

{"id":81526,"date":"2022-11-29T06:18:43","date_gmt":"2022-11-29T06:18:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=81526"},"modified":"2024-07-02T08:50:57","modified_gmt":"2024-07-02T08:50:57","slug":"red-flags-in-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/red-flags-in-women\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Red Flags in Women You Should Never Ignore"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-81529\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/New-Project-2022-11-29T113305.978.jpg\" alt=\"Woman shouting on man \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Different people have their definitions of &lsquo;red flags.&rsquo; For some, their lists are short. For others, their lists are as long as the river Nile. While there are some playful red flags on the internet, some red flags shouldn&rsquo;t be ignored, especially in a relationship. These red flags in women that must not be overlooked are those that give off abusive and controlling behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A relationship is meant to bring peace of mind, comfort, and any good thing you can think of. When it&rsquo;s the other way around, you need to put that relationship in check. Our mental health should be put first, and if external factors from relationships make it decline, you should consider letting go of such a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you enter a relationship with a woman, it may be hard to spot some of these red flags to look for in women since you&rsquo;re still blinded by love. But, it will become crystal clear with time, and you may be too far gone to be saved. That is why it is crucial to identify the red flags in females when the relationship is still young.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-red-flags-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><b>What are red flags in a relationship?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/y8McSu_S0-M?si=TBzluPOoxZkkene2\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Red flags are warning signs that give off manipulative behavior, which can be unhealthy for a person or people in the relationship. Red flags usually lead to toxic relationships and can present themselves between family members, colleagues, friends, or partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies have shown that most chaotic relationships could have been avoided <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1177\/0886260518805105\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">if only the victims were more sensitive to the red flags<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> they noticed at first.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you notice red flags in a relationship with a woman, it is usually advisable to call it quits. Some red flags can be resolved through communication, but others must be a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/13-deal-breakers-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">deal-breaker for the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the dangers of red flags is that they aren&rsquo;t recognizable in their early stages. They become noticeable as the person&rsquo;s character traits get worse, and at this time, curbing them becomes more difficult.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-the-red-flags-in-women\"><\/span><b>What are the red flags in women?&nbsp;<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Red flags in women can show in forms of victimization, narcissism, manipulative behavior, etc. When you notice these red flags in a relationship with a woman, you should recheck the connection you think you have with her. Never stay in an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/how-to-fix-an-abusive-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abusive relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, no matter your gender.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-81528\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/New-Project-2022-11-29T113338.174.jpg\" alt=\"Couple having conflicts \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-red-flags-in-women-you-should-never-ignore\"><\/span><b>15 red flags in women you should never ignore<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is important to identify red flags when dating a woman.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can only identify them when you know what they look like and why they are dangerous. It becomes almost too late when the emotional, psychological, and physical abuse begins.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some of the red flags in women you should keep your eyes open for.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Physical, psychological, or emotional abuse<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/signs-you-are-experiencing-emotional-and-mental-abuse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional and psychological abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is just as bad as physical abuse. The warning sign of physical abuse is usually clear, but emotional and psychological abuse may take a while before it surfaces and will take a toll on the victim&rsquo;s mental health.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They all can lead to PTSD, so it is important to leave any toxic relationship once noticed to avoid drastic effects in the long run.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the biggest red flags in women is that they may try to hit you, constantly use negative and demoralizing words, and make you feel worthless.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Excessive clinginess and dependency in relationships<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some women go into a relationship immediately after the first ends. These women can&rsquo;t be on their own for a while without having a partner. This gives off clingy and over-dependent vibes in relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These women feel that they must be in relationships to be complete. Many times, they suffer from <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/how-to-get-over-breakup-depression\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">post-breakup depression<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> but never seek help. Instead, rebound relationships are a coping mechanism for them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Not accepting her partner&rsquo;s relationship with friends and family<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is one of the biggest red flags in a girl that you must avoid like the plague. Some women have jealous, insecure, and toxic attachment behavior.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here, she would try to control your whole existence and never respect your boundaries and life outside the relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When this red flag in women is active, they believe they&rsquo;re supposed to be number 1 in their partner&rsquo;s lives and would kick against everything that tries to take away their partner&rsquo;s attention- regardless of what it is.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a lady starts getting jealous of her partner&rsquo;s parents and close friends, that might be a sign that the relationship should be reassessed. If nothing is done, it might turn into a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/examples-of-manipulation-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">manipulative relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> where she blames her partner for not giving her the attention she deserves.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Narcissism<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition characterized by an exaggerated feeling of self-importance.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC2669224\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it is predominant in males<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, many women with narcissistic tendencies also exist. Narcissists think only their opinions matter. So, it can be extremely stressful and emotionally exhausting to be in a relationship with a narcissist.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. She has mental health problems and doesn&rsquo;t want to seek help for<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all have personal problems, but it doesn&rsquo;t mean you shouldn&rsquo;t steer clear of people with mental health challenges who have refused to seek help.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like in a relationship with a narcissistic person, you can both make it work when both parties put in the effort.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People with emotional and mental health challenges deserve love like everyone else. But, when she refuses to own her mistakes, work on herself, and be a better person, you may want to consider taking a walk. Don&rsquo;t try to play savior at the expense of your sanity.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/mental-health-in-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">10 Ways On How to Cope With Your Mental Health Issues in a Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>6. Lack of empathy and gaslighting<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When your partner gaslights you, they ignore your feelings and opinions and make you feel silly for even trying to be heard in your relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, they could say things like, &ldquo;Why are you acting this way because of this? Even a high schooler wouldn&rsquo;t.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These statements make you doubt yourself or rethink your decisions. A <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/lacking-empathy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of empathy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in a partner is when they fail to empathize with you even after hurting your feelings. It is another form of emotional abuse, which is one of the biggest red flags in dating a woman.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><b>Suggested video<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: How to fix a toxic relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/BwhP2FuoUmc\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Defensiveness<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the face of conflict, especially when you&rsquo;re certain you&rsquo;re at fault, it is normal to apologize. At least, that&rsquo;s the right thing to do to alleviate the conflict. Some women can&rsquo;t bring themselves to say sorry.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead, they blame their partners for their errors. While defensiveness can escalate a conflict, it can also hurt the other party when they are wrongly blamed for something they know nothing about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The five magic words, including your relationship, come in handy wherever you are.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/defensiveness-can-kill-your-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Defensiveness Can Secretly Kill Your Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>8. She&rsquo;s always &lsquo;checking&rsquo; up on you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a relationship, it&rsquo;s sweet to check up on your partner to know how they&rsquo;re doing and chat. However, it becomes suffocating when your partner checks on you every minute of every day and demands an instant reply.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You both have different lives, which may reduce your daily productivity because she always wants you to be at her beck and call.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep your eyes open for these red flags in women. This always looks sweet until it becomes toxic and suffocating.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Anger management issues<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You should be able to confront problems with your partner without her going berserk and trying to hurt you in the process. If she is used to losing her cool whenever you try to have difficult conversations, you may feel scared or threatened to talk about serious issues with her.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over time, this can breed resentment and cause a massive separation between yourself and her.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/anger-management-how-to-handle-your-anger\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anger Management - A Guide on How to Handle Your Anger<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>10. She tells you people&rsquo;s secrets<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is a whole different situation when your girlfriend gossips with you about the arrogant new guy at work who&rsquo;s always getting in other people&rsquo;s way or the professor at school who&rsquo;s colored his hair pink. However, when it comes to other people&rsquo;s secrets, it&rsquo;s a no-go.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Secrets are not meant to be shared, so if your girlfriend shares her friends&rsquo; secrets with you, don&rsquo;t be surprised when you hear the secrets you&rsquo;ve shared with her are the new gossip in town.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/secrets-you-should-forever-keep-from-your-lover\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">15 Secrets You Should Forever Keep from Your Lover<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>11. No signs of reciprocation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is one of the red flags in women that you must look out for.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can become exhausting when you keep <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-put-effort-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">making efforts in a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and all your girlfriend does is accept all the love and attention without actively returning some of the positive energy you&rsquo;re sending her way.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may want to reassess your relationship when you don&rsquo;t receive as much as you give and can&rsquo;t depend on your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is also a red flag when she keeps scorecards on what she&rsquo;s done for you. You should naturally do something for your partner without counting it as if they owes you their life in exchange.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-81527\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/New-Project-2022-11-29T113402.313.jpg\" alt=\"Man and woman having argument \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. Constant jealousy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is normal to feel <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-of-jealousy-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">jealous in a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. In fact, j<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/2158244013476054\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ealousy is associated with many positive qualities that sustain relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. However, it may become scary when she&rsquo;s always in your business trying to know who you talk to or expecting to meet all the friends you&rsquo;ve had in your lifetime.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Women who constantly exhibit insane levels of jealousy should be kept in check because they only care about themselves, not the happiness of their partners. It becomes even more frustrating when you try to clear her doubts, but she makes a big deal out of nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Pessimism<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As far as some women are concerned, everyone&rsquo;s out to get them. They only ever see the bad in situations or people.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a woman doubts everything (including the love of a partner who has done all they can to prove their love for her), it gives off an insecure feeling, which she needs to work on.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/attitude-affects-love-life\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pessimistic vs. Optimistic: 5 Benefits of Relationship Optimism<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>14. Stonewalling<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You should be able to tackle whatever problems you have as partners, but some women either avoid or refuse to resolve issues with their partners intentionally.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You should be able to confront your problems head-on in a relationship instead of avoiding them. It is certainly a red flag when she keeps giving you the silent treatment every chance she gets.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/reason-for-failed-marriages\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Is Stonewalling in Relationships &amp; How to Deal With It<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>15. Name-calling<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A relationship is built on many factors, including respect. Both partners should respect themselves and try to reason together whenever they face a situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You shouldn&rsquo;t condone anyone <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/name-calling-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">calling you names<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, especially someone you&rsquo;re in love with, because it can affect your self-esteem and confidence. Be careful of your words with your partner because they can do much more damage than you think.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Yellow-flags-versus-red-flags-%E2%80%93-meaning\"><\/span><b>Yellow flags versus red flags &ndash; meaning<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yellow and red flags are quite similar. The only difference is that yellow flags are less severe than red flags. Red flags are <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/warning-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">signs of toxic behaviors<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but yellow flags indicate areas that need to be addressed immediately, or a relationship will crash.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yellow flags can be kept under check.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationships are not perfect, so there are bound to be problems now and then. However, when it becomes too burdensome to handle, you may want to step away from that relationship for the sake of your sanity.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When yellow flags are confronted at the roots, they may eventually reduce, but when left to grow, they may become red flags. Red flags can only be curbed when both parties in a relationship tackle them and put efforts into resolving them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some relationship problems can be solved, and not all of them have to be deal-breakers. It is important to understand the differences between red and yellow flags so you can know how to tackle them when faced with any.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Takeaway\"><\/span><b>Takeaway<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are many red flags in women that you should never ignore.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These can be red flags anywhere from a relationship, friendship, etc., you must always be ready to protect your mental health first before anything else. A relationship should bring you happiness and not despair.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now that you know the biggest red flags in a girl, you can easily identify them and protect yourself from toxic relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Always recheck the dynamics of your relationship because relationships will work better when both parties are making efforts to grow it. The responsibility of the relationship shouldn&rsquo;t be thrown on one person, but it should be on both parties.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Different people have their definitions of &lsquo;red flags.&rsquo; For some, their lists are short. For others, their lists are as long as the river Nile. While there are some playful red flags on the internet, some red flags shouldn&rsquo;t be ignored, especially in a relationship. These red flags in women that must not be overlooked are those that give off abusive and controlling behavior. A relationship is meant to bring peace of mind, comfort, and any good thing you can think of. When it&rsquo;s the other way around, you need to put that relationship in check. Our mental health should <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1363,"featured_media":81529,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2498],"tags":[2581],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81526"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1363"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81526"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81526\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":102680,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81526\/revisions\/102680"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81529"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81526"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81526"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81526"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}