

{"id":71827,"date":"2021-11-25T10:02:24","date_gmt":"2021-11-25T10:02:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=71827"},"modified":"2024-02-28T07:42:09","modified_gmt":"2024-02-28T07:42:09","slug":"how-to-deal-with-an-emotionally-unstable-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/how-to-deal-with-an-emotionally-unstable-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Strategies on How to Deal With Emotionally Unstable Partner"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-71832\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/tips-on-how-to-deal-with-an-emotionally-unstable-partner.jpg\" alt=\"Sad Couple Doing Their Accounts in Their Living Room\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A relationship is not only about love and rosy things. It is also about<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/solutions-for-8-common-relationship-issues\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">battling issues together<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to make the bond stronger.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a couple finds out that one of them is not emotionally steady, it shouldn&rsquo;t fall solely onto the other person to decide how to deal with an emotionally unstable partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A person or an individual becomes emotionally unstable when they cannot keep their emotions in control due to an inner turmoil they might be facing. Hence, they may react exaggeratedly to minor things while coping with their emotional turbulence.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that they will require your attention and help to deal with their emotional issues. Read on to learn about the signs of emotional instability and effective strategies on how to deal with emotionally unstable partners.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-does-it-mean-if-someone-is-emotionally-unstable\"><\/span><b>What does it mean if someone is emotionally unstable?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does emotionally unstable mean as a personality?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Emotional instability refers to a person&rsquo;s inability to regulate their emotions. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can manifest in a variety of ways, including mood swings, impulsivity, and difficulty coping with stress. It can be caused by a variety of factors, including genetics, environment, and life experiences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here is a detailed &lsquo;emotionally unstable meaning&rsquo;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.topdoctors.co.uk\/medical-articles\/emotional-instability-what-are-the-main-signs-in-adults\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional instability<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> manifests as fluctuating moods, where one moment you may experience happiness and vitality, but even minor triggers like a comment or a deviation from your expectations can swiftly lead to a drastic and sometimes devastating decline in your mood.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In these instances, everything can suddenly appear devoid of meaning.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-the-causes-of-an-emotionally-unstable-partner\"><\/span><b>What are the causes of an emotionally unstable partner?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are many potential causes of an emotionally unstable partner. Some possible factors include attachment issues from childhood, temporary circumstances, breakup grief, avoidant personality disorder, cultural and gender influences, insecure attachment style, personality disorder, or even a symptom of childhood trauma.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-being-emotionally-unstable-is-damaging-your-relationship\"><\/span><b>How being emotionally unstable is damaging your relationship<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before we discover how to deal with emotionally unstable partners, let&rsquo;s find out why it&rsquo;s important to know the coping mechanisms.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/being-emotionally-unstable\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional instability can be damaging<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to a relationship in many ways. It can lead to mood swings, impulsivity, and difficulty coping with stress. It can also make it difficult to communicate effectively with your partner and can lead to misunderstandings and conflict.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-signs-your-partner-is-probably-emotionally-unstable\"><\/span><b>10 signs your partner is probably emotionally unstable<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, one can become emotionally disturbed for various reasons, including health conditions, stress in one&rsquo;s career, anxiety, etc. But, when a person becomes unstable emotionally, they display a few signs that may indicate their inner turmoil.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are the top ten signs that you need to check out in your partner<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. They often get angry easily<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Too much or easily provoked anger is one of the most common signs of an emotionally unstable relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to Licensed clinical social worker&nbsp;<\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/maggie-martinez\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Maggie Martinez<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Usually, the intensity of the anger is out of proportion to the situation.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the main signs of being emotionally unstable is getting angry quickly and about minor things. Since your partner is already stressed, they may not be able to keep their<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/341873459_Assessment_of_Mental_Health_and_Emotional_Stability\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotions in check<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and may get angry at the smallest things happening around them.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ten-dos-and-donts-for-dealing-with-an-angry-partner\/\" title=\"How to Deal With an Angry Partner: 10 strategies\">How to Deal With an Angry Partner: 10 strategies<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how you can cope if your partner gets angry quickly:<\/span><\/i><b><i><br><\/i><\/b><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/S2M8zCxEulw\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Your partner has suddenly become rigid<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you find your partner has suddenly become rigid about things? Are they keeping a closed attitude and have stopped interacting with others in a friendly manner? Probably your partner is unstable emotionally and needs your help.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. They might not give importance to others&rsquo; feelings<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many emotionally unstable people often seem to ignore the feelings of the person in front of them. You may find your partner commenting harshly on you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, they may not be doing it intentionally. They are emotionally unstable, and this turmoil may make them restless and emotionless to a certain extent.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. They become escapist<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being emotionally unstable in a relationship often gives rise to escapism in a person&rsquo;s nature.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the main traits of an emotionally unstable person is escapism. They are already feeling<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/26890889_Emotional_instability_poor_emotional_awareness_and_the_development_of_borderline_personality\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">restless and clueless<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> due to their surging emotions, so they run away from problems. They think they cannot take more stress and fear the inevitable while facing a crisis.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&rsquo;s why they may often shy away from solving the problem or having a discussion and avoid the issue as long as they can.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. They are fearful of criticism and rejection<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the main symptoms of an emotionally unstable person is the fear of facing criticism. As they are emotionally unstable, they often seek validation from others to lift their mood. But criticism works as a meltdown for such people.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a result, they are unable to take criticism positively. Your partner may start to cry or make angry comments while<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-deal-with-criticism\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">facing criticism<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does your partner get sad whenever you have to reject their ideas or plans due to your work commitments? It is one of the main signs that indicate their emotional turmoil. They may feel gloomy and sad when their plans are not accepted.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They may even think that you do not give them importance or understand their value.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. They have a certain negative vibe around them<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotionally unstable people tend to become pessimistic and may even harbor a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/avoid-negativity-in-marriage\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">negative attitude toward life<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If you find them having a negative attitude and low self-esteem, it is time to do something to help them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. They often forget to take care of their health<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you live with an emotionally unstable spouse, try to check how they take care of their health. Emotionally unstable people often neglect their health conditions due to mental turmoil.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Their inner struggle prevents them from taking care of their health properly. One suffering from emotional instability might skip medications and sometimes stop taking proper care of their body.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. They struggle to do regular work<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may have found your partner not doing their regular chores properly. They might be missing things or struggling to maintain their everyday schedule for a few days.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, probably your partner is emotionally unstable. Their emotions are so intense that they face<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/285675295_Concentration_stress_and_performance\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">concentration issues<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and cannot work or do things properly. It is time to find ways to deal with an emotionally unstable partner to help them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Their emotions are too intense<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner may show intense emotional signs like crying or getting upset frequently. They are emotionally unstable and need your help to navigate things better. In that case, it is time to be serious.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-71833\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/lacking-empathy.jpg\" alt=\"Sad Couple After Fighting Men Both Sitting Apart at Home\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. They are always complaining<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know that your partner is usually understanding, cooperative, and honest, but suddenly you might find them complaining about almost everything. Well, it can be one of the signs of an emotionally unstable partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In these cases, the emotional turmoil often makes them anxious and restless, and they may lose their compassion and the ability to compromise.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8-methods-of-dealing-with-an-emotionally-unstable-partner\"><\/span><b>8 methods of dealing with an emotionally unstable partner<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with an emotionally unstable partner can be challenging, but there are effective methods that can help navigate such situations while maintaining a healthy relationship. Here are some strategies to consider:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Foster open communication<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might find your partner questioning, &ldquo;Why am I emotionally unstable?&rdquo; This calls for a positive dialogue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage open and honest communication with your partner. Create a safe and non-judgmental space where they feel comfortable expressing their emotions. Active listening and empathetic responses can help them feel understood and supported.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Practice emotional regulation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotionally unstable individuals may struggle with managing their emotions. Encourage them to explore techniques like deep breathing, mindfulness, or engaging in activities that promote relaxation and self-care. Encourage them to seek professional help, such as therapy or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">couples counseling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, to develop healthy coping mechanisms.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Set boundaries<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Establishing clear boundaries is crucial when dealing with an emotionally unstable partner. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>Licensed clinical social worker Maggie Martinez shares that:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Setting boundaries can be difficult, especially when you aren&rsquo;t used to setting boundaries.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Define what behaviors are acceptable and unacceptable, and communicate these boundaries respectfully. Consistently reinforce these boundaries and be prepared to enforce consequences if they are crossed.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/setting-boundaries-in-a-new-relationship\/\" title=\"15 Ways of Setting Boundaries in a New Relationship\">15 Ways of Setting Boundaries in a New Relationship<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>4. Encourage therapy or counseling<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suggest therapy or counseling as a means for your partner to gain professional support. A trained therapist can help them explore their emotions, identify triggers, and develop effective coping strategies. Be supportive and accompany them to sessions if they desire.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Offer supportive resources<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Provide your partner with information and resources that can aid in their emotional well-being. This may include books, articles, online forums, or support groups focused on emotional regulation and mental health.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-71834\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/ways-to-help-deal-with-an-emotionally-unstable-partner.jpg\" alt=\"Sad African Couple in Kitchen at Home After Fight\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Practice self-care<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with an emotionally unstable partner can be emotionally draining. Take care of your own well-being by engaging in self-care activities. This can involve hobbies, spending time with supportive friends or family, seeking therapy for yourself, or practicing mindfulness techniques to manage your own stress.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/the-pillars-of-self-care\/\" title=\"The 5 Pillars of Self-Care\">The 5 Pillars of Self-Care<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>7. Encourage healthy lifestyle habits<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emphasize the importance of healthy lifestyle habits, such as regular exercise, balanced nutrition, and sufficient sleep. These factors can significantly impact mood stability and overall emotional well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Be patient and understanding<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that supporting an emotionally unstable partner takes time and patience. Avoid blaming or criticizing them for their <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/recognize-and-overcome-a-struggling-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional struggles<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Instead, show understanding, empathy, and reassurance, reminding them that you are there to support them through their journey.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-end-the-relationship-with-an-emotionally-unstable-partner\"><\/span><b>How to end the relationship with an emotionally unstable partner<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or how to break up with someone who is emotionally unstable<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may have tried all the methods related to how to deal with an emotionally unstable partner, but unfortunately, nothing worked. <\/span><b>Separation may be the last thing to consider<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You may decide to end things as you feel you might not be able to put up with the struggle.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often, emotionally unstable people restore to substance abuse to calm themselves. As per<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nber.org\/digest\/apr02\/mental-illness-and-substance-abuse\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">recent studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>emotionally unstable people are more prone to alcohol, cocaine, or cigarette addiction<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Nearly 20% of alcoholism, 27% of cases of cocaine addiction, and 86% of cases of cigarette addiction happen due to emotional instability.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Emotionally unstable people may often get devastated, too angry, or withdrawn in case of a breakup<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. In this case, you may have to find a different approach. Be a responsible adult in this case.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Go for a candid talk and tell them that you love them and want the best for them. Tell them that<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/time-apart-in-a-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you probably need a break<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> till things are alright.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell them you believe that they will find the solution if they work towards it. On top of that, encourage them to find a new meaning in life after the breakup or divorce.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Additional-questions\"><\/span><b>Additional questions<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To further our discussion on dealing with a partner having unstable emotions, here are some more questions that you might find relevant.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Are you dating someone emotionally unstable? How to know?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are many signs that your partner may be emotionally unstable. Some of the most common signs include getting angry easily, becoming rigid, not giving importance to others&rsquo; feelings, becoming escapist, being fearful of criticism and rejection, and having a certain negative vibe around them.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How do emotionally unavailable people show love?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotionally unavailable people may show very mild affection, and that too on a rare basis. They don&rsquo;t know how to use their touch, compliments, or intimacy. They try to avoid showing affection most time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, it is possible for an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/emotionally-unavailable-partner\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotionally unavailable person<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to fall in love but it would take longer than someone who has their emotions in check.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Be-the-one-holding-them-steady\"><\/span><b>Be the one holding them steady<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional instability can plague any person. Dealing with an emotionally unstable partner requires a lot of effort and compassion. Hence, you need to be calm and be the anchor in the relationship if you really want to be this person.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now that you have an idea of how to deal with an emotionally unstable partner feel free to consult a therapist and help them find a way forward, holding their emotions together.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A relationship is not only about love and rosy things. It is also about battling issues together to make the bond stronger.&nbsp; If a couple finds out that one of them is not emotionally steady, it shouldn&rsquo;t fall solely onto the other person to decide how to deal with an emotionally unstable partner. A person or an individual becomes emotionally unstable when they cannot keep their emotions in control due to an inner turmoil they might be facing. Hence, they may react exaggeratedly to minor things while coping with their emotional turbulence.&nbsp; Remember that they will require your attention and <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":71832,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[93],"tags":[2717],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71827"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=71827"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71827\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":96095,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71827\/revisions\/96095"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/71832"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=71827"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=71827"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=71827"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}