{"id":808,"date":"2015-07-20T08:43:29","date_gmt":"2015-07-20T08:43:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/topic\/?p=808"},"modified":"2025-11-04T04:37:06","modified_gmt":"2025-11-04T04:37:06","slug":"evergreen-relationship-advice-for-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/evergreen-relationship-advice-for-men\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Best Relationship Advice for Men That Truly Works"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-113554\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Distant-couple-reflection.png\" alt=\"Distant couple reflection\" width=\"804\" height=\"536\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jake sighed, staring at his phone, wondering if sending that last text was a mistake. He cared deeply, but somehow, every conversation with his partner seemed to turn into a misunderstanding.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s not that he didn&rsquo;t try&mdash;he just wished love came with a manual. The truth is, even the most genuine men can struggle to express affection, listen well, or know when to step back&hellip; and that&rsquo;s okay!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With the right mindset and a bit of thoughtful relationship advice for men, love doesn&rsquo;t have to feel so complicated; it can grow stronger, calmer, and more real every single day.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9-best-relationship-advice-for-men\"><\/span><b>9 best relationship advice for men<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the early days of love, every word and action can feel like a guessing game.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A research paper published in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helpguide.org\/relationships\/social-connection\/relationship-help\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2024<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> states that healthy relationships thrive on emotional connection, respectful conflict resolution, and maintaining individuality while staying connected&mdash;key elements of effective relationship help.<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&rsquo;s why relationship advice for men&mdash;especially thoughtful early relationship advice for men&mdash;can make all the difference in building trust, respect, and genuine emotional connection from the very start<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Take care of your physical appearance<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lack of sexual interest is one of the biggest reasons why relationships fail. Obviously, this is something that happens over time &ndash; you won&rsquo;t be together without any interest to begin with, so try to bring back that magic into your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Do&rsquo;s:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep yourself well-groomed and dress in a way that makes you feel confident.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maintain a healthy lifestyle &mdash; eat well, exercise, and rest enough.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make small efforts to look good for your partner, just like you did in the early days.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>Don&rsquo;ts:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t neglect your hygiene or appearance just because you&rsquo;re &ldquo;comfortable&rdquo; now.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t assume your partner doesn&rsquo;t notice the little details &mdash; they do.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t overdo it to the point of vanity; authenticity is always more attractive.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-feel-more-confident-in-relationship\/\" title=\"20 Things You Can Do To Feel More Confident In A Relationship\">20 Things You Can Do To Feel More Confident In A Relationship<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>2. Stay honest and avoid brutality<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Honesty builds trust, but harsh truths can hurt more than help.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC4218869\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">research paper<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> published in 2014 states the identification of healthy dating relationships is through characterization of traits like honesty, trust, communication, respect and individuality&mdash;emphasizing if you do not have honesty in a relationship, then there is no relationship.<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be open about your feelings, yet mindful of how you express them. The goal is connection, not criticism.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Do&rsquo;s:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Speak your truth with kindness and empathy.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be transparent about feelings and intentions.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use gentle language when discussing sensitive issues.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>Don&rsquo;ts:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t use honesty as an excuse to be cruel or dismissive.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t blurt things out in anger.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t hide behind silence instead of addressing what matters.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>3. Be nice around friends &amp; family<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-113556\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Warm-family-introduction.png\" alt=\"Warm family introduction\" width=\"804\" height=\"536\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How you treat your partner&rsquo;s loved ones says a lot about your respect and maturity. Being kind and considerate strengthens not just your bond but also your place in their world.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Do&rsquo;s:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be polite, warm, and genuinely interested when meeting their family or friends.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Support your partner in social settings.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show appreciation for the people they care about.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>Don&rsquo;ts:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t mock, argue, or act distant around their loved ones.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t make your partner choose between you and them.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t ignore efforts to include you in family or group moments.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>4. Don&rsquo;t badmouth your ex<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bad-mouthing your ex creates a bad impression and speaks volumes about your personality. However, if you happen to run into your ex, be prepared to make the introductions and smile happily next to your lady&mdash;anything other than being 110% happy will be frowned upon.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Do&rsquo;s:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Speak respectfully or neutrally if your ex comes up in conversation.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be polite and composed if you meet your ex unexpectedly.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Introduce your partner confidently and stay relaxed.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>Don&rsquo;ts:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t criticize, mock, or compare your ex to your current partner.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t overshare old relationship details.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t let awkwardness show&mdash;stay calm and light-hearted.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/should-you-tell-your-partner-everything-about-your-past\/\" title=\"Should You Tell Your Partner Everything About Your Past or Not?\">Should You Tell Your Partner Everything About Your Past or Not?<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>5. Spend time together&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Find more<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/profile\/Elaine-Aron\/publication\/12609069_Couples%27_shared_participation_in_novel_and_arousing_activities_and_experienced_relationship_quality\/links\/5577bd0f08aeacff20004ef3\/Couples-shared-participation-in-novel-and-arousing-activities-and-experienced-relationship-quality.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> activities you both enjoy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> doing &ndash; and yes, this means you&rsquo;ll have to give up on some of the things which only you like. And work together on the chores you don&rsquo;t normally enjoy, and on the little, boring stuff that happens every day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Do&rsquo;s:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Find hobbies or routines you both genuinely enjoy.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plan small date nights or weekend walks to reconnect.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be fully present&mdash;put your phone aside and listen.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>Don&rsquo;ts:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t prioritize solo activities over shared ones all the time.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t treat together-time like an obligation.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t rush through chores&mdash;use them as moments to talk and laugh.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>6. Communicate, don&rsquo;t assume<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-113555\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/couple-talking-7.png\" alt=\"couple talking \" width=\"804\" height=\"536\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Misunderstandings often arise from silence, not words. Instead of expecting your partner to read your mind, share what&rsquo;s on it&mdash;honestly and calmly. Good communication keeps love simple and strong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Do&rsquo;s:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Express what you feel or need clearly and kindly.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Listen actively without interrupting.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clarify doubts before jumping to conclusions.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>Don&rsquo;ts:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t bottle things up or expect your partner to &ldquo;just know.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t assume intent&mdash;ask instead.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t use sarcasm or passive-aggressive remarks to make a point.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/the-importance-of-communication-in-your-marriage\/\" title=\"10 Reasons Why Communication in Marriage Is Important\">10 Reasons Why Communication in Marriage Is Important<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>7. Appreciate the small things<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Big gestures are nice, but everyday gratitude keeps relationships alive. Notice their efforts, say &ldquo;thank you,&rdquo; and show that you value even the little things&mdash;they matter more than you think.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Do&rsquo;s:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Compliment your partner genuinely and often.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acknowledge small acts of love or support.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Say &ldquo;thank you&rdquo; and mean it.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>Don&rsquo;ts:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t take routine kindness for granted.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t compare your partner&rsquo;s efforts to others&rsquo;.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t wait for anniversaries to express appreciation.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>8. Handle conflicts maturely<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Disagreements are natural, but how you handle them defines your relationship. Stay calm, focus on solutions, and remember&mdash;it&rsquo;s not you vs. your partner, it&rsquo;s both of you vs. the problem.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Do&rsquo;s:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take a break if things get too heated.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focus on resolving, not winning.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use &ldquo;I feel&rdquo; statements instead of blame.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>Don&rsquo;ts:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t yell, curse, or bring up old issues.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t walk away mid-conversation without saying why.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t hold grudges&mdash;address issues and move forward.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this TED Talk by John Gottman and Julie Gottman, renowned relationship scientists who share how the way couples fight&mdash;not whether they fight&mdash;predicts future heartbreak or deeper connection.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/nBN9zG1JNPg?si=fyz4BrFan9o2pvF6\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Support their dreams<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love thrives when both partners feel seen and encouraged. Be your partner&rsquo;s cheerleader&mdash;show up, believe in them, and celebrate their wins as if they were your own.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Do&rsquo;s:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask about their goals and listen with genuine interest.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Offer encouragement when they doubt themselves.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Celebrate even small victories together.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>Don&rsquo;ts:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t dismiss their ambitions as unrealistic.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t make it about competition.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t withdraw support when their success outshines yours.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why-relationship-advice-for-men-matters\"><\/span><b>Why relationship advice for men matters<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Modern relationships aren&rsquo;t just about attraction or effort&mdash;they&rsquo;re about awareness, empathy, and emotional growth. Many men want to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/how-to-love-someone\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">love deeply<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> but aren&rsquo;t always taught how to communicate, listen, or connect beyond surface gestures.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&rsquo;s why thoughtful relationship advice for men plays such a powerful role&mdash;it helps turn good intentions into lasting connection.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Here&rsquo;s why it matters:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Emotional skills strengthen love.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Learning to express feelings and understand your partner&rsquo;s emotions makes your bond deeper and more genuine.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Healthy habits prevent conflicts.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Knowing what triggers misunderstandings&mdash;and how to manage them&mdash;creates a peaceful, respectful relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Confidence grows from understanding.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> When you know how to approach love thoughtfully, you feel more secure and capable as a partner.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Connection goes beyond romance.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Genuine care shows up in teamwork, empathy, and consistency, not just affection.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>New relationship advice helps set the right tone.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Early awareness about respect, boundaries, and effort lays the foundation for a lasting, healthy partnership.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Love-with-intention\"><\/span><b>Love with intention<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationships don&rsquo;t thrive by chance&mdash;they grow through small, intentional efforts every day. Being mindful, honest, and kind may sound simple, but these are the real game-changers in lasting love.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you&rsquo;re building something new or nurturing a long-term bond, remember that relationship advice for men isn&rsquo;t about fixing yourself&mdash;it&rsquo;s about showing up with empathy, patience, and genuine care. When love is guided by understanding rather than ego, it doesn&rsquo;t just survive; it evolves beautifully with time.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jake sighed, staring at his phone, wondering if sending that last text was a mistake. He cared deeply, but somehow, every conversation with his partner seemed to turn into a misunderstanding. It&rsquo;s not that he didn&rsquo;t try&mdash;he just wished love came with a manual. The truth is, even the most genuine men can struggle to express affection, listen well, or know when to step back&hellip; and that&rsquo;s okay!&nbsp; With the right mindset and a bit of thoughtful relationship advice for men, love doesn&rsquo;t have to feel so complicated; it can grow stronger, calmer, and more real every single day. 9 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1419,"featured_media":113554,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2498],"tags":[2586],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/808"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1419"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=808"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/808\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":113557,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/808\/revisions\/113557"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113554"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}