing the right one is important.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But what is a fantasy bond? Fantasy relationships are a type of non-relational romantic relationship in which one person is the subject, and the other is the fantasy. Fantasy relationships occur when one person creates an idealized version of a relationship that doesn&rsquo;t align with reality. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s learn more about this <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/types-of-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">type of relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-a-fantasy-relationship\"><\/span><b>What is a fantasy relationship?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A fantasy relationship is an imaginary or unrealistic connection between two people. It may involve an idealized version of someone, an exaggerated belief in the potential for a romantic relationship, or a one-sided infatuation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, one person may project their desires onto another without considering their actual feelings or intentions. It can be an escape from reality, providing a temporary sense of fulfillment, but ultimately it is not a healthy or sustainable way to form a genuine connection with someone.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For those who find solace in a fantasy relationship, it can provide a temporary escape from the rigors of reality, offering a sense of fulfillment that may be missing in their daily life. However, such relationships are not sustainable, nor are they healthy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is important to recognize when you are engaging in a fantasy relationship and to work towards building <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-is-the-definition-of-a-healthy-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">healthy relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> based on mutual respect, communication, and realistic expectations.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-the-difference-between-real-love-and-fantasy\"><\/span><b>What is the difference between real love and fantasy?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Real love and fantasy are often confused, but they have distinct differences. Here are some of the key characteristics that set them apart.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>A. Real Love:<\/b><\/h3>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is based on mutual respect, trust, and communication<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Involves sacrifice and compromise for the benefit of the relationship<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Involves accepting someone for who they are, including their flaws and imperfections<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grows stronger with time and experiences shared together<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Requires effort and commitment from both partners<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can be both joyful and challenging but ultimately fulfilling<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Involves facing and overcoming problems together as a team<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is grounded in reality and acknowledges the challenges and struggles of life<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Involves a deep emotional and physical connection with another person<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>B. Fantasy:<\/b><\/h3>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is often idealized and unrealistic<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can be based on superficial or shallow qualities in a person<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Involves infatuation and attraction rather than a deep emotional connection<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often involves the projection of one&rsquo;s desires and fantasies onto another person<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can be one-sided and based on unrequited love<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is often short-lived and fleeting<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Involves little or no sacrifice or compromise<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can be based on unrealistic expectations of the perfect partner and relationship<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Involves avoidance of real-life problems and challenges.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-84199\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/New-Project-2023-03-16T150106.662.jpg\" alt=\"Handsome man laying on chair \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-signs-you%E2%80%99re-in-a-fantasy-relationship\"><\/span><b>10 signs you&rsquo;re in a fantasy relationship<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A relationship can feel magical and exciting at the start, but as time goes on, it&rsquo;s important to ensure that it&rsquo;s grounded in reality. Fantasy relationships can be alluring but can also be harmful in the long run.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are 10 signs you live in a fantasy relationship:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. You ignore red flags<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, you might overlook behavior or traits that would be major warning signs in a healthy relationship. This could include things like inconsistency, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/lack-of-communication-in-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or controlling behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/maggie-martinez\">Maggie Martinez, LCSW<\/a>, further highlights,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>This can include any red flags that you are noticing but might decide to ignore.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><b>2. You idealize your partner<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, you might put your partner on a pedestal, believing they are perfect. This can be dangerous because it sets unrealistic expectations and can lead to disappointment when your partner inevitably falls short of those expectations.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. You&rsquo;re more in love with the idea of the relationship than the person<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, you might be more enamored with the idea of being in a relationship than you are with your actual partner. This can make you feel like you&rsquo;re not connecting with your partner on a deeper level.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. You rely on your partner for your happiness<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, you might believe your partner is responsible for your happiness. This can be dangerous because it puts an immense amount of pressure on your partner and can lead to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.counselling-directory.org.uk\/memberarticles\/resentment-in-relationships\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">feelings of resentment<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> if they&rsquo;re unable to meet those expectations.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. You have an unrealistic idea of what the future holds<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, you might have an idealized idea of what the future holds. You might believe that everything will be perfect and you&rsquo;ll live happily ever after.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can be dangerous because it sets <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/firstthings.org\/the-difference-between-realistic-and-unrealistic-expectations-in-marriage\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unrealistic expectations<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and can lead to disappointment if things don&rsquo;t work out as planned.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. You&rsquo;re not comfortable discussing difficult topics<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, you might avoid discussing difficult topics, such as money or family issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/maggie-martinez\">Maggie Martinez<\/a> notes that,<\/p>\n<div class=\"docos-collapsible-replyview\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-static\">\n<blockquote>\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-body docos-anchoredreplyview-body docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable-background\" dir=\"ltr\">People avoid having these conversations when they know that there might be differing opinions.<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can be dangerous because it can lead to unresolved issues that can build up over time and eventually lead to a breakdown in the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. You don&rsquo;t have a sense of your own identity<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, you might feel like you&rsquo;ve lost touch with your identity. You might prioritize your partner&rsquo;s needs over your own, and you might feel like you need to figure out who you are.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. You avoid conflict at all costs<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fantasy love, you might avoid conflict at all costs. This can be dangerous because it can lead to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/unresolved-issues-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unresolved issues<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that can build up over time and eventually lead to a breakdown in the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. You feel like you&rsquo;re walking on eggshells<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, you might feel like you&rsquo;re walking on eggshells around your partner. You might feel like you have to be perfect all the time to avoid upsetting your partner. This can be dangerous because it can lead to feelings of anxiety and stress.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-84198\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/New-Project-2023-03-16T150123.823.jpg\" alt=\"Couple ignoring each other in bed \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. You don&rsquo;t feel like you can be yourself around your partner<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, you might feel like you can&rsquo;t be yourself around your partner. You might feel like you have to act a certain way to please your partner, and you might not feel comfortable expressing your true thoughts and feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-ways-to-deal-with-fantasy-relationships\"><\/span><b>10 ways to deal with fantasy relationships<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in a fantasy relationship can be harmful and detrimental to your well-being. It&rsquo;s important to recognize when you&rsquo;re in a fantasy relationship and take steps to address the issue. Here are 10 ways to deal with a fantasy relationship:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Recognize that you&rsquo;re in a fantasy relationship<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first step to dealing with a fantasy relationship is recognizing that you&rsquo;re in one. This can be difficult because it often involves admitting that the relationship isn&rsquo;t healthy or fulfilling. Once you acknowledge the problem, you can take steps to address it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Be honest with yourself and your partner<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s important to be honest with yourself and your partner about your feelings and expectations. If you&rsquo;re not getting what you <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/needs-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">need from the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it&rsquo;s important to communicate that to your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Set realistic expectations<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are in love with a fantasy relationship, it&rsquo;s common to have unrealistic expectations. It&rsquo;s important to set <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/realistic-expectations\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">realistic expectations<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for yourself and your partner. This might involve adjusting your expectations and accepting your partner for who they are rather than who you want them to be.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/unrealistic-expectations-in-relationships\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">10 Sure Signs to Tackle Unrealistic Expectations in Relationships<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>4. Focus on the present<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, it&rsquo;s easy to get caught up in the idea of the future. It&rsquo;s important to focus on the present and enjoy the moment. This can help you connect with your partner on a deeper level and appreciate the relationship for what it is.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Get support<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with a fantasy relationship can be challenging and emotional. It&rsquo;s important to get support from friends, family, or a therapist. Having someone to talk to can help you process your emotions and gain perspective on the situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/maggie-martinez\">Maggie Martinez<\/a> notes that,<\/p>\n<div class=\"docos-collapsible-replyview\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-static\">\n<blockquote>\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-body docos-anchoredreplyview-body docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable-background\" dir=\"ltr\">You will need someone who can present objectively and help challenge your viewpoints.<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3><b>6. Practice self-care<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with emotional fantasizing can be stressful and overwhelming. It&rsquo;s important to prioritize self-care and take time to do things that make you feel good. This might involve exercise, meditation, or spending time with friends.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Know what Jen Oliver has to say about self-love:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ZQNk7KVU_6A\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Be open to change<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, it&rsquo;s common to resist change. It&rsquo;s important to be open to change and willing to take risks. This might involve <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-end-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ending the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or making changes to the way you approach the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Develop a sense of your own identity<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a fantasy relationship, it&rsquo;s easy to lose touch with your own identity. It&rsquo;s important to develop a sense of your own identity and prioritize your own needs and interests. This can help you feel more confident and fulfilled in the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Focus on communication<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/the-importance-of-communication-in-your-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is key in any relationship. Discuss your feelings, expectations, and any areas where reality might not match your imagination. This can help bridge emotional gaps.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Take action<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with a fantasy relationship requires action. This might involve ending the relationship, seeking <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship counseling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or making changes to the way you approach the relationship. It&rsquo;s important to take action and make changes that will lead to a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span><b>FAQs<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fantasy relationships could do more harm than good. Know more about it below:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Is it healthy to fantasize about a relationship?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Occasional fantasies can be harmless and even beneficial for understanding your desires. Fantasies can be a way of exploring one&rsquo;s desires and enhancing sexual arousal, which can lead to a more fulfilling sex life with a partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if fantasies start to replace real-life intimacy or become an obsession, it can be detrimental to the relationship. Communication and mutual respect are key to ensuring that fantasies don&rsquo;t become a source of tension or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/types-of-conflict\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">conflict in a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Why do people have fantasy relationships?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People have fantasy relationships for a variety of reasons. People often develop fantasy relationships as a way to cope with unmet needs, such as emotional intimacy or validation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fantasies can also be a way of exploring one&rsquo;s desires and fantasies in a safe and controlled environment. For some, fantasy relationships can be a way of coping with feelings of loneliness or isolation.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, it&rsquo;s important to recognize that fantasy relationships are not a substitute for real-life relationships and can&rsquo;t provide the same level of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/repairing-emotional-intimacy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or fulfillment. Fantasy relationships can provide temporary comfort, but they lack the depth and authenticity of real-life connections.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How do you let go of a fantasy relationship?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some tips on how to let go of a fantasy relationship:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol><li><b>A<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Acknowledge that the relationship is a fantasy and not based on reality<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Identify the reasons why you became attached to the fantasy relationship<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Take responsibility for your own emotional well-being and seek support from friends, family, or a therapist<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Cut off contact with the person or things that trigger thoughts of the fantasy relationship<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Focus on building real-life relationships and activities that bring you joy and fulfillment<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Practice self-care, such as exercise, meditation, or creative pursuits, to help you cope with the loss of the fantasy relationship<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Be patient and compassionate with yourself as you work through the process of letting go of a fantasy relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Takeaway\"><\/span><b>Takeaway<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In conclusion, being in a fantasy relationship can be harmful and detrimental to your well-being. It&rsquo;s important to recognize when you&rsquo;re in a fantasy relationship and take steps to address the issue.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When it comes to choosing the right type of relationship, it&rsquo;s hard to know where to start. The right relationship can be the most important thing in our lives, so choosing the right one is important.&nbsp; But what is a fantasy bond? Fantasy relationships are a type of non-relational romantic relationship in which one person is the subject, and the other is the fantasy. Fantasy relationships occur when one person creates an idealized version of a relationship that doesn&rsquo;t align with reality. Let&rsquo;s learn more about this type of relationship. What is a fantasy relationship? A fantasy relationship is an <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1363,"featured_media":84200,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2502],"tags":[2606],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84196"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1363"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=84196"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84196\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":106761,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84196\/revisions\/106761"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84200"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=84196"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=84196"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=84196"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}