

{"id":60897,"date":"2020-12-30T08:07:42","date_gmt":"2020-12-30T08:07:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=60897"},"modified":"2023-10-25T09:57:55","modified_gmt":"2023-10-25T09:57:55","slug":"enneagram-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/enneagram-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"What are Enneagram Relationships? Compatibality &#038; Types"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-60906\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/enneagram-relationships%E2%80%93which-enneagram-types-are-compatible.jpg\" alt=\"Happy Couple With Perfect White Smile Posing And Looking At Camera On A Couch At Home\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enneagram personality types can play a role in determining <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/tips-on-determining-relationship-marriage-compatibility\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship compatibility<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Before diving into Enneagram compatibility, it is important to understand the Enneagram types.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.enneagraminstitute.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enneagram Institute<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, there are nine different Enneagram or personality types, and a scientifically valid test called the RHETI can help people to determine which type best describes their personality. This can go a long way in ensuring better Enneagram relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-enneagram-relationships\"><\/span>What are enneagram relationships?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enneagram relationships evaluate the compatibility of two people in a relationship, based upon their Enneagram personality types.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Different Enneagram personality types have varying preferences,&nbsp; strengths, and weaknesses, and they may be more compatible with certain Enneagram types in relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A test that tells you and your partner, your Enneagram numbers, can help you to determine just how compatible you are. Keep in mind that it is still possible to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/love\/how-to-maintain-a-healthy-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">have a healthy relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, even if Enneagram types do not appear compatible.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">An Enneagram compatibility test is simply a guide that can provide information about what personalities work best together and what can be expected in Enneagram love relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Enneagram-personality-types-which-type-are-you\"><\/span>Enneagram personality types- which type are you?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Enneagram Institute defines nine different Enneagram types, each noted by a number. Understanding these types can help people learn how to manage their Enneagram relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The nine personality types are as follows:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type One- The Reformer<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enneagram type one is a reformer.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This personality type stands true to their moral values and has a strong sense of what is ethical or right. They strive to improve the world and are perfectionists.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Two-The Helper<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enneagram type two is a helper who tends to be overly friendly and generous.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This Enneagram personality type is known for being warm and sincere, and they feel worthwhile when they are doing good for others.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Three- The Achiever<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;re a three, you have a high level of energy, and you have a desire to stand out from the crowd and impress others. You have a strong need to accomplish great things.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Four-The Individualist<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The individualist or Enneagram type four is incredibly creative and strives to be different from others.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fours can be incredibly unique and interesting, but they may struggle with moodiness and feelings of inferiority as a result of their differences.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Five-The Investigator<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fives, as investigators, are independent and curious. They present as highly alert, and they are always full of new ideas and insights.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They yearn to increase their knowledge and develop a deep understanding of the world around them.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Six-The Loyalist<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enneagram type six values security and can be relied upon to follow through with their responsibilities.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are a type six, you are likely to be seen as a trustworthy person and a diligent worker.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Seven-The Enthusiast<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are a type seven, your Enneagram type is extremely outgoing and spontaneous. You tend to be optimistic and playful, and you are probably a fast learner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While these traits are positive, sevens can sometimes be seen as impulsive or scattered.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Eight-The Challenger<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enneagram type eight can be thought of as a dominant personality, as eights are assertive and confident.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are an eight, others probably see you as being good at making decisions, but at times you can come across as confrontational or controlling of others.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Nine-The Peacemaker<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enneagram type nine desires peace and harmony, and they <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/the-challenge-of-conflict-avoidance-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">strive to avoid conflict<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nines have strengths such as being supportive, stable and accepting of others, but sometimes, they may ignore problems in order to keep the peace.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Relationship-tips-for-the-enneagram-types\"><\/span>Relationship tips for the enneagram types<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-60907\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/relationship-tips-for-the-enneagram-types.jpg\" alt=\"Young Loving Couple Outdoors Sitting On Grass, Hugging And Looking Away, Future And Relationships Concept\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now that you understand the different Enneagram personality types, it is helpful to consider some tips that can help your type to enjoy the best of the Enneagram relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consider the following advice for each personality type:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Type One<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>What to do if you are a type one<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your drive for perfection can, at times, make you especially critical of your partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to appreciate your partner for their strengths but allow some forgiveness of mistakes, remembering that your partner is only human.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since ones value improvement, it may be helpful to view your efforts to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/forgiveness\/forgiveness-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">forgive mistakes to improve the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>What to do if you love a type one<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remind them that they are innately good to reduce their self-criticism<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Give them an abundance of kindness<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t take their nitpicking personally<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>Type Two<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>What to do if you are a type two<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You tend to have unconditional love for your partners but do not forget your own needs within a relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trust that others can take care of you and let your guard down sometimes.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>What to do if you love a type two<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Help them care for themselves<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be a good listener<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fight for them<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>Type Three<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>What to do if you are a type three&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Know that you are a strong role model, but try not to let your drive for achievement turn into workaholism that distances you from your partner.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that your Enneagram relationship is an area where you can be successful, so it is important to put effort into growing with your partner, instead of focusing solely on career success.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>What to do if you love a type three<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Support your partner&rsquo;s goals and allow them the time they need to pursue them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not assume that your partner&rsquo;s extra time spent at work means they do not value the relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>Type Four<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>What to do if you are a type four<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to view your differences as strengths instead of weaknesses, so you do not bring insecurities into the relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Open up to your partner about the things that make you unique.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>What to do if you love a type four<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to appreciate your partner&rsquo;s quirks.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be willing to listen when your partner opens up to you about fears or insecurities.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communicate to your partner that the two of you are equals, and both bring strengths and weaknesses to the relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>Type Five<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>What to do if you are a type five<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remind your partner that they are important to you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Include your partner in on new ideas or activities you want to try.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Set aside time for yourself to think about new things you would like to take on, so you can fully devote your attention to your partner when you are together.<\/span><b>&nbsp;<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>What to do if you love a type five&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not take it personally if your partner seems emotionally distant; they are probably just lost in thought, and they may even be thinking of you!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Know that the type five is naturally independent, and their ability to spend time on their own does not mean they do not value the relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>Type Six<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>What to do if you are a type six<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Practice trusting yourself to choose a fulfilling relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not feel the need to hang onto a relationship that is not right for you; you do not have to be loyal to someone who is not a good fit.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pause before responding to someone, so you can become more grounded and respond rationally instead of emotionally.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>What to do if you love a type six&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take time to remind your partner that you are committed to the relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner seems indecisive, do not take this personally. They simply need time to process their thoughts.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show your loyalty to your type six partner by respecting their preference for routines.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>Type Seven<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>What to do if you are a type seven<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take time to appreciate the joy of the present moment, instead of always focusing on the next new experience.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focus on your partner when you are with them.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that it is okay to feel and acknowledge negative emotions.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>What to do if you love a type seven<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since sevens tend to hold in their emotions, repressed pain may eventually come out as anger or shame. Try to help the seven recognize and process the underlying pain.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Explore your own interests outside the relationship, or you run the risk of the seven feeling smothered.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognize that the seven is future-oriented and constantly in pursuit of new experiences. This doesn&rsquo;t mean that you are not enough; it is just their nature.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>Type Eight<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>What to do if you are a type eight&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are angry, remember to take a step back, assess the underlying reason for your anger, and avoid lashing out at your partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make an effort to include your partner before making decisions, or you may come across as domineering.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognize that your partner may need time to think before acting.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>What to do if you love a type eight&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not take it personally if an eight comes across as aggressive; they are simply trying to maintain control over their environment.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eights tend not to pick up on hints, so be sure to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/open-communication-in-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">communicate directly and honestly<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you earn the respect of an eight, you can expect them to open up emotionally, but you need to be prepared to put forth the time and effort to achieve this.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>Type Nine<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>What to do if you are a type nine&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be careful not to minimize conflict or avoid important disagreements within your relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember that every relationship has conflict.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Practice voicing your own needs and desires.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>What to do if you love a type nine<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask your partner for their opinion when making decisions. They may be more comfortable voicing their opinion if you give them options to choose from, instead of asking an open-ended question about what they want.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage them to talk about things that upset them, instead of bottling things inside.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Which-Enneagram-types-are-most-compatible\"><\/span>Which Enneagram types are most compatible?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-60908\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/which-enneagram-types-are-most-compatible.jpg\" alt=\"Close Up Photo Of Cheerful Excited Glad Careless Happy With Toothy Beaming Smile Brunette Attractive Woman And With Stylish Hairdo Man\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Given the strengths and weaknesses of the different Enneagram personality types, there are some types that may be more compatible with each other than others.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best Enneagram relationships, according to Enneagram compatibility, may be as follows:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type One with Type Seven and Eight&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Type ones are disciplined and perfectionistic, but type seven and type eight can balance them out by helping them to step outside their comfort zone, according to experts.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Type seven and type eight can introduce type one to fun pursuits to bring more enjoyment to their lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Two With Type Eight and Three&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Type twos are committed to helping others achieve their goals, and they are, therefore, nicely complemented by eights and threes. This makes for strong Enneagram compatibility.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Threes and eights tend to have lofty goals, and the helpful type two can find a sense of purpose, helping them to achieve these goals.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\n<h3><b>Type Three with Type Two and Four<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As high achievers, the Enneagram type three can lose touch with their emotions.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This makes them compatible with twos and fours, who are deeply emotional and provide balance to number three who is an achieving type.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\n<h3><b>Type Four with Type Five and Seven<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As an individualist, type four simply wants someone who understands them. They tend to be drawn to type five and type seven, who are intelligent and passionate.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Five with Type Four and Seven<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fives are introverted but enjoy learning, so they will need someone who can help them to open up while also being able to stimulate their intelligence.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This makes fives compatible with fours, who are deeply emotional, and sevens, who demonstrate their intelligence by exploring a variety of interests.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Six with Type Nine and One&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With their strong need for security, type six has Enneagram relationship compatibility with the kind, peacemaking type nine and the one, who tends to be dedicated to relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Seven with Type One and Three&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As an enthusiast, type sevens are always full of ideas and may have trouble settling.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They have Enneagram compatibility with type one and type three, which can add stability to the seven&rsquo;s lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Type Eight with Type Two and Three&nbsp;<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><b>&nbsp;<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a confident, domineering personality type, the eight has Enneagram compatibility with certain types.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Type two, as a helper, is an excellent cheerleader for type eight&rsquo;s pursuits. On the other hand, the ambitious three will be able to keep up with the eight&rsquo;s demands.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\n<h3><b>Type Nine with Type Six and Five<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The type nine, as a peacemaker, pairs nicely with the type six who craves security, which the nine can provide.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enneagram type five is also compatible with the nine, as the five is a deep thinker who can help the peacemaker to overcome their doubts to make an Enneagram relationship successful.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Does-Enneagram-compatibility-really-matter\"><\/span>Does Enneagram compatibility really matter?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The above Enneagram types demonstrate compatibility, but some people may wonder if Enneagram compatibility even matters.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to the Enneagram Institute, both negatives and positives can arise between any two Enneagram types in relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enneagram compatibility can give you an idea of what to expect based on your partner&rsquo;s Enneagram type. It can provide a guide for the best Enneagram relationships, but it is not foolproof.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No single pairing is perfect, and there are no two Enneagram types that are destined to fail in a relationship, either.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While some Enneagram types in relationships may naturally mesh better than others, an emotionally healthy person can have a successful relationship with any personality type.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, someone who is not psychologically well may struggle to have a satisfying relationship, even if they have Enneagram compatibility with their partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Do-same-type-pairings-work\"><\/span>Do same-type pairings work?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Beyond wondering if Enneagram compatibility even matters, some people may question if same-type pairings can have successful Enneagram relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As the Enneagram Institute explains, same-type pairings can be attracted to each other because of their similar traits, but on the other hand, these similarities can also cause problems in Enneagram relationships.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, when two type twos come together, they are both helpful and nurturing, and they tend to be warm and affectionate toward each other. Twos will also be deeply committed to the relationship, but since they are so committed to being helpers, they may have trouble accepting love from their partners.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being aware of potential issues that can arise and taking steps to minimize them can help same-type pairings to have successful Enneagram relationships. Still, some people may prefer those who are a different Enneagram type.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Does-gender-affect-which-Enneagram-types-are-compatible\"><\/span>Does gender affect which Enneagram types are compatible?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Enneagram personality types were thought up for universal application since no type is innately masculine or feminine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nevertheless, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/scholarworks.waldenu.edu\/cgi\/viewcontent.cgi?article=2596&amp;context=dissertations&amp;httpsredir=1&amp;referer=\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on Enneagram relationships suggests that social stereotypes and diverse cultures convey certain gendered expectations to the types that can impact their relating style.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, as per a <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.9types.com\/writeup\/enneagram_relationships.php\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> conducted on 457 couples, it was found that gender can influence the choice of personalities for their mates.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, in the same study, it was found that male nines with female fours were pretty common ( sixteen couples) as compared to female nines with male fours (just two couples).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you want to check your Enneagram compatibility?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Watch this video:<\/b><br><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/OI6rBeB-jdY\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>Conclusion on Enneagram types in relationships<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People tend to take an interest in Enneagram compatibility in relationships because the Enneagram test can provide insight into each individual&rsquo;s unique personality.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Knowing your Enneagram type can provide you with the specifics of your preferences, tendencies, and habits. This information can also help you determine what you need in a partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While the Enneagram can provide useful information about who you are most compatible with, Enneagram relationship compatibility does not guarantee a successful relationship. Two people who do not have Enneagram relationship compatibility can still find happiness together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ultimately, if you are emotionally healthy and committed to having a strong Enneagram relationship, you can find happiness with any Enneagram type.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you aren&rsquo;t focused on Enneagram relationship&nbsp; compatibility, taking an Enneagram test can help you determine what to expect from your partner&rsquo;s personality type. This can help you to understand your partner better and prepare you for disagreements that may arise. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Enneagram personality types can play a role in determining relationship compatibility. Before diving into Enneagram compatibility, it is important to understand the Enneagram types.&nbsp; According to the Enneagram Institute, there are nine different Enneagram or personality types, and a scientifically valid test called the RHETI can help people to determine which type best describes their personality. This can go a long way in ensuring better Enneagram relationships. What are enneagram relationships? Enneagram relationships evaluate the compatibility of two people in a relationship, based upon their Enneagram personality types.&nbsp; Different Enneagram personality types have varying preferences,&nbsp; strengths, and weaknesses, and they <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":60906,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2501],"tags":[2595],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60897"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60897"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60897\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":90399,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60897\/revisions\/90399"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60906"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60897"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60897"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60897"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}