

{"id":69478,"date":"2021-09-09T07:41:52","date_gmt":"2021-09-09T07:41:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=69478"},"modified":"2024-05-15T04:49:58","modified_gmt":"2024-05-15T04:49:58","slug":"healthy-sexual-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/intimacy\/healthy-sexual-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Characteristics of a Healthy Sexual Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-72675\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/ways-to-help-rebuild-intimacy.jpg\" alt=\"Cute couple in a bedroom. Lady in a white t-shirt. Pair at home\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to matters of sex, these may be difficult for you to talk about, even with your partner. However, having a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/ways-to-have-a-healthy-sexual-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">healthy sexual relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a big part of having an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-you-are-in-an-intimate-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">intimate relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with your mate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check out this article for more information on how to tell if you are in a healthy sexual relationship and what you can do about it if you aren&rsquo;t. It may also help you find the relationship you want to have.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-a-healthy-sexual-relationship\"><\/span>What is a healthy sexual relationship?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A healthy sexual relationship consists of a relationship in which all parties are having their sexual needs met. In other words, they are satisfied with their sex life, having an adequate amount of sex, and not being abused in any way. It is likely that people with a healthy sex life will have a strong sexual connection.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They will also be treated with a fair amount of respect and regard.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-does-your-lifestyle-affect-your-sexual-relationships\"><\/span>How does your lifestyle affect your sexual relationships?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are a number of ways that your lifestyle can affect your sexual relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, if you have to get a lot of things accomplished on a given day, it may be difficult to prioritize sex with your partner. There simply may not be time to get yourself interested in the idea of sex every day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Things such as having to take care of children, being pregnant, or being stressed out can all lead to possi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ble sexual problems in relationships. At the same time, if you and your mate are willing to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/how-to-fix-sexual-problems-in-a-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fix these sexual problems<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you may be able to work these circumstances out, so they cause less of<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a problem in general.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can-sexual-relationships-become-unhealthy\"><\/span>Can sexual relationships become unhealthy?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is quite possible for a sexual relationship to become unhealthy in a number of different ways. Here&rsquo;s a look at how this may look when it comes to physical aspects versus psychological aspects.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>A. Physical aspect<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are a few notable behaviors in which a relationship can promote unhealthy sexual behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may be at risk for a <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/apps.who.int\/iris\/bitstream\/handle\/10665\/112323\/WHO_RHR_14.10_eng.pdf?sequence=13\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexually transmitted infection<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may suffer abuse or be forced to have sex unwillingly<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might experience an unwanted pregnancy<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>B. Psychological aspect<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are exposed to unhealthy physical aspects, this may contribute to your experiencing psychological aspects as well. For instance, if you are <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/sexual-abuse-in-marriage-is-there-such-a-thing\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abused by a sexual partner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, this can cause you to become depressed and experi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ence trauma.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A healthy sexual relationship should never cause trauma in your life, so keep this in mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to&nbsp;<\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/grady-shumway\" target=\"_blank\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Grady Shumway<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">, a licensed mental health counselor:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">The psychological impact of unhealthy physical aspects in a sexual relationship can be significant, often leading to depression and trauma. It&rsquo;s crucial to prioritize your mental well-being and recognize that a healthy sexual relationship should never result in emotional harm or trauma.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Healthy-sex-life-elements\"><\/span>Healthy sex life elements<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-69482\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/healthy-sex-life-elements.jpg\" alt=\"Young Attractive Relaxed Couple Having Breakfast Sitting at Kitchen Table, Enjoying Fresh Organic Food at Home Together\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are wondering what is a healthy sex life, there are a few ways you can pay attention to, so you can determine if this sounds like your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are able to accept each other just as you are<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can have fun doing other things besides engaging in sexual relations<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You consider your partner to be a necessary part of your life<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are no issues when it comes to talking to each other<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have a healthy level of attraction to one another<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-keep-your-sex-life-strong\"><\/span>How to keep your sex life strong<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you interested in learning how to have a good sex life? Try these easy-to-adopt techniques.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Don&rsquo;t compare your partner with anyone else<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The things you do together are probably not like your experiences with anyone else. If they remind you of another person, try something different instead of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/article\/10.1007\/s10508-019-1416-7\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">comparing them<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Seek help when you need to<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you or your partner are experiencing issues when it comes to sexual performance, make sure they are checked out by a doctor. If you need to take advantage of therapy, this is something you should consider as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Show your interest<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you want to improve your sex life, make sure that your mate knows this. Tell them sexy things or send them signals that make it clear what you want to do with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Step out of your comfort zone a bit<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try new thing<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">s when you want to. You can learn these things together. Also, there&rsquo;s no shame in searching for new ideas to try when your goal is <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/4-essential-tips-to-improve-physical-intimacy-in-a-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">improving sexuality in marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tips-to-promote-a-healthy-sex-life\"><\/span>Tips to promote a healthy sex life<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s a look at some tips on how to make your sexual life<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.health.harvard.edu\/staying-healthy\/11-ways-to-help-yourself-to-a-better-sex-life\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">better<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make sure you take precautions to protect from diseases or infections<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you do not want to become pregnant, make sure that you choose to take advantage of contraception<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be certain that all parties are ready before you start to initiate intimacy<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try things that you both enjoy<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t hesitate to tell your partner what you like and dislike and allow them to do the same<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/eye-contact-during-sex\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep eye contact when you are being intimate<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reme<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mber to take care of your physical health as well<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-characteristics-of-a-healthy-sexual-relationship\"><\/span>10 characteristics of a healthy sexual relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-61005\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/What-True-Intimacy-in-Marriage-Is-1610002469.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Characteristics of a healthy sexual relationship are the same things that are considered to be characteristics of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/intimacy\/how-important-is-intimacy-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">intimate relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. When you are trying to learn how to have a healthy sexual relationship, these are some things that you should work on.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Being able to communicate<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You must be able to talk to your partner about pretty much anything. This goes together with being comfortable around them. If you are too shy to talk to your mate about things that matter to you, or what you like in bed, you need to make it your top priority to work through this. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Mental health counselor Grady Shumway says:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Effective communication is essential in any sexual relationship. Being able to openly discuss your desires, preferences, and concerns with your partner cultivates intimacy and ensures mutual satisfaction. If shyness or discomfort inhibits your ability to communicate about important matters, it&rsquo;s vital to prioritize overcoming these obstacles.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you can communicate with them, it will be easier to tell them how you feel, so you can ensure that you are getting what you need from the sexual relationship and that they are as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><strong><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/effective-communication-with-your-spouse\/\"><i>5 Steps to Effective Communication With Your Spouse<\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>2. You can work through problems together<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you consider yourself to be in a healthy sexual relationship, this means you are able to work through your problems together. In other words, if one of you is going through something, you both are.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, if an issue c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">omes up, you&rsquo;ll be able to talk through it and come to a resolution that works for everyone. This is something that may be hard to accomplish, but it is quite important, especially if you are trying to learn more about how to improve sex life.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. You are abl<\/b><b>e to be vulnerable<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another aspect of a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/truths-about-the-importance-of-sex-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">healthy sexual relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is that you are able to let your guard down around each other. If you need to cry, you can feel comfortable doing so.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may be having a bad day, and you can count on your partner to cheer you up. This lets you know that your relationship is not just about having sex, which can make you feel like you are valued.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Trust is a two-way street<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In your sexual relationship, you should also be able to trust each other.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This means you s<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">houldn&rsquo;t jump to conclusions when something might look a certain way. You need to give your mate the opportunity to explain themselves and trust that they will offer you the same. Talking it out may allow you to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/things-that-can-bring-couples-closer\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">become closer as a couple<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/7-important-tips-to-build-trust-in-relationships\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7 Important Tips to Build Trust in a Relationship With Your Partner<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>5. You can be open and honest with your expectations<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Something else that may be prudent when it comes to improving sexual relationships is telling each other what you want and expect. This can cover a variety of topics.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, if you enjoy having a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/seven-secrets-to-a-happy-sexual-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">happy sexual relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with your partner, but you&rsquo;d also like to get married one day, let them know that&rsquo;s how you feel.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You should never feel apprehensive when it comes to speaking your mind. Besides that, you should allow your partner the opportunity to respond to what you are asking of them and tell you what they expect. Together you can determine your next steps.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check out this video about having clear expectations in the relationship:<\/span><br><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9j6Ov5ZvUnA\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. You are able to do other things together too<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you feel lik<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e your current sexual relationship is your key on <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to have good sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it can be so much more <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">than that. When you are in a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-is-the-definition-of-a-healthy-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">healthy relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you are able to do so many activities together.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can simply <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/making-time-for-you-and-your-spouse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">spend time together<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, go on dates, learn how to communicate through <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-your-body-language-says-about-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">body language<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and mu<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ch more. If this is something that interests you, think about searching online for things you can do together to work on your intimacy and closeness.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. You feel good<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chances are if you think you are in a healthy duo, you may feel good about yourself and in general. Having your needs met and being a valued member of a couple can make you feel great in many aspects of your life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might feel like your opinion matters to someone, that you are cared for or loved, and you could even feel a boost to your self-esteem and self-worth. These are positive things to work towards as you go about trying to strengthen your bond with someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Even a soft touch seems meaningful<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-69484\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/even-a-soft-touch-seems-meaningful.jpg\" alt=\"Close Up Romantic Young Couple Lying on White Bed With Handsome Topless Guy Embracing Her Beautiful Smiling Partner in Long Sleeve Shirt.\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you become comfortable with someone and keep exploring your intimate relationship, you may find that even when they touch your hand, you experience feelings. The intensity of these feelings may not be the same all the time, but that is fine.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a person&rsquo;s touch causes you to feel butterflies in your stomach, this can be a good thing. It can also help to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-build-positive-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">build positive relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and reinforce that it is something that you want to nurture.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. You can experience other emotions too<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t expect to be happy or blissful all the time. There are times that your partner may make you mad or you may feel sad sometimes. It is important that you feel all of the emotions that you need to feel.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A loving partner will understand these things and allow you to work through them. They may even be by your side to cry with you or hold your hand. Remember that you should do the same for them as well. When they are having bad days, do something to take their mind off of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. You are able to do things you like to do<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In most healthy relationships, both you and your partner will be able to do things you enjoy. Whether these are <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/intimate-conversation\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">intimate conversations<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or not, it doesn&rsquo;t really matter since a strong relationship will offer an opportunity for both.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You should always be an individual as well as part of a couple when you are in a healthy relationship. It is okay for you to have fun and do things you like to do, even if it is something simple like watching your favorite show. There&rsquo;s nothing wrong with it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, you need to offer your mate the same luxury. After all, you may not want to speed every second together anyway!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Conclusion\"><\/span><b>Conclusion<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are a number of things involved when you are discussing a healthy sexual relationship. These types of relationships are possible, but they may take a lot of work and care.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Along the way, it is quite important to ascertain if you are in a healthy o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">r <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-of-an-unhealthy-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unhealthy relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and the tips above should allow you to make the distinction. Use the a<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dvice you read above to help you seek out the right type of sexual relationship or to strengthen the one you are already a part of.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t forget that any relationship you have should be respectful and you should feel heard and accepted. When this is not the case, you need to take steps to reevaluate what you want to do. You might need to lean on a counselor for advice or talk to people you love who can offer an additional perspective.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understand that healthy relationships are quite possible, and you can have the one you want. Think about the characteristics listed in this article when you are evaluating your relationship, and work on the items that need to be addressed.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember to relax as well. These things can take time, and you might not have the relationship you want overnight. This is not something that is a cause for concern.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When it comes to matters of sex, these may be difficult for you to talk about, even with your partner. However, having a healthy sexual relationship is a big part of having an intimate relationship with your mate. Check out this article for more information on how to tell if you are in a healthy sexual relationship and what you can do about it if you aren&rsquo;t. It may also help you find the relationship you want to have. What is a healthy sexual relationship? 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