{"id":75525,"date":"2022-03-04T07:54:35","date_gmt":"2022-03-04T07:54:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=75525"},"modified":"2025-06-24T15:41:03","modified_gmt":"2025-06-24T15:41:03","slug":"signs-he-is-fighting-his-feelings-for-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-he-is-fighting-his-feelings-for-you\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Clear Signs He Is Fighting His Feelings for You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-75528\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/New-Project-2022-03-04T130930.893.jpg\" alt=\"Couple at restaurant\" width=\"805\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are the signs he is fighting his feelings for you?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s admit it. Holding back feelings for someone is stressful. It is worse if you are the one who has to hold back your feelings for the other person.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You take a quick look at him, and you can see the signs he has feelings for you, but he won&rsquo;t say a thing to you. However, a closer look reveals that he doesn&rsquo;t express his feelings for you for some reason.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, you are stuck on a rollercoaster. One second you are sure that this guy has the hots for you. The next second, you are left doubting if he even knows that you exist.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This leaves you with a horde of unanswered questions. Is he in denial about his feelings for me? Why is he fighting his feelings for me? Is he holding back or not interested?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This article will be centered around helping you find answers to those deep-seated questions. When you are done, you will discover the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-he-has-strong-feeling-for-you\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">signs he caught feelings<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> but is scared.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You will also get an idea of how to tell if a guy is scared of his feelings for you and what to do when he is fighting his feelings for you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3-reasons-he-is-fighting-his-feelings-for-you\"><\/span><b>3 reasons he is fighting his feelings for you<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zvDj0NPlFFM?si=4UfiPdLjrPGFyZ5e\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribeYT_highlight\"><div class=\"subscribe_channel\">\r\n            <div class=\"subscribe_text\">Join millions <span class=\"sub_text1\">building healthier, happier<\/span> <span class=\"sub_text2\"> relationships.<\/span><\/div>\r\n            <a class=\"subscribe-btn-in-content\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Marriagedotcom?sub_confirmation=1\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/youtube_icon_small.png\" class=\"icon-left\" alt=\"YouTube\">\r\n            <span>Subscribe<\/span>\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/bell_icon_new.svg\" class=\"icon-right\" alt=\"Extra Icon\">\r\n            <\/a>\r\n        <\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is one question many people find themselves asking at some point. They meet and fall for a man they would love to pursue something serious with. They can tell that their feelings aren&rsquo;t one-sided, but for some reason, it feels like the man is hiding his feelings from them.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, it is almost like he doesn&rsquo;t want to be vulnerable.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In any case, here are a few reasons why you are seeing the signs he is fighting his feelings for you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Societal construct&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>A recent <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/news\/uk-news\/men-describe-pressures-being-strong-11492998\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">survey<\/a> revealed that nearly half of men say that they cannot talk about their feelings, and about 23 percent of these men believe they have to be the strong, silent type. For most of these men, their beliefs have been strengthened by what society has taught them.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, they believe that being vulnerable isn&rsquo;t an option, even when all it entails is opening up and letting you in on how they feel about you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. He doesn&rsquo;t trust you yet<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a man doesn&rsquo;t yet trust you (especially if he has had a history of bad relationships), there&rsquo;s every possibility that he&rsquo;ll try holding back his feelings, at least until he is certain of what he feels for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. He still doesn&rsquo;t understand what he&rsquo;s feeling<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Certain men detest the idea of not being in complete control of their minds and whatever thoughts they have at every time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hence, if a man is at a place where he can&rsquo;t quite put a name to all the mushiness he is beginning to feel around you, he may resort to masking his emotions.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-someone-is-hiding-their-feelings-for-you\/\" title=\"17 Signs Someone Is Hiding Their Feelings for You\">17 Signs Someone Is Hiding Their Feelings for You<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-can-you-tell-if-a-man-is-fighting-his-feelings-for-you-15-signs\"><\/span><b>How can you tell if a man is fighting his feelings for you: 15 signs<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The easiest way to tell for sure is to look out for the signs he is fighting his feelings for you. It is also important to note that you may sometimes be mistaking platonic attention for something else.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is why you must stay alert and carefully look for signs that a guy is fighting his feelings for you. We will look at 15 of these signs in the next section of this article.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15 clear signs he is fighting his feelings for you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are 15 signs he is denying his feelings for you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1.&nbsp; You catch him stealing glances at you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the telltale signs a guy is scared of his feelings for you (and even afraid of walking up to you and letting you in on what&rsquo;s on his mind) is that you would begin to notice him stealing furtive glances at you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is his idea that if you find him staring at you, you may figure out what he&rsquo;s feeling for you. To prevent the risk of that happening, he&rsquo;d do all he could to ensure you never catch him staring at you. Sometimes, he may do a terrible job with this.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According To&nbsp;<\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/mert-eker\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Psychologist Mert &#350;eker<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">A person who notices the man&rsquo;s furtive glances can handle this situation calmly. It may be helpful to take an approach to understanding the root of the problem through direct and open communication. It is important to communicate in a gentle language, in an emotional environment, and to allow the other party to express their feelings.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><b>2. You can feel that there&rsquo;s something here&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the signs he&rsquo;s fighting his feelings for you is that a part of you knows (beyond every reasonable doubt) that he has feelings for you. Think about it for one second. You wouldn&rsquo;t be here digging around if you didn&rsquo;t think there was something in there, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. You can tell that he loves spending time with you&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does he look for the slightest opportunity to ask you out, or does he drive by your house every other day on his way home from work? When a guy likes you, he would love to be around you and even spend time with you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, one of the classical signs he&rsquo;s fighting his feelings for you is that regardless of how much time you spend together, he never gets tired.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spending more time with him only seems like it makes him want to spend more time together.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Despite spending much time together, he never admits that they are &lsquo;dates&rsquo;&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And this can be frustrating.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you have begun spending so much time with a man (whether as a platonic friend or something you aren&rsquo;t sure about), your emotions may get more knitted together.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>Since <a href=\"https:\/\/www.southuniversity.edu\/news-and-blogs\/2016\/08\/the-psychology-behind-love-and-romance-70700\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">the human brain supports falling in love<\/a> (and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-have-a-quality-time-with-your-partner\/\">spending quality time together<\/a> can be a trigger for this), you may end up falling for him.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This isn&rsquo;t happening to you alone.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despite spending much time with you, a man hiding his feelings for you will never call your hangouts &lsquo;dates.&rsquo; &ndash; no matter how romantic and frequent they are. He may try to evade the conversation every time you try to name what you are doing.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-75527\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/New-Project-2022-03-04T131259.330.jpg\" alt=\"Couple in park\" width=\"805\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. He always shows up when you need him&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Put a quick call across, and he is there to save the day, regardless of how inconvenient for him it is.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he doesn&rsquo;t mind going through hell and high water just to make sure he is there for you, and he always shrugs it off when you try to appreciate him, that could be a sign he is fighting his feelings for you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-confused-about-his-feelings-for-you\/\" title=\"20 Subtle Signs He Is Confused About His Feelings for You\">20 Subtle Signs He Is Confused About His Feelings for You<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>6. He finds something bad about every guy that makes a move on you&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One thing about this situation is that it is somehow easy to become close to a guy who is fighting his feelings for you. Considering how reliable and attentive he is, it is easy to always have him on speed dial and even talk to him when strange things happen.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This, however, comes with its downsides.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For one, he may never accept it when you tell him that you have met someone you like. If you go out as a group (maybe with a couple of friends) and he notices another guy trying to make a move on you, the cynic in him comes out to play.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;Is he avoiding his feelings for me?&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A simple way to get a definitive answer to this question is by checking out how he reacts when another guy starts coming around you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. He gets hurt when you don&rsquo;t take his advice&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the signs he is fighting his feelings for you is how he responds when you don&rsquo;t take his advice. Imagine you are at the point of making a decision, and you decide to run things by him.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You listen out for his advice, and he goes all the way out to ensure he gives you the right advice.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A guy who feels something for you deep down will be hurt if you hardly ever take his advice, even though he goes out of his way to give you strong counsel. A platonic friend may not be as hurt as he would be.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. He may try to make you jealous&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While still trying to figure out what he feels for you, he may resort to flirting with other girls in your presence just to make you jealous. Does he toss himself into the field of pursuing and conquering women like he doesn&rsquo;t care?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does he make a task of shoving his charm and flirting skills down your throat? Does he talk about all the girls he has dated when you are together?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he does this, it may signify that he is trying to mask his feelings for you. However, do not consider this in isolation. He may just be a narcissist trying to feed his ego.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-of-jealousy-in-a-relationship\/\" title=\"15 Signs of Jealousy in Relationships &#038; Ways to Deal With It\">15 Signs of Jealousy in Relationships &#038; Ways to Deal With It<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>9. You feel he is checking you out on social media&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He follows you on Instagram.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are friends on Facebook.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can tell he reads all your tweets.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, one thing stands out. He hardly ever interacts with you on social media, although you can see he is active as well.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your guy falls into this category (he is in your world but prefers to remain at a distance), it could be because he is studying you from afar and trying to decide if he should pursue something strong with you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then again, check if this tallies with the way he reacts to you in real life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-75526\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/New-Project-2022-03-04T131215.966.jpg\" alt=\"Young couple hugging each other\" width=\"805\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. He understands you almost as much as a lover&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he knows your primary love language, remembers that you love your coffee &lsquo;without cream,&rsquo; knows your idea of a perfect &lsquo;dinner date&rsquo; and even knows the perfect gifts to get you on your birthday, this may be a sign that he is doing more than he wants you to see.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Especially if you cannot remember telling him all these details of yourself.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. Your friends are beginning to think you&rsquo;re together&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Considering the amount of time you spend together, the way you&rsquo;re giving yourselves attention, and even how you remember details about yourselves, it wouldn&rsquo;t be entirely out of the blue if you discover that your friends find it difficult to believe you when you tell them that nothing is happening.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the signs he is fighting his feelings for you is that people can see it, even if you aren&rsquo;t sure if he likes you that much after all.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. He is self-conscious when you come around&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does he suddenly sit up and adjust his shirt when you make your way over to the table he is occupying with his friends? Does it seem like he is making so much effort to look and act perfectly when you are around?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This may be a sign that he is fighting his feelings for you. The desire to impress you might just be what finally gives him away.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. He suddenly becomes shy around you&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This should be a more glaring sign if he is typically outgoing and confident and is the kind of guy who knows how to make people fall for him.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>As Psychologist Mert &#350;eker explains:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>When a man suddenly becomes shy and hides his emotions, it can often be due to internal factors such as emotional discomfort, insecurity, or social pressure. This may occur as a defense mechanism to behave by social norms, not to show emotional openness, or to meet the expectations of others.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he becomes uncharacteristically shy, acts and looks flustered when you are close, and even stumbles over his (otherwise) smooth lines, that could be your sign right there.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. He tries to get behind the public persona you have put up&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you meet a guy who is only interested in taking you to bed and taking off afterward, you&rsquo;ll discover that he wouldn&rsquo;t be interested in getting to know you. These guys are more interested in immediate gains.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, when you are dealing with a man who is trying to hide his feelings for you, the desire to get to know you on a personal level will threaten to give him away on many occasions.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He&rsquo;d ask you personal questions and not from the standpoint of gathering dust on you. He genuinely wants to know more about you and would go all out to deeply understand who you are.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Note, however, that he would remember that he doesn&rsquo;t want you to figure out that he likes you. He would most likely laugh things off and bring up a lighter subject.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to handle embarrassing and awkward questions in a conversation? Watch this video:<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7z9r9jHEtus?si=uP0_727Hfed_tgMa\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. He has the inexplicable desire to justify himself to you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the signs he is fighting his feelings for you is the desire to justify himself all the time. He explains everything he does and does his best to make you see reason, even when you can&rsquo;t be bothered and you aren&rsquo;t asking.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-to-do-when-he-is-fighting-his-feelings-for-you\"><\/span><b>What to do when he is fighting his feelings for you?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have noticed these signs he is fighting his feelings for you, here are a few things you can do.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Have an honest conversation about it&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&rsquo;re sure about signs a guy is fighting his feelings for you, try to confront him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As adults, you should be open with yourselves. When you notice that a guy has feelings for you but may be afraid to open up, talk to him about it. However, you want to make sure you are close enough already because this would be one awkward conversation.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then again, while being honest, remind him to take the pressure off himself. He needs to be relaxed if he opens up to you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/garner-intimacy-in-relationship-with-honest-communication\/\" title=\"How to Garner Intimacy in Relationship With Honest Communication\">How to Garner Intimacy in Relationship With Honest Communication<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>2. Ask a mutual friend to introduce you&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If his challenge is breaking the ice, why not consider asking a mutual friend to introduce you?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Consider asking him out yourself&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<div class=\"research_highlight\"><p>Would you be surprised to learn that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mantelligence.com\/dating-statistics\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">about 10% of men<\/a> want to be asked out on a date by women?<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While this may not be mainstream, you may want to consider asking him out (or at least approaching him first) if you like him and would want to pursue something with him.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you notice several signs he wants you but is holding back his feelings, it&rsquo;s a good way to headstart things.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Let him know that you are open to having something with him&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, a guy will keep hiding his feelings for you if he thinks that you aren&rsquo;t interested or believes that you are already with someone else.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he is this way, it may be up to you to clear the air and let him know that you are up to pursuing something with him as well.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Commonly-asked-questions\"><\/span><b>Commonly asked questions<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understanding someone&rsquo;s feelings can be a puzzle. Here&rsquo;s some insight on common relationship queries to help you on this journey of decoding signs of affection:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How do men act when they have feelings for you?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When guys have feelings, they might become more attentive, initiate conversations, or show genuine interest in your life. They might also get a bit nervous around you or want to spend extra time together.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How do I make him confess his feelings?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage open communication by sharing your emotions first. Ask questions that show you&rsquo;re interested in his feelings. Creating a comfortable atmosphere where he doesn&rsquo;t feel pressured can lead to a genuine confession.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Did he get scared of his feelings for me?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is he scared of his feelings for me? He may be.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling scared about emotions is quite common. If he suddenly pulls away or becomes distant, it could be his way of processing these feelings. Give him space while subtly letting him know you&rsquo;re there when he&rsquo;s ready to talk.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Psychologist Mert &#350;eker further addresses this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Various strategies can be applied to encourage a man who is afraid of his feelings to express his feelings freely. It is important to provide an environment of open communication. Demonstrating empathy and an understanding and supportive attitude can increase emotional trust.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Help-him-act-on-his-affection\"><\/span><b>Help him act on his affection<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the most exhausting things that can happen to you is seeing the signs he is fighting his feelings for you but not doing anything about it because you don&rsquo;t even know what to do.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The next time you think a guy likes you, use the tips we covered in the last section of this book to set the ball in motion. What&rsquo;s the worst that could happen? He wouldn&rsquo;t be interested, and you can move on with your life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What&rsquo;s the best that can happen? You find yourself a man who gives you a fairytale romance.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What are the signs he is fighting his feelings for you?&nbsp; Let&rsquo;s admit it. Holding back feelings for someone is stressful. It is worse if you are the one who has to hold back your feelings for the other person.&nbsp; You take a quick look at him, and you can see the signs he has feelings for you, but he won&rsquo;t say a thing to you. However, a closer look reveals that he doesn&rsquo;t express his feelings for you for some reason.&nbsp; So, you are stuck on a rollercoaster. 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