

{"id":69569,"date":"2021-09-14T10:35:13","date_gmt":"2021-09-14T10:35:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=69569"},"modified":"2024-03-15T11:22:47","modified_gmt":"2024-03-15T11:22:47","slug":"how-to-keep-a-man-faithful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-keep-a-man-faithful\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Keep a Man  Faithful to You: 15 Ways"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-69573\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/how-to-keep-a-man-faithful-to-you.jpg\" alt=\"Happy Husband and Smiling Wife Embracing Touching Head to Head on City Street at Night.\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you ask anyone what they want in their ideal partner, one of the first set of responses you will get is &ldquo;a faithful partner.&rdquo; Generally, fidelity is a big deal in a relationship because no one likes being cheated on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Usually, when you hear that a man cheated, you begin to ask different questions like &ldquo;how to keep a man faithful?&rdquo; This question is often asked because there are different reasons why men cheat, and knowing these reasons will help you keep your relationship and prevent him from cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this article, we&rsquo;ll be highlighting usable tips that can keep a man faithful in his relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can-a-man-be-faithful-to-one-woman-forever\"><\/span>Can a man be faithful to one woman forever?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to being faithful to one woman forever, it is 100% possible. However, it is important to know that a man who cheats has reviewed the decision several times and decided to go on with it. Hence, even though the man lacks some things in his relationship, cheating is not ideal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For a man to remain faithful only to his spouse, he must be ready to communicate openly. When he realizes he is not getting certain things in the relationship, he should air his concerns. Keeping quiet about them is not the best way because there is a tendency to seek wrong counsel elsewhere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/How-Keep-Your-Man-Faithful-ebook\/dp\/B007XXLO7K\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deontrae Mayfield&rsquo;s book titled: How to keep your man faithful<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you will learn how to ensure your man does not break the vows of your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hence, when people ask, &ldquo;Can men be faithful?&rdquo; The answer is in the affirmative. However, it largely depends on the man&rsquo;s interest in keeping the relationship and his partner&rsquo;s openness to making things work.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><em><strong>Related Reading: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/love-last-forever\/\">Can Love Last Forever? Tips to Stay Together<\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s a study on Business Insider conducted by a team of researchers from the University of Texas, Austin, on <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/why-men-cheat-more-than-women-2013-9?r=US&amp;IR=T\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">why men are likely to be less faithful<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to their spouses.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-keep-your-man-in-love-with-you\"><\/span>How to keep your man in love with you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Falling in love is arguably easy. However, ensuring that the love is sustained is where the real work lies.&nbsp; A relationship devoid of true love tends to crumble like a pack of cards. Therefore, if you are willing to keep your man and the relationship, you have to work towards it.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><em><strong>Related Reading:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/keep-him-wanting-more-of-you\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Best Tips on How to Keep Him Wanting More of You<\/span><\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While there are no defined set of rules to achieving this, you can begin by <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/all-about-the-5-love-languages-in-a-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">understanding your partner&rsquo;s love language<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> so that you can show love in their preferred way. More so, be willing to keep an open mind when communicating with him and allow him to feel free to express himself in words and actions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-tips-to-make-your-man-faithful-to-the-relationship-forever\"><\/span>15 tips to make your man faithful to the relationship forever<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-69574\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/tips-to-make-your-man-faithful-to-the-relationship-forever.jpg\" alt=\"Portrait of Happy Loving Couple in Romantic Honeymoon, Kissing on a Gondola, Vacation in Italy\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Faithfulness in a relationship is one of the crucial ingredients to sustaining it. If you have fears that your man might get unfaithful at some point, you can work towards preventing it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To keep your man from cheating, here are some ways to keep him faithful.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Be ready to instigate intimacy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For many men, when they see that you are not interested in intimacy, they assume you don&rsquo;t find them desirable, and they begin to look elsewhere. Hence, if you are interested in intimacy, you don&rsquo;t have to wait till he makes a move.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On some occasions, try to initiate intimacy to show him that you still get turned on by his presence. Doing this is one of the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/balance-in-relationships-life-and-everything-in-between\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ways to provide balance in your relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and keep him in love.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Be ready to experiment with sex in different forms<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your man wants certain <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">things during sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, do not discourage him every time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You need to be open to experimentation because you might end up loving some of the things your man craves sexually. When you are willing to experiment sexually with your man, you will satisfy him, and he won&rsquo;t be compelled to experiment with someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Be happy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it might sound impossible to be happy every time, you can work around showing your partner that you are happy most times.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The reason is to allow him to know that despite the challenges you face, having him around is your major source of happiness, and you won&rsquo;t trade it for anything. In addition, men love having partners with a healthy <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/omantic_relationships_a_meta-analysis_humor_meta-analysis\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sense of humor<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to make them feel great.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b>4. Be considerate<\/b><\/pre>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/how-to-make-a-man-fall-in-love-with-you\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> keep him in love with you<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you need to show kindness and consideration to your man to let him know you care about him.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people believe that they expect their men to know how considerate they are, but this is not true. If you are considerate, you need to show it because he will need it during his trying times.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><em><strong>Related Reading: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/how-to-connect-with-a-man-on-an-emotional-level\/\">How To Connect With A Man On An Emotional Level<\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n<h3><b>5. Ask about important aspects of his life<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are in a relationship, your partner&rsquo;s life and yours are intertwined. To ensure your man is being faithful in a relationship, you need to be involved in all aspects of his life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make it a regular habit to be updated on how he is faring with work, friends, finances, etc. Doing this shows him that you care, and he will always be encouraged to share both his worries and plans with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b>6. Accept him for who he is<\/b><\/pre>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the surefire ways on how to keep a man faithful to you is to accept him as he is. This does not mean that you should overlook his mistakes, but you need to understand why he has certain flaws and be willing to accommodate them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When your man makes mistakes, correct him in love and don&rsquo;t push him aside. A man who is constantly criticized without being shown love would begin to look elsewhere.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><em><strong>Related Reading: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/8-qualities-that-attract-and-keep-a-man\/\">8 Qualities of Women That Attract and Keep a<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/8-qualities-that-attract-and-keep-a-man\/\"> Man<\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n<h3><b>7. Make him the best version of himself<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-69575\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/make-him-the-best-version-of-himself.jpg\" alt=\"Back View of a Young Couple Sitting on the Grass With Arms on the Air\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men need someone who will always spur them on to greatness, and doing this will keep them in love with you. Hence, when your man achieves any small win, you need to celebrate it and encourage him that he can achieve more.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you keep on criticizing and not celebrating him, he would start to drift apart.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Look beautiful and attractive<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The fact that you are in a relationship doesn&rsquo;t mean that you should relax and not take care of yourself. You need to remember that your man sees several other people each day that he might be interested in.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hence, to keep refreshing his memory on why he opted for you in the first place, keep yourself alluring and charming.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Be yourself<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men don&rsquo;t like pretenders, and if you are one in a relationship, he will find out sooner or later. You must be yourself because it is one of the ways to breed authentic intimacy that many people crave.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your man discovers that you are fake, he will lose interest gradually and probably cheat on you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Focus on developing yourself<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many men love to have partners who are doing well for themselves. If you are someone who is not concerned about their personal growth and developing other areas of their lives, your partner might begin to lose interest.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hence, while you cheer your partner on to do well, ensure you are not slacking either.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. Don&rsquo;t be too controlling<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might not realize, but sometimes, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/controlling-relationship-signs-you-must-know\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">we can get too controlling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, especially when we want our partner to do our bidding. Men do not like controlling partners, and it scares them off if it is a constant feature in their relationship. Rather, make sure you correct him lovingly and reduce criticisms.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. Give him space when he needs it<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some partners in a relationship don&rsquo;t know the right time to give each other space.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We are humans who sometimes crave to be alone so that we can think and plan. If you are always breathing down the neck of your man, he can get tired of it and start to avoid you, which could lead to cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Make your relationship a priority<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every day while you remain in your relationship, ensure your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/solutions-for-8-common-relationship-issues\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner knows that you prioritize the union<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Sometimes, when a man cheats, it is because his partner focuses on other aspects of their life like work, friends, etc., without paying attention to the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. Share relationship issues only with a trusted person<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t share <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/solutions-for-8-common-relationship-issues\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship issues<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with a third party except for a trusted person.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some spouses make the mistake of taking their relationship issues to the table of a third party. Ideally, you and your partner should have someone you are accountable to who will help resolve issues between the two of you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your man discovers that you have been talking behind his back without his consent, he can start losing interest.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">More so, in Lowell Pearson&rsquo;s book titled: How to keep a man happy, you will learn various ways to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/How-Keep-Man-Happy-Relationship-ebook\/dp\/B00S75Y5V0\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep your man forever faithful to you<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. Learn his love language<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Partners need to know each other&rsquo;s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/act-of-service-love-language\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">love language<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because it helps sustain the relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hence, you need to know your man&rsquo;s love language to enable you to love him the right way. For instance, if he loves hearing sweet and reassuring words from you, you can rightly guess that his love language is words of affirmation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check out this video to understand your partner&rsquo;s love language:<\/span><br><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/U4FTBKpxw1U\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>Conclusion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Staying faithful in a relationship is possible when both parties are ready to put in the work. With the ways mentioned above on how to keep a man faithful, you can begin a new journey into making things right in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Licensed psychologist and certified coach <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/silvana-mici\">Silvana Mici<\/a> says,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Working with couples, I always <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">advise<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> them to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">prioritize your relationship and make an effort to keep the spark alive. Show appreciation for each other, celebrate your achievements together, and continue to grow as individuals and as a couple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A healthy relationship is built on a foundation of mutual respect and understanding. By nurturing your relationship and prioritizing each other&rsquo;s needs, you can create a strong, lasting bond.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you ask anyone what they want in their ideal partner, one of the first set of responses you will get is &ldquo;a faithful partner.&rdquo; Generally, fidelity is a big deal in a relationship because no one likes being cheated on. Usually, when you hear that a man cheated, you begin to ask different questions like &ldquo;how to keep a man faithful?&rdquo; This question is often asked because there are different reasons why men cheat, and knowing these reasons will help you keep your relationship and prevent him from cheating. 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