{"id":59721,"date":"2018-11-26T09:13:47","date_gmt":"2018-11-26T09:13:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/zodiac-signs\/scorpio-date-ideas\/"},"modified":"2025-07-04T11:28:52","modified_gmt":"2025-07-04T11:28:52","slug":"scorpio-date-ideas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/zodiac-signs\/scorpio-date-ideas\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Best Date ideas to Lure a Scorpio"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-77073\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Aquarius-date-ideas-for-you-5.jpg\" alt=\"couple hiking together\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;re dating a Scorpio or just have your eye on one, you know that you&rsquo;ve got to keep things interesting. Scorpios like things a little edgy, a little off-center.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpions have earned their reputation as the kinksters and daredevils of the zodiac.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, romancing a Scorpio can be a little daunting for the rest of the zodiac. How do you keep your Scorpio entertained and engaged?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Boredom is their Kryptonite.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How will you turn up the heat on romance? Here are some Scorpio date ideas to help you<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-create-memories-with-your-partner\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> plan a wonderful time with your partner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-do-you-attract-a-Scorpio\"><\/span><b>How do you attract a Scorpio?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to date a Scorpio woman or man? You might want to plan <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/first-date-ideas\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a perfect date<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for your Scorpio partner, but even to get there, you first need to attract them to you, making them want to go on this date with you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/n4r54lPgyWw?si=3TuilEyMnc869Dtk\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribeYT_highlight\"><div class=\"subscribe_channel\">\r\n            <div class=\"subscribe_text\">Join millions <span class=\"sub_text1\">building healthier, happier<\/span> <span class=\"sub_text2\"> relationships.<\/span><\/div>\r\n            <a class=\"subscribe-btn-in-content\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Marriagedotcom?sub_confirmation=1\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/youtube_icon_small.png\" class=\"icon-left\" alt=\"YouTube\">\r\n            <span>Subscribe<\/span>\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/bell_icon_new.svg\" class=\"icon-right\" alt=\"Extra Icon\">\r\n            <\/a>\r\n        <\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC8170361\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> suggests that dates play a vital role in bringing people closer and help in<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/tips-to-build-long-lasting-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> building a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are the qualities that a Scorpio finds attractive in a significant other?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Authenticity<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios can easily identify if someone is being fake or is lying to them. They appreciate honesty and authenticity. If you want to know how to attract a Scorpio, ensure you are not trying too hard and are just being yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-develop-authentic-relationships\/\"> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Develop Authentic Relationships<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>2. Show some depth<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether it is about things you are passionate about or if it is emotions, Scorpios are attracted to depth and substance. If they sense that you are shallow, a Scorpio will likely lose interest.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Give them attention<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios crave <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.family-institute.org\/behavioral-health-resources\/attention-most-basic-expression-love\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">attention<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> from people they like or are attracted to. If you need your Scorpio potential partner to be attracted to you, give them attention.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-best-Scorpio-date-ideas\"><\/span><b>15 best Scorpio date ideas<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-77070\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Aquarius-date-ideas-for-you-3.jpg\" alt=\"couple sitting and playing the guitar\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Read on for 15 Scorpio date ideas.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Explore a new underground scene<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What do Scorpios like to do for fun? Scorpios love to be the first to discover a new bar, band, or attraction. Find a local dive bar or alternative music space and make an evening of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bonus points if you can find an undiscovered local band to listen to, some avant-garde performance art, or a hole-in-the-wall bar with a fantastic cocktail menu.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whatever it is, as long as your Scorpio can say they knew about it before it got popular, this date will be a hit. This is one of the best Scorpio date ideas.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Go on an adventure<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is this your first date with a Scorpio man or woman?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios love exploring new places, blazing new trails, and living on the edge.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be willing to engage in the spirit of<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/profile\/Elaine-Aron\/publication\/12609069_Couples%27_shared_participation_in_novel_and_arousing_activities_and_experienced_relationship_quality\/links\/5577bd0f08aeacff20004ef3\/Couples-shared-participation-in-novel-and-arousing-activities-and-experienced-relationship-quality.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> adventure<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with your Scorpion. Take a day trip to some small town with a strange festival and see what mischief you can get into.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or play tourist in your city by going to the tourist attractions that locals never bother to visit, even though they drive past them daily.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Break out the map and pick someplace neither of you has ever been to and make a day of it, complete with a stop for junk food snacks, and car karaoke.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/date-ideas-for-adventurous-couples\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">70 Adventurous Date Ideas For Couples<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>3. Get your adrenaline rush on<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to impress a Scorpio man or woman? Seek adventure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios are adventurers and hedonists.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They love the adrenaline they get from doing something risky and new. Take your Scorpio sweetheart somewhere that can get both your hearts pounding. Go ziplining, take a rugged hike, and hit an amusement park with a killer new coaster.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;re feeling courageous, bungee jumping or skydiving, even the indoor kind, can make for a fun time with your Scorpio sweetie.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Get wet<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is a great Scorpio date idea?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios love to spend time outdoors, so much better if they can be in the water.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can choose an extreme adventure like white water rafting or cliff diving. Still, your Scorpio would probably be happy to float down the river on an inner tube with some cold beer, chill out on the beach with a margarita, or even head to a lake for boating and swimming.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make the day as chill as you&rsquo;d like, with time for quiet relaxation away from those crowds that Scorpios both love and hate.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-navigate-your-adventurous-relationship\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5 Ways to Navigate Your Adventurous Relationship<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>5. Indulge their decadent side<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios are known to be pretty kinky though they often keep that under wraps until they know you well.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it&rsquo;s not precisely first-date appropriate, indulging that side of your Scorpion with a trip to a dungeon, fetish club, or BDSM event could heat things up. Be sure to talk with your Scorpio first. Consent is not only sexy; it&rsquo;s mandatory and doesn&rsquo;t spring this <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/creative-date-ideas\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">date as a surprise<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your lover is into it, spending some time at such an event could heat things up when you get home.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a public kink event isn&rsquo;t for you, you can also visit a leather or fetish shop for some things to have your naughty adventure at home alone together.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Get your luxe on<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios love the finer things in life, from good food to the best clothes.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plan a date where you can spoil your Scorpio. You might choose a weekend at a fancy spa, where you can relax in the whirlpool tubs, get a couple&rsquo;s massage, and generally luxuriate. Or rent the honeymoon suite at a fancy hotel and order up room service, complete with champagne, strawberries, and truffles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What about a limo to the hotel, a horse-drawn carriage ride through a gorgeous park, or a fancy historical neighborhood?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Channel your inner royalty and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/best-romantic-date-ideas-for-couples\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">plan a night<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or a weekend full of only the finest things you can find as a perfect Scorpio date idea.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Monuments and old buildings<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Old buildings have a charm, and Scorpios love that. Scorpios like to explore monuments for the knowledge aspect of it. A date where you both explore an old building with history or a monument that has historical significance may be pretty enjoyable for a Scorpio.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Theme parties<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios like a little mystery, and taking them to a theme party or a masquerade may be quite a good date idea. They are sure to have a good time with this Scorpio date idea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not sure how to organize a theme party? Watch this video for tips.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1bdQdQst3OI\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Explore a vineyard<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios like to do new, different things. If you want to plan a fun date for the Scorpio in your life, take them to a vineyard. You can explore the land, the process of making wine, and even do a few tastings if you&rsquo;re into them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. A music show<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios are often inclined to specific music genres. If you know the music genre your date is into, make sure to buy tickets for them. They will enjoy this Scorpio date idea.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-keep-a-relationship-interesting\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> How to Keep a Relationship Interesting and Fun<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h4><b>11. A food walk<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios are fond of food and like trying new things. You can take them out on a food walk for a fun date idea.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. A fine dine<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to date a Scorpio man or woman?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios are all about the class and show. If you want to impress a Scorpio, take them to a fine dining restaurant.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Sporting events<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are aware of any likes when it comes to sports, you can definitely plan a date at a sporting event with the Scorpio in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. Art museum<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios appreciate creativity and art; if you think they would like it, you can take them to an art museum for a wonderful date. This would be a vital Scorpio dating tip.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b><i>Related Reading:<\/i><\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/romance\/best-romantic-date-ideas-for-couples\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4 Expert Tips on Best Romantic Date Ideas for Couples<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>15. Shopping<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scorpios like to shop for things like watches and jewelry. For a perfect Scorpio date idea, take them out shopping for things they like.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Dating-a-Scorpio-is-never-dull\"><\/span><b>Dating a Scorpio is never dull<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-77068\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Aquarius-date-ideas-for-you-1.jpg\" alt=\"couple on date\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><b>Dating a Scorpio is nothing short of an adventure.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those born under the sign of the Scorpion are delicious contradictions. They love to get out and get dirty in the rugged outdoors but revel in fine food, drink, and clothes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They&rsquo;re adventurous but also somewhat reserved until they get to know you. They&rsquo;re equally happy in a dirty dive bar, greasy spoon diner, upscale wine bar, or country club.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&rsquo;re willing to be adventurous and spontaneous, your Scorpio sweetheart will keep things interesting for a long time.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you&rsquo;re dating a Scorpio or just have your eye on one, you know that you&rsquo;ve got to keep things interesting. Scorpios like things a little edgy, a little off-center. Scorpions have earned their reputation as the kinksters and daredevils of the zodiac. But, romancing a Scorpio can be a little daunting for the rest of the zodiac. How do you keep your Scorpio entertained and engaged? Boredom is their Kryptonite. How will you turn up the heat on romance? Here are some Scorpio date ideas to help you plan a wonderful time with your partner. 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