

{"id":71809,"date":"2021-11-25T09:37:32","date_gmt":"2021-11-25T09:37:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=71809"},"modified":"2026-01-03T13:48:11","modified_gmt":"2026-01-03T13:48:11","slug":"compassion-fatigue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/compassion-fatigue\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Signs of Compassion Fatigue and How to Deal With It"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-71812\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/signs-of-compassion-fatigue-and-how-to-deal-with-it.jpg\" alt=\"Tired Woman Lying in Bed Can't Sleep Late at Night With Insomnia\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It takes a big heart to help people who have been through so much in life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From listening to giving these people the care they need, working with people who have experienced trauma is challenging but is also fulfilling.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does your work involve dealing with people who have<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/how-to-heal-from-relationship-trauma\/\"> suffered trauma<\/a>?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Employees in the healthcare system may encounter a condition where they feel extreme distress and tiredness, and this is called compassion fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How can this affect our health caregivers, and what are the different signs of compassion fatigue?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-compassion-fatigue\"><\/span>What is compassion fatigue?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not everyone can effectively and efficiently deal with people who have experienced trauma. It takes a big heart to be there to listen and to show empathy. It&rsquo;s admirable to see our health care workers take care of the people who have been through so much.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They may not have been there, directly exposed to the scene that caused the trauma, but as they hear the story, their<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-build-empathy-in-relationships\/\"> empathy&nbsp;<\/a>takes over. These workers put their time, mind, and their heart into every patient they have.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unfortunately, even health care workers can suffer from compassion fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-does-compassion-fatigue-mean\"><\/span>What does compassion fatigue mean?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The definition of compassion fatigue is the physical, psychological, and emotional impact of helping people who have experienced trauma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/304113191_Compassion_Fatigue\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Compassion fatigue<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> syndrome is also known as secondary traumatic stress, secondary stress reaction, or vicarious trauma. It can affect many of our caregivers and professionals.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Is-compassion-fatigue-the-same-as-burnout\"><\/span>Is compassion fatigue the same as burnout?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people may think of this as a form of burnout, but it&rsquo;s not the same.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Burnout, by definition, is<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/emotional-exhaustion\/\"> physical and emotional exhaustion<\/a>. It can be because of your schedule, workload, toxic working environment, and such. It doesn&rsquo;t specifically revolve around someone else&rsquo;s traumatic experience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With burnout, everyone, no matter what industry they are in, can experience it. However, burnout can be resolved by changing the nature of your work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, what causes compassion fatigue is when the person helping becomes too involved in saving their patients that it starts to interfere with their own emotions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in constant exposure to patients experiencing trauma can also impact the caregiver&rsquo;s physical and mental health. It is where a caregiver experiences signs of compassion fatigue, such as physical and psychological exhaustion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That is why it&rsquo;s vital to be aware of the different signs of compassion fatigue. This way, you will know how you can start treating compassion fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-can-cause-compassion-fatigue\"><\/span>What can cause compassion fatigue?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before we proceed with the signs and symptoms of compassion fatigue, we must first understand what can cause it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to <\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/grady-shumway\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Grady Shumway<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">, LMHC:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Recognizing the sources of compassion fatigue is the first step in preventing burnout and protecting your well-being. With awareness and support, caregivers can learn to set healthy limits and sustain their capacity to help others.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Healthcare workers and chronic caregivers are the most susceptible people to compassion fatigue. Their job description requires them to care, listen, and devote themselves to caring and healing.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Some of them are:<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chronic caregivers<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hospice Workers<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nurses\/Nurses Aids<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emergency care staff<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Law Enforcement<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/how-to-find-the-best-therapist\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mental Health Professionals<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><b>Here are some compassion fatigue examples.<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-71813\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/here-are-some-compassion-fatigue-examples.jpg\" alt=\"Upset Nurse Sitting on the Floor in Hospital Ward\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ndash; Being too close to a patient and losing them is one reason a healthcare worker can experience compassion fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ndash; There are also instances where, despite all your efforts, you realize that you can&rsquo;t save this person from a disease.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ndash; For mental health professionals, there can be many triggers that can cause compassionate fatigue. Being threatened by a patient, being close to a patient, and then discovering they had committed suicide or giving care to someone who lost their child.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ndash; Social workers who help survivors of domestic abuse. Sometimes, the abuse is so grave that the person giving aid also experiences the effects of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All of these situations can take a toll on the healthcare worker. It is the cost of caring for someone else. For some, having empathy is both a blessing and a curse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are in the healthcare industry, then you have to know the compassion fatigue warning signs. This way, in any event that you start experiencing these signs, you would know what to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-Signs-that-you-may-be-suffering-from-compassion-fatigue\"><\/span>15 Signs that you may be suffering from compassion fatigue<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Signs of compassion <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4525425\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fatigue<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be different for everyone. Some people experience physical and emotional changes, while others experience mental or spiritual symptoms.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. You have trouble sleeping<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After a long day&rsquo;s work, you try to rest and fall asleep, but you can&rsquo;t. Thoughts of your patient&rsquo;s situations haunt you, even in your sleep.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You become restless and have trouble falling asleep. Over time, this can take a toll on your mental and physical health.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Increased emotional intensity<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Emotional intensity is how you express what you feel. It can be happiness, sadness, and even anger.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are experiencing compassion fatigue, you will have a hard time <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/is-your-inability-to-regulate-your-emotions-destroying-your-marriage\/\">controlling these emotions<\/a>. It&rsquo;s like feeling a complex of different feelings all at the same time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can be confusing, hurtful, and frustrating.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Impaired judgment<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because you&rsquo;re too invested in the emotions that you are feeling, chances are, your judgment will also suffer.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most of the time, instead of having a clear mind and analyzing the situation, you&rsquo;re left with extreme emotions that cause a clouded or biased judgment.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Anger and hatred towards the cause or perpetrators<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you work on cases where, for example, a child experiences extreme <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/capmh.biomedcentral.com\/articles\/10.1186\/s13034-018-0244-1\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abuse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it&rsquo;s normal to feel anger at the person who did it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if anger becomes too much that it fills your heart with hate, and your work, judgments, and thoughts are affected, this is one of the signs of compassion fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. You have trouble focusing<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You still have other patients, other cases to work on, but you can&rsquo;t focus.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your mind is filled with random thoughts, scenarios, plans, and so much more, yet you can&rsquo;t put them into action, and you end up being unproductive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Watch this video to learn how to focus better:<br><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Hu4Yvq-g7_Y\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. You start distancing yourself from other people<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Currently, you no longer have the drive to socialize. You prefer being alone. After work, you say no to any invite to unwind, you go home and be alone.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s when everything seems to be too much that you begin to distance yourself from the world.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. You feel depressed<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, even if you are a professional, you are also susceptible to having depression.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That feeling of deep sadness, withdrawal from society, and negative thoughts can pile up and trigger depression.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Grady Shumway highlights that:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Acknowledging these feelings early allows you to seek support before they deepen. Reaching out for help is not a sign of weakness but an essential step in protecting your mental health and your ability to care for others.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know the signs, and you know what&rsquo;s happening to you. Being a healthcare professional, you are also aware of how depression can affect us. This is a sign to help yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><strong>Related Reading:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/relationship-depression\/\"><em>5 Signs Your Relationship is Making You Depressed<\/em><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>8. You start feeling hopeless<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel hopeless?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You look at all your patients, and you feel hopeless and helpless. This extreme <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/hopelessness-in-relationships\/\">feeling of hopelessness<\/a> can take a toll and cause an emotional breakdown.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is when you&rsquo;re faced with multiple cases that don&rsquo;t get resolved, or you are faced with a dead-end.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. You start believing that the world is unfair<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter how much you want to help or how much you are trying to help, sometimes, you just can&rsquo;t.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The pain of losing a patient or a case or seeing that all your efforts are wasted can cause someone to feel that the world is unfair. This can stop them from focusing on their goal, which is to help.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Intrusive thoughts<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&rsquo;re being bothered by intrusive thoughts that you can no longer function and sleep, this can alter how you see yourself as a person and as a healthcare worker.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-stop-the-blame-game-in-relationship\/\"> start blaming yourself<\/a>, thinking about what you could have done differently, or if it was your fault if you lost a patient or a case.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. Physical exhaustion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in the healthcare system can be exhausting, especially since we are now facing a pandemic.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling sick, exhausted, and weak are all signs of compassion fatigue, along with the others that we&rsquo;ve mentioned.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. Self-medication or substance abuse<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Compassion fatigue can cause stress, physical pain, and even sleepless nights.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unfortunately, to treat this, some would opt to self-medicate. Our healthcare workers can start taking painkillers until they can&rsquo;t function without them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some, to fall asleep, they would turn to drink alcohol or take sleeping pills until they think they need it every night.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Loss of self-worth<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You start your career optimistic and want change. You believe that you can change the world by helping one person at a time. Then, you suddenly realize that you&rsquo;ve lost all hope in your craft and yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You look in the mirror and realize that self-worth has been affected dramatically.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. Your relationships outside work gets affected<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all know that we shouldn&rsquo;t let our work affect our life and vice versa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, a person experiencing compassion fatigue can no longer separate their work life and personal life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They go home, still carrying the heavy emotion of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/depression-in-marriage\/\">anger and hopelessness.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They begin to be irritated at their kids, spouses, or friends. They start releasing anger at the slightest trigger, which can affect their family.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. Quitting work<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a person doesn&rsquo;t know how to treat compassion fatigue, this can lead to giving up. Resigning from work because you feel that you have nothing left to give, you no longer feel compassion or empathy, and you want to be alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s one of the most common reasons why some healthcare workers resign.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>How can you deal with compassion fatigue?<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-71814\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/how-can-you-deal-with-compassion-fatigue.jpg\" alt=\"Bored Businesswoman Yawning at Workplace Feeling No Motivation or Lack of Sleep\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before we tackle how to deal with compassion fatigue, you must first understand that you can overcome this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A professional who uses their skills and heart to help heal can sometimes take in too much. When this overflows, the healer becomes the one needing the healing.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Be aware of the signs<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those in the healthcare industry shouldn&rsquo;t forget that they are vulnerable to compassion fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As part of their job, they should be aware of the signs of compassion fatigue.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They should assess themselves if ever they start experiencing some of the signs or symptoms listed above.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Include self-care in your routine<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember this. You have a big heart. However, to help others, you need to help yourself as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By including self-care in your routine, you will develop a practice that can help you function better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Include eating a well-balanced diet, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/monitor\/2011\/12\/exercise\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">exercise<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, relaxation, complete sleep, and of course, even socialization.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t think that these self-care routines will cut your time to help people. On the contrary, this will make you more effective and efficient with your work.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><strong>Related Reading:<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/the-pillars-of-self-care\/\"><em>&nbsp;The 5 Pillars of Self-Care<\/em><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>3. You should practice self-compassion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Showing empathy and love for other people and helping them is heroic, but remember that you are also human.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These jobs are demanding, and sometimes, we forget that you, too, need compassion and assistance. Like a sponge, you absorb the person&rsquo;s hurt, sadness, and emptiness, and you end up exhausted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You deserve the compassion and love you&rsquo;re giving, and don&rsquo;t forget to give that to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Reduce your workload<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Due to the pandemic, almost all our healthcare workers have exhausted themselves trying to help and heal people. From the medical industry to the mental health support system, all of these people are overworked.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Compassion fatigue is no joke.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But to help more people, you need to decrease your workload. If you overwork yourself, you end up unproductive, and you can experience compassion fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoid overworking yourself, and add self-care to your routine. This way, you will be more productive, and you will help more people.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Ask for help<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you are a healthcare professional yourself, you also need help when showing signs of compassion fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Please don&rsquo;t be ashamed to ask for help when you need it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">More than anyone, you know the importance of asking for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/\">professional help<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Conclusion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For all our healthcare workers, we salute you for being dedicated. However, you also need to be aware of the dangers of experiencing compassion fatigue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&rsquo;s the reason why you also need to know the signs of compassion fatigue. If you have been experiencing some of the signs, please don&rsquo;t hesitate to act quickly and get the help you need.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t let compassion fatigue discourage you from helping more people.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It takes a big heart to help people who have been through so much in life. From listening to giving these people the care they need, working with people who have experienced trauma is challenging but is also fulfilling. Does your work involve dealing with people who have suffered trauma? Employees in the healthcare system may encounter a condition where they feel extreme distress and tiredness, and this is called compassion fatigue. How can this affect our health caregivers, and what are the different signs of compassion fatigue? What is compassion fatigue? 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