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\"Happy<\/p>\n

Relationships aren’t always rosy, and most times, they are a mix of good and bad. Fatal attraction signs aren’t only prevalent in turbulent relationships but can also be found in healthy ones.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>However, fatal attractions aren’t always dangerous and can be handled if the couple gets the right help. This article seeks to define fatal attraction and help you handle a relationship that falls under this.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>So, let’s jump into the fatal attraction definition.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>What is a fatal attraction in relationships?<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

If you have ever asked, “what is a fatal attraction in relationships?” Then you aren’t alone.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>A fatal attraction in relationships is when a person dislikes the attributes they once adored in their partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Fatal attraction can be likened to “<\/span>a moth to a flame<\/span><\/a>.” People attracted to specific characteristics in their partner might later come to dislike them.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Fatal in this context doesn’t mean “lethal.” It isn’t always dangerous and doesn’t always signify that the relationship is doomed to fail.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>For instance, you like that your partner is career-driven and might later dislike that your partner is a workaholic.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span> <\/span>Why do fatal attractions occur?<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Fatal attraction occurs for different reasons, and they include:<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>1. Human strengths and weaknesses are linked<\/b><\/p>\n

A person’s virtues and vices can be the same. You may be drawn to a trait in your partner you consider their strength, and later on, it might turn you off. A positive trait might become overwhelming and turn into something negative.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>2. Our needs can be contradictory<\/b><\/p>\n

Having opposing desires is normal and experienced by most people. It is possible to seek security and stability and, down the line, want diversity and adventure.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span> <\/span>5 warning signs of fatal attraction<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Fatal attraction in a relationship doesn’t always come with bright neon signs screaming these actions are unhealthy in a relationship. Fatal attractions can even be found in safe and healthy relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Knowing the fatal attraction signs can help you tackle and handle them in a relationship. Some warning signs of a fatal attraction include;<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>1. Obsessive traits<\/b><\/p>\n

It takes a while to get to know someone and discover attributes peculiar to them. So, it’s possible to meet someone for the first time, and they are normal, great even. But then, after a while, their obsessive traits might start rising to the surface, and you wonder how you missed it.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Relationship obsessive-compulsive disorder<\/span><\/a> focuses on close and <\/span>intimate relationships<\/span><\/a>. It entails unwanted thoughts or feelings towards a person or interfering with their lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

This behavior can be deemed innocent, even sweet at first, but slowly it might become debilitating and frustrating.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>They may become obsessed with you and even begin stalking you. They might not take no for an answer, which can be distressing for the person involved. It can also hurt the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Related Reading: <\/i><\/b>Obsessive Love Disorder 101 – All You Need to Know About This Problem<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n
If a person exhibits such fatal attraction signs, your relationship must be reconsidered.<\/b><\/p>\n
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2. Possessiveness<\/b><\/h3>\n
Possessiveness is simply the <\/span>fear of losing your partner<\/span><\/a>, and it might lead to feelings of fear and anger. This emotion arises from insecurity and might make a person disrespect or engage in abusive behavior towards their partner.  <\/span><\/p>\n
 <\/span>People who are possessive in a relationship might oppose their partner’s independence. Possessiveness cannot be defended on the ground of love. It is unhealthy and leads to extreme jealousy.<\/span><\/p>\n
 <\/span>Little things like laughing with someone, wearing a flattering outfit, or a long phone call can lead to irrational jealousy. Keeping things from your partner to prevent them from getting jealous can also lead to deception and affect the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n
So you’re in a lose-lose situation irrespective of what you do. Possessive traits include<\/span><\/p>\n