

{"id":81531,"date":"2022-11-29T06:25:02","date_gmt":"2022-11-29T06:25:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=81531"},"modified":"2024-07-02T08:34:56","modified_gmt":"2024-07-02T08:34:56","slug":"mommy-issues-in-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/mommy-issues-in-men\/","title":{"rendered":"Mommy Issues in Men: Signs and Ways to Fix Them"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-81534\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/New-Project-2022-11-29T115131.449.jpg\" alt=\"Young man talking with mother \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to mommy issues, it can refer to the abnormal relationship a man had with his mother while growing up. Most times, mommy issues can have two extremes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first extreme can be when the mother tries to be the confidante, best friend, and everything to her son instead of first being a mother. As a result, the young boy grows into a man who finds it hard to keep normal adult friendships because of his mother&rsquo;s influence.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, what do mommy issues in men mean? Or what are mommy issues for a man?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It could also mean he will take every piece of advice from his mother instead of other important people, like his father, partner, and close friends.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The other extreme is when a man was emotionally or physically abused and manipulated by his mother while growing up. Hence, he becomes a man who does not respect women or wants anything to do with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kenneth M. Adams&rsquo; book titled<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/books.google.com.ng\/books?id=zAY4eK3-l9YC&amp;printsec=frontcover&amp;dq=Kenneth+Adams-+When+he%27s+married+to+mom&amp;hl=en&amp;sa=X&amp;redir_esc=y#v=onepage&amp;q=Kenneth%20Adams-%20When%20he's%20married%20to%20mom&amp;f=false\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When He&rsquo;s Married to Mom<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sheds more light on mommy issues in men. This book helps mother-enmeshed men to open their hearts to true love and commitment.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-signs-of-mommy-issues-in-men\"><\/span><b>10 signs of mommy issues in men<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7xynAr1W4Lk?si=D8bO0mkOS4P-DO8Q\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now that we know &ldquo;What do mommy issues mean?&rdquo; let&rsquo;s move on to how they are manifested in men.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have a man in your life and want to avoid dating a man with mother issues, there are some traits you can look out for.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some signs of mommy issues in a man.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Regular communication with his mother<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the signs of mommy issues in males is when they are constantly in contact with their mom. Even though he does not live with her, they will always be in touch with each other like he never left.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His mom is well aware of his daily routine, and he finds it compulsory to spend ample time with her so she doesn&rsquo;t miss him. A man with mommy issues will always have her contact information as one of the most frequently contacted people in his phonebook.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He will probably communicate more regularly with her than with some of his close friends.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/5-effective-strategies-for-communicating-with-your-spouse\/\" title=\"5 Effective Strategies For Communicating With Your Spouse\">5 Effective Strategies For Communicating With Your Spouse<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>2. He has a big feeling of entitlement<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a man always feels entitled, it might be one of the signs of mommy issues. It probably means that he has been used to princely treatment by his mother, and he wants it to continue with other women.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Such men feel they don&rsquo;t need to work hard for some things before getting them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, when they see that those things are not forthcoming, they might begin demanding them. You can tell a man feels entitled if you keep doing things for him and he doesn&rsquo;t appreciate you. Rather, he acts as if those things are his rights.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. He takes most instructions from his mom<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you observe that a man does everything his mom says, it is one of the signs of mommy issues in men. If he has a strong<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/how-important-is-an-emotional-connection-in-a-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional connection<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with his mother, he will always take instructions from her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When he is at crossroads, and he needs to make a crucial decision, he will call his mom before anyone else.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He holds her in high esteem because of the emotional bond they share. However, in relationship matters, most of his decisions are likely to come from his mom&rsquo;s influence, which can cause conflict between him and his partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. He compares you with his mom<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another way to know men with mommy issues is when they constantly compare you with their mother.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most times, they subconsciously do this because they have placed their mother on a high pedestal, so any potential partner has to live up to that standard.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It becomes a red flag if their love interest or crush does not meet his mother&rsquo;s qualities. They will likely lose interest in that person and move on to the next individual who can meet their mother&rsquo;s standards.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doing this puts people under pressure because they try to be like someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. He shares secrets with his mom before anyone<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To know more about mommy issues meaning or signs, one thing to look out for is who he first discusses secrets with.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he always breaks the big news to his mother before anyone in his life, this is one of the symptoms of mommy issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, if he gets a new contract or a pay rise, his mom would be the first to know before any important person in his life. When it comes to negative happenings, his mom is first aware before anyone else.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mameve Medwed&rsquo;s book titled<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/books.google.com.ng\/books?id=jwPU66_ZeOYC&amp;dq=Mameve+Medwed-+Of+Men+and+their+mothers&amp;hl=en&amp;sa=X&amp;ved=2ahUKEwjRhLfguYH7AhW1SPEDHcGhBioQ6AF6BAgKEAI\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of Men and Their Mothers<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is about a mommy&rsquo;s boy. The book shows how the woman in the marriage managed her mother-in-law&rsquo;s hovering presence.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-81533\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/New-Project-2022-11-29T115149.081.jpg\" alt=\"Man smiling happily \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. He tries to avoid his mom<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to mommy issues in men, there are two extremes. The first extreme is those men who cannot do anything without their mom&rsquo;s influence. They can wait for their mom&rsquo;s choice when they want a romantic partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The other extreme is those who don&rsquo;t want anything to do with their mom. When you discover a man in this category, he probably has mommy issues and does not want to connect with her.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. He is very insecure<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Insecurity is one of the signs of mommy issues in a man. The primary reason is that his mom let him down in the past, affecting his trust when dealing with prospective romantic partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So when he gets into a relationship with a woman, she has to prove that she can be trusted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can affect the relationship if he begins to suspect that she is doing something behind his back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to marriage &amp; family therapist&nbsp;<\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/jelisha-gatling\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Jelisha Gatling<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">When a man doesn&rsquo;t have a secure attachment with his mother (and isn&rsquo;t working to heal that), he will inevitably look for ways that his partner will hurt him or is untrustworthy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">It&rsquo;s important to understand that it&rsquo;s not your responsibility to heal those wounds. No amount of proving yourself will be enough to create a trusting, intimate relationship with a man with unresolved mommy issues.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Such men with insecurity and trust issues will go to any lengths to satisfy their curiosity, especially when everything is going smoothly and their partner looks too clean.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/8-signs-you-are-insecure-in-your-relationship\/\" title=\"16 Signs of Insecurity in Relationships\">16 Signs of Insecurity in Relationships<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>8. He doesn&rsquo;t respect women<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being disrespectful to women is one of the signs of mommy issues in males. Such men probably had a rough patch with their mothers while growing up, and some of them might have vowed to disrespect women.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, women in his life would have to work extra hard to earn his respect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most times, the man might not know that his words and actions are disrespectful. His behaviors are a part of him, and only people who are sincere with him can tell the truth.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. He is a cheat<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another way to recognize mommy issues in men is when he is a serial cheat. When you see a man who cheats, it might be because he didn&rsquo;t have a stable mother figure growing up.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His mother probably left at some point in his childhood or teenage years, leaving that void.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the man has a woman in his life for companionship, he will have another for friendship, sex, and the list goes on.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, even if you try to be the best partner, he will never be satisfied because having another woman fill the space in his life might be hard.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are some signs he is cheating? Check out this video for more information:<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/67af3UoZ8Nc?si=VThR1m2b0TMkfNny\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. He doesn&rsquo;t think you have his best interests<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, one of the signs of mommy issues in men is when they believe you are out to hurt them. For such men, when he was growing up, his mother did things that proved she did not love him despite the bond between them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, he is likely to suspect your moves because he thinks you will hurt him as his mother did.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-causes-the-mom-issues-in-men\"><\/span><b>What causes the mom issues in men<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;Mom issues&rdquo; in men, often referred to as &ldquo;mommy issues,&rdquo; can stem from a variety of factors and experiences during childhood and adolescence. These issues can manifest in different ways and may affect their relationships and overall well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some concise causes behind &ldquo;mommy issues&rdquo; in men<\/span><\/p>\n<ol><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Early childhood attachment and bonding.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Overprotection or neglect from mothers.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Family disruptions like divorce.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Modeling behavior from mothers.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Low self-esteem and self-worth.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Unconscious desire for reparation.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Therapeutic assistance for addressing these issues.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ways-mommy-issues-affect-romantic-relationships\"><\/span><b>Ways mommy issues affect romantic relationships<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mommy issues can impact romantic relationships differently depending on the man&rsquo;s relationship with his mom while growing up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some men grow up afraid of being committed in their<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/the-role-of-romance-in-a-relationship-and-its-importance\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romantic relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. They are reluctant because they think their partner will wake up one day and become uninterested in the union.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hence, even though they love their partner, they would limit their involvement.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, some of them might become emotionally distant while in their relationship. If they want to make crucial decisions in their relationship, they will inform their mother before anyone.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This might piss their partner off because the man&rsquo;s mother becomes the unofficial decision-maker.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-to-do-when-suffering-from-mommy-issues-5-ways-to-fix-the-problem\"><\/span><b>What to do when suffering from mommy issues: 5 ways to fix the problem<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After spotting the signs of mommy issues in men, the next step would be to fix the problem so that it doesn&rsquo;t further affect your relationship with other people.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Recognize the problem<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are suffering from mommy issues and you&rsquo;ve not accepted this problem, it might be hard to provide a fix. You must be aware that you have a problem that needs a solution.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then, you need to take a step further to consider the reasons for the mommy issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can ask yourself some important questions that will help you dig deep concerning the root cause of the mommy issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/intimacy\/recognize-intimacy-issues-and-get-closer-as-a-couple\/\" title=\"How to Recognize Intimacy Issues and Get Closer as a Couple\">How to Recognize Intimacy Issues and Get Closer as a Couple<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>2. Set healthy boundaries between you and your mom<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&rsquo;ve recognized the problem, the next step is to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/setting-healthy-boundaries-in-a-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">set healthy boundaries<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. For example, if you&rsquo;re on good or bad terms with your mother, it is time to create boundaries so that no one will live in your shadow.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, if your mom has always been involved in crucial decision-making, you need to stop telling her some of your issues. Learn to seek advice from your partner and others, and leave your mother out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can only tell her about your issues when you&rsquo;ve found and applied an effective solution. It is important to let your mother know that you&rsquo;re a grown-up and are now in charge of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-81532\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/New-Project-2022-11-29T115205.969.jpg\" alt=\"Young man spending time with his mother \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Be accountable to a mentor or someone you trust<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most times, one of the ways to monitor your progress on any issue is to be accountable to someone like a mentor. It is important to open up and let them know everything affecting you so they can follow up.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are accountable to a trusted person, the chances of making mistakes become slimmer.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Learn to bond with your partner, and put them first<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/9-tips-to-building-a-stable-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship to be healthy and successful<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you must always consider your partner first. You can achieve this when a solid bond has been created between you. This will help you remember your partner first when anything occurs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you want to make decisions, remember that your partner is the most important person in your life, and you should not involve anyone first before them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It would be best if you also learned to open up to your partner and be vulnerable with them. Doing this will help you learn to prioritize them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Seek healthy social support<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You need to look out for other categories of people that can help you treat mommy issues. Surround yourself with trusted friends, acquaintances, and family members who will bring out the best version of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you surround yourself with people who encourage<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/benefits-of-healthy-relationships\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">healthy relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, overcoming childhood trauma, like mommy issues in men, becomes easier.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Commonly-asked-questions\"><\/span><b>Commonly asked questions<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mommy issues can affect individuals in various ways. Let&rsquo;s debunk common myths and provide brief answers to key questions.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What are some common myths about mommy issues?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Common myths include thinking mommy issues only affect men (they can affect anyone), or that it&rsquo;s a small issue (it can have significant impacts). These myths can hinder understanding and healing.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Can mommy issues be inherited?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While family dynamics can influence mommy issues, they&rsquo;re not directly inherited like genetic traits. However, patterns may repeat if not addressed within the family.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Is it possible to overcome mommy issues?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, with self-awareness and professional help, it&rsquo;s possible to overcome mommy issues. Therapy can help you develop healthier relationships and coping mechanisms.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What are the long-term effects of mommy issues?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mommy issues can lead to low self-esteem, trust issues, and difficulties in relationships. Untreated, they can impact mental health, making it crucial to address them.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Where can I find help for mommy issues?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seek help from therapists, counselors, or support groups. Start by contacting a mental health professional or your healthcare provider for guidance and referrals. Don&rsquo;t hesitate to reach out; support is available.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"You-can-help-him-break-free\"><\/span><b>You can help him break free<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you recognize mommy issues in men, it means they had a dysfunctional relationship with their mother during childhood. This could cause some issues in their romantic or other adult relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After noticing the signs of mommy issues, it is important to implement steps to overcome them. For example, you can consider going for therapy so that you will have a professional to guide you, or you can take a course to help you recover from your childhood trauma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To learn more about how a man&rsquo;s relationship with his mother affects the rest of his life, check out Micheal Gurian&rsquo;s book. His piece is titled<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/books.google.com.ng\/books?id=wgjVKV93lHoC&amp;q=Michael+Gurian-+Mothers,+Sons+and+Lovers&amp;dq=Michael+Gurian-+Mothers,+Sons+and+Lovers&amp;hl=en&amp;sa=X&amp;redir_esc=y\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mothers, Sons, and Lovers<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and it guides men to overcome mommy issues.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When it comes to mommy issues, it can refer to the abnormal relationship a man had with his mother while growing up. Most times, mommy issues can have two extremes. The first extreme can be when the mother tries to be the confidante, best friend, and everything to her son instead of first being a mother. As a result, the young boy grows into a man who finds it hard to keep normal adult friendships because of his mother&rsquo;s influence.&nbsp; So, what do mommy issues in men mean? Or what are mommy issues for a man?&nbsp; It could also mean <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1363,"featured_media":81534,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[39],"tags":[2660],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81531"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1363"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81531"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81531\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":102670,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81531\/revisions\/102670"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81534"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}