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These days, people are usually more open to accepting their uniqueness. Acceptance helps the relationships that you maintain with people around you. <\/span><\/p>\n

When it comes to relationship orientations, one of the concepts you should know about is cupioromantic relationships. In this article, you will learn what Cupioromantic means and some signs that someone has this relationship orientation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also Try : <\/i><\/b>Romantic Orientation Quiz<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n
<\/span>What does cupioromantic mean?<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
When it comes to being cupioromantic, it refers to <\/span>an individual who craves some aspects of a <\/b>romantic relationship<\/b><\/a> but experiences little or no <\/b>romantic attraction<\/b><\/a>. Also, most are unwilling to commit to a romantic partner because it sounds burdensome.<\/span><\/p>\n
People rarely have crushes or get <\/span>infatuated with someone<\/span><\/a> when they are waving the cupioromantic flags. It is also very difficult for them to <\/span>fall in love<\/span><\/a> with just anyone. <\/span><\/p>\n
However, there are a few that refer to experiencing a cupioromantic flux because they admit to feeling this way only sometimes. <\/span>
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To understand more about cupioromantic orientation which is categorized under aromantic orientation, you need to know what makes it different from a romantic orientation. Ana Carvalho and David Rodrigues’ <\/span>research<\/span><\/a> titled ‘Sexuality, <\/span>Sexual Behavior<\/span><\/a> and Relationships of Asexual Individuals’ provides the needed clarity. <\/span><\/p>\n
<\/span>10 signs of being cupioromantic<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n
Knowing how you respond to the concept of romance determines how you might fare in a relationship when you get into one. A cupioromantic is an aromantic who craves romantic attraction amongst some perks in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n
Here are some of the signs that you might be a cupioromantic:<\/span><\/p>\n
1. You crave relationship perks but don’t want the attention<\/b><\/h3>\n
One of the ways to know if you are a cupioromantic is that you look forward to benefiting from <\/span>being in a relationship<\/span><\/a>, but you don’t want the attention in place.<\/span><\/p>\n
According to Coach <\/span>Christiana Njoku<\/span><\/a>, <\/span><\/p>\n
The fear of rejection makes connection a challenge, for the cupioromantic heart beats with cautious reserve.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
This means that you probably want the romantic aspects of a relationship like commitment, passion, intimacy, etc. <\/span>However, you don’t want to share those romantic feelings with another person. If this resonates with you, it means that you might be a cupioromantic.<\/span><\/p>\n
2. You don’t have crushes on people<\/b><\/h3>\n
Have you noticed that when some of your friends have crushes on people, you are often the odd one out? It might mean that you are cupioromantic. <\/span><\/p>\n
When it comes to the signs of being cupioromantic, you will notice that you don’t crush on people as others do.<\/span><\/p>\n
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You will begin to wonder what makes the person special, but you might face difficulty answering such questions. This does not understate the fact that you will still appreciate them for who they are.<\/span><\/p>\n
However, romantic feelings will be absent in these cases. If those feelings creep in mistakenly, they won’t usually last for a long time because it is not something you are used to or open to.<\/span><\/p>\n
3. You are open to dating, but you try to bury the idea<\/b><\/h3>\n
Another cupioromantic test is that you may appreciate the <\/span>idea of dating<\/span><\/a>, but it irritates you when it begins to actually materialize before you. If you force yourself to consider the prospects of <\/span>dating someone<\/span><\/a>, it may not take long before the idea begins to irritate you.<\/span><\/p>\n
Hence, if you are cupioromantic, you will likely abandon the idea of dating another person. If someone comes in after this, the cycle will likely repeat itself because even though dating may excite you, it is not something you want to go ahead with.<\/span><\/p>\n
4. You ghost potential romantic partners<\/b><\/h3>\n
When it comes to the cupioromantic meaning, one of the ways to know that you are one is when you avoid prospective romantic partners. The moment you notice that they are becoming close, you begin to avoid them. <\/span><\/p>\n
You may avoid taking their calls or replying to their texts because you want them to get discouraged. <\/span><\/p>\n
Additionally, you want to avoid <\/span>falling in love<\/span><\/a>, so ghosting them is the best option. The thought of having someone after you puts you off. So, you prefer to end things before they get started.<\/span><\/p>\n
Christiana Njoku<\/span><\/a> says,<\/span><\/p>\n
To avoid heartache, reassess your expectations, for cupioromantic don’t easily surrender to love’s tender trap.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
5. You avoid dates and hangouts<\/b><\/h3>\n
If you have ever asked what is cupioromantic, one of the ways to know its true definition is to check out the signs.<\/span><\/p>\n
Licensed professional counselor, <\/span>Christiana Njoku<\/span><\/a> stated, <\/span><\/p>\n
Cupioromantic<\/span> flee from fluttering hearts and romantic whispers, seeking refuge in emotional distance and independence.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Most times, as a cupioromantic, you may prefer to avoid dates and hangouts because of the possibility of seeing someone that might get romantically involved with you.<\/span><\/p>\n
In addition, if you ever want to go for a hangout or date, you prefer it with your single friends because the chances of meeting someone new reduces.<\/span><\/p>\n
Similarly, if someone asks you out on a date, you will likely turn it down because you don’t want to develop feelings for them. Also, you don’t want them to develop feelings for you. <\/span><\/p>\n
Also Try : <\/i><\/b>Is It a Date or Hanging Out?<\/span><\/i><\/a> <\/span><\/i><\/pre>\n
6. People accuse you of leading them on<\/b><\/h3>\n
Do people often accuse you of leading them on or giving them false hopes? If you’ve experienced this before, you are likely cupioromantic. <\/span><\/p>\n
Some people might approach you with the intent of being romantically involved with you. <\/span>However, you might not be aware of this because all you want are platonic friendships. <\/span><\/p>\n
Consequently, when they bring up the idea of dating, you may begin to distance yourself from them because you are not open to the idea yet.<\/span><\/p>\n
Watch this video to see the signs someone is leading you on: <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n