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The signs of emotional manipulation in relationships can be very subtle and may leave you feeling utterly powerless. Manipulation is common in <\/span>interpersonal relationships<\/span><\/a> – we’re all manipulators in one way or another if we go by the dictionary meaning of the word.<\/span><\/p>\n However, repeated emotional manipulation can be a significant red flag in relationships and is highly distressing to the person on the receiving end.<\/span><\/p>\n This article will help you figure out how to tell if someone is trying to manipulate you.<\/span><\/p>\n Before we look at the signs of emotional manipulation in a relationship, it is first essential to know it.<\/span><\/p>\n Manipulation<\/span><\/a> is a type of social influence on an individual that aims to alter their behavior. We’ve all used the power of manipulation at one point of time in our lives. For example, convincing your friend to skip school to watch a movie is a form of manipulation.<\/span><\/p>\n Trying to convince your friend to skip class doesn’t seem particularly sinister, but ongoing emotional manipulation in a relationship can be damaging.<\/span><\/p>\n When people use mind games to seek control or power over you, we label them emotionally manipulative. The ultimate goal of such manipulation is for someone to seek control or an unfair advantage over their partner.<\/span><\/p>\n It’s essential to keep in mind that these people aren’t looking up psychological tricks to manipulate! They might even be manipulating unconsciously and need therapy to uncover their issues.<\/span><\/p>\n A <\/span>healthy relationship<\/span><\/a> is based on mutual trust, respect, and understanding.<\/span><\/p>\n Emotional manipulation can be very subtle and hard to pick up on. It can leave you feeling misunderstood, helpless, and overwhelmed. In the following section, we will go over the signs of emotional manipulation in relationships. <\/span><\/p>\n Emotional manipulation can turn the healthiest of relationships sour and cause a lot of irreparable damage. The wounds created through emotional manipulation fester and can worsen over time.<\/span><\/p>\n Here’s what emotional manipulation can do to your relationship:<\/span><\/p>\n Now, let’s jump right into the topic at hand and look at some emotional manipulation signs.<\/span><\/p>\n Please do keep in mind that this is a list of common signs of emotional manipulation in relationships. If you <\/span>feel <\/span><\/i>manipulated in a relationship, the chances are that your gut instinct may be correct.<\/span><\/p>\n Do you constantly find yourself meeting them at a place of their choice?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Having you come to see them at their home or favorite restaurant can be very empowering. While they feel safe and comfortable in a familiar environment, you are bound to be on edge.<\/span><\/p>\n This gives an unfair advantage over you, creating an imbalance of power. <\/span><\/p>\n This is one of the most significant signs of emotional manipulation in relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n Suppose you always kick yourself for opening up to this person. In that case, the chances are that they’ve been using your weaknesses and vulnerabilities<\/a> against you by weaponizing them and bringing them tactfully up during an argument.<\/span><\/p>\n You may feel like they always hit you below the belt. <\/span><\/p>\n Do you always feel misunderstood?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Emotional manipulators have a way of forcing you to believe their version of the story without you even realizing it. They thrive in chaos and always try to pitch two people against each other for their pleasure.<\/span><\/p>\n If you constantly find yourself in the middle of a misunderstanding, you’re probably being manipulated. <\/span><\/p>\n This is one of the most common emotional manipulation signs. The manipulator usually avoids confrontation and channels their aggression indirectly.<\/span><\/p>\n They may always make excuses for their behavior and use silence as a punishment. They also use tools like microaggressions, snide comments, etc., to bring you off balance while being nice to you as well.<\/span><\/p>\n They might also use insults masked as compliments to confuse you. This is characteristic of emotionally manipulative women.<\/span><\/p>\n For example, they may say something such as, “You seem so immature and childish sometimes. It’s cute!” This leaves you wondering whether they love you or hate you. <\/span><\/p>\n An emotionally manipulative person volunteers for tasks and responsibilities they don’t wish to take up and acts as if they’re doing you a solid favor only to use it against you during a fight.<\/span><\/p>\n For example, they might take up the responsibility of cooking dinner every night but bring it up later, stating, “<\/span>I always cook dinner for your ungrateful self.”<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n They might also buy you gifts or spoil you with expensive vacations only to then bring it up in an argument as a favor.<\/span><\/p>\n Watch this video to learn more about emotional manipulation in relationships:<\/span><\/span>What is emotional manipulation in a relationship?<\/span><\/h2>\n
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1. You’re always in their space<\/b><\/h3>\n
2. Your weaknesses are a weapon against you<\/b><\/h3>\n
3. You’re always in the middle of a misunderstanding<\/b><\/h3>\n
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4. They’re passive-aggressive<\/b><\/h3>\n
Related Reading<\/strong>: How to Deal With a Passive Aggressive Spouse<\/em><\/a><\/pre>\n
5. They make you feel like they’re doing too many favors for you<\/b><\/h3>\n