

{"id":83600,"date":"2023-03-03T09:04:08","date_gmt":"2023-03-03T09:04:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=83600"},"modified":"2024-04-10T04:25:23","modified_gmt":"2024-04-10T04:25:23","slug":"relationship-bullying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/relationship-bullying\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Bullying: Meaning, Signs and What to Do"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-83604\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/New-Project-2023-03-03T142459.360.jpg\" alt=\"Domestic violence between husband and wife \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationships come in many forms, but they all share a standard benchmark; you should feel safe, secure, and confident in your relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if you&rsquo;ve ever found yourself walking on eggshells in your own relationship, or if your partner constantly criticizes, belittles, or controls you, something isn&rsquo;t right.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationship bullying is a pervasive and damaging form of abuse, taking many different shapes and forms. From passive-aggressive comments to outright controlling behavior, relationship bullying can have devastating consequences for the victim&rsquo;s mental health and well-being.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unfortunately, relationship bullying isn&rsquo;t acknowledged as frequently or appropriately as it should be. If you or someone you know is a victim of relationship bullying, this resourceful article will help you protect yourself or your loved one. It will help you identify the signs of relationship bullying and how to break free from this cycle of abuse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep reading to start the journey toward recovery.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-relationship-bullying\"><\/span><b>What is relationship bullying?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationship bullying, also known as intimate partner violence or emotional abuse, is a form of power-based violence that one partner inflicts on another in an intimate relationship. It involves one partner physically or emotionally intimidating the other, from overt physical violence to more subtle forms of emotional abuse and psychological bullying.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unfortunately, relationship bullying can occur in any <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/types-of-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">type of relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, regardless of gender, age, sexual orientation, or socioeconomic status.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have to remember that relationship bullying is not the victim&rsquo;s fault. It is an act of violence that the bully perpetrates upon their victim &mdash; their partner &mdash; who is constantly enduring in silence.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most of the time, the victim doesn&rsquo;t realize their partner is a bully. This is because the bully in a relationship typically has complete emotional control and dominance over their partner. Through manipulative tactics and subtle threats, the bully can keep their victim in a state of fear and confusion. This makes it difficult for the victim to recognize or speak out against the abuse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Understanding-5-forms-of-relationship-bullying\"><\/span><b>Understanding 5 forms of relationship bullying<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The tricky thing about relationship bullying is the many complex and subtle forms it takes. The specific behaviors may vary depending on the relationship, and pinpointing the signs can be challenging. Moreover, two or more of these types of relationship bullying can co-occur.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/dionne-reid\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Dionne Eleanor<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">, a relationship and empowerment mentor, states:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Love should never intimidate; it should inspire. Bullying in a relationship isn&rsquo;t love; it&rsquo;s a betrayal of trust and a violation of the soul.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you suspect bullying in your or your loved one&rsquo;s relationship, learn about the following types of bullying in relationships to take appropriate action.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Psychological bullying<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psychological or emotional bullying is a type of relationship bullying that involves the use of manipulation, threats, and intimidation tactics.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Examples of psychological bullying may include name-calling, insults, and put-downs. The perpetrator may also frequently <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/how-to-deal-with-gaslighting\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">gaslight<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> their partner, causing the victim to doubt their reality, emotions, and sanity. This creates a constant cloud of confusion, anxiety, and self-doubt hanging over the victim.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this video to understand the subtle signs of gaslighting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/FISZshe9L3s\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Physical bullying<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical bullying involves inflicting an act of physical violence on the victim, compromising their safety, health, and well-being. Acts of physical abuse in relationships can involve hitting, slapping, and throwing objects at the victim. It can also include indirect violations of your physical well-being, such as depriving you of medical care, proper nutrition, or safe residence.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical abuse is often accompanied by <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/signs-you-are-experiencing-emotional-and-mental-abuse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and can have grave and long-lasting consequences for the victim.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/marriage-fitness\/wife-is-emotional-bully\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">15 Signs Your Wife Is an Emotional Bully<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>3. Coercive bullying<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In relationships, coercive bullying involves using threats, intimidation, and manipulation to control the victim&rsquo;s behavior. This insidious type of bullying is often difficult for the victim to recognize.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some of the bully&rsquo;s tactics include threatening to harm their partner, partner&rsquo;s family, or partner&rsquo;s property. Often, the bully uses these intimidation tactics to convince the victim to do what they want.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Cyberbullying<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Digital and online abuse is a form of relationship bullying that has emerged alongside the rise of technology. Forms of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/316639508_The_Complex_Relationship_Between_Cyberbullying_and_Trust\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cyberbullying in relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> include cybers-talking, harassment, or the non-consensual sharing of explicit content via digital mediums.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Financial bullying<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial abuse involves the perpetrator controlling the victim&rsquo;s finances and assets or limiting their access to money. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/financial-abuse-in-a-marriage-what-you-need-to-know-and-do\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can leave the victim financially vulnerable and unable to stand up to their partner or leave the abusive relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-Examples-of-bullying-in-relationships\"><\/span><b>5 Examples of bullying in relationships<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationship bullying can take on many forms, making it difficult to recognize when it&rsquo;s happening. Here are some examples of how bullying in relationships can manifest:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Intimidation and threats&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intimidation and threats are go-to weapons for bullies, who use physical force or the threat of it to control the victim. This can include things like:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physically blocking the victim&rsquo;s path,&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cornering the victim into a room<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Breaking objects or punching walls to scare the victim.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Threatening the victim&rsquo;s family, friends, pets, or children.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>2. Verbal abuse&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Words can be a lethal weapon in the hands of another person. Verbal abuse and bullying involve the use of words to control and dominate the victim. This includes:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Calling the victim names<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Assaulting them with insults<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Criticizing the victim&rsquo;s appearance, intelligence, or abilities<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yelling, screaming, or using a hostile tone of voice<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>3. Financial control&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial bullying involves controlling the victim&rsquo;s access to money and other financial resources. This leaves the victim in a position where it&rsquo;s hard to break free from the constraints of the abuser. Financial bullying in a relationship can look like this:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Preventing the victim from earning their own money&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Taking control of the victim&rsquo;s bank accounts or credit cards<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keeping track of every penny spent<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/tips-on-how-couples-can-avoid-conflict-over-money-and-domestic-duties\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Refusing to contribute<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to household expenses or bills&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>4. Isolation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a relationship, one partner may actively <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/230248695_Social_Dominance_in_Romantic_Relationships_A_Prospective_Longitudinal_Study_of_Non-verbal_Processes\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">isolate their partner from their social circles<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, including friends and family. This makes it extremely difficult for the partner to seek help. Isolation in relationships can look like this:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Limiting contact with friends and family<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Moving to a new city or state<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forbidding the victim to participate in social activities&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>5. Coercive control<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Coercive control is when the perpetrator uses intimidation or manipulation tactics to control the victim&rsquo;s behavior. Some examples of coercive control include the following:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Threatening the victim with harm and violence<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Using emotional <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/examples-of-manipulation-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">manipulation<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Restricting the victim&rsquo;s access to basic needs&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-83603\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/New-Project-2023-03-03T142522.699.jpg\" alt=\"Abusive man and women \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-warning-signs-of-relationship-bullying\"><\/span><b>5 warning signs of relationship bullying<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s not always easy to recognize bullying in a relationship, especially when the behavior is disguised as love or concern. However, what may appear as love is actually a huge <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/red-flags-in-women\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">red flag<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Here are five common warning signs of bullying in relationships:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Constant criticism&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner criticizes you, puts you down, or makes you feel like you can&rsquo;t do anything right, it&rsquo;s a tell-tale sign of relationship bullying. Remember that your significant other is supposed to uplift, encourage, and celebrate you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Isolation&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner discourages you from seeing your friends or family, this could be a huge warning sign. They may pick fights with you when you go out or stalk your whereabouts while disguising it as a concern.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Controlling behavior&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner makes all the decisions for you, no matter how big or small, this could be a clear sign that they&rsquo;re bullying you. This includes decisions about what you wear, where you go, or how you spend your time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Threats or intimidation&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner may threaten to harm you, your family, or your pets, or they may use physical force to dominate you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Extreme mood swings&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The bully in the relationship may have dramatic and unpredictable <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/how-to-deal-with-mood-swings-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mood swings<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and they may blame you for their emotions or behavior.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/how-to-deal-with-mood-swings-in-a-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Deal With Mood Swings in a Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-confront-and-handle-relationship-bullying\"><\/span><b>How to confront and handle relationship bullying<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Confronting relationship bullying can be a difficult and scary task. As a victim, you may find yourself in a never-ending cycle of second chances and justifying your bully&rsquo;s behavior. Though you come from a place of love and commitment, you need to take action to protect yourself.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some steps to confront and handle relationship bullying:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Acknowledge the behavior&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognize and accept that what your partner is putting you through is unacceptable. It is equally important to remember that your partner&rsquo;s behavior is not your fault.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Don&rsquo;t be afraid to ask for help&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or a professional counselor who can help you understand what is happening and support you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Set boundaries&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be clear about what you will and will not tolerate, and stick to those boundaries.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Experienced transformational coach Dionne Eleanor shares that:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Boundaries aren&rsquo;t walls; they&rsquo;re bridges to healthier connections. Setting boundaries with a partner who displays bullying behavior is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It&rsquo;s about asserting your self-worth and ensuring mutual respect. It is also important to set boundaries with ourselves to ensure we maintain habits and practices that support our well-being, such as the boundary to exercise daily.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>When you have healthy boundaries in your relationships, things become easier to tackle.<\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/setting-boundaries-in-a-new-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">15 Ways of Setting Boundaries in a New Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>4. Communicate assertively&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When confronting your partner about their bullying, be assertive and clear about how their behavior affects you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Seek professional help&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Utilize <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">couples therapy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, which can help you develop coping strategies and provide support as you work to overcome the bullying.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>As Dionne Eleanor says:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>It is best to express your thoughts, feelings and needs confidently and respectfully using &ldquo;I feel \/ I think&rdquo; statements. Be direct and avoid vague language.<\/p>\n<p>Practicing active listening is the other side of the coin to assertive communication, as it gives you the opportunity to understand the other person&rsquo;s perspective and respond confidently.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-83602\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/New-Project-2023-03-03T142600.993.jpg\" alt=\"Couple having relationship problem \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Frequently-asked-questions\"><\/span><b>Frequently asked questions<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some of the most frequently asked questions about relationship bullying.&nbsp;<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What are the emotional effects of cyberbullying?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some of the emotional effects of cyberbullying include anxiety and depression, low self-esteem, isolation, fear, anger, and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/resentment-the-silent-killer-of-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">resentment<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Is relationship bullying always physical?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No, relationship bullying is not always physical. It can take many forms, including psychological, emotional, and verbal abuse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Can relationship bullying occur in same-sex relationships?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, relationship bullying can occur in any type of intimate relationship, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final-thought\"><\/span><b>Final thought<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationship bullying can be extremely taxing on not only the victim but also their children, pets, and family. Whether you&rsquo;re a victim of bullying by your partner or know someone who is, it&rsquo;s crucial to recognize the signs and take action.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that help is available, and you don&rsquo;t have to suffer in silence. Your friends, family, and professional help are always available to help you break out of the cycle of abuse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner is endangering your or your family&rsquo;s safety, don&rsquo;t hesitate to contact the authorities.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Relationships come in many forms, but they all share a standard benchmark; you should feel safe, secure, and confident in your relationship.&nbsp; So if you&rsquo;ve ever found yourself walking on eggshells in your own relationship, or if your partner constantly criticizes, belittles, or controls you, something isn&rsquo;t right.&nbsp; Relationship bullying is a pervasive and damaging form of abuse, taking many different shapes and forms. From passive-aggressive comments to outright controlling behavior, relationship bullying can have devastating consequences for the victim&rsquo;s mental health and well-being.&nbsp; Unfortunately, relationship bullying isn&rsquo;t acknowledged as frequently or appropriately as it should be. 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