{"id":7548,"date":"2016-04-09T05:27:30","date_gmt":"2016-04-09T05:27:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=7548"},"modified":"2026-09-29T06:39:40","modified_gmt":"2026-09-29T06:39:40","slug":"10-super-sexy-things-to-text-that-will-get-him-in-the-mood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/10-super-sexy-things-to-text-that-will-get-him-in-the-mood\/","title":{"rendered":"101+ Naughty Text Messages for Him to Keep Things Hot Between You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Sometimes, the right words at the right moment can change everything. A text sent at noon on a Tuesday; a little something slipped into his notifications between meetings… it sounds small, but it really isn’t!<\/span><\/p>\n

Desire has a way of needing to be spoken, or typed, even when life gets loud and routine creeps in.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s where naughty text messages for him come in. They’re not just about being bold or “sexy,” they’re about staying connected, keeping that warmth alive, and reminding him that you think about him in ways that have nothing to do with grocery lists. It feels good to be wanted.<\/span><\/p>\n

And honestly? It feels just as good to say it.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>What Are Naughty Text Messages, and Why Do They Work?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Naughty text messages are flirty, suggestive, or openly sensual messages you send to someone you’re intimate with.<\/b> They can be sweet and teasing; they can be bold and direct… sometimes they’re just a little nudge that says “I’m thinking about you.”<\/span><\/p>\n

A 2015 study by Brandon T. McDaniel and Michelle Drouin<\/strong>, published in Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking, examined sexting among 355 married or cohabiting adults<\/a>. About 29% reported sending sexy messages to their partner<\/strong>, while 12% had sent nude or nearly nude photos. The researchers found that sexting was not consistently linked to greater relationship satisfaction, suggesting that the quality and context of the interaction may matter more than simply sending sexual messages.<\/p><\/div>\n

That distinction matters. Sexy texting is not automatically good for a relationship simply because it is sexual. Context appears to matter.<\/strong> A message is more likely to support connection when it fits the couple’s existing comfort level, feels mutual, and communicates genuine interest rather than pressure.<\/p>\n

So instead of asking, “What is the hottest thing I can send?” a better question may be, “What would feel exciting and welcome between us right now?”<\/strong><\/p>\n

That is the principle behind the examples below: start with the relationship, then choose the words.<\/p>\n

<\/span>How to Keep Naughty Texts Fun, Respectful, and Exciting: 5 Tips<\/span><\/h2>\n

Sending spicy texts for him is one of the most fun, low-pressure ways to keep intimacy alive… but like anything worth doing, a little thoughtfulness goes a long way. Here are 5 simple things to keep in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you want to keep things playful before turning up the heat, these playful and confident rizz lines for girls<\/a> can help spark attraction naturally.<\/p>\n