

{"id":6629,"date":"2016-03-09T05:06:11","date_gmt":"2016-03-09T05:06:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=6629"},"modified":"2026-03-17T05:59:22","modified_gmt":"2026-03-17T05:59:22","slug":"marriage-intimacy-tips-to-help-you-both-come-closer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/intimacy\/marriage-intimacy-tips-to-help-you-both-come-closer\/","title":{"rendered":"Marriage Intimacy Tips to Help You Both Come Closer"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6630 size-full\" title=\"Marriage intimacy tips\" src=\"http:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/44.jpg\" alt=\"Marriage Intimacy Tips\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"what is intimacy in a relationship\"}'>What is intimacy in a relationship? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/intimacy\/what-is-intimacy\/\">What is intimacy in a marriage<\/a>? Is it only physical in nature, or can it also be found in platonic relationships?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Many of us hear intimacy and immediately think of sex.<\/strong> Sex is a significant factor in developing&nbsp;<span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"intimacy in marriage\"}'>intimacy in marriage,<\/span> but non-sexual&nbsp;<span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"intimacy in relationships\"}'>intimacy in relationships<\/span> is equally significant. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, when there are marriage intimacy problems present, the way to fix those issues is addressing both non-sexual and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5496682\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">sexual <span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"intimacy in a relationship\"}'>intimacy in a relationship<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doing so is a well-rounded approach that results in a very refreshing outcome that gives the marriage a new life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The inability of people in relationships to understand intimacy without sex is many times the cause of a lack of<span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"lack of intimacy in marriage\"}'> intimacy in marriage.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>There are many different&nbsp;<span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"levels of intimacy\"}'>levels of intimacy that a couple can attain in their marriage, and sex is only one such level.&nbsp;<\/span><span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"building intimacy\"}'>Building intimacy in your marriage or&nbsp;restoring intimacy in marriage requires you to experience different levels of intimacy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Through this article, we urge you to <strong>try different forms of intimacy<\/strong> and make your marriage stronger than ever.<\/p>\n<p>Also, if you feel a strong need for intimacy in your marriage or are wondering&nbsp;<span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"how to fix intimacy problems in a marriage\"}'>how to fix intimacy problems in a marriage, f<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ind some great tips to improve marriage intimacy below.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Also watch:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pq03xxJgtak\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2>Non-sexual marriage intimacy tips<\/h2>\n<p><b>1. Create an intimate space<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Improved marital intimacy begins by creating an intimate space. Married couples, especially those with children, do not get the amount of privacy desired. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Couples want to be alone every once in a while<\/strong> to wind down and appreciate each other&rsquo;s company. They want to talk without editing themselves, take in each other&rsquo;s energy, and perhaps, cuddle without being disturbed. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if creating that intimate space requires work, do it. Get up early in the morning if you have to stay up late on the weekends to spend quality time or head back home during lunch hour to enjoy a quiet house and a quick bite together. Be creative.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>2. Be open with your love<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no reason to hide your love and warmth from family, friends, or your children. Closeness is lovely and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/4-essential-tips-to-improve-physical-intimacy-in-a-marriage\/\">keeps the intimacy alive<\/a>! Never be afraid to show affection. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hug, hold hands, put your arm around your spouse, give each other that unique look, and exchange smiles. Compliments are also very impactful. Display of love sends a positive message to anyone that witnesses them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>3. Have a discussion about needs<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples must discuss individual needs at some point. When the two of you are alone and relaxing, start an open conversation about what each other requirements are to remain happy and fulfilled in the relationship along with ways those needs can be met. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Such a discussion will open eyes by helping couples understand one another. Some individuals crave quality time; others want more affection, while some need a little more support. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Along with learning what each other&rsquo;s needs are, couples <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4852543\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">benefit from communicating openly and honestly<\/a>. Discussing the relationship and showing interest in the happiness of your spouse increases intimacy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>You may never know if you don&rsquo;t talk about it.<\/strong> You can start the conversation by asking, &ldquo;Is there anything I can do to make you happier in this marriage?&rdquo; or &ldquo;Do you have any emotional needs I am not fulfilling?&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-17709\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/3-Ways-to-Cultivate-Intimacy-in-Your-Marriage.jpg\" alt=\"how to fix intimacy problems in a marriage\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h2><b>Sexual marriage intimacy tips<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/how-to-fix-sexual-problems-in-a-marriage\/\">Marriage intimacy problems<\/a> usually surround what is or isn&rsquo;t happening in the bedroom. So&nbsp;<span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"how to improve marriage intimacy\"}'>how to improve marriage intimacy?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The non-sexual tips discussed will improve your sex life since partners are better able to connect physically when both are mentally and emotionally fulfilled. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Addressing the non-sexual portion is the way to start<\/strong>, but there are additional steps to take on <span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"how to increase intimacy\"}'><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/\">how to increase intimacy in marriage<\/a><\/span>. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Find them below:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>1. Commit to a challenge<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those wanting to know how to improve marital intimacy should start by doing the opposite of what is not working. Those with this issue are likely not connecting as much as they should physically. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Challenge one another to have sex &ldquo;x&rdquo; amount of times for the duration of 1 or 2 weeks. This encourages partners to make a conscious effort. Remember that this doesn&rsquo;t require full-on date nights. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Just get romantic and enjoy each other.<\/strong> Also, do not be afraid to initiate. It is very healthy for the person that almost never begins to start. It will make your spouse feel desired.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>2. Visit an adult store<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the thought of this makes you blush in embarrassment, there is the option to visit an online adult shop with your spouse. Look around, see what interests you, and possibly place an order. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deliveries are sent in unmarked parcels, so no one will know the contents but you. Doing something a little out of the ordinary can add fire and excitement to a marriage. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are not only taking part in something a little risqu&eacute; together, but browsing around the shop may inspire new ideas. That is the great thing about being married.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You can go on naughty adventures while maintaining a safe, secure space.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>3. Don&rsquo;t forget the eye contact<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eye contact significantly <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/4-essential-tips-to-improve-physical-intimacy-in-a-marriage\/\">improves sexual intimacy<\/a>. It makes many feel vulnerable and exposed, but vulnerability and exposure are not bad. Both actually promote intimacy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">T<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hat initial urge to look away is natural, but making eye contact will connect you and your spouse on a deeply intimate level. It strengthens the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5961442\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">emotional connection<\/a> between partners, boosts confidence, and builds trust. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, you want to work up to this, but try making eye contact during sex. Watching your spouse experience pleasure is arousing. Those uncomfortable with the idea must take things slow. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Start with short gazes until you get comfortable<\/strong> and then hold eye contact longer when the time feels right.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Final thoughts&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It has often been questioned that&nbsp;<span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"how important is intimacy in a relationship\"}'><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/intimacy\/how-important-is-intimacy-in-a-relationship\/\">how important is intimacy in a relationship<\/a>, or&nbsp;can a relationship survive without intimacy? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-sheets-userformat='{\"2\":15105,\"3\":{\"1\":0},\"11\":3,\"12\":0,\"14\":[null,2,0],\"15\":\"Calibri\",\"16\":11}' data-sheets-value='{\"1\":2,\"2\":\"how important is intimacy in a relationship\"}'>Well, intimacy is what strengthens the connection that you share with another person. It is the building block for creating a healthy relationship that only enhances the trust you have in your partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is intimacy in a relationship? What is intimacy in a marriage? Is it only physical in nature, or can it also be found in platonic relationships? Many of us hear intimacy and immediately think of sex. Sex is a significant factor in developing&nbsp;intimacy in marriage, but non-sexual&nbsp;intimacy in relationships is equally significant. In fact, when there are marriage intimacy problems present, the way to fix those issues is addressing both non-sexual and sexual intimacy in a relationship. Doing so is a well-rounded approach that results in a very refreshing outcome that gives the marriage a new life. The inability <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":6630,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[24],"tags":[2527],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6629"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6629"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6629\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":118220,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6629\/revisions\/118220"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6630"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6629"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6629"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6629"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}