{"id":79581,"date":"2022-07-28T12:12:25","date_gmt":"2022-07-28T12:12:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=79581"},"modified":"2026-04-03T11:42:35","modified_gmt":"2026-04-03T11:42:35","slug":"lack-of-kissing-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/lack-of-kissing-in-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"What Does Lack of Kissing in a Relationship Mean &#038; Ways to Cope"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-79584\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/New-Project-2022-07-28T173919.016.jpg\" alt=\"Man kissing woman on forehead \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing is an ageless emotional act that has helped cement individuals&rsquo; bonds in their marriage or relationship. So what happens when you notice a lack of kissing in a relationship, and is it cause for concern?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>During<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.britishcouncil.org\/voices-magazine\/kiss-science-smooching\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kissing<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, your brain releases feel-good chemicals that create a buzz of excitement and affection. No doubt it is an intense romantic act.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Similarly, the rush of these chemicals, including oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin, fuels emotional bonding and provides the intimacy that couples require.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>LMFT, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/kimberly-vanburen\">Dr. Kimberly VanBuren<\/a> says<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Kissing serves as a powerful means of emotional connection and intimacy between partners. Therefore, when kissing becomes infrequent or absent, several potential outcomes and concerns may arise.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, a lack of kissing in a relationship could eventually strain the couple&rsquo;s bond.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Is-kissing-important-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><b>Is kissing important in a relationship?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/po_qHh8Hows?si=jjvvK5Kv9IPg1m3K\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing remains the bedrock of<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/stages-of-physical-intimacy-in-a-new-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">physical intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in many couples today. For many relationships, kissing expresses passion and romance that bonds couples together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, how important is kissing in a relationship?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>A kissing relationship evokes an exchange of emotions that may be difficult to express otherwise.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the paramount importance of kissing in a relationship is that it helps develop a special kind of<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/emotional-attachment\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional attachment<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotionally attached couples show significant levels of trust and can share secrets with their spouses without fear. Having a deep and intimate connection with your spouse helps to keep your relationship healthy and happy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You aren&rsquo;t the first to ask, is kissing important in a relationship? Sure it is! Kissing helps maintain the spark in an intimate relationship and sustains your spouse&rsquo;s<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/physical-attraction\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">physical attraction<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and desire.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing in a relationship does not only serve as a bonding agent that strengthens relationships but also keeps couples satisfied. A relationship kiss can also help to sort out issues between couples.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Disagreements and quarrels are regular occurrences in many relationships. However, managing these issues would determine how far the relationship will last.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A passionate kiss can help any relationship heading for the rocks. Kissing helps to boost the love in a relationship as it serves as a medium in which you show your partner how much you love and care for them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To read more about the importance of kissing<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/is-kissing-important\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">read this article.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/is-kissing-important\/\" title=\"What Is the Importance of Kissing in Relationships? 11 Reasons\">What Is the Importance of Kissing in Relationships? 11 Reasons<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"When-in-a-relationship-should-you-start-kissing\"><\/span><b>When in a relationship should you start kissing?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are different stages of kissing in a relationship, and the right time to start kissing in a relationship is still a highly debated subject for many. Simply put, a relationship has no specific time to start kissing. What matters is the connection and tension at the moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Life Coach and Marriage Therapist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/jaclyn-hunt\">Jaclyn Hunt<\/a> highlights,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Any type of physical connection is very unique to each couple. The question shouldn&rsquo;t be what the world thinks you should do rather what you two feel is right in your relationship.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><b>The first kiss can happen on the first date or the second or third, so long as both parties share the desire to have it.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> No manual answers the question, when should you start kissing in a relationship?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In some other cases, communication is key to deciding when to start kissing in the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, watch out for nonverbal cues that your partner is longing for a kiss from you. While no one can tell you exactly when to start kissing in a relationship, you should wait for a perfect romantic moment to lock lips.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/how-to-kiss-better\/\" title=\"How to Kiss Better &#8211; 25 Most Effective Tips to Try Out\">How to Kiss Better &#8211; 25 Most Effective Tips to Try Out<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-comes-after-kissing-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><b>What comes after kissing in a relationship?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For many individuals, the first kiss determines if they are ready to take the relationship a notch further.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Generally, after the first kiss, the expectation is that both parties become emotionally attached and committed to the beginning or maintaining an<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/intimacy\/intimate-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">intimate relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-79583\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/New-Project-2022-07-28T173943.391.jpg\" alt=\"Couple laying on the bed \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, you must note that some people may lose interest after having their first relationship kiss. So you might want to make the most of that opportunity as it may make or mar your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can-a-relationship-survive-without-kissing\"><\/span><b>Can a relationship survive without kissing?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Kissing is essential in a relationship; however<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a lack of kissing shouldn&rsquo;t lead to restless nights. People in<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/dos-and-donts-of-new-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">new relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or newlyweds tend to find kissing more thrilling, and they could go for minutes or even hours without parting lips.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, as the relationship lasts, kisses may become shorter and less frequent. While some relationships can survive in the short term without kissing, it is extremely hard in the long term.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sure, some relationships have lasted without it, but they are the exception and not the standard.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Life Coach <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/jaclyn-hunt\">Jaclyn Hunt<\/a> states that,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Kissing is more intimate than any other type of sexual touch because your minds connect in that moment. When kissing is difficult it often means you&rsquo;re not connecting on that level. Find ways to connect that lead to kissing in a natural way. Teamwork often leads to intimacy.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Humans are both social and physical beings. We have five senses; in most cases, kissing establishes a romantic and emotional connection with the spouse. Many people express love through kissing and may become emotionally empty without it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So can a relationship thrive without kissing? Well, the chances are very slim.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Reasons-why-couples-may-stop-kissing\"><\/span><b>Reasons why couples may stop kissing<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do couples stop kissing after a certain time period?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing at the start of many relationships is like a burning flame that sees couples frequently locking lips at every chance. However, <\/span><b>this electrifying moment of deep passionate kiss may fade as the relationship progresses.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This relationship stage is widespread, with couples in<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/keys-to-long-lasting-relationship-success\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">long-term relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for years. <\/span><b>The halt of kissing each other on the lips in many long-term relationships does not necessarily indicate a problem in the relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It might just be a normal phase experienced in most long-term relationships. One other reason couples may stop kissing could be lifestyle habits and health.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, a non-smoking or non-drinking individual may avoid kissing their partner if they detest the smell of alcohol or cigarettes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Similarly, bad breath and infectious diseases could halt kissing in a relationship. Lastly, a lack of kissing in many relationships could signify that the union may fall apart.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Couples are likely to stop any form of physical intimacy, including kissing, once communication is broken or shut down.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every aspect of a relationship is connected, and a problem in one part can automatically cause kissing issues in most relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"When-does-your-partner-stop-kissing-you\"><\/span><b>When does your partner stop kissing you?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might wonder why and what it means if your partner stops kissing you. There could be several reasons why they may have stopped kissing you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>It would be best if you considered the context of how they avoid kissing you and the body language displayed.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some reasons they may have stopped kissing include infidelity if they do not enjoy kissing, are preoccupied with work, or are expecting you to make the first move.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To make sense of the situation, you may have to consider how old the relationship is. <\/span><b>If your relationship is new, then it is possible they either want you to initiate kissing.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the relationship is older, <\/span><b>they are likely seeing someone else or experiencing some personal issues.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> It would help if you always looked for his body language signals to accurately judge when your partner is longing to lock lips with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Is-it-normal-not-to-kiss-much-in-a-long-term-relationship\"><\/span><b>Is it normal not to kiss much in a long-term relationship?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Different phases often characterize a long-term relationship. Reduced kissing in long-term relationships is more regular than what many people think.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>It is common for couples to continue to have at least cursory sex and not kiss deeply for years. While this situation might be prevalent in many relationships, it isn&rsquo;t a good sign for a<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/top-characteristics-of-a-healthy-relationship\/\"> <b>healthy relationship<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples need to be more expressive to improve the lack of kissing in their relationship. A partner who has lost interest in kissing due to their spouse&rsquo;s poor kissing style or oral hygiene should be more open to their partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is nothing wrong if you tell your partner how you want to be kissed. It would be best if you also told your partner about your concerns regarding their oral health so they can improve.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples who are still together but intimately disconnected should ask pertinent questions that could help save their union. Kissing is a love language; it could be heartbreaking when your partner refuses to kiss you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples need to remain physically intimate with each other to maintain a lasting long-term relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-does-a-lack-of-kissing-in-a-relationship-affect-you-in-the-long-run\"><\/span><b>How does a lack of kissing in a relationship affect you in the long run?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4487821\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is an integral aspect of<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that strengthens the bond couples share. A lack of kissing in a relationship might destroy a couple&rsquo;s bond, making it difficult to have a long-lasting relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;The physical and emotional bond that holds couples together has become nonexistent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Without kissing, the security of knowing that your partner loves you may start to wane.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> In the long term, couples may struggle to keep the relationship together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once physical intimacy, including kissing, is lost in a relationship, then the basis of the relationship becomes complicated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-79582\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/New-Project-2022-07-28T174008.674.jpg\" alt=\"Gay couple kissing each other \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The lack of kissing in a relationship in the long term may cause depression, loneliness, and anger issues between couples.<\/span><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"standard-markdown grid-cols-1 grid [&amp;_&gt;_*]:min-w-0 gap-3\">\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">If the lack of kissing in your relationship feels like a symptom of something deeper, you are probably right to trust that instinct. The <a class=\"underline underline underline-offset-2 decoration-1 decoration-current\/40 hover:decoration-current focus:decoration-current\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/marriage-courses\/save-my-marriage-course\">save my marriage course<\/a> can help you and your partner reconnect emotionally so that physical closeness like kissing can begin to feel natural again.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-best-ways-to-cope-with-a-lack-of-kissing-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><b>10 best ways to cope with a lack of kissing in a relationship<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can be disheartening when you notice a lack of kissing in your relationship, as it is an important form of physical and emotional intimacy for many couples. However, there are ways to cope with this situation and strengthen your connection in other ways.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are 10 simple and relatable ways to deal with a lack of kissing in your relationship<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Share your concerns<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communicating is the best way to deal with a lack of kissing in a relationship. Talk to your partner about your kissing intimacy issues and what you feel about them. Express how important it is to you and explore the reasons behind the change in your kissing habits.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Understand each other&rsquo;s love expression<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discover and understand how you and your partner experience and express love. Find alternative ways to express affection that align with your individual love languages.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Create quality time<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Set aside dedicated time to spend together without distractions. Engage in activities that bring you closer and foster emotional connection, such as having meaningful conversations or doing shared hobbies.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Explore non-sexual touch<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical touch goes beyond kissing. Find comfort in cuddling, hugging, or holding hands, as these actions can still foster a sense of closeness and intimacy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Express appreciation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show gratitude and appreciation for your partner through words and gestures. Acknowledge their efforts and let them know that you value and cherish them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch public figure and <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">businesswoman <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gemma Godfrey talk about the &lsquo;How to kiss&rsquo; in this TEDx video:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/J7ABM4WNybI?si=6bQBh-sJYO1p-Vkn\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Rediscover romance<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why is kissing important in the first place? It makes you experience romance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plan romantic dates or surprises to reignite the spark in your relationship. Create special moments that allow you both to feel desired and loved.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Focus on emotional connection<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Strengthen your emotional bond by sharing experiences, supporting each other&rsquo;s dreams, and actively listening to one another. Deepening your emotional connection can help compensate for the lack of physical intimacy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Seek professional help<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the lack of kissing persists and causes significant distress in the relationship, consider seeking the assistance of a relationship counselor or therapist who can provide guidance and support.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Life Coach <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/jaclyn-hunt\">Jaclyn Hunt<\/a> vouches for this when she states that, &ldquo;There is nothing wrong with speaking to a therapist or other comparable professional when you perceive issues in your relationship. A third party can help the two of you come to solutions that have been difficult to see on your own.&rdquo;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">If you&rsquo;re not sure whether therapy is the right step yet, or if you&rsquo;d like to start with something you can do together at home, the <a class=\"underline underline underline-offset-2 decoration-1 decoration-current\/40 hover:decoration-current focus:decoration-current\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/marriage-courses\/save-my-marriage-course\">save my marriage online course<\/a> offers a guided way to rebuild the emotional connection that often brings physical intimacy back with it.<\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Be mindful of stress and lifestyle factors<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">External factors like stress, work obligations, or health concerns can impact physical intimacy. Explore ways to manage stress together and create a supportive environment for each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Be patient and understanding<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that relationships go through different phases, and it&rsquo;s normal for the intensity of physical intimacy to change over time. Practice patience, understanding, and compassion as you work together to navigate this period of adjustment.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span><b>FAQs<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing is an important aspect of physical and emotional intimacy in relationships. However, different couples may have varying preferences and comfort levels when it comes to kissing.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are short and relatable answers to some common questions about kissing in relationships<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What are the benefits of kissing?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing not only feels great but also has numerous benefits. It promotes bonding, releases feel-good hormones, boosts mood, and can improve overall relationship satisfaction. It&rsquo;s a form of connection that brings couples closer and helps maintain intimacy.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How often should couples kiss?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&rsquo;s no set rule for how often couples should kiss. It varies from couple to couple and depends on individual preferences. It&rsquo;s important to find a balance that works for both partners, whether it&rsquo;s a quick peck every day or passionate kisses more infrequently.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What if my partner doesn&rsquo;t like to kiss?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner doesn&rsquo;t enjoy kissing, it&rsquo;s crucial to have open communication. Explore the reasons behind their preference and find alternative ways to express affection. Non-sexual touch, cuddling, or finding other shared activities can still help maintain intimacy and emotional connection.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Is it possible to have a happy relationship without kissing?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While kissing is a common expression of love and affection, it&rsquo;s possible to have a happy relationship without extensive kissing.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s essential to understand and honor your partner&rsquo;s preferences and find alternative ways to communicate and show love, like verbal affirmations, acts of service, or quality time spent together. Every relationship is unique, and what matters most is the emotional connection between partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Reconnecting-the-connection\"><\/span><b>Reconnecting the connection<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/full\/10.1080\/14681994.2020.1717460\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a vital part of any intimate relationship. Kisses are usually frequent and electrifying at the early stage of most relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most couples could kiss for hours at the onset of their relationship as the excitement level is pretty high.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, the kisses become less frequent as the relationship spirals into a new phase, and couples may begin to deal with personal issues that affect their intimacy. Your partner may become very used to how you kiss and may start to feel less thrilled about kissing.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While this may be normal in many relationships, it may be worrying when your partner becomes uninterested in any form of intimacy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The lack of kissing in a relationship may significantly impact a couple&rsquo;s bond and ultimately weaken their union. Bringing back your kissing game would help fan the flames of desire in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples experiencing kissing issues in their relationship due to a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/3-reasons-why-a-lack-of-communication-in-marriage-can-be-detrimental\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can seek counseling to find support.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kissing is an ageless emotional act that has helped cement individuals&rsquo; bonds in their marriage or relationship. So what happens when you notice a lack of kissing in a relationship, and is it cause for concern? Similarly, the rush of these chemicals, including oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin, fuels emotional bonding and provides the intimacy that couples require. LMFT, Dr. Kimberly VanBuren says Kissing serves as a powerful means of emotional connection and intimacy between partners. Therefore, when kissing becomes infrequent or absent, several potential outcomes and concerns may arise. Sometimes, a lack of kissing in a relationship could eventually strain <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":630,"featured_media":79584,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[31],"tags":[2521],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79581"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/630"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=79581"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79581\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":119394,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79581\/revisions\/119394"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79584"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=79581"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=79581"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=79581"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}