

{"id":69347,"date":"2021-08-30T11:08:49","date_gmt":"2021-08-30T11:08:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=69347"},"modified":"2026-01-12T09:02:33","modified_gmt":"2026-01-12T09:02:33","slug":"kissing-during-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/kissing-during-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Benefits of Kissing During Sex &#038; Tips for Better Kisses"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-116276\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Slow-Burn-Intimacy.jpg\" alt=\"Slow-Burn Intimacy\" width=\"804\" height=\"536\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing has a quiet power that often goes unnoticed. It slows things down; it softens the moment, deepens it, makes everything feel more connected. Sometimes it&rsquo;s gentle and lingering&hellip; other times playful, hungry, reassuring. A kiss can say &ldquo;I want you,&rdquo; &ldquo;I&rsquo;m here,&rdquo; or &ldquo;this feels safe,&rdquo; all at once.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s not just about lips touching, but about breath, timing, closeness, and trust. During intimacy, kissing can heighten sensation, build emotional closeness, and create a sense of being truly seen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When kissing during sex feels natural and present, it can turn a physical experience into something warmer, more memorable, even grounding. Small shifts in attention, pressure, and intention can make a surprising difference; and sometimes, that&rsquo;s exactly what closeness needs.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-role-does-kissing-play-during-sex\"><\/span><b>What role does kissing play during sex?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing during sex often acts like an emotional bridge. <\/span><b>It slows the pace, heightens sensation, and reminds both partners that connection matters just as much as pleasure.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A kiss can communicate comfort, desire, reassurance, or playfulness&hellip; sometimes all at once.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC4487821\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> indicates that romantic kissing helps assess partner compatibility and strengthen emotional bonds, rather than primarily increasing arousal. An international survey found that women and high mate-value individuals value kissing more, especially in long-term relationships, where frequency was linked to greater relationship satisfaction.<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It helps bodies feel in sync and minds feel safe to open. When people wonder &ldquo;what does kissing during sex mean?&rdquo; the answer is usually closeness; being present, wanted, and emotionally involved, not just physically engaged, in those quiet, shared moments!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-benefits-of-kissing-during-sex-tips-for-better-kisses\"><\/span><b>10 benefits of kissing during sex &amp; tips for better kisses<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing often does more than add pleasure; it brings warmth, connection, and presence into intimacy. Some couples naturally lean into it; others pause and wonder, &ldquo;Do you kiss during sex?&rdquo; often enough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Small moments of closeness can shift the entire experience, making it feel more meaningful, relaxed, and emotionally charged in the best way.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Kissing is the key to arousal<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&rsquo;re in the moment of intense and passionate kissing during sex, do you feel your heart racing and your body literally feeling hot?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationship coach<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/christiana-njoku\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Christiana Njoku<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> says,<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the quickest ways to get sexually aroused is by engaging in intense kissing.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing is one of the best ways to get &ldquo;in the mood&rdquo; for some hot lovemaking.&nbsp; As you start kissing your partner, both of your bodies react.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Slowly, your body begins to prepare for more. You will notice that your temperature rises, you become more assertive, your heart races, and soon you start touching each other. When you are fully aroused, your orgasm is better and much more satisfying.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how to make it a better experience:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Start slow; let kissing build naturally before increasing intensity.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pay attention to your partner&rsquo;s breathing and responses to adjust your pace accordingly.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Combine kissing with a light touch to help arousal unfold gradually.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/get-your-wife-in-mood\/\" title=\"How to Get Your Wife in the Mood: 21 Best Way\">How to Get Your Wife in the Mood: 21 Best Way<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>2. Kissing relieves anxiety and stress<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having sex while you are under a lot of stress isn&rsquo;t really satisfying. If you want awesome sex, then allow yourself to enjoy and give in to passionate kissing.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Christiana Njoku adds,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It takes intentionality with a high level of consciousness to have better sex and engage in kissing your spouse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As your body releases love and happy hormones, it also lowers your cortisol levels. Cortisol is the hormone responsible for managing stress and is even a marker for depression.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, aside from making you happier, kissing sex will also help you lower your stress and anxiety levels. If you are relaxed and focused on what you are doing, you will enjoy sex better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how to make it a better experience:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focus entirely on the moment; put distractions like phones away.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep kisses unhurried to help both of you relax into a sense of closeness.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use gentle, reassuring contact when stress feels present.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/why-do-people-kiss\/\" title=\"Why Do People Kiss? Let&#8217;s Understand the Science Behind It\">Why Do People Kiss? Let&#8217;s Understand the Science Behind It<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>3. Kissing strengthens your bond<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-116278\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Emotional-Reassurance.jpg\" alt=\"Emotional Reassurance\" width=\"804\" height=\"536\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing and having sex are important factors in any relationship. It is one of the glues that will strengthen your love for each other. Kissing and intimacy go hand in hand because when you kiss, you share a deep connection.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The hormone oxytocin has a role here, too. As your body releases this hormone, you become more open to your partner. You trust, feel vulnerable, relax, and connect with each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you enjoy kissing and passionate lovemaking, your bond becomes stronger &ndash; leading to better sex and a better non-sexual bond.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how to make it a better experience:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make eye contact between kisses to reinforce emotional connection.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kiss with intention, not just habit.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Create space for closeness without rushing toward an outcome.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>4. Kissing will make your sex life better<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why does kissing feel good? More accurately, who doesn&rsquo;t want to have a better sex life?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s admit it, good foreplay will make sex better, and sexual kissing is one of the best ways to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/intimacy\/intimacy-tips-to-ignite-the-passion-in-your-marriage\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ignite that fire<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> inside your partner. Kissing while having sex is not just a major turn-on, but it will also make you reach an intense orgasm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you spend time enjoying the art of kissing sex, then you&rsquo;ll see how much it can improve your sex life. So, don&rsquo;t be shy and kiss your way to arousal and satisfying lovemaking.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how to make it a better experience:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Treat kissing as part of foreplay, not something to skip.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Explore different pressures and rhythms instead of repeating the same style.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let kissing continue throughout intimacy, not only at the beginning.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/is-kissing-important\/\" title=\"What Is the Importance of Kissing in Relationships? 11 Reasons\">What Is the Importance of Kissing in Relationships? 11 Reasons<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>5. Kissing boosts your happy hormone<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Locking lips with your partner is kissing foreplay, and it doesn&rsquo;t just help you get aroused; it also makes you feel happier. When you kiss, happy hormones are released.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meet oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine&mdash; the<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC9216351\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">three hormones<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> responsible for making you feel happier. No wonder kissing is so addictive.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you kiss your partner, the rush of happy hormones doesn&rsquo;t just make you feel good&mdash;it also fosters closeness, joy, and mutual understanding in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how to make it a better experience:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kiss often outside the bedroom to reinforce emotional closeness.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stay present instead of treating kissing as a means to an end.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Notice how your body responds and lean into what feels good.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/science-of-love\/\" title=\"Love Hormones: Unraveling the Veracity of the Science of Love\">Love Hormones: Unraveling the Veracity of the Science of Love<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>6. Kissing can help cure headaches and cramps<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you suffer from those annoying headaches and cramps? Does this get in the way of your lovemaking?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you do, instead of declining sexy time with your partner, you might want to reconsider. Remember those three happy hormones? They are also responsible for relieving pain. Aside from that, kissing can also help relieve cramps and headaches.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sex becomes way better and pleasurable without those nasty headaches and cramps. If you have headaches or even menstrual cramps, you might want to ask your partner to kiss and<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/love-making-ideas-for-married-couples\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">make love<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how to make it a better experience:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep things gentle if your body feels sensitive or tired.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use kissing to ease into intimacy rather than pushing through discomfort.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communicate openly about what feels soothing in the moment.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/10-reasons-to-have-sex-frequently-with-your-spouse\/\" title=\"21 Health Benefits of Having Sex with Your Spouse Frequently\">21 Health Benefits of Having Sex with Your Spouse Frequently<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>7. Kissing can help with good oral hygiene<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing is more enjoyable if your partner is both skilled at locking lips and practices good oral hygiene. Good oral hygiene makes kissing more enjoyable, encouraging more moments of closeness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all know that when we kiss, we exchange saliva &ndash; lots of it. But did you know that kissing also makes our mouths secrete more saliva? This helps wash away that nasty plaque that is responsible for cavities.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you and your partner have good oral health, no doubt that kissing will be much more pleasurable for both of you and will improve your sex life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how to make it a better experience:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maintain regular oral care to feel confident and comfortable.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stay hydrated to avoid dry mouth during kissing.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be mindful of your partner&rsquo;s comfort and preferences.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>8. Kissing will help you burn calories<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t expect kissing to help you lose weight, but it does help you burn a few calories.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"research_highlight\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amjmed.com\/article\/S0002-93431300186-1\/fulltext\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> indicates kissing, studied as philematology, engages numerous facial and postural muscles and burns calories. It involves significant biological exchange, including fluids and bacteria, most of which are harmless, though some viruses and infections can be transmitted, making health and hygiene relevant factors.<\/span><\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing during sex and other fun lovemaking activities is a fun way to exercise. So, if you are active in lovemaking and trying out different sex positions in bed, then you would be happy to know that you are also burning calories.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing and lovemaking are a sure fun way to work out!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how to make it a better experience:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stay active and engaged rather than passive during intimacy.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let kissing flow naturally with movement and touch.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focus on enjoyment instead of performance or effort.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/how-to-kiss-better\/\" title=\"How to Kiss Better &#8211; 25 Most Effective Tips to Try Out\">How to Kiss Better &#8211; 25 Most Effective Tips to Try Out<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>9. Kissing amps up your self-esteem<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-116277\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/Rekindling-Desire.jpg\" alt=\"Rekindling Desire\" width=\"804\" height=\"536\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you can turn him on while kissing, then you are a good lover. It boosts your self-esteem and makes you feel a whole lot better. What&rsquo;s better is that this works both ways!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner, who is receiving all the love and kisses, will also get a boost of self-esteem. Imagine receiving a passionate kiss before heading to work &ndash; wouldn&rsquo;t that give you the inspiration you need?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-esteem makes us better lovers.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> If we know what we can offer, we will be confident in how we please our partners and vice versa. Feeling loved and wanted is a great way to motivate yourself to please your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how to make it a better experience:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kiss with confidence rather than self-judgment.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Respond positively to your partner&rsquo;s affection.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Allow yourself to feel wanted and appreciated.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/why-self-esteem-is-important-for-relationships\/\" title=\"9 Reasons Why Self-Esteem Can Be Important for Relationships\">9 Reasons Why Self-Esteem Can Be Important for Relationships<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>10. Kissing helps you assess your compatibility<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing is a great way to know if you are<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/sexual-compatibility-quiz\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexually compatible<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with someone. It is a powerful way to explore your emotional and physical compatibility. We all know that foreplay is kissing sexually and intimately with your partner, but sometimes, you just don&rsquo;t click.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There can be many reasons why this happens.&nbsp; Some have bad oral hygiene, some can be a total bore when it comes to kissing and lovemaking, and others don&rsquo;t feel that &lsquo;spark&rsquo; that we are looking for.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We have to admit. There are instances where we just realize that we can&rsquo;t go all the way with someone, and kissing is one way to find out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By knowing and assessing your partner, you know that you will not just enjoy your sex life, but will also make sure that you are compatible with each other. So, before you go all the way, you&rsquo;d already know if you are sexually compatible with your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s how to make it a better experience:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Notice how comfortable and natural kissing feels between you.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pay attention to mutual effort and responsiveness.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trust your instincts about emotional and physical alignment.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this TED Talk in which psychiatrist Dr Raj Persaud explains how relationship challenges shape our lives and how understanding attraction can improve connection and well-being:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/3E46oWB4V0s?si=ugmwp6wStqZgyFdJ\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can-kissing-make-sex-better\"><\/span><b>Can kissing make sex better?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often, yes&hellip; but in a quieter, more meaningful way. Kissing adds warmth, connection, and emotional presence to intimacy. For many couples, it&rsquo;s a natural expression of affection and desire, helping partners feel closer and more in sync with each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Beyond pleasure, kissing can deepen trust and make the experience feel more relaxed and mutual. To enjoy kissing during sex or foreplay, we must, of course, be enticing for our partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What do we mean by this?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before engaging in passionate kissing, remember the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Practice good hygiene and grooming<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Nobody wants to kiss a person who has poor hygiene.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Don&rsquo;t be shy<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Remember that your partner can literally sense if you are timid and nervous. This doesn&rsquo;t make a good first impression and might lead your partner to feel disappointed.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Aside from kissing, also practice sensual touching<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This will make your foreplay and lovemaking more enjoyable. Caress your partner, whisper, feel the heat of the moment.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Be assertive and enjoy the moment<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Take the initiative, but also take time to enjoy each other &ndash; literally.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Don&rsquo;t be afraid to be passionate.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Don&rsquo;t be shy! This is the time to show how much you want the person you are kissing. Enjoy, give in, and show your partner how good you are.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Save the tongue.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Not all people want to kiss and have some tongue action, especially on your first make-out session. Save it, and allow your partner to initiate the tongue action.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take note and be ready to give and receive pleasure by kissing.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-a-guy-is-thinking-when-he-kisses-you\/\" title=\"What a Guy Is Thinking When He Kisses You: 15 Different Thoughts\">What a Guy Is Thinking When He Kisses You: 15 Different Thoughts<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"My-partner-doesn%E2%80%99t-kiss-me-during-sex-%E2%80%93-Help\"><\/span><b>My partner doesn&rsquo;t kiss me during sex &ndash; Help!<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, what happens if your partner doesn&rsquo;t kiss you when you make love?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The fact is, like many other sexual tips and tricks, kissing during sex will depend on your personal preferences. While many people love kissing, others don&rsquo;t.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are aware that your partner isn&rsquo;t into long kisses, then that&rsquo;s okay. <\/span><b>However, if this bothers you in any way or you feel like you&rsquo;re not enjoying sex because you lack intimate kissing, then it&rsquo;s time to speak with your partner.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to sex, we need to be transparent with our partners. Who doesn&rsquo;t want to please their partners? You can talk about it and make ends meet. If there are underlying issues that can affect your relationship or marriage, then you can also seek professional help.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Key-takeaway\"><\/span><b>Key takeaway<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kissing often reminds us that intimacy isn&rsquo;t only about intensity; it&rsquo;s about presence, trust, and shared emotion. Small, thoughtful moments can soften tension, deepen desire, and make a connection feel mutual and safe. There&rsquo;s no single right way, only what feels natural for both of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Paying attention, slowing down, and staying curious can change everything.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Learning how to kiss during sex isn&rsquo;t about perfection, but about responsiveness and care. When affection and awareness guide the moment, intimacy becomes warmer, more meaningful, and deeply satisfying&hellip; something you both feel, not just experience.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kissing has a quiet power that often goes unnoticed. It slows things down; it softens the moment, deepens it, makes everything feel more connected. Sometimes it&rsquo;s gentle and lingering&hellip; other times playful, hungry, reassuring. A kiss can say &ldquo;I want you,&rdquo; &ldquo;I&rsquo;m here,&rdquo; or &ldquo;this feels safe,&rdquo; all at once. It&rsquo;s not just about lips touching, but about breath, timing, closeness, and trust. During intimacy, kissing can heighten sensation, build emotional closeness, and create a sense of being truly seen. 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