{"id":60399,"date":"2017-09-11T11:53:14","date_gmt":"2017-09-11T11:53:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/nurturing-friendship-in-marriage\/"},"modified":"2023-05-19T07:09:59","modified_gmt":"2023-05-19T07:09:59","slug":"nurturing-friendship-in-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/nurturing-friendship-in-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Nurture Friendship in Marriage: 6 Tips"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Friendship in marriage is cultivated and nurtured through years of married life. If you feel emotionally and physically apart, you can still build the power to nurture your friendship to desired levels. <\/span><\/p>\n

Marital responsibilities play a big role in widening the gap between couples, but the power of friendship in marriage can help overcome it.<\/p>\n

This article discusses some practical ideas to maintain a friendship in marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n

The friendship between a couple can make the bonds of marriage stronger. They can share things with each other while feeling no fear of judgment from their partner. Their relationship will flourish because of this and grow stronger over time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Here are some tips that can help you become friends with your partner:<\/p>\n

<\/span>1. Spending quality time together<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

The fact that you squeeze time out of your busy schedule to spend time with your partner<\/a> means you value them, and they are essential for your happiness. Take out some time every day when you can reconnect with one another. If it is at the end of a busy day, find out how your partner spent the day. Allow your partner to share the day’s challenges and achievements as you offer a listening ear<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Give your input only when called to do so. If you notice a decision that you think is inappropriate, let your spouse know about it but do it with kindness.<\/span><\/p>\n

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As you begin your day, just after you wake up, share your plans for the day and finish with a prayer or some shared activity — it makes a huge difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>2. Frequently talk to your partner<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Silence in marriage harbors resentment since you think differently from your partner. But communication can resolve this problem. Communicate over everything – your friends, relatives, workmates, goals, children, etc. <\/span><\/p>\n

Through communication, you get to speak in one voice for the benefit of marital satisfaction. Besides, you appreciate and connect, <\/a>which helps with conflict resolution<\/a>.<\/p>\n

<\/span>3. Have fun together<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Make fun of one another as you remember some <\/span>sweet memories<\/span><\/a> to enhance the bond. Engage in activities that you both enjoy. Compete and tease each other.<\/span> Be humorous with no malice or offense.<\/span><\/strong> This is a great way to strengthen companionship in your marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Make every activity you do together memorable. If it is a walk, make it fun by walking side by side, holding hands, and whispering sweet words in your partner’s ears. If it is a board game, record some of the silly moves and later make fun of it- it makes a difference.<\/span><\/p>\n

Try to engage in new activities as a couple; let it be a learning experience to keep you together. In case you have any difficulty, use that as an element to try it once again together until you do it successfully. Explorations that the couples do together enhance their friendship.<\/p>\n

<\/span>4. Strive to maintain trust and honesty<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Why does the love between couples fade away after a couple of years? <\/span><\/p>\n

Complacency can lead to the development of mistrust in a marriage. Like in friendship, try and promote openness and forgiveness in your relationship. This, in turn, can help build trust between you and your partner<\/a>. Trust gives you the freedom to share your challenges and achievements with your spouse.<\/p>\n

Trust is the foundation for everything we do. In the video below, Harvard Business School professor Frances Frei explains how to build it, maintain it, and rebuild it. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n