{"id":72814,"date":"2021-12-17T11:32:04","date_gmt":"2021-12-17T11:32:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=72814"},"modified":"2024-11-01T05:47:54","modified_gmt":"2024-11-01T05:47:54","slug":"gain-trust-after-cheating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/gain-trust-after-cheating\/","title":{"rendered":"How Can I Trust My Wife Again After Infidelity: 5 Steps"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-72817\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/how-can-i-trust-my-wife-again-after-infidelity.jpg\" alt=\"Sad couple sitting together\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&lsquo;My wife cheated; what do I do now? How can I trust my wife again?&rsquo; Struggling with these intrusive thoughts and not knowing what to do can be devastating. Cheating may be an immediate deal-breaker for some people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, some people still want to stay with their partner and fix their relationship after being cheated on. If you&rsquo;re reading this, chances are you don&rsquo;t want to give up on your marriage and wonder if you can rebuild trust and salvage your marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, all isn&rsquo;t lost, and it&rsquo;s possible to regain trust after cheating and getting your heart smashed into smithereens.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/save-your-marriage\/6-ways-to-successfully-fix-save-a-broken-marriage\/\"> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Fix and Save a Broken Marriage<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-infidelity-in-a-marriage\"><\/span><b>What is infidelity in a marriage?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a marriage, infidelity is defined as <\/span><b>when one of the spouses engages in sexual activity with someone other than their spouse. This can happen in a variety of ways, from sexual touching to full-blown adultery.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/kimberly-smith-lmhc-fl-lpc-mi-mac-qs-fl\">LMHC Kimberly Smith<\/a> highlights,<\/p>\n<div class=\"docos-collapsible-replyview\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-static\">\n<blockquote>\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-body docos-anchoredreplyview-body docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable-background\" dir=\"ltr\">Infidelity is not exclusively sexual acts. Infidelity also occurs when there&rsquo;s a violation of the exclusive emotional bond in a marriage.<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.scielo.org.za\/scielo.php?script=sci_arttext&amp;pid=S0037-80542018000200009\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> 2013 study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> by researchers David Kreppner and Celia Lerner found that most marriages in the United States survive infidelity by one or both partners, though the quality of the marriage may be damaged in the process.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, not all couples are able to withstand infidelity in their marriage, and some choose to end the relationship as a result.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are two types of infidelity: <\/span><b>physical and emotional.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">\n<div class=\"docos-collapsible-replyview\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-static\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-body docos-anchoredreplyview-body docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable-background\" dir=\"ltr\">Emotional infidelity is when one partner forms a deep, emotional connection with someone else.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical infidelity is when one or both partners engage in sexual intercourse with someone else.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can-trust-be-restored-after-infidelity\"><\/span><b>Can trust be restored after infidelity?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CPLWacfFSyI?si=fssRg6aOvF4RcS87\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you wonder, &ldquo;Can I ever trust my wife again after she cheated or can you trust someone who cheated?&rdquo; the short answer: yes. But, in order to trust your wife again after cheating and recovery, the new normal might not look the same as it did before the cheating happened.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finding out about your wife&rsquo;s indiscretion can indeed drive a wedge in the marriage. It may shake the foundation of even the strongest relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only did your spouse break a wedding vow, but it also<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.health.qld.gov.au\/news-events\/news\/science-behind-a-broken-heart\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">broke your heart<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and the trust you&rsquo;ve built over the years. So, both of you have to work hard to rebuild trust and restore your relationship from the ashes of your wife&rsquo;s betrayal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/kimberly-smith-lmhc-fl-lpc-mi-mac-qs-fl\">Kimberly Smith<\/a> states,<\/p>\n<div class=\"docos-collapsible-replyview\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-static\">\n<blockquote>\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-body docos-anchoredreplyview-body docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable-background\" dir=\"ltr\">Losing trust in your partner can lead to feelings of betrayal, low self-worth, failure, and shame. It is just as important to address your feelings while reconciling.<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The good news is that if your wife cuts all ties with the other man, is genuinely remorseful, and promises to stay transparent so that you can rebuild trust, and your relationship may not only survive but also become stronger than before.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, for the problem of &ldquo;How to trust again after being cheated on or or how to trust after being cheated on by your spouse?, you need to remember that it can&rsquo;t happen overnight and the path to healing from your cheating spouse&rsquo;s affair isn&rsquo;t linear.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There will be days when you may feel stuck and keep asking yourself the same old questions,&rsquo; How can I trust my wife again after the infidelity?&rsquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&lsquo;Is trusting a cheater even wise?&rsquo; You&rsquo;ll need lots of patience and support from your wife on those days. Also, if she seems to put in the effort to mend fences with you, you have to choose to forgive her even when you don&rsquo;t feel like it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, it&rsquo;s important to remember that if the<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/the-damage-of-betrayal-in-marital-relationships\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pain of betrayal<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is too hard to overcome and the cheating spouse doesn&rsquo;t show genuine remorse, it might be nearly impossible to go back to normal.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-forgive-a-cheating-wife-and-fix-your-marriage\"><\/span><b>How to forgive a cheating wife and fix your marriage?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&lsquo;How can I trust my wife again?&rsquo; you keep wondering. While it might not be easy and take a considerable amount of time and work, it&rsquo;s possible to regain trust after cheating. Your marriage can still be salvaged, given that both you and your wife are willing to put in the effort and be committed to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/solutions-for-8-common-relationship-issues\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fixing the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Take a little time apart<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After getting to know about your wife&rsquo;s cheating, your feelings might be running high, and being around her may be too painful for you. It&rsquo;s a good idea to spend some time apart and take that time to process your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&rsquo;t mean you&rsquo;re getting separated from your wife or your relationship is doomed to fail. Taking some time to cool down and accept your emotions may be good for both of you before learning how to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/ways-of-improving-trust-after-infidelity\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> trust a cheating spouse again<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/kimberly-smith-lmhc-fl-lpc-mi-mac-qs-fl\">Kimberly Smith<\/a> further adds,<\/p>\n<div class=\"docos-collapsible-replyview\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-static\">\n<blockquote>\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-body docos-anchoredreplyview-body docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable-background\" dir=\"ltr\">An incident of infidelity can also be an opportunity to think about what your expectations are of the marriage and think about how to communicate your thoughts and feelings to your partner. This can serve as a means to make sure you&rsquo;re able to say things you don&rsquo;t mean to your partner out of anger, hurt, and shame.<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Have a heart-to-heart with her<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to rebuild trust after cheating? Taking a break to think things through may not be enough to fix your relationship. A good place to start would be having an<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/8-tips-to-communicate-with-your-wife\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">honest conversation with your wife<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, no matter how difficult that feels at the moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell her exactly how your trust after betrayal has dwindled and how it made you feel. Ask her if she has ended the affair and is willing to give your marriage her best shot. Make sure you don&rsquo;t end up blaming each other or saying things you might regret later.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you start to lose your cool, take a break or help a therapist. Get everything off your chest and give them a chance to talk.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to listen without judgment and don&rsquo;t dismiss her. You might disagree with her, but communicating healthily is what you&rsquo;ll need the most moving forward when you&rsquo;re thinking, &lsquo;How to trust my wife after an affair?&rsquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Don&rsquo;t blame yourself<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&lsquo;Why did my wife cheat on me?&rsquo; &lsquo;What couldn&rsquo;t I give her that she had to go to someone else?&rsquo; You aren&rsquo;t alone if you&rsquo;re constantly asking yourself these questions and can&rsquo;t stop ruminating over your wife&rsquo;s cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maybe your marriage wasn&rsquo;t perfect, and there are things you could&rsquo;ve handled better. But, remind yourself that your<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/causes-of-infidelity-in-relationships\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner&rsquo;s infidelity<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is in no way your fault. Watching this video may help you feel secure while you work on your marriage.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/DPJqnNmQxFA\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Your wife has to take accountability<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your wife&rsquo;s response to the affair matters a lot when fixing the relationship. Is she willing to take responsibility for the affair? Is there genuine remorse and commitment to go the extra mile to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/save-your-marriage\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">save your marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She also has to be open to answering any questions you might have about the affair. However, it might not be a good idea to dive deep into the details of infidelity. Instead, focus on knowing when the affair started.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask her if it was a one-time drunken mistake or an ongoing affair, whether she&rsquo;s ended it for good or is still in touch. The affair has to end, and your wife needs to be straightforward with you about having any contact with the other man for you to stop wondering, &lsquo;how can I trust my wife again?<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Identify the underlying problems<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-72818\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/identify-the-underlying-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Sitting Alone Upset Lady Thinking Something About Past or Future\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Figuring out the reasons why your wife ended up cheating on you might be helpful for your future together. Identifying the underlying issues won&rsquo;t justify her cheating. That was a poor choice that she made and broke your trust.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She might have been feeling bored or lonely in the marriage. Her emotional\/sexual needs probably weren&rsquo;t met, or maybe her impulsivity made her more prone to giving in to temptation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, finding out what led her astray and addressing those issues can help you both build a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/maintaining-a-healthy-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">healthier and meaningful relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Working on the root causes and being committed to building trust is what you need to protect your relationship from infidelity in the future.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t try to sweep it under the rug and act like the cheating never happened while in your head you&rsquo;re always thinking, &lsquo;how can I trust my wife again?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-do-you-overcome-trust-issues-after-infidelity-5-steps\"><\/span><b>How do you overcome trust issues after infidelity: <\/b><b>5 steps<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to rebuild trust after cheating and lying or trust your wife again after cheating? Well, it&rsquo;s going to take a lot of time, dedication, and hard work for you to stop asking yourself, &lsquo;How can I trust my wife again? You can&rsquo;t just flip a switch and expect things to go back to the way they used to be before the cheating happened.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are 5 steps you can take to restore relationship trust<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Communicate effectively<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&lsquo;My wife cheated on me, now what?&rdquo; &lsquo;How to trust your partner after cheating?&rsquo; When you get stuck in a loop, your wife needs to validate your feelings and questions instead of dismissing them outright.<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au\/health\/healthyliving\/relationships-and-communication#communicating-clearly-in-a-relationship\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communicate your needs clearly<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and ask for reassurance if you need it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/kimberly-smith-lmhc-fl-lpc-mi-mac-qs-fl\">Kimberly Smith<\/a> further states,<\/p>\n<div class=\"docos-collapsible-replyview\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-static\">\n<blockquote>\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-body docos-anchoredreplyview-body docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable-background\" dir=\"ltr\">It is also helpful to discuss and agree to boundaries for the relationship to help rebuild trust. Examples of boundaries are ceasing contact with the other person, blocking them on social media, and your wife introducing you to new men she may be in contact with.<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that while you may feel like you&rsquo;re the victim here, both of you will need to acknowledge, accept, and empathize with each other&rsquo;s feelings.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Be transparent with each other<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your wife needs to be brutally honest and transparent with you. She needs to be willing to let you check her call history, texts, or emails to put your mind at ease. She also needs to communicate her whereabouts and who she will be with. Initially, you might want to know where they are and who they are with all the time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your wife needs to understand where you&rsquo;re coming from and answer all your questions patiently. She also needs to be honest and keep her promises to start trusting her again. However, make sure not to make her feel like she&rsquo;s on trial all the time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"docos-collapsible-replyview\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-static\">\n<div class=\"docos-replyview-body docos-anchoredreplyview-body docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable docos-replyview-body-emoji-reactable-background\" dir=\"ltr\">As she is continuously transparent with you over time, this will help ease your anxiety of whether she&rsquo;d be unfaithful again.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3><b>3. Restore emotional intimacy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-72820\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/restore-emotional-intimacy.jpg\" alt=\"couple intimate together lying on bed under blanket\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After spending some time apart to process your feelings while grappling with the question,&rsquo; How can I trust my wife again? Gradually start spending time with your wife. Be vulnerable and give them a chance to reconnect with you. Trust that they aren&rsquo;t going to cheat again, but even if they do, you&rsquo;ll survive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let her feel appreciated for making the effort to get things back to normal. Slowly try to get your sex life back on track when you feel like you&rsquo;re ready for that.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/repairing-emotional-intimacy\/\"> <i>Restoring Emotional Intimacy<\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>4. Don&rsquo;t dwell on the past&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to trust your wife again after cheating when you can&rsquo;t stop thinking about your wife&rsquo;s betrayal? It might be one of the most challenging things you&rsquo;d ever have to do but don&rsquo;t bring up the affair every time you argue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since you decided to give your marriage a second chance, hanging their indiscretion over their head or throwing it in their face every time you get angry can only result in resentment. Rather focus on the present and work together as a team.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Seek professional help&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It might be unsettling if you can&rsquo;t stop asking yourself questions like, &lsquo;My wife cheated on me; how do I get over it?&rsquo; or &lsquo;My wife cheated; what are my rights?&rsquo; or &lsquo;How can I trust my wife again after cheating?&rsquo;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may struggle to keep your cool when you&rsquo;re around her, which can jeopardize the relationship even more.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consider couples therapy or<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">professional counseling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> so that both of you can have someone unbiased to help you mediate the situation peacefully. A skilled therapist can help you process your emotions and gain a clearer perspective.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They can also help you identify the underlying issues in your marriage and develop an effective strategy to rebuild trust.<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org:443\/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fa0018789\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> has found that couples who struggled with restoring trust after infidelity have seen optimistic results after seeing a professional therapist.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Takeaway\"><\/span><b>Takeaway<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When two people refuse to give up on each other no matter how difficult things get, they manage to find a way to make things work. You may not know how to trust your partner at the moment and keep struggling with the question, &lsquo;How can I trust my wife again.&rsquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, with full transparency and unwavering commitment, not only can you rebuild broken trust in your marriage but also repair your wounded relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&lsquo;My wife cheated; what do I do now? How can I trust my wife again?&rsquo; Struggling with these intrusive thoughts and not knowing what to do can be devastating. Cheating may be an immediate deal-breaker for some people. But, some people still want to stay with their partner and fix their relationship after being cheated on. If you&rsquo;re reading this, chances are you don&rsquo;t want to give up on your marriage and wonder if you can rebuild trust and salvage your marriage. 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