

{"id":72917,"date":"2021-12-20T10:21:18","date_gmt":"2021-12-20T10:21:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=72917"},"modified":"2026-01-23T07:49:10","modified_gmt":"2026-01-23T07:49:10","slug":"how-to-know-if-you-like-someone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-know-if-you-like-someone\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Know If You Like Someone: 30 Signs of Affection"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-72920\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/how-to-know-if-you-like-someone.jpg\" alt=\"Lovely couple in the park during the summer\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, love (and romantic feelings in general) can be complicated. When you have genuine feelings for someone, there are many signs that you would notice on your part.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some of these signs you have feelings for someone are subtle, while others are intense and immediately noticeable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/dionne-reid\">Dionne Eleanor<\/a>, Relationship &amp; Empowerment Mentor, states,&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Genuine love starts when we choose to embrace the small moments and see them as signs of something deeper unfolding.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This article will cover how to know if you like someone. This article will also equip you with practical strategies on how to express your feelings with someone you like so you can go on to build something worthwhile and a strong relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-know-if-you-like-someone\"><\/span>How to know if you like someone<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The thing about feelings is that they can be unpredictable at times. Here&rsquo;s how to know if you like someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The next time you hang out with them, you will most likely try making an impression on them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hence, don&rsquo;t be so scared if you find yourself spending extra time trying to fix your appearance or picking out the best dress to wear. Those aren&rsquo;t bad. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They&rsquo;re your body&rsquo;s way of telling you that there may be signs of affection.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In any case, this is how to tell if you like someone for sure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/dionne-reid\">Dionne Eleanor<\/a> points out,&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you begin to focus on how you present yourself, it&rsquo;s a reflection of the inner connection you wish to nurture with them.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/how-to-express-your-love\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Express your Love Through Words &amp; Actions<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"30-signs-you-like-someone\"><\/span>30 signs you like someone<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some signs that will help you understand whether or not you like someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Everything reminds you of them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The short advert that pops up on your Instagram feed reminds you of the conversation you had with her yesterday. The suit your boss wears to work looks closely like the one he wore just a few days ago.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the clearest signs you like someone is that everything has a way of reminding you of them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/dionne-reid\">Dionne Eleanor<\/a> says,&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When love is budding, even the most mundane moments take on a deeper meaning, tethering you closer to them.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><b>2. You spend a lot of time talking to them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you aren&rsquo;t talking to them physically, you are texting them, having a quick chat on social media, or face-timing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find yourself spending an excessive amount of time every day talking with them, that may be one of the signs you are looking for.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. You get excited when you are about to see them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All of us get excited when we meet some people in our lives. There&rsquo;s nothing odd about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if there&rsquo;s that one person in your life who, if you hear that they&rsquo;re coming, you begin to feel flustered (and with butterflies in your stomach), that may be one sign that you have the hots for them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. And because you are excited, you go out of your way to make an impression on them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, you find yourself spending more time getting dressed before they arrive or making a mad dash to the mall to pick out a new fragrance (because they promised to hang out at your place much later in the evening).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do you know if you love someone or at least have feelings for them? Examine the amount of effort you put into making an impression on them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/dionne-reid\">Dionne Eleanor<\/a> points out,&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In relationships, effort is a powerful expression of how much we care, and it&rsquo;s often through small acts that love truly shows itself.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><em>Suggested video: 8 practical first impression techniques. How to impress your crush or a boss.<\/em><br><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zcJ7JCKdcIY\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. They suddenly become hilarious<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You laugh at all their jokes, both the good ones and the bad ones. Sometimes, you don&rsquo;t do this because you want to sound indulgent. You do this because you thoroughly like their jokes and sense of humor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you ever found yourself constantly laughing at that one friend&rsquo;s joke when everyone else thought that they were not funny? That may be one of the signs you have feelings for someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Also Try: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/how-to-know-if-you-like-someone-quiz\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiz: How to Know if You Like Someone?<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. You enjoy teasing them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watching them get flustered and blushing heavily suddenly becomes one of your favorite pastimes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you always enjoy teasing someone, watching them smile, and doing it all over, it could be because you care about them much more than you would want to admit.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. You are quick to reply to their messages<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you roll out of bed in the morning and decide that it&rsquo;s time to sort through your emails from yesterday, you may end up seeing yourself opening their chats replying to them before anything else.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then again, if you are quick to reply to their messages during the day, that may be how to know if you like someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. They know all the important details about you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&rsquo;s not the exciting part. The exciting part is that they know all the important details about you; you aren&rsquo;t quick to tell anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is usually because, over time, you may have come to like and trust them so profoundly that you feel comfortable telling them some things about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. You also know all the things that matter to them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some reason, you find out that (maybe in response to your opening up to them), they talk to you about the things that matter to them as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take stock of the things you know about them. Do you know the tiny details like how they like their coffee, their favorite food\/color, and some of the defining experiences they have had in life?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you do, it could be because when you like someone, it is easier to pick up and remember details about them that you ordinarily wouldn&rsquo;t have.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. You begin to like the things you didn&rsquo;t like<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&rsquo;ve always been terrified of heights and speed, but you are suddenly taking an interest in ice skiing, mainly because they like the sport.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find yourself picking up new interests in sports, music, fashion, and lifestyle choices, it could be their influence rubbing off on you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. You are beginning to pay more attention to their physical features<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&rsquo;ve known them forever, but you suddenly took notice of the small mole next to their nose or the way the sides of their eyes crumple when they laugh.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>This could be because you are beginning to pay closer attention to them, and it could be a sign of affection.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/dionne-reid\">Dionne Eleanor<\/a> states,&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">True affection is reflected in how deeply we see others, noticing the beautiful intricacies that make them who they are.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-of-attraction\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">30 Signs of Attraction: How Do I Know if Someone Is Attracted to Me<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>12. More often than not, you talk about them to others<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you find out that you constantly bring them up when in conversation with others and talk about them with fondness, it may be because you like them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is one of the things that happens when you like someone; you find the slightest opportunity to talk to others about them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Strangers think you are a thing<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you ever been out with them (maybe for a drink in the evening or to chill) and had a random stranger comment about how both of you make a cute couple?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this has happened to you, it is most likely because they saw something you haven&rsquo;t yet admitted to yourself. It could be that the stranger noticed how you look at yourself or was comfortable with each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In any case, when strangers comment about how both of you are perfect for yourselves, it could be because they picked up some signs of affection between you two.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. Somehow, a close friend or family member has mentioned it to you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-72921\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/somehow-a-close-friend-or-family-member-has-mentioned-it-to-you-.jpg\" alt=\"Group Of Friends Standing By Car On Coastal Road At Sunset\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You were having a conversation a while ago with a close friend, and you mentioned something about the person you have feelings for.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The friend you talked to paused and commented about how you have got the hots for them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or, a family member stopped you in your tracks one day and asked you exactly what you were doing with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If these things have happened to you, it could be because the people in your life are beginning to see how you feel and are reacting to the not-relationship you have.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When this happens, there&rsquo;s every possibility that you would reply with a strong rebuttal. However, what if you took a minute to honestly ask them what they saw that made them assume you are a thing? This is how to know if you like someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. No day passes without talking to them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even when you are halfway across the country, you may find out that if a day passes without talking to them, you may not be able to sleep peacefully at night.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you like someone like a friend, you don&rsquo;t feel the need to talk to them every day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if you find yourself communicating with them daily, even via a short line of text or a lengthy phone call, maybe you like them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Also Try: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/should-i-tell-him-like-quiz\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Should I Tell Him I Like Him Quiz<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><b>16. Their opinions matter to you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you were a person of your own before, this would even be harder to miss.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you like someone, their opinions become more powerful in shaping the decisions you make. When making any decision in your life, you would first consult with them to ensure that they approve of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you don&rsquo;t present it as &lsquo;seeking approval,&rsquo; the truth is that deep down within, part of the reasons why you talked to them about it may be because you seek their approval or evaluation on the matter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you discover that their opinions suddenly mean a lot to you, you may want to take a step back and figure out precisely what you feel about them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/dionne-reid\">Dionne Eleanor<\/a> highlights,&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you genuinely like someone, their perspective becomes a mirror through which you discover more of yourself.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><b>17. You call them a name different from everyone else<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn&rsquo;t have to be an endearment like &lsquo;darling&rsquo; and &lsquo;sweetheart.&rsquo; However, when you have feelings for someone, there&rsquo;s every possibility that you would find a way to make the experience of calling their name unique even for yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the flip side, if they have feelings for you, they would accept the name-calling with everything in them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Someone who would ordinarily frown at it when someone else calls that name wouldn&rsquo;t mind when it comes from you because they may just like you as well. This is one of the things that happen when you like someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>17. You tremble (in a cute way) when you talk to them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Please take note of how your body reacts when you talk to them. It could give you cues about the things you are yet to accept with your mind.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some everyday things you may find yourself doing when you talk to them may include licking your lips, fondling or touching your hair (if you have long hair that falls over your shoulders), or playing around with your fingers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In any case, how do you know if you like someone? Please pay special attention to how your body reacts when talking to them.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/importance-of-communication-in-relationships\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Importance of Communication in Relationships<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>18. You are beginning to speak and sound like them&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is directly traceable to the fact that you have spent a lot of time communicating with them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One sign of affection is that you may find yourself picking up on all their quotes and even completing their sentences when they start talking.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/en.m.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Mirroring\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mirroring tends to happen to us when we often start interacting with people we like<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>19. You catch yourself imagining a future with them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-72922\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/you-catch-yourself-imagining-a-future-with-them.jpg\" alt=\"Photo of cheerful cute beautiful young woman chatting by mobile phone isolated over yellow wall background\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you haven&rsquo;t thought about settling down all this time, how to know if you like someone is if you find yourself imagining or mentally creating the picture of a future with them in it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you think of getting married, starting a family, vacationing, or even just moving in together at some point?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Newsflash! You have something for them, in that case.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>20. You feel more alive when you are with them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some inexplicable reason, it feels as though they bring color and flavor to your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are with them, everything comes alive. You find yourself in tune with your environment and enjoying every subtle thing that happens around you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you suddenly think that the weather is brighter than usual? Are you noticing how beautiful the songs of the birds are? It may not just be that these things feel more intense than usual. It could be that you are more attuned to your world, but because of the person you are with at the moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>21. Getting to know them also qualifies to be called a &lsquo;get-to-know-myself&rsquo; project<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you spend all that time together, one thing you will notice is that you are also getting to know yourself better with each passing day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You discover new parts of yourself that you never knew existed, affecting how you interact with life and others in general.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>22. A part of you wishes that your friends who don&rsquo;t like them would try harder<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hence, you may find yourself playing &lsquo;mediator.&rsquo; If a friend says something wrong about them, you may launch into a long lecture about how they can try harder to be less critical and more accepting of people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This might not be a problem if you were that way by default. However, a quick examination into this can reveal that you may be defensive of the person you are beginning to catch feelings for.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>23. You can&rsquo;t wait for the weekend&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because nothing will get in the way of the fun if you have planned out for the weekend, you may find yourself planning weekend treats for yourselves, and these treats would largely exclude everyone else.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is most likely because you are still in your exclusive bubble, and you want to spend as much time as possible together.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>24. Every other romantic prospect goes out the back door<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before these feelings began to well up inside you, you may have had all these people who liked you and wanted to have something romantic to do with you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, suppose you suddenly discover that every other romantic prospect paled and lost their allure for no apparent reason. In that case, it could be because you now have genuine feelings for someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>25. The sex&hellip;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is explosive!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have an active sex life, you would agree that every other sexual partner you have had may not be able to hold a torch to the one you have feelings for.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This may not be the truth in reality, but the feelings you have for them, most likely, have amplified your sex life and made it feel like the best thing you can think of.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/healthy-sex-life\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Secret for a Healthy Sex Life? Cultivate Desire<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>26. You have lost interest in all those dating apps<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before they came into your life, you had a habit of visiting dating sites at least once every day. Now? Think about the last time you checked your unread Tinder messages. Has it been that long?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is how to know if you like someone, you lose interest in meeting other romantic interests via dating sites, simply because they are in the picture.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>27. You feel infinitely energetic when you are with them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That explains why you are always excited when they walk right through the door. When they are around you, it feels as though you have been infused with a great deal of strength, and that&rsquo;s a good thing.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>28. You can see when their mood shifts<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Something about the connection you share with them is becoming borderline psychic. They don&rsquo;t need to talk for you to know that they either approve or disapprove of something.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are suddenly in tune with their emotions that much, it could be a sign that you have some feelings for them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>29. You see their favorite movies and read their favorite books.<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You do it because you want something else that can connect between yourself and them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>30. You like them for who they are&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some reason, you&rsquo;ve seen them at their lowest point, but that hasn&rsquo;t watered down the feelings you have had for them. If anything, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jstor.org\/stable\/41178250\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">seeing them like this has lit a fire of passion in your heart<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you like them for who they are and not who they can become, it could be a sign of true affection.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-questions-to-ask-yourself\"><\/span>5 questions to ask yourself<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-116590\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/2409829599.jpg\" alt=\"Man thinking while working \" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After noticing these signs, there are 5 pertinent questions you must ask yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. What exactly do I like about them?<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is possible and even expected to be confused about the exact thing you like about someone. Ask yourself this question to sort through your emotions and know for sure if you should be pursuing that relationship with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Do they value me enough to seek a commitment?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This goes beyond having mind-blowing sex or admitting that they make you feel butterflies in your belly. If they don&rsquo;t value you enough, the relationship will struggle.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. What do I dislike about them?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is, it can&rsquo;t be all roses and sunshine every time. Make a list of all the things you don&rsquo;t like, and compare this list against the things you like.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Which one outweighs the other? When defining how you feel about someone, you must weigh their strengths against their weaknesses.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>4. Do I see the relationship working out?&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do you know you love someone for real? Take some time to consider what you think about the relationship. Sometimes, you should do this in the company of a competent and trusted friend.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Healthy relationships need more than just feelings to thrive. They need <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helpguide.org\/articles\/relationships-communication\/relationship-help.htm\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">work, commitment, and the willingness to adapt\/change with your partner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take a critical look at your strengths, personalities, weaknesses, and past. Can you honestly see this relationship working out? This is why you may need an unbiased 3rd party to help you out.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Also Try: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/will-my-relationship-work-out-quiz\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Will My Relationship Work Out Quiz<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Do I need time to figure myself out?&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, as emotions begin to well up in you, you may need to take a step back and reevaluate what is happening to you. Do you need to take a break from being around them? If you feel it is necessary, by all means, go for it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-express-your-feelings-when-you-like-someone\"><\/span>How to express your feelings when you like someone<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you like someone, the next thing you must do is figure out how to express your feelings to them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Come clean&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This may not be easy, but if you have observed them over time and discovered that they have returned these signs you feel, you may want to come clean about your feelings toward them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communication is key when you want to express your feelings to someone you like.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Give them some space&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, dropping the bombshell of your feelings on someone can be overwhelming on their part. To ensure they don&rsquo;t feel spooked, give them some space to sort through their heads.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Leave the communication lines open and let them know&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you have come clean to them and given them the needed space to figure themselves out, let them understand that it is up to them to make things happen.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By letting them know how you feel for them, you permit them to initiate the first step toward a more permanent relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/how-to-express-deep-love-for-someone\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Express Deep Love for Someone<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>Summary<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Figuring out how to know if you like someone is one of the first steps you must take if you want a steady relationship. This article has covered 30 distinct signs that you like someone and 5 critical questions you must ask yourself.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let these serve as a guiding light to you on your journey to deciding if you have genuine feelings for someone. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, love (and romantic feelings in general) can be complicated. When you have genuine feelings for someone, there are many signs that you would notice on your part. Some of these signs you have feelings for someone are subtle, while others are intense and immediately noticeable. Dionne Eleanor, Relationship &amp; Empowerment Mentor, states,&nbsp; Genuine love starts when we choose to embrace the small moments and see them as signs of something deeper unfolding. This article will cover how to know if you like someone. 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