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Whether in person or over text, it can be intimidating to be the one who initiates conversation with a guy. If you are unsure how to start a conversation with a guy you’re interested in, know you’re not alone. <\/span><\/p>\n

It can be challenging to determine the <\/span>best way to approach a guy<\/span><\/a> and strike up a conversation that will hopefully lead to something more. <\/span><\/p>\n

How to start a conversation with a guy?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Perhaps you’ve had your eyes on someone at the gym or a coffee shop you frequent, but you’re stuck pondering <\/span>how do I talk to him<\/span><\/i>. Or maybe you’ve already exchanged numbers, and you’re stumped trying to come up with an interesting opening line.<\/span><\/p>\n

This article will explore practical tips on talking to guys in any setting.<\/span><\/p>\n

Related Reading :<\/b> What to Look For in a Guy: 35 Good Qualities in a Man<\/span><\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n
<\/span>30 best ways to start a conversation with a guy<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
Let’s jump into the best ways to start a conversation with a guy and form a connection.<\/span><\/p>\n
1. Simply introduce yourself<\/b><\/h3>\n
Your opening line does not have to be anything fancy or elaborate. Sometimes the best thing is not to overthink it. Please take a deep breath, walk over, smile, offer your name and ask for his. <\/span><\/p>\n
If you’re unsure how to start a conversation with a guy because you don’t know anything about him, a simple introduction could be the way to go.<\/span><\/p>\n
Related Reading: <\/i><\/b>What is Flirting? 7 Signs Someone is Into You<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n
2. Use the setting as a conversation starter<\/b><\/h3>\n
Try commenting on a shared environment that you find yourself in. This could look like pointing out the unique ambiance at the coffee shop or how packed it is at the gym. This can easily lead to further conversations! <\/span><\/p>\n
And for some reason, if you don’t receive a response, you can always play it off like you were talking to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n
Also Try:<\/i><\/b> Platonic Or Romantic Love Quiz<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n
3. A remark about the weather<\/b><\/h3>\n
While this may not be the most thrilling conversation starter, the goal is to make initial contact- and from there, you can branch out into more fascinating topics. Simple statements like “It’s such a nice day today” or “Did you see the snow this morning?” can be enough to get the ball rolling.<\/span><\/p>\n
4. Offer a genuine compliment<\/b><\/h3>\n
Tell him how much you love his colorful shoes or the stickers on his laptop. Or if he’s a co-worker, note what a great job he did on a recent presentation. <\/span><\/p>\n
That being said, it’s important to be thoughtful about what compliments you give. The key is ensuring your compliment comes off as authentic and unforced.<\/span><\/p>\n
5. Comment on something he’s wearing<\/b><\/h3>\n
When considering how to start a conversation with a guy, an important strategy is to be observant and pay close attention. Ask him about the band on his t-shirt, or whether he went to the school displayed on his hat. <\/span><\/p>\n
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6. Ask about his tattoo(s)<\/b><\/h3>\n
If the guy you’re interested in has noticeable tattoos, ask what they mean to him. This gets the conversation started and can give you more insight into who he is as a person.<\/span><\/p>\n
7. Pose a question about his hobbies or interests<\/b><\/h3>\n
It can be difficult to start a conversation with a guy if you don’t know his interests, but you must start somewhere! <\/span><\/p>\n
This is also where commenting on the environment can work to your advantage. Say you’re at a concert; you could ask, ‘Do you go to shows often?’ or ‘Have you seen this band before?’<\/span><\/p>\n
Related Reading :<\/b> How Important Are Common Interests in a Relationship?<\/span><\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n
8. Start with the pup<\/b><\/h3>\n
A dog is a low-pressure way to talk to guys! Upon running into a cute guy walking his dog in a local park or your neighborhood, ask if you can pet his pup. <\/span><\/p>\n
From there, the conversation may unfold into a discussion of the dog’s name and breed, and you can also inquire about his favorite local parks or hikes.<\/span><\/p>\n
9. Have a mutual friend make an introduction<\/b><\/h3>\n
Perhaps you are at a party when you spot a guy that intrigues you from across the room. Ask him how he knows the host, or see if your friend could make the introduction.<\/span><\/p>\n
10. Ask him for a favor<\/b><\/h3>\n
If you’re looking for a subtle idea for how to start a conversation with a guy, ask him to assist you with something. People love to feel helpful and needed. <\/span><\/p>\n
Go up to him and ask if you could borrow a pen if he could help you open something or teach you how to use a machine at the gym.<\/span><\/p>\n
Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> Romantic Love Messages for Your Partner<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n
11. Request his advice or recommendations<\/b><\/h3>\n
Ask him if he knows a spot for good Thai food in the area. If you know he’s a writer, see if he has any tips for increasing motivation and boosting creativity.<\/span><\/p>\n
According to relationship coach <\/span>Christiana Njoku,<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n
Seeking his recommendations has a way of making him feel heard and valued. For example, “Learning new skills is like leveling up in life! I’m looking for a great academy to learn some new life skills—do you have any recommendations or experiences you’d like to share?”<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
12. Prompt him for his thoughts<\/b><\/h3>\n
See if he’s ever watched a TV show or movie you’re considering checking out. Or inquire what he thinks of the book he’s carrying with him. This not only ignites conversation but shows that you value what he thinks.<\/span><\/p>\n
Let’s also look at some strategies for how to start a conversation with a guy over text.<\/span><\/p>\n
13. ‘Thinking of you’<\/b><\/h3>\n
Simple and direct, this is a sweet way to let your crush know <\/span>he’s on your mind<\/span><\/a>. It can be easy to get caught up trying to craft the perfect opening line. Sometimes, it’s best not to overthink it. A short and <\/span>sweet message<\/span><\/a> like this demonstrates thoughtfulness and interest.<\/span><\/p>\n
14. Reference a common interest<\/b><\/h3>\n
Tap into previous interactions you’ve had when considering how to start a conversation with a guy. If you know you both watch a TV show, ask him if he’s seen the latest episode yet. If you follow the same sports team, you could say, ‘The game last night was wild!’<\/span><\/p>\n
15. Offer a compliment<\/b><\/h3>\n
Christiana Njoku has<\/span> this to say,<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n
Positive affirmations and compliments are good conversation starters. Learn how <\/span>to start<\/span> a conversation with a guy by simply giving him a compliment.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
It can be more challenging to come up with a compliment when not sharing the same physical space. <\/span><\/p>\n
However, if you noticed an awesome photo he posted on social media, compliment him on his photography skills. Or maybe you’ve picked up on his characteristics from your interactions thus far and can point out, ‘I admire how hardworking and driven you are.’<\/span><\/p>\n
Related Reading  : <\/b>How to Compliment a Guy- 100+ Best Compliments for Guys<\/span><\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n
Watch this video to learn how to compliment a guy:<\/span><\/p>\n