{"id":80509,"date":"2022-09-22T10:17:35","date_gmt":"2022-09-22T10:17:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=80509"},"modified":"2024-09-27T10:55:26","modified_gmt":"2024-09-27T10:55:26","slug":"psychological-effects-of-being-single-too-long","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/psychological-effects-of-being-single-too-long\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Psychological Effects of Being Single for Too Long"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-80513\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/New-Project-2022-09-22T154007.921.jpg\" alt=\"Woman sitting beside the beach \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Did you know that there are psychological effects of being single for too long? We bet you didn&rsquo;t. Being single for a long time affects you in more ways than one, and not all of them are positive.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This article will take a quick look at the negative effects of being single for a long time. Then again, we will also see if there are positive effects associated with singlehood.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who knows, maybe by the time you&rsquo;re done reading this article, you might be inspired to go out there and find the one for you so that you can <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/tips-to-maintain-commitment-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">commit to a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with them. But remember, no pressure!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-does-being-single-for-a-long-time-do-to-you\"><\/span><b>What does being single for a long time do to you?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/TLbyOPbZ0Zo?si=DpshjMNfEmcPhgtW\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is easy to admit that being in love changes you for the better. Your life can change when you meet and fall for someone who feels just the way you feel for them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, we haven&rsquo;t been told enough that there might also be negative effects of being too single for too long.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/24521029\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies reveal<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that fond memories of a loved one can help you get through negative moments without breaking down. What happens when the need arises and you cannot find fond memories?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because you have been single for years, in any case, there are many psychological effects of being single for too long. In a subsequent section of this article, we will cover these effects in detail.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Disadvantages-of-a-single-life\"><\/span><b>Disadvantages of a single-life&nbsp;<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being single for too long can be dangerous because it has many downsides. Many of these disadvantages are psychological, while others are physical. But it can also protect you from the negative impacts of relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, when you are single, you may not know how it feels to have someone who cares deeply for you in your space and is rooting for you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The next section of this article will examine the psychological effects of singlehood:<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/single-versus-relationship\/\" title=\"Being Single Versus Relationship: Which Is Better?\">Being Single Versus Relationship: Which Is Better?<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-psychological-effects-of-being-single-for-too-long\"><\/span><b>15 psychological effects of being single for too long<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are the top psychological effects of being single for too long. Heads up, now all of them are doom and gloom!&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-80510\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/New-Project-2022-09-22T154139.220.jpg\" alt=\"Mental health and counselling \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Your chances of being charitable may drop&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>According to a paper published by the<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hbs.edu\/ris\/Publication%20Files\/10-012_0350a55d-585b-419d-89e7-91833a612fb5.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Harvard Business Review<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a direct relationship exists between happiness and giving. People who are less self-serving tend to be happier and more satisfied and lead happier lives.<\/p><\/div>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the first psychological effects of being single for too long is that you may not fully comprehend the concept of stepping aside for someone else to have something.<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-is-the-definition-of-a-healthy-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Healthy relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are built on compromise, and the result of this is that couples tend to understand how to be charitable.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In summary, you may find yourself being a bit too self-focused when you are all you&rsquo;ve got.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Less empathy&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the first lessons you&rsquo;ll learn when you get into a relationship is how to decode what your partner isn&rsquo;t saying. You&rsquo;ll learn to look at them and understand their feelings every time. Although this can be stressful, doing this over time strengthens your powers of empathy.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, one of the psychological effects of being single for too long is that you may end up with less empathy since there&rsquo;s no one you&rsquo;re primarily focused on understanding and comforting.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-build-empathy-in-relationships\/\" title=\"How to Show Empathy in a Relationship: 15 Healthy Tips\">How to Show Empathy in a Relationship: 15 Healthy Tips<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>3. A lower sense of self-esteem<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Imagine being with someone who has made it their responsibility to tell you how much they love you and what you mean to them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although you may have a healthy sense of self-esteem, being on the receiving end of this attention can skyrocket your self-esteem, especially if you are exposed to this love for a long time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Surprisingly, this has also been proven by science. A recent survey examined the relationship between healthy self-esteem and a happy relationship. It was <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/0022146511419206?url_ver=Z39.88-2003&amp;rfr_id=ori%3Arid%3Acrossref.org&amp;rfr_dat=cr_pub%3Dpubmed&amp;\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">discovered<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/low-self-esteem-in-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lower self-esteem<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is one of the disadvantages of being single for too long.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This implies that there&rsquo;s a relationship between your mental health and the quality of your relationship. If you are in a happy and healthy relationship, there&rsquo;s every possibility that your mental health will be stronger than a single person&rsquo;s.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Self-sabotaging your relationships&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you noticed that breaking out of a pattern is difficult once you have fallen into it? This is also one of the psychological effects of being single for too long.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you finally get over yourself and decide to give relationships a trial, you may soon find yourself doubting everything, including your intentions and that of your partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If allowed to continue, you may begin to pull away from your partner because you feel you aren&rsquo;t worthy of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/the-true-meaning-of-being-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">being in that relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, which can cause the relationship to come crashing down.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In one way or another, being single for too long can affect your future relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. A better social life&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We mentioned that it wouldn&rsquo;t be all doom and gloom, right?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the positive psychological effects of never having a girlfriend or boyfriend is that it can help you attain a better social life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>As revealed by the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/record\/2010-11857-016\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">American Psychological Association<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, people who have been single too long tend to have better social lives.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For one, they can take off for a get-together at any time and spend much time hanging out with their friends. This makes them generally considered social butterflies (even if they are not).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-80512\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/New-Project-2022-09-22T154037.069.jpg\" alt=\"Handsome man sitting on chair \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Giving up the safety of solitude can be daunting&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in a relationship involves allowing someone into your space. It involves opening your heart and trusting that they won&rsquo;t dash the hopes you&rsquo;ve placed in them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While this is a valid fear, one of the psychological effects of being single for too long is that you may be afraid to give up the safety associated with solitude. For the longest time, you&rsquo;ve been okay by yourself.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the effects of never being in a relationship is that you&rsquo;ve not dealt with heartbreak. You have never had to think of anyone but yourself.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Right now, you suddenly have to give up all that safety for the unknown. This fear can keep you tethered to the spot you&rsquo;ve been used to &ndash; the spot of staying single.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. It is easier to continue with the not-so-good habits&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s say you were known for flirting when you were single. You took every opportunity to hit on any available person and maybe even enjoy the fun with it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, you are in a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/commitment-and-seeing-it-through\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">committed relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and without knowing it, those habits you should be letting go of have started creeping back into your life. This is one of the psychological effects of being single for too long.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may not know when it happened, but you tend to recycle the habits you had as a single person, both good and bad.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Adverse health issues&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>This might come as a shock, but <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5696487\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> has shown that 54% of people who stay single for a long time end up with health issues that later affect their love life.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The most common health issues associated with extended single good include suicidal thoughts, depression, anxiety, and mood disorders.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This implies that although being single for a long time may not affect your mind\/body right now, it can affect the quality of your life, as we have already hinted in an earlier section of this article.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. The will to fight for life may reduce&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>Science has made another shocking revelation. According to this <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eurekalert.org\/news-releases\/852882\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you have a 14% higher likelihood of surviving a heart attack if you are in a healthy relationship. Although it may look like nothing, this 14% can be the difference between living and dying from a heart attack.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This also extends to other areas of life as well. One of the negative psychological effects of being single for too long is that your willingness to fight for life (and for a good life) may be reduced. Because when you think of it, what&rsquo;s there to fight for anyway?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Focus on the actualization of goals&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the positive psychological effects of being single too long is that you can channel your energies into other things. Come to think about it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you don&rsquo;t have to worry about hurting another person, letting someone else into your life, or living your life to please another, you have enough space to focus on smashing your goals.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can improve your career prospects, get you into the big leagues, and set you miles ahead of your peers &ndash; if that is what&rsquo;s most important to you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-80511\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/New-Project-2022-09-22T154108.357.jpg\" alt=\"Young man at the beach \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. Strengthened independence<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Extended singlehood can foster a robust sense of independence. Without relying on a partner, you learn to make decisions autonomously, manage responsibilities, and cultivate a self-sufficient lifestyle. This is one of the signs you&rsquo;ve been single for too long.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. Heightened self-discovery<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;ve been single for a long time, it offers a unique opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being single for an extended period allows individuals to delve deeper into understanding their desires, values, and aspirations, fostering a stronger sense of self-awareness.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Expanded social connections<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Contrary to the perception of social isolation, long-term singles often develop diverse and meaningful social circles. Freed from relationship commitments, individuals can invest time in friendships, forging connections that contribute to a rich and fulfilling social life.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. Increased flexibility and spontaneity<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Single individuals often enjoy the freedom to explore new opportunities and experiences without consulting a partner. This flexibility can lead to spontaneous adventures, personal development, and a lifestyle characterized by adaptability and variety.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. Embracing solitude as a positive choice<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Choosing to be single for an extended period can empower individuals to view solitude not as a limitation but as a conscious and positive life choice. Embracing the psychology of being single allows for the construction of a fulfilling and contented life outside traditional relationship norms.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this video to learn more about how to transform yourself in solitude:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/GYkFvaYeRno?si=iX4POG8XqCWa2jvE\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span><b>FAQs<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Navigating the complexities of long-term singledom brings forth questions about its impact on mental and emotional well-being. Delve into these queries for insights into the potential effects of prolonged singlehood.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Is it unhealthy to be single for a long time?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prolonged singlehood isn&rsquo;t inherently unhealthy; however, social connections play a vital role in mental health. Long-term solitude may lead to feelings of loneliness, affecting emotional well-being. Maintaining a balance by nurturing social ties, friendships, and self-care is crucial for overall health.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Why are people who have been single for too long the hardest to love?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Individuals long accustomed to single life might exhibit independence and self-sufficiency that can be perceived as challenging in relationships. Breaking down emotional barriers and fostering connection may require patience and understanding, but love can still flourish with open communication and mutual effort.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Why is being single bad?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Labeling being single as inherently &ldquo;bad&rdquo; is subjective, as it largely depends on individual perspectives and circumstances.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While some may find fulfillment and independence in singlehood, others may face challenges like loneliness. Social expectations or societal norms can contribute to the perception that being single is undesirable.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, it&rsquo;s crucial to recognize that a person&rsquo;s well-being isn&rsquo;t solely determined by relationship status. Embracing single life can provide opportunities for self-discovery and personal growth.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ultimately, the perceived negativity of being single is often rooted in societal biases, and individuals can lead fulfilling lives regardless of their relationship status.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Takeaway\"><\/span><b>Takeaway<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you should be able to tell by now, there are many psychological effects of being single for too long. Some of them can be positive, while others are not as good.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a rational being, it is up to you to decide if you want to remain single for a long time or not. You have to make this decision after considering the nuances of your life and deciding what&rsquo;s most important to you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, ensure that if you choose to remain single, you&rsquo;re doing that because you want to &ndash; and not because you&rsquo;re afraid to commit because of a past negative experience with relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then again, if you have found it difficult to get over the past, consider getting professional help from a therapist.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you know that there are psychological effects of being single for too long? We bet you didn&rsquo;t. Being single for a long time affects you in more ways than one, and not all of them are positive.&nbsp; This article will take a quick look at the negative effects of being single for a long time. Then again, we will also see if there are positive effects associated with singlehood. Who knows, maybe by the time you&rsquo;re done reading this article, you might be inspired to go out there and find the one for you so that you can commit <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":80513,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2500],"tags":[2594],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80509"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=80509"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80509\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":104585,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80509\/revisions\/104585"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/80513"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=80509"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=80509"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=80509"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}