

{"id":7548,"date":"2016-04-09T05:27:30","date_gmt":"2016-04-09T05:27:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=7548"},"modified":"2026-04-02T06:20:36","modified_gmt":"2026-04-02T06:20:36","slug":"10-super-sexy-things-to-text-that-will-get-him-in-the-mood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/10-super-sexy-things-to-text-that-will-get-him-in-the-mood\/","title":{"rendered":"101+ Naughty Text Messages for Him to Keep Things Hot Between You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-68390\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/he-is-texting-you-a-lot.jpg\" alt=\"Man Texting Message on Mobile Phone and Smiling\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, the right words at the right moment can change everything. A text sent at noon on a Tuesday; a little something slipped into his notifications between meetings&hellip; it sounds small, but it really isn&rsquo;t!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Desire has a way of needing to be spoken, or typed, even when life gets loud and routine creeps in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&rsquo;s where naughty text messages for him come in. They&rsquo;re not just about being bold or &ldquo;sexy,&rdquo; they&rsquo;re about staying connected, keeping that warmth alive, and reminding him that you think about him in ways that have nothing to do with grocery lists. It feels good to be wanted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And honestly? It feels just as good to say it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-naughty-text-messages-and-why-do-they-work\"><\/span><b>What are naughty text messages, and why do they work?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Naughty text messages are flirty, suggestive, or openly sensual messages you send to someone you&rsquo;re intimate with.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> They can be sweet and teasing; they can be bold and direct&hellip; sometimes they&rsquo;re just a little nudge that says &ldquo;I&rsquo;m thinking about you.&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"research_highlight\"><p> <b>A<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC4642829\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <b>2015 research<\/b><\/a><b> published in the journal Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> examined sexting among married and cohabiting couples and found it was less common than in younger relationships. Sexting was linked to relationship satisfaction in certain attachment contexts, though explicit content also increased emotional ambivalence.<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And they work because desire loves acknowledgment! When you put your feelings into words, even briefly, it creates a moment of real connection. It cuts through the noise of the day and reminds him that underneath all the routine, there&rsquo;s still something warm and exciting between you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-keep-naughty-texts-fun-respectful-and-exciting-5-tips\"><\/span><b>How to keep naughty texts fun, respectful, and exciting: 5 tips<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sending spicy texts for him is one of the most fun, low-pressure ways to keep intimacy alive&hellip; but like anything worth doing, a little thoughtfulness goes a long way. Here are 5 simple things to keep in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Start with the mood, not the message<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before you type anything, take a quick read of where he&rsquo;s at.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is he relaxed and responsive, or swamped and distracted?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Matching your energy to the moment makes your text land so much better! A playful opener on a calm evening will always hit differently than the same message sent mid-crisis.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Let things build naturally<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&rsquo;s real magic in the slow burn; don&rsquo;t rush straight to your most daring text. Start light, flirty, a little suggestive&hellip; and let the conversation lead you somewhere. The anticipation you build along the way is often more exciting than the message itself.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Keep it personal, not performative<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best texts feel like &ldquo;you,&rdquo; not like something copied from a script. Reference something real between you two; an inside joke, a recent memory, something only he would understand. Authenticity is what makes a message feel genuinely intimate rather than just bold.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Respect goes hand in hand with desire<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Naughty doesn&rsquo;t mean careless! Texts that feel exciting are ones where both people are comfortable and genuinely into it. If you&rsquo;re ever unsure, a light &ldquo;feeling flirty tonight, you?&rdquo; is a perfectly natural way to check in before turning things up.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Don&rsquo;t overthink it<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seriously&hellip; the pressure to say something &ldquo;perfect&rdquo; can talk you out of saying anything at all. A short, honest, warmly worded text will always outperform an elaborate one you agonized over. Say what you feel, keep it real, and trust that your words are enough.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"101-naughty-text-messages-for-him-to-keep-things-hot-between-you\"><\/span><b>101+ naughty text messages for him to keep things hot between you<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&rsquo;s a text for every mood&hellip; whether you&rsquo;re feeling bold, a little shy, sweetly romantic, or just plain playful! These 101+ naughty texts for him are sorted into categories so you can find exactly what fits the moment, without any guesswork.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some are flirty and light; others are a little more daring. Take what feels right, make it yours, and have fun with it!<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sexy-text-messages-for-him\"><\/span>Sexy text messages for him<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not sure where to start? That&rsquo;s completely okay! Some of the best naughty text messages for him begin with a little uncertainty&hellip; and end with something really memorable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might feel shy, insecure, or even self-conscious at first, but these texts can help you reignite that spark and make things exciting again.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I had a naughty dream last night, and guess who was in it? I&rsquo;ll give you a hint. I&rsquo;m texting him right now.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;You should see how I look in my new dress&hellip; or maybe what&rsquo;s underneath it.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;On the agenda for tonight: polite conversation followed immediately by impolite bedroom antics.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I just wanted to let you know that I&rsquo;m picturing you naked right now, and dang, you look good.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I got eight hours of sleep last night in preparation for the rager that I&rsquo;m preparing to have with you starting at 8 p.m. this evening.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;The top three sexiest things on this earth are your chin, shoulders, and&hellip; I think you know what I&rsquo;m trying to say here.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Did you know that you&rsquo;re incredibly sexy?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;If you&rsquo;re not busy later, I was hoping to make passionate love to you. I hope that&rsquo;s okay with you.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;It said it was going to be hot today, so I decided to wear a thong and a low-cut top and just stay in bed. What are you up to?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Tonight, let me do all the work. We&rsquo;re going to take it so slowly, and you&rsquo;re going to scream.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Was just thinking about seeing you tonight, and, all of a sudden, I was completely undressed.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I keep thinking about the way you look at me right before things get really good&hellip; I need that tonight.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Would you rather have sex in public or in the car?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;What&rsquo;s the hottest sex you&rsquo;ve ever had? I find it hot hearing this kind of stuff.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Try to forget how turned on I was last night. It&rsquo;s embarrassing.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;It&rsquo;s about time to try out the new position you were talking about.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I&rsquo;m sitting on the kitchen counter thinking about you between my legs.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Flirty-teasing-texts-for-him\"><\/span>Flirty teasing texts for him<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-78248 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/charming-messages-for-her.jpg\" alt=\"Attractive Young Woman Using Mobile Phone Near Sofa At Home\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/10.1111\/pere.12567?af=R\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Teasing is an art<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&hellip; and honestly, one of the most enjoyable ones! The best flirty messages for boyfriend material are playful, warm, and just suggestive enough to make him smile; never mean, never confusing. Keep the tone light, keep him guessing, and let the tension do the rest.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"18\"><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;How come I&rsquo;m always horny when you&rsquo;re not around. Grrr!&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;You look great today. How do I know? Because you look good every day.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I figured you out today! I think we should just be friends with sexual tension ;).&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I&rsquo;m so bored and not sure what to do with myself. Any ideas?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Why am I slightly turned on?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;If you were here right now, we definitely would not flirt at all, or hug for a little bit too long, or stare deeply into one another&rsquo;s eyes, or anything fun like that.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I would invite you to come over this weekend, but I&rsquo;m not sure I can keep my hands to myself.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I&rsquo;m having some trouble unhooking my bra. Can you come over and do it for me?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;What&rsquo;s the hottest thing I can do for you when I see you?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;So are we really &lsquo;hanging out&rsquo; or are you secretly trying to date me? Be honest :)&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Wanna know what I wanna do with you later? Too bad! You&rsquo;ll have to wait and find out.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I was watching a movie earlier and forgot how intense the sex scenes were. Seriously. I was kind of taken aback. My goodness.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Wow, all that yoga has made me super flexible!&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Umm, I&rsquo;m not wearing panties. They&rsquo;re not comfy.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Just read that caffeine can boost a woman&rsquo;s libido. Is that why you keep inviting me to coffee?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Do you know what my favorite thing in the world is? The second word of this text.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;You&rsquo;re not very good at pretending you don&rsquo;t want me.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/sexy-questions-to-ask-your-boyfriend\/\" title=\"251 Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend to Keep Things Interesting\">251 Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend to Keep Things Interesting<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Dirty-text-messages-to-get-him-in-the-mood\"><\/span>Dirty text messages to get him in the mood<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can be really awkward trying to figure out how to talk dirty to your man&hellip; that&rsquo;s something a lot of people feel!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But some of the most effective dirty texts for him are actually quite simple; honest, specific, and just bold enough to let him know exactly what you want.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"35\"><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I can&rsquo;t help but touch myself when I think about you.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I can&rsquo;t wait until you&rsquo;re stripping me from my clothes, undoing every button, strap, and zipper, and doing whatever you want with my body.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Every time I fantasize about us having sex, I imagine you tying me up and having your way with me.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Here are my favorite ways to pleasure you&hellip; and trust me, the list is longer than you&rsquo;d think.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I&rsquo;m using that new toy you bought me right now.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Can I practice my lap dance skills on you?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I stopped by the grocery store on my way home and picked up something you can eat off my body.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;8 o&rsquo;clock. My bed. What you wear doesn&rsquo;t matter.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Save some energy for me tonight.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Ready when you are.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;If you get here in 20 minutes, I&rsquo;ll do that thing you always ask about.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I&rsquo;m so turned on by enjoying myself in front of you. I dunno, it&rsquo;s just so hot to me.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I love it when you grab my hair and push me up against a couch or something. And just take total and complete control.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I think there is something insanely sexy about a woman being in control. Agree?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I want you to use me as your own personal plaything. I was made for your pleasure.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Why can&rsquo;t I stop thinking about you and me&hellip; and the back of a car&hellip;?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I love letting you see every last part of me.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/dirty-questions\/\" title=\"150+ Naughty Questions to Ask a Guy: The Ultimate List\">150+ Naughty Questions to Ask a Guy: The Ultimate List<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Romantic-sexy-texts-for-your-boyfriend-husband\"><\/span>Romantic sexy texts for your boyfriend &amp; husband<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-78247 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/sweet-messages-for-her.jpg\" alt=\"Smiling Young Woman Using Phone, Sitting on Couch at Home, Looking at Smartphone Screen\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not all naughty text messages for him need to be bold or daring; sometimes the most powerful ones are the tender, deeply felt kind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These romantic texts are for the moments when you want him to feel genuinely desired&hellip; not just wanted, but truly seen. That combination? It&rsquo;s a lot.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"52\"><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;How about you and I jump between the sheets before date night?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Do you think I would look better in a skirt or tight jeans?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Tonight I want to slowly kiss my way from your lips down&hellip;the only question is how far down will I go?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Remember the first place we had sex? I keep thinking about it&hellip; I kind of want to go back there.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I can&rsquo;t sleep&hellip; all I can think about is what we would be doing if you were here with me.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I wish I were lying there next to you &hellip; naked.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;When you touch me, I feel like I&rsquo;m on another planet.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;When you kiss me, it feels electric, like something is running through my body. It&rsquo;s so intense.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Making love to you feels different than anything I&rsquo;ve ever experienced. I&rsquo;m in another world.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I could feel you touching me forever. It&rsquo;s the best and most peaceful feeling in the world.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I need you. All of you. And I want to give all of myself &hellip; every part &hellip; to you. I&rsquo;ve never felt this way before.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Guess what I&rsquo;m thinking? OK, I&rsquo;ll give you a hint. It involves my tongue and you naked.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I love your body.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Remember that crazy thing I told you about that I wanted to try with you&hellip; I think tonight might be the night.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;When you come over today, I want to start in bed. Just FYI.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;My hands. My hips. My lips. Your body. Tonight.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;What is your favorite memory of us in bed?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/romantic-love-messages-for-your-partner\/\" title=\"115+ Romantic Love Messages for Your Partner (Deep, Sweet &#038; Short)\">115+ Romantic Love Messages for Your Partner (Deep, Sweet &#038; Short)<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Straightforward-sexy-things-to-text-your-man\"><\/span>Straightforward sexy things to text your man<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes the most effective naughty text messages for him aren&rsquo;t teasing or elaborate&hellip; they&rsquo;re just honest.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes you can be more forthright with what you want to express; a clear, confident message can be incredibly attractive. No games, no buildup, just you, saying exactly what&rsquo;s on your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"69\"><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I loved what you did last night&hellip; I haven&rsquo;t stopped thinking about it. Do it again tonight.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I&rsquo;m trying on lingerie but need a second opinion. Can you come over and help?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;If we were together, what would you want me to do to you?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Ugh, you&rsquo;re so sexy it&rsquo;s not fair. I can&rsquo;t get enough of you. Jerk.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Oh my God. I want you so badly.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;My body needs to be pressed against yours. It&rsquo;s not even a choice. My body demands it.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Have you ever done it in a public place? Just wondering. Lol.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Would you consider me hooking up with another woman cheating?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;What do you prefer down there? Shaved? Trimmed?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;What&rsquo;s the most sensitive part of your body?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Last time, I loved the way you turned me on. I want to get this again&hellip;&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;No matter how much I had you, I want you again.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Can&rsquo;t wait to feel you inside me.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I had the most inappropriate thought about you just now&hellip; ask me what it was.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;You were screaming some filthy words last time. Wanna scream them again tonight?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;What&rsquo;s your take on having a threesome with me?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/best-love-memes-for-him\/\" title=\"100 Best Love Memes for Him\">100 Best Love Memes for Him<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Funny-sexts-messages-for-him\"><\/span>Funny sexts messages for him<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who says naughty text messages for him have to be serious? Some of the best ones make him laugh out loud&hellip; and then think about you for the rest of the day!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Humor is its own kind of intimacy; when you can be both funny and flirty, that&rsquo;s a combination that&rsquo;s genuinely hard to resist.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"85\"><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Does your dad happen to be Liam Neeson, because I&rsquo;m taken with you?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;What did you do, sit in a pile of sugar or something because you have a pretty sweet ass!&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;You smell like trash! Can I take you out?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I had to remove my space bar so I could get closer to you.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Hot stuff, say what?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;My cat told me she would give up her spot on my pillow for you.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;What is your secret fetish? You must have one, come on.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;It&rsquo;s not that I am horny all the time, it&rsquo;s just that you are always sexy.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Stop thinking about me naked! Sheesh.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;There&rsquo;s this guy I really like, but he can&rsquo;t know. OMG! I can&rsquo;t believe I sent this to you. Well, now that you know . . . wanna make out?&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;One, two, I want to do you. Three, four, I want you more. Five, six, don&rsquo;t give me tricks. Seven, eight, don&rsquo;t be late. Nine, ten, see you then.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;101 Things I Like About You: 1. You&rsquo;re hot. 2. You&rsquo;re hot. 3. You&rsquo;re hot. You get the picture.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Imagine that my bed is a football field. I&rsquo;m the football, and you&rsquo;re running for a touchdown. See, I do like sports!&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;You&rsquo;re so sexy, you take my breath away. But not too far away&hellip; like, I don&rsquo;t die because of it. Still. You&rsquo;re sexy.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;You so hot&rsquo;n sexy. You make me talk like a cavewoman.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Did you know that today is National Donut Day? I thought we could celebrate in my bedroom. I&rsquo;ll bring the sugar.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;The memories of our time together turn me on. They remind me that just a look from you can raise the temperature of my whole body.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Darling, are you thinking of me? I definitely am thinking of your hands all over my body.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I just googled &lsquo;how to be irresistible&rsquo;&hellip; apparently I didn&rsquo;t need to.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;Warning: spending time with me tonight may cause excessive smiling, loss of sleep, and a strong desire to do it all again tomorrow.&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ldquo;I was going to play hard to get, but then I remembered how much I like you. So here I am. Hi!&rdquo;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can-naughty-texting-improve-emotional-and-physical-intimacy\"><\/span><b>Can naughty texting improve emotional and physical intimacy?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-67415 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/send-them-a-sweet-message.jpg\" alt=\"Cute Young Woman Texting on the Phone, With Red Hearts Flying\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It really can&hellip; and maybe more than you&rsquo;d expect! Naughty texting isn&rsquo;t just about being bold; it&rsquo;s a small, consistent way of saying &ldquo;I still want you,&rdquo; which matters enormously in any relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s what it can genuinely do for your connection:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keeps desire visible between the two of you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Builds anticipation before you&rsquo;re even in the same room<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourages openness about wants and preferences<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reminds him that you think about him throughout your day<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Strengthens trust through playful vulnerability<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These aren&rsquo;t small things! When intimacy gets expressed regularly, even through something as simple as a well-timed text, it quietly reinforces the bond you share. It tells him he&rsquo;s wanted, seen, and very much on your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Keeping-the-spark-alive\"><\/span><b>Keeping the spark alive<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Staying connected takes intention&hellip; and sometimes, it takes a well-timed text! Sending naughty text messages for him isn&rsquo;t about being someone you&rsquo;re not; it&rsquo;s about letting the person you already are come through a little more freely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Some days that looks bold and daring, other days it&rsquo;s just a quiet &ldquo;I&rsquo;m thinking about you.&rdquo; Both matter. Both land.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So save a few favorites, revisit this list whenever you need a little inspiration, and remember that desire, expressed openly and warmly, has a way of keeping everything between you beautifully alive.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, the right words at the right moment can change everything. A text sent at noon on a Tuesday; a little something slipped into his notifications between meetings&hellip; it sounds small, but it really isn&rsquo;t! Desire has a way of needing to be spoken, or typed, even when life gets loud and routine creeps in. That&rsquo;s where naughty text messages for him come in. They&rsquo;re not just about being bold or &ldquo;sexy,&rdquo; they&rsquo;re about staying connected, keeping that warmth alive, and reminding him that you think about him in ways that have nothing to do with grocery lists. 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