{"id":58184,"date":"2020-05-13T11:03:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T11:03:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/reasons-for-searching-for-a-hookup-buddy\/"},"modified":"2023-03-09T11:52:20","modified_gmt":"2023-03-09T11:52:20","slug":"reasons-for-searching-for-a-hookup-buddy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/reasons-for-searching-for-a-hookup-buddy\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Reasons for the Increasing Popularity of Searching for a Hookup Buddy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\"WomanSearching for buddies online has become a trend. Why? The idea of meeting someone good-looking and having fun without responsibilities sounds good to many people.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finding a hookup buddy is not that difficult: there are plenty of dating sites that focus on bringing <\/b>casual hookup connections<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

At such platforms, you can look through profiles of good-looking girls and boys, send messages and arrange dates.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hookup sites are for “free in mind” people. Usually, the members of such sites are either married, or people who are dating but they are looking for something more. Something that would make their blood rush.<\/span><\/p>\n

So here are 5 reasons why seeking a hookup buddy has become a trend:<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>1. It’s uncomplicated<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"AttractiveSpending free time with a hookup buddy is easier than building a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you are not vulnerable and you know that you won’t “catch feelings,” then finding sexy hookup buddies for <\/span>spending a fun time together<\/span><\/a> may be a great idea for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

A hookup buddy won’t make you feel responsible or that you own anything which is totally opposite of being in a relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n

You can meet up whenever it suits you both. You can experiment with things that you were shy about telling your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Not everyone sees a romantic relationship as a goal in life. Nowadays, many people don’t want to be tied down.<\/span><\/p>\n

Casual <\/span>hookups bring happiness<\/span><\/a> and the feeling of liberation, while most relationships don’t.<\/span><\/p>\n

Some enjoy being free from responsibilities. They enjoy the freedom and once they feel someone possessing more of them and their time, they move on. It’s liberating.<\/span><\/p>\n

People like to break the rules, so being completely free and doing what you want without complications is the first reason why many like see the benefits of having a <\/span>friend with benefit<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>2. It’s a chance to make your desires real<\/span><\/h2>\n

Many people, even those who have been married for years, neglect their sexual desires.<\/span><\/p>\n

People are scared to say that they get turned on by the idea of threesome, handcuffs, latex, BDSM, or sex in a public place.<\/span><\/p>\n

Many of us can’t tell the truth because we are scared of people who we love and care for, changing their opinions on us. However, such secrecy affects your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Research<\/b><\/a> suggests that a higher sexual desire discrepancy between married couples undermines the relationship well being and negatively affects the degree of marital satisfaction.<\/b><\/p>\n

On the other hand, finding your hookup buddy enables you to feel free and non-judgemental. It releases the weight off the shoulders.<\/span><\/p>\n

But why are the people who have been dating or married for years shy to <\/span>talk about their desires<\/span><\/a>? There are a few reasons:  <\/span><\/p>\n