

{"id":63581,"date":"2021-02-25T08:43:37","date_gmt":"2021-02-25T08:43:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=63581"},"modified":"2023-02-25T08:43:37","modified_gmt":"2023-02-25T08:43:37","slug":"how-drug-addiction-affects-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/how-drug-addiction-affects-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"How Drug Addiction Affects Relationships?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63584\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/how-drug-addiction-affects-relationships.jpg\" alt=\"Despaired Male Holding Different Tablets Women Standing Behind On Window\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In relationships, when one of the partners struggles with drug addiction, the need for drugs can become the number one priority overriding all else, including affection.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The effects of substance abuse can put even the strongest of bonds to the test through financial struggles, communication problems, and trust issues.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you wonder how drug addiction affects relationships keep reading to understand the first signs of drug addictions, potential consequences, and how to overcome them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-drug-addiction\"><\/span>What is drug addiction?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before we move on to the effects of addiction and how drug addiction affects relationships, let&rsquo;s define what drug abuse is first.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Substance use disorder, commonly known as drug addiction, refers to a complex condition affecting the person&rsquo;s brain and behavior, making them unable to resist using various substances.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/domestic-violence-and-abuse\/support-your-spouse-in-substance-addiction-recovery\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ways to Support Your Spouse in Addiction Recovery<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-does-drug-addiction-affect-your-relationship\"><\/span>How does drug addiction affect your relationship?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in a relationship with an addict or being an addict yourself can have both short and long-term consequences. One of the things that suffer the most is relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The urge becomes prioritized over everything else despite the harm it is causing to one&rsquo;s health and their loved ones&rsquo; life.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How does it do that?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Substance abuse triggers pleasure-inducing neurotransmitters such as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC6338445\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dopamine in the brain<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. One of the ways how drug addiction affects relationships is by overtaking the pathways responsible for rewarding human behavior.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Normally, dopamine is released when we engage in behaviors essential for survival (e.g., caring for other people). Drug abuse floods the neurotransmitters with dopamine making them less available for uptake and absorption.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, addicts can rely on the drugs for their dopamine hit instead of receiving it as a result of connecting and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/simple-steps-to-take-care-of-your-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">caring in relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Effects of drug addiction on intimacy<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Loving someone with an addiction can be quite an emotional rollercoaster. Learning how to deal with a drug addict husband or wife can be painful and heartbreaking because you no longer feel you are the priority in their life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The emotional effects of drug abuse include neglecting your partner, their needs and distancing yourself from people<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Over time, secrecy and distrust increase while communication and intimacy deteriorate.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/importance-of-trust\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trust is an essential component<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of a healthy relationship. When it starts to decay, it is expected the same will happen to your bond and relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Violence and abuse stem from drug addiction relationships<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63585\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/violence-and-abuse-stem-from-drug-addiction-relationships.jpg\" alt=\"Drunk Man Holding A Bottle Of Liquor With A Sad And Worried Out Of Focus Wife On The Background\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you mix drug addiction and relationships, you get the potential for another very serious consequence &ndash; violence and abuse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abusing drugs leads the person to make choices they otherwise wouldn&rsquo;t. The need to get their next dose becomes their first concern. This can have serious consequences.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They might use money allocated for their family or utility bills to attain drugs. If they cannot have the next dose, they can become frustrated, agitated, and violent.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trying to quit can also lead to feelings of helplessness, anger, and agitation. The addicts&rsquo; behavior can become unpredictable, and they can be easily provoked. This can lead to victimizing their family members.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why Compassion is Powerful in Addiction Recovery<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<p><b>Also Watch:<\/b><br><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/6AqjvLAGEQQ\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"11-Signs-drug-use-is-harming-the-relationship\"><\/span>11 Signs drug use is harming the relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are important signs of drug use and relationship damage you need to familiarize yourself with. If you recognize spouse drug addiction on time, as well as the first relationship deterioration signs, you can react promptly.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The faster the response, the higher the chances of recovery and reducing the harm to the relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Some of the signs that drugs are already hurting the relationship include:<\/b><\/p>\n<ol><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trust is disappearing, and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/keeping-secrets-can-destroy-a-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">secrecy is taking over<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tension and uneasiness overtake daily interactions&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reduced intimacy and affection&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lowered or nonexistent libido&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2013\/01\/130117105736.htm\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexual problems<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in the bedroom<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Getting angry and frustrated with each other easily.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Increasing feelings of resentment and grief<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling helpless and anxious&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uneven distribution of responsibility between the addicted and the non-addicted spouse<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Making excuses for the addict as a shield from shame, sadness, and guilt<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Withdrawing and isolating from close family and friends to hide the problem&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/parenting\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tips on How to Talk to Your Kids About Drugs and Alcohol<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Drug-addiction-and-Codependency-in-relationship\"><\/span>Drug addiction and Codependency in relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When we talk about how drug addiction affects relationships, besides the typical addict behavior in relationships, we need to pay attention to enabling behavior in relationships and how those <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/scielosp.org\/article\/csc\/2016.v21n1\/101-107\/#\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lead to codependency<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides reinforcing the addiction, codependency has other physical and emotional tolls on everyone, such as poor health, lack of self-care, and neglecting responsibilities.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Drugs cause addiction, but people maintain it. Addiction needs a systematic approach because reinforcements and consequences of drug use are not restricted to the addict.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>People can unconsciously reinforce the addict&rsquo;s behavior for many reasons.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It could be the family wanting to help the addicted person by taking over their responsibility to lighten their load. However, in doing so, they take away from the addict the chance to feel good about themselves by doing something useful and contributing to the family.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, although stemming from care or worry, the family contributes to a codependent relationship that allows the addict to continue with their behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Enabling behaviors of drug abuse in relationships<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you mix addiction and relationships, you get a situation in which it is not uncommon for the non-addicted partner to enable the addiction problem. If you want to understand codependency and addiction, you need to take a look at why people use drugs and how both spouses contribute to the cycle of dependence.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When the addiction problem is recognized and revealed, it can be hard to wrap your mind around it. Knowing your loved one is addicted to substances can be a shock, and you need time to process it.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At first, one of the ways how drug addiction affects relationships is by having both partners minimize the problem. The non-addicted partner may try to keep the rose glasses on to maintain the way they see the world, their partner, and themselves.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Not dealing with the problem, unfortunately, enables the addicted partner.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Furthermore, downplaying the strength of the hold drugs have on the addict is not helpful and postpones finding help.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Furthermore, addiction can serve other purposes that, in turn, reinforce the problem. For example, when under the substance&rsquo;s effect, the person can become docile, caring, or able to talk about problems in a way they can&rsquo;t when they are sober.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5115643\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Studies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have also found that addict wives score higher on the dependency scale than do wives of non-addicts. One of the ways they deal with the role of being an addict&rsquo;s wife is by accepting duties and responsibilities of taking care of their spouse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This role, in turn, can give them a sense of control and self-worth. Such potential secondary benefits can lead to enabling behaviors in relationships and keeping the addiction cycle going.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading: <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/can-a-codependent-relationship-be-saved\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How Can a Codependent Relationship Be Saved<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Negative risks of codependency and enabling behaviors<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A spouse&rsquo;s drug addiction can jeopardize how you see the relationship and shake your world.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is no surprise you might reach for defensive mechanisms such as minimizing and denying the problem. However, the longer you do this, the more you are postponing dealing with the problem. Doing that can lead to:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maintaining and reinforcing the addiction&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Too much focus on the addicted spouse, too little on the non-addicted&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/never-compromise-yourself-in-the-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Compromising on your own needs<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, wants, and desires<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isolation and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/get-over-loneliness\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">feelings of loneliness<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and despair<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/low-self-esteem-in-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Low self-esteem<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and feeling guilty<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Losing trust and hope recovery is possible<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Exhausting yourself and giving up on the relationship&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><pre><b><i>Also Try:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/when-to-give-up-on-a-relationship-quiz\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When to Give up on a Relationship Quiz<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-Steps-to-work-on-the-relationship-affected-by-drug-addiction\"><\/span>5 Steps to work on the relationship affected by drug addiction<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-63586\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/steps-to-work-on-the-relationship-affected-by-drug-addiction.jpg\" alt=\"Caucasian Psychologist Female Supporting Comforting African Millennial Addicted Guy Diverse People Gather At Rehab Group Concept\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you recognize signs of drug use in a spouse, how do you prevent and repair the damage it causes to the relationship? What are the steps you can take and how to have a relationship with an addict?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Admit and plan ahead<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no one answer on how to deal with an addict, but the journey starts with the same step &ndash; recognizing there is a problem.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Once you do that, you can strategize and look for the best ways to approach battling addiction and to save your relationship.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t postpone dealing with the problem as the stress is only going to pile up.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Find the right help&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are many <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">professionals who can help<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but you should focus on finding the ones who have had experience with addiction problems.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often the combination of individual and group work is best. Therapy can help the person learn skills related to stress prevention, toleration, and resolution.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially important as it seems that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/S1877042813018260\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">stress<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and ineffective coping strategies can play a considerable role in addiction and relapse.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ideally, there will be a possibility for couple or family counseling. The system approach can help understand and deal with challenges surrounding addiction as it can be reinforced unconsciously by other members of the family.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Furthermore, attending therapy together will provide a safe space to work on the relationship and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/8-tips-to-improve-communication-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">improve communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and intimacy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Create and share some positive experiences&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When the focus is only on solving the problem, the relationship can stagnate (at best). You need to give attention to replenishing the well you are taking from.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are the activities you enjoy that help you continue to see each other in a positive light? Find them and hold on to them!&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some days, it will be harder than others, but it gives the relationship a chance in the long run. Having a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S030646030800302X\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">close relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> will also promote recovery as they are a protective factor in drug use.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Surround yourself with support&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the ways how drug addiction affects relationships is by isolating you from close people. Due to guilt or shame, people tend to hide the problem to prevent further hurt. In the process, they also prevent themselves from receiving help and support.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who can you trust that can be there for you and not judge you? If you have no such person, find online or in-person groups that can play that role.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When friends are there for you, you can be there for your partner and continue to invest in the relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Take care of yourself&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t forget addiction is a long-term battle. It&rsquo;s not going away overnight, and there are going to be ups and downs. You can&rsquo;t hold your breath until it blows over.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You need to take an active part in acknowledging and providing for your needs and desires. Otherwise, you will become exhausted and resentful before the process of recovery and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/steps-to-repair-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">repairing the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have a chance to give results.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/taking-care-of-each-other\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Taking Care of Each Other in Marriage<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can-all-the-affected-relationships-by-drug-abuse-be-repaired\"><\/span>Can all the affected relationships by drug abuse be repaired?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first rule of helping someone reminds you that you can&rsquo;t take responsibility for another&rsquo;s life. A person should strongly desire to change. Only then is there a chance of transformation.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forcing someone to adjust and change can only lead to resistance. Therefore, it takes both partner&rsquo;s efforts to make overcoming addiction problems possible, and sometimes this isn&rsquo;t the case.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationships in which partners communicate, work on managing the addiction, and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/accepting-responsibility-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">take responsibility for their actions<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> stand a chance. It is also important that focus is on both partners, not just the addicted one, as dealing with addiction is a long-term challenge.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Also Try:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/is-my-relationship-worth-saving-quiz\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is My Relationship Worth Saving Quiz<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>Conclusion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How can drugs affect your life and relationships? A relationship with a drug addict can be an emotional rollercoaster.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You care for them, and you want them to get better, but you can feel outraged, betrayed, alone, isolated, and helpless a lot of the time. Sometimes, inadvertently, you are enabling them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your job and your social circle are affected too. But there is hope, and it doesn&rsquo;t have to result in ending a relationship with a drug addict.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though addiction leaves a mark on relationships, recovering addicts and relationships can co-exist. Marriages can still survive if both partners are determined to do so.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The addict needs to want to change, while the non-addicted person can help them in finding the motivation to do so. With the right help, negative consequences and addiction itself can be managed, and life can be gratifying again.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In relationships, when one of the partners struggles with drug addiction, the need for drugs can become the number one priority overriding all else, including affection.&nbsp; The effects of substance abuse can put even the strongest of bonds to the test through financial struggles, communication problems, and trust issues.&nbsp; If you wonder how drug addiction affects relationships keep reading to understand the first signs of drug addictions, potential consequences, and how to overcome them. What is drug addiction? Before we move on to the effects of addiction and how drug addiction affects relationships, let&rsquo;s define what drug abuse is first. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":63584,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2502],"tags":[2609],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63581"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=63581"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63581\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":63587,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63581\/revisions\/63587"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/63584"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=63581"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=63581"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=63581"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}