

{"id":67957,"date":"2021-07-15T10:51:34","date_gmt":"2021-07-15T10:51:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=67957"},"modified":"2024-04-30T09:10:17","modified_gmt":"2024-04-30T09:10:17","slug":"consequences-of-affairs-when-both-parties-are-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/consequences-of-affairs-when-both-parties-are-married\/","title":{"rendered":"What Are Consequences of Affairs When Both Parties Are Married"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-67974\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/what-are-consequences-of-affairs-when-both-parties-are-married.jpg\" alt=\"Awkward and Other Bad Feelings Cause to Couple Break Up and Ending Relationship\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What could an affair between two married people lead to?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The answer to this question has been explored time and again in books, TV shows, and movies. However, things are different when they don&rsquo;t occur in the realm of fiction.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having an affair can be life-altering and can force you to choose between your spouse and lover. This article will explore the consequences of affairs when both parties are married and will shed more light on marriage affairs.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The-definition-of-an-affair\"><\/span>The definition of an affair<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before we go over the consequences of affairs between married man and married woman, it is first essential to define the meaning of the word &ldquo;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.cambridge.org\/dictionary\/english\/affair\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">affair<\/span><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&rdquo;.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most commonly, an affair is usually a romantic relationship with someone other than your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Affairs usually occur when one person cannot fulfill their needs fulfilled from their primary relationship and seek someone else to meet those needs.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/types-of-affairs\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What Are the Different Types of Affairs?<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3-Reasons-why-affairs-happen\"><\/span>3 Reasons why affairs happen<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you both married and having an affair?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before we go into being married and having an affair, we need to first talk about why affairs happen in the first place and why people seek comfort and partnership outside of their marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These reasons can also be used to classify these affairs into different types. Here are the most common reasons why affairs happen.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Lust<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Casual affairs are usually driven by lust, and neither of the two parties is serious about each other. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/importance-of-exploring-your-sexuality\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexual exploration<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and thrill are generally at the center of casual affairs. Lust and exploring oneself sexually can become one of the reasons why people have affairs.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/casual-relationships\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Casual Relationships: Types, Benefits and Risks<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>2. Love and romance<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love, or romance can often be at the root of affairs, even when they occur between two married people. Romantic affairs are more serious as the parties are usually involved romantically and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-show-someone-you-care\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">care deeply for one another<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Unrequited feelings may also come under this classification.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Emotional connection<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/top-10-signs-of-emotional-infidelity\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional affairs<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, sex is not usually at the heart of these affairs. The emotional connection between the two people is. These affairs are intense as both the people share an emotional bond and love each other deeply.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/maggie-martinez\">Maggie Martinez<\/a>, LCSW, says that<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Emotional affairs can be more difficult to end than physical affairs due to the connection the two people build.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/platonic-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Platonic relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, too, come under emotional affairs when they are hidden from your partner. An emotional connection between two married people can be the reason for an affair.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/top-10-signs-of-emotional-infidelity\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why Are Emotional Affairs So Dangerous?<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<p><b>This video can help you figure out why people have affairs:<\/b><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/d079McwlBRE\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In most cases, affairs happen when there are cracks in the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/foundation-rs-for-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">foundation of your marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Some people resort to having affairs while married, when their needs aren&rsquo;t being met in their primary relationship or marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People have affairs for different reasons.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A recent <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.helenfisher.com\/downloads\/articles\/INFIDELITY.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> found that women had an affair when they felt that emotional intimacy and communication lacked their primary relationship. Other reasons include tiredness, abuse, bad history with sex, and a lack of sexual interest in their partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, men have affairs when they&rsquo;re stressed, feel a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/3-reasons-why-a-lack-of-communication-in-marriage-can-be-detrimental\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/repairing-emotional-intimacy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. face sexual dysfunction, or are chronically fatigued.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling unvalued or unwanted is perhaps the biggest reason why people stray.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>It is important for couples to have frequent check in&rsquo;s about how they are feeling in the relationship.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>adds Maggie Martinez<\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/extramarital-affairs\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Extramarital Affairs: Types, Reasons, and Consequences<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-long-does-the-affair-between-married-couples-last\"><\/span>How long does the affair between married couples last?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-67975\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/how-long-does-the-affair-between-married-couples-last.jpg\" alt=\"Cheating Spouses Using Smartphones Texting With Lovers Lying Back-to-back in Bed at Home at Night\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When both parties are married, affairs do not generally last very long as they are more complicated than traditional affairs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hli.org\/resources\/what-percentage-of-marriages-survive-infidelity\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">statistics<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> suggest that between 60-75% of marriages survive an affair.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, the chances of affairs between married couples being a success are low. It is also generally believed that all kinds of affairs are usually short-lived as affairs do come with several challenges.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to experts, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.regain.us\/advice\/infidelity\/how-do-affairs-end-usually\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">most affairs between married couples usually last about a year,<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> give or take.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-do-affairs-between-married-people-start\"><\/span>How do affairs between married people start?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you two married people having an affair? How does it begin?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When both parties are married, affairs usually start when both parties are <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/causes-of-unhappy-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unsatisfied with their marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and develop an emotional bond. It&rsquo;s important to remember that each affair is unique.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&rsquo;s take a look at a few examples of couples having affairs.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Example 1<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Samantha and David worked for a reputable consultancy firm and met when they worked for the same client. Late meetings and deadlines brought them close together, and they became friends and started opening up to each other about the cracks in their respective marriages.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more time they spent together, the closer they got to each other. They both felt like they could talk to each other about anything.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Both Samantha and David had needs that remained unfulfilled in their respective marriages, which is how they started to get emotionally connected.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Example 2<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clarissa and Mark met on a dating site. Both of them were married and were looking for some thrill in life. Clarissa&rsquo;s husband would travel a lot for business, and she felt lonely.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mark wasn&rsquo;t on the best terms with his wife&ndash;whenever they&rsquo;d talk, they would end up in an argument. Both Mark and Clarissa thought their arrangement was perfect as they could have their fun on the side and go back home to their respective marriages.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>For Clarissa and Mark, the spirit of adventure was what brought them together.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Example 3<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For Janice and Matthew, things started somewhat differently. They both had been best of friends since school and married their college sweethearts and were happy.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Until both of their marriages began to crumble, and they found support and companionship in each other. Suddenly, they became more than just friends after being in each other&rsquo;s lives for over a decade.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>In Matthew and Jane&rsquo;s case, friendship and a close intimate connection brought them together.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is, affairs start for different reasons. No two affairs are alike.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;re married but want an affair, there may be cracks that exist in the foundation of your marriage that need to be addressed.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/stages-of-getting-over-an-affair\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stages of Getting Over an Affair<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-do-affairs-between-married-people-end\"><\/span>How do affairs between married people end?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-67976\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/how-do-affairs-between-married-people-end.jpg\" alt=\"African American Unhappy Couple Sitting on Couch After Quarrel Fight Thinking of Break Up or Divorce\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Affairs are usually tricky to keep a secret, as the spouses usually do end up finding out about them or at least have a clue as to what&rsquo;s going on.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Marital commitment<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Affairs usually don&rsquo;t last long as the truth about them almost always comes to light.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most affairs when both parties are married end with an ultimatum from the spouse&ndash;<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it&rsquo;s either them or me. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hli.org\/resources\/what-percentage-of-marriages-survive-infidelity\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">75% of the cases<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, people end up going back to their own marriages and spouses because of the children, shared financial assets, history, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People often go back to their spouses to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/save-your-marriage\/6-ways-to-successfully-fix-save-a-broken-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">work on their broken marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and rebuild it from the ground up.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Moral conscience&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some affairs also end because of shame and guilt.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Usually, one partner&rsquo;s superego or moral conscience cannot let the affair go on as it is wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They often start to feel <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/how-to-get-over-guilt-caused-by-cheating-in-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">guilty about cheating<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on their partner and end the affair there and then&ndash;before they are found out even if they were falling in love with an affair partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Divorce and Remarriage&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A small number of affairs end in both the parties divorcing their spouses and marrying each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The emotional connection between the two parties is usually a factor that keeps them both together. This is common in the event of both spouses cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-percent-of-marriages-survive-affairs\"><\/span>What percent of marriages survive affairs?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many people go back to their spouses after having an affair&ndash;even when the secret of their infidelity has been uncovered.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to a recent <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hli.org\/resources\/what-percentage-of-marriages-survive-infidelity\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, 60-75% of marriages are able to survive marriage affairs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People who have been unfaithful to their partner often feel that they owe it to their spouse to make things work and try hard to work on their marriage. In some cases, it is the guilt that acts as the glue that keeps the marriage together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, the marriage has to undergo many additional issues, such as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/lack-of-trust-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of trust<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, resentment, anger, feelings of betrayal, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Time (and therapy) heals all wounds.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may take years for your family to recover from the internal wounds that are left by affairs. Not only do affairs affect the spouse, but they also affect your relationship with the children.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In most cases, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/marriage-and-family-therapy\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marital and family therapy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can help the family come to terms with the consequences of the affair as a unit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With time, patience, consistency, and effort, a marriage can survive an affair.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/how-to-stop-having-an-affair\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How To Stop Having An Affair<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Consequences-encountered-in-affairs-when-both-parties-are-married\"><\/span>Consequences encountered in affairs when both parties are married<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-67978\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/consequences-encountered-in-affairs-when-both-parties-are-married.jpg\" alt=\"Wife Catching Cheating Husband With Mistress in Bed Making Love at Home\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People often start affairs without giving a thought to the consequences they will later face. Most people describe their affairs to be spontaneous<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, they do come with several results.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Affairs affect two families&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The affair affects not one but two families&mdash;especially when there are kids involved. Even if the marriage survives the affair, it will still be challenging to move on from it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The fate of the marriages rests solely with the spouses. While one couple might want to give their marriage a second chance, the other may decide to call it quits.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Affairs can be emotionally draining for both families. In some cases, the children of both parties may know each other, which can cause even more complications.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. It may lead to legal troubles<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adultery is still illegal in some states in the US, so your affair may lead to legal consequences as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In addition to that, the emotional trauma caused to the families involved is immeasurable.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Increased risk of getting an STD<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having multiple partners does spike one&rsquo;s risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease which can, in some cases, be fatal.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Guilt and mental health issues<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you end up cheating on your spouse, you may feel guilty and find it difficult to get over. The guilt can affect your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4119797\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mental health<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/signs-of-a-married-man-in-love-with-another-woman\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Signs of a Married Man in Love With Another Woman<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>The bottom line<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When both parties are married, affairs can be very complicated&ndash;especially when one of the betrayed spouses catches on. The consequences of such affairs can be emotionally draining, and you end up hurting multiple people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples counseling can help you breathe new life into your marriage, while individual counseling can help you understand your patterns so that you can overcome them.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What could an affair between two married people lead to? The answer to this question has been explored time and again in books, TV shows, and movies. However, things are different when they don&rsquo;t occur in the realm of fiction. Having an affair can be life-altering and can force you to choose between your spouse and lover. This article will explore the consequences of affairs when both parties are married and will shed more light on marriage affairs. The definition of an affair Before we go over the consequences of affairs between married man and married woman, it is first <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":630,"featured_media":67974,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[23],"tags":[2689],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67957"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/630"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=67957"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67957\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":98531,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67957\/revisions\/98531"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/67974"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=67957"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=67957"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=67957"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}