

{"id":60720,"date":"2020-02-11T08:54:28","date_gmt":"2020-02-11T08:54:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/money-management-habits\/"},"modified":"2023-02-11T08:54:28","modified_gmt":"2023-02-11T08:54:28","slug":"money-management-habits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/money-management-habits\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Money Management Habits That Can Improve Your Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15820 size-full\" title=\"7 Money Management Habits That Can Improve Your Marriage\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Money-Management-Habits-That-Can-Improve-Your-Marriage-1608521922.jpg\" alt=\"7 Money Management Habits That Can Improve Your Marriage\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marriage can be the most beautiful part of our lives. It&rsquo;s the union of two souls that (ideally) results in the creation of a happy new family.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A lot of couples make the crucial mistake of not thinking about money management in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the flip side, many couples worry too much about managing finances in marriage and not enough about marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both attitudes<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/divorce-money-issues-financial-relationship-couple-2019-7\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">result in failing marriages<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or households standing on fragile compromises.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But the good news is that most financial problems don&rsquo;t stem from the lack of money, but rather, the poor money management. And this is something that can be fixed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seeking financial tips for married couples? Look no further as we bring to you the most effective money management tips.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>7 money management habits that can improve your married life<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1-Discuss-your-finances\"><\/span>1. Discuss your finances<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A lot of spouses don&rsquo;t discuss their family finances as they should.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is especially apparent in<\/span><b> financially asymmetrical couples where one person is, by default, expected to take care of every financial need of the family.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first good habit for financial planning for couples that you can pick up is to <\/span><b>start discussing your finances with your spouse<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If one of you is earning and the other is not, you can consider<\/span><b> how to manage the cash flow of the household best.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are<\/span><b> both earning<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you should discuss<\/span><b> how to best pool your resources, control expenses, and save for the future.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/trouble-in-paradise-how-discussing-finances-can-help-avoid-conflict-in-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discussing your finances<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, goals, and issues with each other over casual &ldquo;<\/span><b>money-dates<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&rdquo; or every other Sunday can be a good idea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more you discuss your funds in a relaxed, happy environment, the less angry money-related rows you are likely to have with your significant other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also watch:<\/span><br><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/q-vIi0PLwKE\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2-Control-of-finances\"><\/span><b>2. Control of finances<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deciding which one of you has what kind of control over family money and finances can help out a lot.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of you can control the day to day expenses, and the other may manage the savings and emergency funds.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If one of you is better at handling money than the other, there is no shame in having that spouse control most of the financial decisions. That&rsquo;s what marriage is &ndash; depending upon and trusting each other, without becoming a burden.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s usually a good idea to<\/span><b> leave control of the necessary expenses of the household with the primary home-maker.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3-Make-a-budget-and-stick-to-it\"><\/span>3. Make a budget and stick to it<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Making a proper budget is crucial for a happy financial, and consequently, married life. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/budgeting-tips-for-married-couples\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Budgeting helps couples<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in balancing finances and marriage successfully.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether one spouse is earning or they both are, it&rsquo;s usually a good idea to <\/span><b>create a combined pool for family expenses. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&rsquo;s a key money management tip to follow.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your mortgage, utility bills, groceries, other necessary expenses, and recreation are just some common parts of a usual married couple&rsquo;s budget.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Large non-essential purchases that go above the scope of the set budget should be discussed with your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There&rsquo;s nothing wrong with buying a high-end set of golf clubs for one spouse, or an expensive new pair of shoes for the other. However, these items should come out from personal earnings and savings, and shouldn&rsquo;t put a strain on the family budget.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4-Set-some-financial-goals\"><\/span>4. Set some financial goals<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15821 size-full\" title=\"Set some financial goals\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Set-some-financial-goals-1608521922.jpg\" alt=\"Set some financial goals\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It would be best if you had a clear idea about you and your spouse&rsquo;s financial goals.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many couples think that since their income is barely enough to cover the expenses, they shouldn&rsquo;t have financial goals.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But that&rsquo;s the kind of thinking that keeps people from growing. Whatever the income is, each of you should have <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">set financial goals<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These goals don&rsquo;t have to be elaborate or even combined.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might want to save enough to start a small side business<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your spouse might want to buy a family car<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you know each other&rsquo;s goals, you can prioritize and help each other out<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may decide to pool all your savings for the down payment on a property.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This will help you acquire a hard asset and give you more financial strength as a couple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The point is that unless you don&rsquo;t have proper financial goals, you will just be earning, spending, and probably saving. But you won&rsquo;t be &ldquo;growing&rdquo; your wealth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/davidrae\/2019\/09\/18\/money-tips-for-newlyweds\/#12edbda02981\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A robust financial standing<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can help remove a lot of strain from your marriage, and for that, you need to work towards some sound financial goals as a couple.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-Focus-on-savings\"><\/span>5. Focus on savings<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having substantial savings is essential for individuals, and doubly important for a couple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They can help you out in hard times, emergencies, and over-the-wage necessary expenses. They can also help you grow your wealth through interests or investments.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If only one of you is earning, savings should be the part of budgeting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sit down together, plan your expenses, see what you can cut back on, and allocate as big a part of your income towards savings as you realistically can.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a single income household, there should always be a cushion to fall back on in case that income stream stops.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are both earning around the same, you can have<\/span><b> three different saving stashes<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>one for each of you, and one for the family.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there is a significant disparity between your incomes, a common practice is that the higher-earner covers the usual expenses, and the other spouse&rsquo;s money goes into the savings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both can still stash some of their income away for their personal goals.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6-Give-your-partner-space\"><\/span>6. Give your partner space<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Giving space is an essential part of a relationship. That&rsquo;s the quintessential money management advice for couples looking at enjoying financial compatibility.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s just as true in finances, as it is in emotions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner is pulling their weight in the family finances, don&rsquo;t give them a hard time about the money they have set aside for themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can smother the other person&rsquo;s sense of financial freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can advise them about managing their money better, like having sufficient personal savings instead of wasting all their money on a hobby, or clearing up their debt before taking up a lavish lifestyle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But trying to change a person entirely often results in a widely distorted marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7-No-secrets-when-it-comes-to-finances\"><\/span>7. No secrets when it comes to finances<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you had an expensive night out with your friends, you might not want to tell your spouse about the hundreds of dollars you spent.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But it&rsquo;s a good idea to keep each other in the loop about your spending and savings. Keeping such secrets not only results in poorly managed finances but also in damaged trust when the other person finds out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s better to be open about your financial decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you can&rsquo;t tell each other your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/how-to-avoid-financial-problems-in-your-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">financial problems<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, impulse purchases, and debts, then your marriage might have deeper issues than just lack of money management.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A-final-word-on-financial-tips-for-married-couples\"><\/span>A final word on financial tips for married couples<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A happy marriage isn&rsquo;t solely standing upon sound finances, but it&rsquo;s one of the pillars.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you or your spouse can&rsquo;t change your destructive money habits, your marriage is going to get affected by it sooner or later. And it&rsquo;s much harder to go through a stressful marriage, than developing good money habits.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Marriage can be the most beautiful part of our lives. It&rsquo;s the union of two souls that (ideally) results in the creation of a happy new family. A lot of couples make the crucial mistake of not thinking about money management in marriage. On the flip side, many couples worry too much about managing finances in marriage and not enough about marriage. Both attitudes result in failing marriages or households standing on fragile compromises. But the good news is that most financial problems don&rsquo;t stem from the lack of money, but rather, the poor money management. And this is something <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1236,"featured_media":60721,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[14],"tags":[2574],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60720"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1236"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60720"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60720\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60721"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60720"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60720"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60720"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}