

{"id":78373,"date":"2022-06-14T12:00:16","date_gmt":"2022-06-14T12:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=78373"},"modified":"2024-06-03T07:09:56","modified_gmt":"2024-06-03T07:09:56","slug":"why-do-breakups-hit-guys-later","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/why-do-breakups-hit-guys-later\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Do Breakups Hit Guys Later? 10 Surprising Reasons"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-78377\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/New-Project-2022-06-14T164843.331.jpg\" alt=\"Tensed man looking at laptop\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We&rsquo;ve all had an ex or a guy friend who seems nonchalant and fine right after a breakup but is a complete mess after a few weeks. We may see men being perfectly okay after a breakup in TV shows and movies, and sometimes in real life as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But why is that? Why do breakups hit guys later? And is this even true?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>While the stereotype is that a breakup hits men a lot later, emerging<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2021\/11\/03\/men-more-heartbroken-than-women-during-a-breakup-study\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> conducted with 184,000 participants found that men seem to be more affected by the loss of a relationship than the stereotype gives them credit for.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this is the case, then why is there a time discrepancy? In this article, let&rsquo;s look at some of the reasons why it might take men a lot longer to actually acknowledge the<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/tips-on-how-to-end-a-dead-end-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">end of a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and how they try to get over it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why-do-breakups-appear-to-affect-guys-later\"><\/span><b>Why do breakups appear to affect guys later?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QTE_hL0Amss?si=8JfB2UIdzwt1T4LX\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no clear-cut answer to this. To put it briefly, it depends.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It depends on<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/handles-a-breakup\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how men deal with breakups<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in different scenarios and how open they are with the people around them. People often wonder when breakups hit guys, but you might&rsquo;ve noticed that men react differently when it comes to different partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With some partners, it takes a lot longer to sink in, but in other, shorter relationships, they bounce back fast.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, it can be hard to estimate what the stages of breakup for guys look like, but it is commonly acknowledged that there is a gender difference in how people act on their feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Do-guys-feel-bad-after-a-breakup\"><\/span><b>Do guys feel bad after a breakup?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he is someone who was invested in the relationship and cared deeply about seeing it through, it&rsquo;s not surprising that he might be feeling very upset after a breakup. Even though sometimes they might not show it, men do experience negative emotions.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is in line with the question, &ldquo;Why do breakups hit guys later?&rdquo; Feeling bad about a breakup or taking a lot of time to process emotions could be a reason why men seem like they don&rsquo;t feel upset. Below we list more reasons that might be playing a role.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-do-men-get-a-breakup\/\" title=\"How Do Men Get Over a Breakup?\">How Do Men Get Over a Breakup?<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why-can-breakups-hit-guys-later-10-surprising-reasons\"><\/span><b>Why can breakups hit guys later? 10 surprising reasons<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Taking all the variables and different situations into account, here are five common reasons for how guys feel after they break up with their girlfriends and how this can answer the question, &ldquo;Do guys take longer to get over a relationship?&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Men might suppress their feelings more<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From a young age, boys are told not to cry or show any emotions. They grow up learning that to cry is to be weak, and to feel hurt or to express it means they are somehow not &ldquo;man&rdquo; enough. Due to this, men tend to suppress their emotions a lot more than women do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might be wondering whether guys hurt after dumping you. The answer is yes, but they might not show it openly due to the stigma surrounding the expression of pain or sadness. Due to this suppression, men don&rsquo;t express how they feel about a breakup, instead, they bottle it up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sbtreatment.com\/blog\/men-and-emotions-the-importance-of-becoming-vulnerable\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> find that over 30% of men experience depression, but less than 9% actually report it. This means that most men don&rsquo;t even mention their feelings to other people or get the help they need.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When people suppress their feelings, they may try to distract themselves or pretend that they&rsquo;re happy and everything is going absolutely fine when that&rsquo;s not the case at all. This is one of the reasons why it might seem like they&rsquo;re not hurt at all when in fact, they&rsquo;re just hiding it.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/emotional-repression\/\" title=\"11 Subtle Signs of Repressed Emotions &#038; Ways to Cope\">11 Subtle Signs of Repressed Emotions &#038; Ways to Cope<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>2. Men might imitate toxic male models<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A lot of the time, people wonder, &ldquo;Does he feel bad for breaking my heart?&rdquo; or &ldquo;Why do men act like they don&rsquo;t care after a breakup?&rdquo; A reason for these thoughts could be that right after a breakup, we might see men drinking out with their friends or acting nonchalantly.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While both men and women hurt equally,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC6544239\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">women report their feelings more than men<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, so it may seem like men don&rsquo;t care even if they do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-78376\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/New-Project-2022-06-14T164910.237.jpg\" alt=\"Sad man talking on phone\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In reality, men are simply trying to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/repository.arizona.edu\/bitstream\/handle\/10150\/634300\/azu_etd_17308_sip1_m.pdf?sequence=1\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">imitate the toxic male models<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> they see on TV or in movies, where after a breakup, men are presented as drinking or partying their problems away.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because people tend to get a lot of their social cues from media, guys may think this is an appropriate response.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These toxic ways of coping with a breakup are not sustainable. So hurts more after a breakup?<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Men might try to deal with breakups independently<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may often notice that some men are very hesitant about asking for help. Whether it&rsquo;s asking a store clerk about where the shampoo bottles are or asking for help to deal with something personal.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Breakups are the same way; men may hesitate to communicate and ask for help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>This <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/10822409_Men_Masculinity_and_the_Contexts_of_Help_Seeking\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> discusses how often men are so adamant about not getting help or sympathy that they take longer to get over a relationship.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Women may talk to their friends and family, cry over it, and ask for help way more than guys do, which is a very healthy way to cope with depression or<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-cope-with-a-breakup\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anxiety over a breakup<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Men might expect their ex to change their mind<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;re wondering, &ldquo;Do guys hurt after a breakup?&rdquo; The answer is yes. But if you&rsquo;re waiting for him to approach you about it to talk, you&rsquo;re waiting on a lost cause.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often men don&rsquo;t even let it sink in that a relationship is over; they keep waiting for the girl to come back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can be the case when they dump a girl instead of the other way around. Sometimes they think that because of this, they have the upper hand and are overconfident about their role in the relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Overconfidence might make some men remain in denial and refuse to accept that their ex is not coming back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This living in denial significantly affects their ability to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-accept-and-move-on-from-a-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">move on from the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. So when does a breakup hit a guy? Usually, a man realizes that it&rsquo;s over for real once their ex has moved on.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After this, heartbreak for a man feels unbearable, and he tries to cope with it in unhealthy ways.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/over-a-breakup\/\" title=\"How to Get Over a Breakup: 25 Ways to Move On\">How to Get Over a Breakup: 25 Ways to Move On<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>5. Men might deny it first and reflect later<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men may sometimes blame others more and not fully accept their own shortcomings.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/speakoutloud.net\/intimate-partner-abuse\/denial-minimising-blaming\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have found that men tend to deny their mistakes, minimize their faults, and blame their partners for the breakups. This leads to them spending the first few weeks of a breakup angry at their partner.<\/p><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-he-is-heartbroken-over-you\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does heartbreak feel like for a man<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Pretty much similar to what a woman feels. But does he take responsibility for the end of a relationship and causing that heartbreak? Not really.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people might waste their precious mental energy on blaming their ex when focusing on their own feelings would be more productive.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After a while, they might start reflecting on their behavior, which is why they can act like they don&rsquo;t care after a breakup in the beginning and then start to feel remorse.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Impact of social image<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Concerns about how the breakup may affect their social image or reputation may lead men to suppress their emotions, contributing to delayed acknowledgment and processing of the end of the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-78374\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/New-Project-2022-06-14T165005.584.jpg\" alt=\"Young couple having an argument\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Career stress<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When guys go through a breakup, sometimes they throw themselves into work more than usual. It&rsquo;s like focusing a lot on their job helps them avoid thinking about the breakup pain. But this can delay their emotional healing because they&rsquo;re not dealing with the feelings, just keeping busy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Reluctance to seek help<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some guys find it hard to ask for help when they&rsquo;re going through a tough time. Maybe they think they should be strong or figure things out on their own. But reaching out for support, whether from friends, family, or professionals, can make a big difference in coping with a breakup.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Emotional processing differences<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men and women sometimes handle emotions differently. For guys, it might take longer to really understand and express what they&rsquo;re feeling after a breakup. They might need more time to sort through their emotions and make sense of everything that&rsquo;s happened.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Societal expectations<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Society often expects guys to be tough and not show too much emotion. This can make it hard for them to openly talk about their feelings after a breakup. They might feel pressure to act like everything&rsquo;s okay, even if they&rsquo;re hurting inside. This expectation can delay their healing process.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check out Dating Advice Expert Matthew Hussey and his take on whether men or women suffer more during breakups:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/6ccP60iHOUU?si=fVpivrBVVCm-m7-E\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Do-guys-move-on-faster-after-a-breakup\"><\/span><b>Do guys move on faster after a breakup?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not necessarily. Ultimately, it does depend a lot on the person and their relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the guy is more open about their feelings, they tend to move on at a healthy pace. If the relationship is a short-term, casual one, they also tend to move on faster than if it is a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/keys-to-long-lasting-relationship-success\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">long-term relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might think if they move on fast, then what does heartbreak feel like for a man? It feels the same way as it does for a woman. Unfortunately, they&rsquo;re bad at expressing it, which is why it might seem like guys don&rsquo;t hurt more after a breakup.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-long-does-it-take-for-a-breakup-to-sink-in-for-a-guy\"><\/span><b>How long does it take for a breakup to sink in for a guy?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the man deals with relationships and his own feelings in a healthy way, it should sink in almost immediately.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unfortunately, the social norms about gender roles are often so ingrained in people that men act like they don&rsquo;t care after a breakup, and this denial can stop the reality from sinking in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A breakup usually sinks in for a man when they start to regret their mistakes, when he misses the intimacy and connection he had, and when he acknowledges that there&rsquo;s no way to get the good times back.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, it can take a long time for all of this to sink in.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span><b>FAQs&nbsp;<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Breakups affect everyone differently, regardless of gender. Understanding the nuances of how men experience and express emotions post-breakup can shed light on common questions.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Are men more affected by breakups than women?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Breakups impact both men and women deeply, but the ways they express and cope with emotions can differ. Men may take longer to process feelings, making it seem like they&rsquo;re more affected, while women might show emotions more openly.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>What are the signs of a man regretting a breakup?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Signs of a man regretting a breakup may include prolonged sadness, attempts to stay connected, or changes in behavior. He might express regret indirectly, perhaps by seeking closure or reflecting on past mistakes.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Do men hide their feelings after a breakup?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, some men tend to hide their feelings post-breakup due to societal expectations or a fear of vulnerability. They may appear strong externally but could be grappling with emotions internally. Encouraging open communication creates a supportive space for emotional expression.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Can a man&rsquo;s emotional response to a breakup change over time?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Absolutely. Initially, a man might suppress emotions or seem unaffected, but over time, he may experience a range of feelings, including sadness or regret. Emotional responses evolve, highlighting the importance of patience and understanding during the post-breakup period.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Embracing-emotions-the-right-way\"><\/span><b>Embracing emotions the right way<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with breakups can be difficult. No wonder women can feel confused and ask themselves why do breakups hit guys later. But there is no definite answer.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If men develop healthier ways to express their emotions, then it can bring about a huge change in the way they deal with breakups.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therapy or even just talking about a relationship or breakup with friends and family is a great way to deal with emotions. It can be difficult to be vulnerable in the beginning, but in the long run, it can be very healthy.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We&rsquo;ve all had an ex or a guy friend who seems nonchalant and fine right after a breakup but is a complete mess after a few weeks. We may see men being perfectly okay after a breakup in TV shows and movies, and sometimes in real life as well. But why is that? Why do breakups hit guys later? And is this even true?&nbsp; If this is the case, then why is there a time discrepancy? In this article, let&rsquo;s look at some of the reasons why it might take men a lot longer to actually acknowledge the end of <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":78377,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2502],"tags":[2606],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78373"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=78373"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78373\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":101700,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78373\/revisions\/101700"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78377"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=78373"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=78373"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=78373"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}