

{"id":78503,"date":"2022-06-20T15:08:41","date_gmt":"2022-06-20T15:08:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=78503"},"modified":"2024-01-30T15:46:23","modified_gmt":"2024-01-30T15:46:23","slug":"how-do-guys-feel-when-you-cut-them-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-do-guys-feel-when-you-cut-them-off\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do Guys Feel When You Cut Them Off?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-78506\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/New-Project-2022-06-20T202721.932.jpg\" alt=\"Beard man looking outside of the window \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel when you cut them off? It depends on the guy and where you were in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He may feel anything from indifference to amusement if you were just <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/why-do-people-flirt\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casually flirting<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. But if you were in a full-blown relationship, he&rsquo;s probably mourning the breakup in several different ways.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It has been said that emotions usually come in sets of threes. For example, if you&rsquo;re <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/marriage-preparation\/important-elements-of-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">getting married<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you&rsquo;re probably nervous, excited, and happy. And when someone tries to cut you off, you may feel relieved that it&rsquo;s over, regretful of your past actions, and curious about what your ex is doing now.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Please keep reading to see the complete list of how a guy feels after you cut him out of your life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-do-you-know-when-to-cut-a-guy-off\"><\/span><b>How do you know when to cut a guy off?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cutting off a relationship isn&rsquo;t easy. You&rsquo;re having fun flirting with your crush, and you get a rush whenever he texts you. But inside, you know something isn&rsquo;t right.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t ignore that gut feeling that suggests you should be cutting off contact with a guy.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"flex-1 overflow-hidden\">\n<div class=\"react-scroll-to-bottom--css-cfvad-79elbk h-full\">\n<div class=\"react-scroll-to-bottom--css-cfvad-1n7m0yu\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col pb-9 text-sm\">\n<div class=\"w-full text-token-text-primary\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-49\">\n<div class=\"px-4 py-2 justify-center text-base md:gap-6 m-auto\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-1 text-base mx-auto gap-3 md:px-5 lg:px-1 xl:px-5 md:max-w-3xl lg:max-w-[40rem] xl:max-w-[48rem] group final-completion\">\n<div class=\"relative flex w-full flex-col lg:w-[calc(100%-115px)] agent-turn\">\n<div class=\"flex-col gap-1 md:gap-3\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-grow flex-col max-w-full\">\n<div class=\"min-h-[20px] text-message flex flex-col items-start gap-3 whitespace-pre-wrap break-words [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-5 overflow-x-auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"c492a03d-6f3d-46e5-9487-c2c1be543d61\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose w-full break-words dark:prose-invert light\">\n<p>Psychologist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/mert-eker\">Mert &#350;eker<\/a> suggests,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Understanding why a man interrupts in conversation requires analyzing his internal states and personal traits. Factors like self-confidence, social skills, emotional state, and personal experiences play a role. Men&rsquo;s interruption tendencies are influenced by psychological aspects such as self-esteem, comfort in social interactions, and communication strategies.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, internal motivations, emotional reactions, and social expectations are key in shaping these behaviors. A psychological perspective focuses on understanding these mental and emotional processes for a comprehensive evaluation of communicative behavior.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are a few glaring signs that he isn&rsquo;t worth your time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. He never takes the initiative<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&rsquo;re always the one who texts him and reaches out to do things. You are doing all of the chasing.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. He has a girlfriend&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the biggest signs you should be cutting a guy off is if he already has a girlfriend. You deserve to be more than a girl on the side, and you shouldn&rsquo;t disrespect another woman by trying to cause trouble in her relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. You are just one of many&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you ever get the feeling you&rsquo;re not the only one he&rsquo;s texting &ldquo;Good morning, beautiful!&rdquo; to? If you&rsquo;re just one of many girls he&rsquo;s testing the waters with, it&rsquo;s time for you to go.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. You&rsquo;ve caught him in lies&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He tells you he is hanging out at home all night, but his social media shows him out partying. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/321395448_The_Effect_of_Telling_Lies_on_Belief_in_the_Truth\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lies are a no-no<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when it comes to building a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-is-the-definition-of-a-healthy-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">healthy relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. He doesn&rsquo;t prioritize you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He&rsquo;s flattered by your flirting and loves when you compliment him, but he never goes out of his way for you. He&rsquo;s keeping you on call, and you deserve more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cutting off a guy who won&rsquo;t commit is as simple as not <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/understanding-the-dynamics-of-texting-in-a-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">texting so much<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, cutting off in-person contact, and finding someone else to spend your time with.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-78505\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/New-Project-2022-06-20T202747.280.jpg\" alt=\"Bored man drawing muscles on wall \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-do-guys-feel-when-you-cut-them-off\"><\/span><b>How do guys feel when you cut them off?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel when you cut them off? Here are some points that will help you understand that.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. He doesn&rsquo;t understand why<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel when you cut them off? Confused.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you were in a relationship or just casually talking, he may have been under the impression that everything was going well, and he can&rsquo;t figure out why you decided to cut him out of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&rsquo;re under no obligation to tell him what went wrong, but if he asks, it would be kind to let him know how he can be a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-be-a-better-boyfriend\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">better boyfriend<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in the future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel about the girl that got away? No doubt he&rsquo;s regretting whatever he did to turn you off from pursuing a relationship with him.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. He feels insecure<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel when you cut them off? He probably felt <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/8-signs-you-are-insecure-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">very insecure<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">if you had a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/have-a-romantic-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romantic relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone tries to cut you off after you were led to believe they would always be there for you, it can make you question every little thing about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He may start feeling insecure about his physical appearance, how interesting he is, or how much money he makes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This rejection may continue to haunt him in future relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cutting a guy off when you aren&rsquo;t getting what you need from a relationship is never wrong. If you genuinely care about this person, there is no need to be cruel when cutting them off, but you need to do what is best for you and your happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Watch this informational video about insecurities.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/NkXqfUSQbGo\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. He didn&rsquo;t care<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you ever feel that &ldquo;I cut him off, and he didn&rsquo;t care&rdquo;?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some guys care, which should show you that you made the right call to cut off a guy who won&rsquo;t commit.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He was flirting with you as a way to pass the time. He may have been looking to get into bed with you but didn&rsquo;t feel anything more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you stop coming around, he may be disappointed that he couldn&rsquo;t get what he wanted from you, but he&rsquo;s moving right on to the next girl.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel about the girl that got away? Well, he may not regret it, but one day he might look back and realize that he could have had something special with you &ndash; and he blew it.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Also Try: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/does-my-husband-care-about-me-quiz\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does My Husband Care About Me Quiz<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>4. His ego is bruised<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wanna know how to cut off a guy who is playing games? Stop feeding his ego.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That ego is precisely what is going to be bruised once you stop coming around to give him compliments and be his cheerleader.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone tries to cut you off, it&rsquo;s only natural to wonder:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Did I do something wrong?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Why don&rsquo;t they like me anymore?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Did they find someone better than me?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are natural reactions to rejection, and he&rsquo;ll probably spend a lot of time wondering what went wrong. But don&rsquo;t worry, feel too guilty about it. Introspection is great for growth. Next time, maybe he&rsquo;ll treat his crush better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel when you cut them off? Their ego took a hit, but they&rsquo;ll get over it (probably.)<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ego-in-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">10 Signs of Ego in Relationship and What to Do<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>5. He&rsquo;s annoyed about it<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel when you cut them off? He may be feeling pretty annoyed with you. After all, he had a great thing going. He didn&rsquo;t commit to you, yet he still received your flattery and attention.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes the way you reject someone can make it hurt even worse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies find that<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5554531\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> apologizing during a social rejection<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> causes more hurt feelings than if you hadn&rsquo;t apologized. The research suggests that an apology makes the one being rejected more likely to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/forgiveness\/types-of-forgiveness\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">express forgiveness<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> without actually feeling forgiveness, which leads to feelings of anger.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. He&rsquo;s wondering if you found someone else<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone tries to cut you off, it&rsquo;s only natural to wonder if they&rsquo;ve headed to greener pastures. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cutting a guy off out of the blue will have him asking around to find out if you are seeing someone new.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The idea of you being interested in someone else may stir up a competitive spirit and have your ex-crush eager to get back in your inbox.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/when-he-chooses-someone-else-over-you\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">15 Things to Do When He Chooses Someone Else Over You<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-78504\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/New-Project-2022-06-20T202809.540.jpg\" alt=\"Man sarcasm positive \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. He thinks it&rsquo;s funny<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel when you cut them off? Some guys think it&rsquo;s funny.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He may not have been all that into you and finds it funny that you&rsquo;ve ghosted him and want to find someone new. Or he may make jokes about it to his friends to hide his bruised ego.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Either way, this immature reaction shows that this wasn&rsquo;t the guy for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"flex-1 overflow-hidden\">\n<div class=\"react-scroll-to-bottom--css-cfvad-79elbk h-full\">\n<div class=\"react-scroll-to-bottom--css-cfvad-1n7m0yu\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col pb-9 text-sm\">\n<div class=\"w-full text-token-text-primary\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-51\">\n<div class=\"px-4 py-2 justify-center text-base md:gap-6 m-auto\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-1 text-base mx-auto gap-3 md:px-5 lg:px-1 xl:px-5 md:max-w-3xl lg:max-w-[40rem] xl:max-w-[48rem] group final-completion\">\n<div class=\"relative flex w-full flex-col lg:w-[calc(100%-115px)] agent-turn\">\n<div class=\"flex-col gap-1 md:gap-3\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-grow flex-col max-w-full\">\n<div class=\"min-h-[20px] text-message flex flex-col items-start gap-3 whitespace-pre-wrap break-words [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-5 overflow-x-auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"dd922772-03b7-430f-9f90-9ecd9f963989\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose w-full break-words dark:prose-invert light\">\n<p>Psychologist &#350;eker notes,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Men using humor after a breakup may be a defense mechanism to avoid emotional pain, as per attachment theory. Humor serves as a coping strategy to alleviate emotional distress, reduce stress, and enhance personal control. However, this can lead to suppressed real feelings. It&rsquo;s important for individuals to understand and express their emotions and seek support, such as therapy, to improve emotional health and develop healthy coping mechanisms.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3><b>8. He&rsquo;s motivated to get you back<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does cutting a guy off make him want you more?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He may act casual when you first end things, but the more time he spends without you, the more he realizes he misses you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now that you&rsquo;ve told him you&rsquo;re not interested, you may notice he likes having something to chase again. He&rsquo;ll be blowing up your phone in no time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are learning how to cut off a guy who is playing games, don&rsquo;t be a game player in return. If you cut him off because he wasn&rsquo;t good for you, stick with your decision.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. His feelings are hurt<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cutting off a guy who won&rsquo;t commit is the right decision for you, but that doesn&rsquo;t mean his feelings won&rsquo;t hurt when you leave.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#350;eker suggests,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Men&rsquo;s emotional hurt from being interrupted in a relationship is often due to power imbalances, lack of emotional attachment, and respect. This hurt stems from unmet emotional needs and feeling misunderstood, linked to attachment theory&rsquo;s concept of secure attachment.<\/p>\n<p>Such interruptions can also impact self-esteem. Overcoming this involves developing emotional awareness, enhancing empathic communication, and clearly expressing emotional needs. Utilizing therapy, improving communication skills, and fostering mutual understanding are effective steps to mitigate emotional hurt.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It hurts when someone tries to cut you off, especially if you genuinely care about that person. If you were in a relationship with the guy you cut off, he&rsquo;s probably wallowing in his heartbreak.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the outside, it may seem like he has moved on. He may be trying to numb his pain by quickly jumping into a new relationship or going out partying with his friends. Still, inside he&rsquo;s kicking himself for not appreciating what he had when you were together.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/how-to-deal-with-heart-breaks\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Deal With Heartbreak: 15 Ways to Move On<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>10. He&rsquo;s ready to move on<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel about the girl that got away? Sometimes they&rsquo;re completely fine with it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you were in a relationship with your ex, he might have been just as ready to move on as you were &ndash; he just hadn&rsquo;t worked up the nerve to end things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The same goes for if you were casually dating. Flirting and the occasional date may have been fun, but if you were learning how to cut off a guy who is playing games, it was a sign that your guy wasn&rsquo;t serious about your relationship, and you made the right call to move on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now you can both leave and find someone better suited to your personality.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/how-to-deal-with-heart-breaks\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Deal With Heartbreak: 15 Ways to Move On<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Takeaway\"><\/span><b>Takeaway<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do guys feel when you cut them off?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They experience a wide range of emotions. He may think it&rsquo;s funny, his feelings may be hurt, or he may be more interested in you than ever.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if he wasn&rsquo;t genuinely interested, it can be offensive and bruise your ego when someone tries to cut you off.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Learn how to cut a guy off by ceasing contact with him on social media and via text messages. If you see them in person, be polite but not flirtatious. Remember, you&rsquo;re not playing a game and trying to get them interested again. You are moving on.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How do guys feel when you cut them off? It depends on the guy and where you were in your relationship. He may feel anything from indifference to amusement if you were just casually flirting. But if you were in a full-blown relationship, he&rsquo;s probably mourning the breakup in several different ways. It has been said that emotions usually come in sets of threes. For example, if you&rsquo;re getting married, you&rsquo;re probably nervous, excited, and happy. And when someone tries to cut you off, you may feel relieved that it&rsquo;s over, regretful of your past actions, and curious about what <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":630,"featured_media":78506,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2498],"tags":[2579],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78503"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/630"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=78503"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78503\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":94866,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78503\/revisions\/94866"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78506"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=78503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=78503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=78503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}