

{"id":59165,"date":"2019-02-07T05:17:49","date_gmt":"2019-02-07T05:17:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/family\/can-pet-help-in-strengthening-family\/"},"modified":"2023-06-17T07:17:17","modified_gmt":"2023-06-17T07:17:17","slug":"can-pet-help-in-strengthening-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/family\/can-pet-help-in-strengthening-family\/","title":{"rendered":"Can a Pet Help in Strengthening Family Bonds?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-10788 size-full\" title=\"Can a Pet Help in Strengthening Family Bonds\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Can-a-Pet-Help-in-Strengthening-Family-Bonds-1606137896.jpg\" alt=\"Can a Pet Help in Strengthening Family Bonds?\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Coming home to a wagging tail and lots of kisses ought to be the perfect welcome after a long day. For eons, dogs have been known to be man&rsquo;s best friend. Cats, with their playful tendencies, leave us with a sense of comfort, ease and of course a mouse-free house. Birds are known to be social creatures and in some cases are as loving as another cat or dog. They can be trained and are also known to possess the reasoning capabilities of a seven-year-old human. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Overall, one could assume that pets are highly intelligent and they provide a sense of companionship, love and a sense of belonging.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Here are some of the ways in which pets improve the home environment.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pets-provide-emotional-support\"><\/span>Pets provide emotional support<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With the rising tide of divorce rates and spouses living separately, the companionship and warmth that a dog provides may help glue the family together. <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A pet lightens the mood at home, especially when dealing with a family crisis such as the loss of a job, death of a loved one or simply when dealing with the daily hassles life presents. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These challenges can cause havoc in the life of an individual member of the family. Pets can prove to be a source of support and provide moral strength. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Experts suggest pet therapy and believe that pets can help improve depression and stress. Furthermore, they provide that degree of unconditional love.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A-pet-is-another-member-of-the-family\"><\/span>A pet is another member of the family<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Raising a pet is like raising a child that never seems to grow up. It takes a lifetime of commitment and requires time and resources. Celebrating birthdays, being a family affair, now includes celebrating their pets birthdays too. <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A pet becomes and is treated as another family member. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be it a family vacation, a visit to a beach or a long drive, families tend to take their dogs along with them. Various restaurants are pet-friendly for that matter if you do have a pet. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pets-are-a-source-of-entertainment\"><\/span>Pets are a source of entertainment<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Beyond creating special memories, a pet seems to add in that extra element of joy during the holidays. Having a little fur baby around can also be incredibly entertaining. <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Especially if the kids in the family share a special bond with the pet, their added antics bring about a sense of playfulness. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They can also keep kids occupied while the older members of the family are preoccupied with important work.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><em><strong>Related Reading:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-does-getting-a-pet-affect-your-relationship\/\">How does Getting a Pet Affect your Relationship?<\/a><\/em><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Improved-communication-within-the-family\"><\/span>Improved communication within the family<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The internet era has led to an increase in the overall screen time that families are exposed to. Talking about one&rsquo;s pet can help strengthen communicational ties between family members. <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sharing common experiences shared with their pet can also help knit the family closer together. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These topics of conversation may even pave the way toward other topics of discussion. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pets-mitigate-arguments\"><\/span>Pets mitigate arguments<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the unfortunate event of a family fight, pets are known to calm the ambiance. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They may sometimes even be seen as a source of distraction. Having a pet sit by you or jump on you during an argument might lead to a shift in the conversation and might even lighten the mood.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Shared-memories\"><\/span>Shared memories<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-10789 size-full\" title=\"Pets are intelligent and take up their own space in the family\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Pets-are-intelligent-and-take-up-their-own-space-in-the-family-1606137896.jpg\" alt=\"Pets are intelligent and take up their own space in the family\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reminiscing through shared experiences and memories becomes a great topic of conversation within the family. Pets are intelligent and take up their own space in the family dynamic. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pets can have their own mood swings as well. They also pick up and sense emotions from the humans they are surrounded by. Their unique personalities shine through and this gives the family a lot to talk about. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talking about a dog with the family can help improve one&rsquo;s mood. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They seem to fill our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/emotional-needs\/\">emotional needs<\/a> and provide us with a sense of companionship. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Time-to-connect\"><\/span>Time to connect<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shared responsibilities that tag along with having a pet can instill a sense of responsibility in family members.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, taking a dog for a walk together, not only improves the overall health of the individual but gives members of the family time to connect and share their daily experiences.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><em><strong>Related Reading:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/dog-ruining-your-relationship\/\"><em>Is Your Dog Ruining Your Relationship<\/em><\/a><\/pre>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Alleviate-stress\"><\/span>Alleviate stress<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Playing with a pet can help alleviate stress and create a playful environment within the family. A <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4323947\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study by the University of Virginia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> suggested that the sense of touch can help alleviate stress. <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Interacting with a pet activates this sense of touch which can boost the hormone called oxytocin which is also known as &lsquo;the happy hormone&rsquo;. <\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scientifically, therefore, having a pet can boost the overall level of happiness that is experienced by families. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Stronger-bonds-within-the-family\"><\/span>Stronger bonds within the family<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finally, a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.semanticscholar.org\/paper\/An-Attachment-Perspective-on-the-Child%E2%80%93Dog-Bond%3A-Jalongo\/d4fcd83c7431f20428ac268dc9584d6accd23054?p2df\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> suggested that children who share a strong bond with their pet somehow maintain stronger bonds with other family members and friends throughout life. They portrayed a stronger <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/how-attachments-styles-affect-relationships\/\">attachment style<\/a> whilst bonding with others. An <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mentalfloss.com\/article\/51154\/10-scientific-benefits-being-cat-owner\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Austrian study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> even found that having a pet cat is equivalent to having a romantic partner. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In conclusion, having a pet isn&rsquo;t easy. It takes a long-term commitment and requires adequate financial resources for meals, vet visits etc. However, considering the ways in which they can add to your life, I reckon it&rsquo;s worth the bargain.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Coming home to a wagging tail and lots of kisses ought to be the perfect welcome after a long day. For eons, dogs have been known to be man&rsquo;s best friend. Cats, with their playful tendencies, leave us with a sense of comfort, ease and of course a mouse-free house. Birds are known to be social creatures and in some cases are as loving as another cat or dog. They can be trained and are also known to possess the reasoning capabilities of a seven-year-old human. 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