

{"id":60022,"date":"2018-01-02T12:53:25","date_gmt":"2018-01-02T12:53:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/marriage-preparation\/strange-wedding-traditions\/"},"modified":"2023-07-04T10:34:50","modified_gmt":"2023-07-04T10:34:50","slug":"strange-wedding-traditions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/marriage-preparation\/strange-wedding-traditions\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Strange Wedding Traditions and Their Origins"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5241 size-full\" title=\"Wedding Traditions and Their Origins\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Strange-Wedding-Traditions-and-Their-Origins-1606929394.png\" alt=\"Wedding Traditions and Their Origins\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All cultures place a pretty high value on weddings. They are the traditional union of two people and can have massive implications in social terms. So it&rsquo;s hardly surprising that a lot of strange traditions have sprung up around weddings. We&rsquo;re going to take a look at a few of them, and give you some insight into these bizarre wedding rituals.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1-Freezing-the-top-of-the-cake\"><\/span><b><b>1. Freezing the top of the cake<\/b><\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5286 size-full\" title=\"Freezing the top of the cake\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Freezing-the-top-of-the-cake-1606929394.jpg\" alt=\"Freezing the top of the cake\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This tradition, like many others, has its roots in pragmatism. The idea of freezing the top of the cake was initially so that there would be some for the eventual christening of a child. That way, you don&rsquo;t have to spend extra money on another cake for the event.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2-Disturbing-the-newlyweds\"><\/span><b>2. Disturbing the newlyweds<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5287 size-full\" title=\"Disturbing the newlyweds\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Disturbing-the-newlyweds-1606929395.jpg\" alt=\"Disturbing the newlyweds\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This strange tradition has its roots in the medieval era. It focuses on the idea of disrupting the peace of newlyweds on the night of the wedding. It&rsquo;s a cheeky concept, and one that is sadly rarely practiced these days.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Recommended<\/strong>&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/marriage-courses\/pre-marriage-course\">Pre Marriage Course Online<\/a><br><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3-Carrying-the-bride-across-the-threshold\"><\/span><b>3. Carrying the bride across the threshold<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5288 size-full\" title=\"Carrying the bride across the threshold\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Carrying-the-bride-across-the-threshold-1606929395.jpg\" alt=\"Carrying the bride across the threshold\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This tradition has its roots in Western Europe. The idea is that if you carry your bride across the threshold, you will ward away any evil spirits. A nice thought, and it&rsquo;s no surprise that it&rsquo;s still practiced today.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4-Destroying-the-dress\"><\/span><b>4. Destroying the dress<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5289 size-full\" title=\"Destroying the dress\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Destroying-the-dress-1606929395.jpg\" alt=\"Destroying the dress\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it may seem odd to wreck something that you&rsquo;ve paid a fortune for, it&rsquo;s fairly common these days for the bride to end up destroying her dress. When done in the right way it can make for some truly fantastic pictures. This is very much a modern tradition, with no particular roots anywhere.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-Not-seeing-the-bride-before-the-wedding\"><\/span><b>5. Not seeing the bride before the wedding<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5290 size-full\" title=\"Not seeing the bride before the wedding\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Not-seeing-the-bride-before-the-wedding-1606929396.jpg\" alt=\"Not seeing the bride before the wedding\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is still a popular superstition today. It&rsquo;s assumed that this originated in the days of arranged marriages when a groom had no real idea of who he was marrying. If he saw the bride, he could potentially take a dislike to her and call off the wedding.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6-Something-old-something-new-something-borrowed-something-blue\"><\/span><b>6. Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5291 size-full\" title=\"Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Something-old-something-new-something-borrowed-something-blue-1606929396.jpg\" alt=\"Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The rhyme speaks for itself. It is likely that this rhyme stretches a fair way back in the UK, and is still a popular tradition. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/gift-ideas\/wedding-gifts-ideas-for-the-bride-and-groom\/\">Gifts for the married couple<\/a> are naturally a fairly universal concept across the board.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7-Bridesmaid-matching-the-bride\"><\/span><b>7. Bridesmaid matching the bride<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5292 size-full\" title=\"Bridesmaid matching the bride\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Bridesmaid-matching-the-bride-1606929396.jpg\" alt=\"Bridesmaid matching the bride\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This tradition actually goes back all the way to Ancient Rome. It was a tradition at that time to have ten guests at the wedding made up to look identical to the couple. That way, it was assumed that any evils spirits would get confused, and not know who to attack.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8-Wearing-white\"><\/span><b>8. Wearing white<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5293 size-full\" title=\"Wearing white\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Wearing-white-1606929397.jpg\" alt=\"Wearing white\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This fad was actually started by Queen Victoria. She opted to wear white for her wedding, and the tradition stuck. Ever since it has been a favorite choice for the bride to wear.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9-Wedding-season\"><\/span><b>9. Wedding season<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5294 size-full\" title=\"Wedding season\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Wedding-season-1606929397.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding season\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s natural that some seasons are more conducive to a happy wedding than others. Across the world, the preferred season varies depending on weather and other responsibilities. However, it is standard for there to be a preference in most places.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-Diamond-rings\"><\/span><b>10. Diamond rings<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5295 size-full\" title=\"Diamond rings\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Diamond-rings-1606929397.jpg\" alt=\"Diamond rings\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These have been the ring of choice for some time, and it&rsquo;s not surprising. They were the choice for European nobility over a hundred years ago, and they remain a favorite today.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And there you have it. Ten fantastic wedding traditions that are alive and well today. Which ones are you going to follow?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"author_bio_section col-md-12 tag-sty\"><strong><span class=\"author-name\">Eva Henderson<\/span><\/strong><br>\nI&rsquo;m Eva Henderson, writer, content coordinator at oddsdigger.com traveler, a young wife, and just a cheerful girl. I adore active rest, especially cycling. Hope you will enjoy my publications! If you want to learn more about me and my hobby feel free to visit my Twitter and Facebook.<\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All cultures place a pretty high value on weddings. They are the traditional union of two people and can have massive implications in social terms. So it&rsquo;s hardly surprising that a lot of strange traditions have sprung up around weddings. We&rsquo;re going to take a look at a few of them, and give you some insight into these bizarre wedding rituals. 1. Freezing the top of the cake This tradition, like many others, has its roots in pragmatism. The idea of freezing the top of the cake was initially so that there would be some for the eventual christening of <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1419,"featured_media":60023,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2505],"tags":[2635],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60022"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1419"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60022"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60022\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":87432,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60022\/revisions\/87432"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60023"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}