{"id":62211,"date":"2021-01-28T09:04:03","date_gmt":"2021-01-28T09:04:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=62211"},"modified":"2026-04-03T12:17:36","modified_gmt":"2026-04-03T12:17:36","slug":"ways-to-put-effort-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-put-effort-in-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"20 Effective Ways to Put Effort in a Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62226\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/effective-ways-to-put-effort-in-a-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"Curly Young Woman And Handsome Man Are Lying On Bed And Hugging, Kissing. Christmas Time\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You want to lose 10 pounds. In order to do that, you will do multiple things like work out, eat right, etc.&nbsp; Same way, in relationships, we will have to work at it too if we want to have a healthy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since a relationship involves two people, its health depends on the amount of effort that both of you put in. It means the little things you do for each other every day. And that would need the commitment to yourself and to the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-effort-in-a-relationship\"><\/span>What is effort in a relationship?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ADTEAQCoe3c?si=VDYRzehuvPvc8JIH\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribeYT_highlight\"><div class=\"subscribe_channel\">\r\n            <div class=\"subscribe_text\">Join millions <span class=\"sub_text1\">building healthier, happier<\/span> <span class=\"sub_text2\"> relationships.<\/span><\/div>\r\n            <a class=\"subscribe-btn-in-content\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Marriagedotcom?sub_confirmation=1\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/youtube_icon_small.png\" class=\"icon-left\" alt=\"YouTube\">\r\n            <span>Subscribe<\/span>\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/bell_icon_new.svg\" class=\"icon-right\" alt=\"Extra Icon\">\r\n            <\/a>\r\n        <\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Effort in a relationship means paying attention to your partner&rsquo;s needs. It is about being present in the relationship and doing your best to keep the relationship going.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To put effort in a relationship goes far beyond material things. It is more about making your partner <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/appreciating-and-valuing-your-spouse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">feel loved and valued<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with your involvement in the relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Effort in a relationship is about <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">little things<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Effort is helping your partner in the kitchen.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Effort is being by your partner&rsquo;s side.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Effort is making your partner feel special.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Effort is relieving your partner in times of pain.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Making an effort in a relationship is a sign of a healthy, happy, and sound relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why-is-it-important-to-put-effort-in-the-relationship\"><\/span>Why is it important to put effort in the relationship?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have a question for you- how committed are you in your relationship to put in your energy and efforts to make it long-lasting? Or do you think it will just ride on its own?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you meet someone new, you give all your attention and make efforts to impress your love interest, but what happens over time?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You slow down and take it easy. Do you put gas in the car only a few times and expect the car to run forever? And to maintain your car to run smoothly and last longer, you do constant checkups, clean, and do the oil change.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Correct?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Similarly, if you want your relationship to thrive and flourish, you will have to work at it constantly, or else, it will slowly degenerate. And I don&rsquo;t think you would want that. Don&rsquo;t get too much into your comfort zone, despite the length of your relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>There are two types of people in a relationship:<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>&ldquo;Those who actively want to be there, and those who&rsquo;re simply along for the ride.&rdquo;<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Susan Winter, NYC relationship expert and love coach.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, why is effort important? The goal here is to make each other feel special and wanted forever.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check with yourself and see if you are putting in enough effort in a relationship or not.<\/span><b>&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-Signs-you-are-not-putting-enough-effort-in-the-relationship\"><\/span>15 Signs you are not putting enough effort in the relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you feeling a lack of effort? Here are some signs to look out for that you are not putting enough effort in a relationship:&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ol><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner is always the one who initiates the conversation and not you.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are not communicating like before.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are not going out on dates.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You stop noticing little things about your partner, like a new outfit or a haircut.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You stop caring about your own appearance.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are not interested in talking about how your partner&rsquo;s day went by.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You stop showing your interest in your partner&rsquo;s life. Even though you think you know your partner very well but don&rsquo;t forget, people keep evolving and progressing, so you have to keep up with that.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are not doing activities together anymore.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are too busy to give your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/solutions-for-8-common-relationship-issues\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship a priority<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/how-a-lack-of-physical-intimacy-can-hurt-your-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lack of physical intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &ndash; be it sexual or physical affection.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You only agree to see your partner if it fits into your schedule.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Selfish during sex.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You make them do all the work, and you do what feels good for you.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just the thought of putting effort into a relationship leaves you exhausted.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&rsquo;t care anymore about creating memories and connecting.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You forget the important dates.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"20-ways-to-put-effort-into-your-relationship\"><\/span>20 ways to put effort into your relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62227\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/ways-to-put-effort-into-your-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"Man And Women Having Romance Together\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel at times, &lsquo;I put more effort into the relationship than my boyfriend or girlfriend?&rsquo;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, sometimes, when we look at other happy couples from the outside, we wonder what their secret sauce is.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no one-size-fits-all strategy. Every relationship is unique. But what determines the quality of a relationship is how much effort you are willing to put in and how strong your desire is to make your relationship work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All relationships go through ups and downs. It is the tough times that you need to give yourself fully and see how you can get back on track.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Don&rsquo;t give up at the first signs of friction: only through <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/o.b5z.net\/i\/u\/6076626\/f\/EFFECTIVE_COMMUNICATION_IN_A_MARRIAG2.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><b>clear communication,<\/b><\/a><b> flexibility, and willingness to adapt can you find a relationship that will weather the storms of life.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are so many things you can do as a couple to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/how-to-maintain-a-healthy-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">maintain a healthy relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Remind yourself of all the things that you did at the beginning of a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you think your relationship is not fulfilling, see if you are devoting your time to your relationship and doing the following things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At times, the partner may not cooperate, but all you can do is your part. You will feel good about it that you are being a good partner. Take good care of yourself. It would be worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>How to put effort into a relationship? Let&rsquo;s find out:<\/b><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Communicate<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talk to your partner about everything and be there to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/322722211_The_Power_of_Listening_Lending_an_Ear_to_the_Partner_During_Dyadic_Coping_Conversations\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">listen to them<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> lovingly when they have to say something, even when you are tempted to cut them off.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Show affection towards each other&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not just within the four walls of your place but also in public, depending on your partner&rsquo;s comfort level.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Go out and do things together<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of or in conjunction with watching TV, find a common interest and have some new experiences together. When we spend time together in happy activities, we strengthen our relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Encourage and Believe in each other&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner is working towards accomplishing a certain goal, help and encourage them to succeed. Support their dreams and ambitions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Give Compliments frequently<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t stop giving<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/oneextraordinarymarriage.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/56-Compliments-to-Encorage-Your-Spouse.pdf\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">compliments<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your partner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Let them know how good they look. Compliment how smart and hardworking they are. Compliments and praise can do wonders.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Give Surprises<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&rsquo;t have to spend too much money. Just a simple gesture would serve the purpose.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Resolve issues together<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of pushing problems under the carpet, work towards resolving them together. It will take your relationship to a higher level, strengthen the bond and build trust.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Listen to your partner&rsquo;s needs<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is not always about you. You need to make an effort in a relationship to listen to your partner&rsquo;s needs and follow them through.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Be thoughtful<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do things without being asked to. Be thoughtful while showing gestures to your partner. It will be a sign of effort in a relationship and make your partner appreciate you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Be considerate<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be considerate of your partner&rsquo;s feelings or interests when you are doing or planning something.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. Show interest by asking questions<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Such as asking about your partner&rsquo;s day. If your partner is looking unhappy or stressed out, talk and ask how you can help.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. Give your undivided time and attention<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep your phone down, turn off the tv, and put your entire focus on your partner. It shows how important they and the relationship are to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Don&rsquo;t stop being romantic with your partner.<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62228\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dont-stop-being-romantic-with-your-partner.jpg\" alt=\"Young Attractive Couple Lying Together On Bed Having Romance At Bedroom\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We tend to start taking it easy when we are with someone for a long time. Say &ldquo;I love you&rdquo; every single day. It may sound simple, but these three words make a lot of difference.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. Don&rsquo;t hold yourself back, saying &ldquo;I&rsquo;m sorry&rdquo;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are three&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/forgiveness\/three-powerful-words-i-am-sorry\/\" target=\"_blank\">other magical words<\/a> that can do wonders.&nbsp;When you own your behavior, express it. Let not your ego come into your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. Engage in self-growth together<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By working on yourselves together, the two of you will learn how your individual strengths and weaknesses can work together. Stimulate each other intellectually, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;\">This will deepen your&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/do-you-feel-that-understand-each-other\" target=\"_blank\">understanding of each other<\/a> and bring you closer together as a team.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">If growing together as a couple sounds like exactly what you need, a <a class=\"underline underline underline-offset-2 decoration-1 decoration-current\/40 hover:decoration-current focus:decoration-current\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/marriage-courses\/\">marriage enrichment course<\/a> can give you both a shared framework to learn, reflect, and strengthen your bond side by side.<\/p>\n<h3><b>16. Introduce new things in your sex life&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After a while, it becomes predictable, and some of you may feel stagnant. Break up the routine. Not only will it heighten your partner&rsquo;s curiosity about different possibilities, but it will also increase your sense of excitement.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>17. Don&rsquo;t give up on your appearance.&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Regardless of how long you have been together, do not neglect yourself and how you look. Push yourself to maintain your physical health by exercising, eating healthy, grooming, and dressing well. Both of you will gain from it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>18. Don&rsquo;t forget date nights<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You need to take some time out of your busy schedule to meet each other for a date, whether you are in a dating phase, newly married, or have been together for a long time. It is not easy, and that is why it needs effort.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>19. Share your opinions and reactions with your partner<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, you read an article online that makes you sad, angry, or frustrated, and share your thoughts with your partner. I know we share a lot with our friends and family but try and share it with your partner first.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It will make your partner feel important that you are giving them a priority.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>20. Confide in your partner<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Confess if you have to&ndash; small or big, whether it is about cheating on your diet or some embarrassing moment. It shows your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/7-important-tips-to-build-trust-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">trust in your partner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Takeaway\"><\/span><b>Takeaway<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We live in a fast-paced world now, with so many things happening around us, and so many things demanding our attention. Doing so, many couples lose their focus on their personal relationships. At the same time, they have high expectations for a fulfilling relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What happens then?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rather than putting in the effort in a relationship to make it work, they leave. That&rsquo;s an easy route. No matter who you are with, there will always be some challenges, and you can do what you can when you are not sure where to start.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pause for a moment and take a good look at your relationship honestly and objectively.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is important to find out what kind of changes you can make to resolve your issues or give your relationship a little boost.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you feel that you are not doing enough, then work on that. And if you feel that your partner needs to make more effort in a relationship, then let them know in a loving and non-judgmental way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you can&rsquo;t do it by yourself, be open to reaching out to a professional who can guide you through your difficult moments.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-claude-response-body break-words whitespace-normal leading-[1.7]\">You don&rsquo;t have to figure it all out alone. Our <a class=\"underline underline underline-offset-2 decoration-1 decoration-current\/40 hover:decoration-current focus:decoration-current\" href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/marriage-courses\/\">marriage classes online<\/a> are designed for couples who want guided, practical support to reconnect and put in the work together.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You and your partner both deserve happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You want to lose 10 pounds. In order to do that, you will do multiple things like work out, eat right, etc.&nbsp; Same way, in relationships, we will have to work at it too if we want to have a healthy relationship. Since a relationship involves two people, its health depends on the amount of effort that both of you put in. It means the little things you do for each other every day. And that would need the commitment to yourself and to the relationship. 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