

{"id":57821,"date":"2018-05-10T11:25:30","date_gmt":"2018-05-10T11:25:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/when-he-is-serious-about-the-relationship\/"},"modified":"2025-06-24T15:39:28","modified_gmt":"2025-06-24T15:39:28","slug":"when-he-is-serious-about-the-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/when-he-is-serious-about-the-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"25 Clear Signs He Is Serious About You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-7270 size-full alignnone\" title=\"Find out whether your boyfriend is serious about you and the future you both may share.\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Find-out-whether-your-boyfriend-is-serious-about-you-1605687447.jpg\" alt=\"Find out whether your boyfriend is serious about you and the future you both may share.\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men aren&rsquo;t always adept at expressing feelings of love towards their partners. Consequently, it is tough to tell the difference between a guy who wants to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-you-should-take-relationship-to-next-level\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">take the relationship to the next level<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and one who is just going with the flow.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are wondering whether your partner is serious about you, studying his gestures and attitude towards you can settle the turmoil in your head. There are some evident signs a relationship is getting serious.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognizing the signs he is serious about you will help you take the next step in the right direction.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-does-it-mean-when-a-guy-is-serious-about-you\"><\/span><b>What does it mean when a guy is serious about you?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a guy is serious about you, it means he is committed, invested, and prioritizes your relationship. He displays consistent effort, and open communication, and shows a genuine desire for a future together.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-know-if-a-guy-is-serious-about-you\"><\/span><b>How to know if a guy is serious about you<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When beginning a new relationship and uncertain about the other person&rsquo;s feelings, keep an eye out for subtle indications that can offer insights into their emotions and level of interest.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Observe if he consistently makes time for you, communicates openly, introduces you to his loved ones, shows genuine interest in your life, and demonstrates commitment and future planning in the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"25-clear-signs-he-is-really-serious-about-you\"><\/span><b>25 clear signs he is really serious about you<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zvDj0NPlFFM?si=4UfiPdLjrPGFyZ5e\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribeYT_highlight\"><div class=\"subscribe_channel\">\r\n            <div class=\"subscribe_text\">Join millions <span class=\"sub_text1\">building healthier, happier<\/span> <span class=\"sub_text2\"> relationships.<\/span><\/div>\r\n            <a class=\"subscribe-btn-in-content\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Marriagedotcom?sub_confirmation=1\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/youtube_icon_small.png\" class=\"icon-left\" alt=\"YouTube\">\r\n            <span>Subscribe<\/span>\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/bell_icon_new.svg\" class=\"icon-right\" alt=\"Extra Icon\">\r\n            <\/a>\r\n        <\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is he serious about the relationship or are you just wasting your time?&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fortunately, there are these &ldquo;15 signs he is serious about you&rdquo; that can quickly let you know which guys you should invest your time in and which you should cut off.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. He will prioritize you over everything<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the signs he is serious about you and wants a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/commitment-and-seeing-it-through\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">committed relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with you is when you become a high priority for him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>When you are dating someone, the person must make you feel special and prioritize you over everything else.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In no doubt, work, study, family, and health need to be on his priority list at some point in time; yet, if he truly loves you, he will confide in you about his challenges, making you feel important and wanted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What&rsquo;s more, simple gestures can tell you a lot about his feelings for you, giving you cues about your place in his life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, when you plan a movie night or a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/romantic-dinner-ideas-for-couples-at-home\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romantic dinner together<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, he makes an extra effort to be there before the decided time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Similarly, if <\/span><b>he remembers to wish you on special occasions and the important milestones in your life<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> namely, your couple anniversary or your promotion day, it means that he is serious about you.&nbsp; It is one of the definite signs he wants to commit.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-7156 size-full alignnone\" title=\"A man who is serious about his lady-love takes time to understand her strengths and constraints\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Just-Got-Married-Heres-How-Your-First-Year-Will-Go-1605687447.jpg\" alt=\"A man who is serious about his lady-love takes time to understand her strengths and constraints\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. He will value your opinions<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is he serious about you? You will know the definite answer when you find your man placing importance on your opinions and input.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Since your man respects and loves you he feels the need to talk to you and listen to your views on a particular subject<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Regardless of whether he agrees with you or not, he values your opinions and takes them seriously.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your man is always open to your suggestions, constantly involves you when making critical decisions, and listens to your counsel, it is one of the signs he is serious about you and that he respects your viewpoint.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. He feels proud of you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The most prominent<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/signs-of-a-healthy-relationship-between-couples\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sign of a healthy relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is when a couple feels attracted to certain traits they see in their partner. A man who is serious about his lady takes time to understand her strengths and constraints and accepts her for who she is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>If your boyfriend has chosen you to be the love of his life, he will not miss a chance to convey how proud he is of you.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> When a man shows signs he is serious about you, he will compliment you often and will boast about your achievements.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having stated that a few men may not be very good at expressing how much they value their partners&rsquo; accomplishments. Yet, they may do certain things that will reveal their inner emotions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, your guy may bring you around his friends to show off a little bit (in a nice way!) about having you in his life. Similarly, if he is proud of your talent, he will give you something related to it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. He motivates you to achieve your goals<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is what Licensed Professional Counselor and Relationship Coach <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/christiana-njoku\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Christiana Njoku<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> has to say,<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A man who is committed to you, will leave no stone unturned in spurring you towards achieving your dreams, aspirations, and goals.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your boyfriend is with you for a long haul, he will understand the significance of your dreams and goals and motivate you to achieve them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>When a guy shows signs he is serious about you, he will try to bring out the best in you by offering you motivation, constructive criticism, advice, and innovative ideas<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to help you get closer to your aspirations.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your partner&rsquo;s involvement in your pursuit of achievements is one of the evident signs he wants a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/serious-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">serious relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. He will want to get romantic with you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Regardless of whether he hugs you randomly, cuddles up with you, or simply holds your hand, <\/span><b>physical touch sends non-verbal signals that say a lot about the relationship you share<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Though intimacy is a critical part of a relationship, your bae will not merely be interested in showing you the way to his bedroom.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>He may reveal his love for you by cooking dinner before you get home from work<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, sending you a passionate message during the day, silently observing you as you talk, or hiding a small note with a love quote in your wallet.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your man is committed and shows signs he is serious about you, he will strive to spend time with you and make you feel loved.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. He introduces you to his parents<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>Yet another sign of his commitment to the relationship is when he wants you to meet his folks.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The fact that his parents know about you is a huge milestone in your relationship. Your bae will not ask his parents to meet any random girl.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By introducing you to his family, he is not only revealing the lesser-known aspects of his life but also stating to his parents that this relationship has a future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Furthermore, pay attention to how he introduces you to his family. If he refers to you as &lsquo;my girl, love, or partner&rsquo;, he is serious about the commitment he made to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-7146 size-full alignnone\" title=\"If your man is serious about you, he will strive to spend time with you\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Funny-advice-to-Newlyweds-1605687447.jpg\" alt=\"If your man is serious about you, he will strive to spend time with you\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. He stands by you through thick and thin<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even after millions of years of biological evolution, a man&rsquo;s desire and natural instinct to protect the one he loves haven&rsquo;t changed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Since your bae sees you as his girl, he will support you in challenging times, rejoice in your achievements, attend to your needs when you fall ill, and protect you from any mental and physical harm.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your boyfriend is committed to you, he will always make you feel safe and show that he cares for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. He trusts you with his feelings<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This may sound like a gender stereotype, but it&rsquo;s true that men often find it tough to express their emotions and talk about their fears, insecurities, and worries.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A man can only confide in the woman he trusts about the sensitive issues in his life<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Trust is the cornerstone of a relationship and if he comes to you with his frustrations and tells you his private things, he is serious about you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>LPC <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Christiana Njoku<\/span> adds,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It takes a whole lot for a man to open up about his feelings, but when he does, it is because he has reached that level of trust to lay it bare to you.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your boyfriend confiding in you is a clear-cut sign of his emotional respect for you, proving that he loves you dearly.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thus, even if it may not sound like a big deal, by trusting you with his secrets he is giving you a special place in his life and definitely showing signs he is serious about you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. He won&rsquo;t ghost you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When is a relationship serious? When he never ghosts you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men seeking flings won&rsquo;t invest time or ghost you. If a man wants a relationship, he&rsquo;ll make plans, respond, and show consistent interest. Seeking continuous attention means he&rsquo;s not into you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. He respects your boundaries<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He always respects your boundaries, pace, and needs. If he hasn&rsquo;t rushed you, it shows his respect for you and your comfort level.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>11. He plans dates for the two of you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to know a man is serious about you? See if he plans outings together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he often plans dates and prioritizes spending quality time with you, he&rsquo;s serious about you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. He&rsquo;s open to labels<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he doesn&rsquo;t avoid <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/life\/health-wellness\/2022\/06\/23\/relationship-advice-we-dating-should-we-label-our-relationship\/7697290001\/?gnt-cfr=1#:~:text=A%20%22label%22%C2%A0might%20be%20an%20off%2Dputting%20term%2C%20but%20at%20its%20gist%2C%20it%27s%20talking%20about%20defining%20and%20gaining%20clarity%20about%20what%20the%20relationship%20is.\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">labeling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> the relationship as more than friends, he likely wants to keep things more than casual.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-6759 size-full alignnone\" title=\"Your boyfriend confiding in you is a clear-cut sign of his emotional respect for you\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Things-to-Remember-While-Selecting-Your-Outfit-for-the-First-Date-1605687448.jpg\" alt=\"Your boyfriend confiding in you is a clear-cut sign of his emotional respect for you\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. He&rsquo;s future-oriented about you<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is he serious about you if he imagines you in his future plans? Yes. If he discusses future plans with you, it shows he envisions a long-term relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. He shows transparency<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A serious guy will be open and honest about his life, past, and activities with the person he cherishes.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>15. It feels like a healthy relationship<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With him, you feel secure and not overwhelmed by toxic dynamics. It is a sign he is really serious about you. It&rsquo;s also a piece of advice from <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship counseling<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>16. He&rsquo;s creating space for your stuff<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a man is serious about you, he will make space for you and your belongings around him. Making room for you in his life and home signifies a desire for a serious relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>17. He includes you in events<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being invited to family gatherings or special occasions indicates acceptance as a significant other. If he does this it is one of the signs he wants a serious relationship with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>18. He makes affectionate gestures<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He showers you with random kisses or thoughtful gifts and it demonstrates his genuine affection for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>19. You have shared hobbies<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/intl\/blog\/magnetic-partners\/202010\/the-importance-shared-interests-in-relationships\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Engaging in activities together <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can be a really cute couple thing. This is why his interest in your hobbies indicates strong interest.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>20. There is relationship resilience<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He prioritizes resolving issues with patience, not letting minor problems break you apart. It shows he wants to keep you no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>21. Integration with your circle<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He is taking time to connect with your friends and family and it shows his genuine interest in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>22. He&rsquo;s there to support you in times of crisis<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His presence and assistance during your difficult times reflect his caring nature and commitment toward you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>23. He&rsquo;s reliable<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to tell if a guy is serious about you? See how trustworthy he has been. He always keeps plans without any frequent cancellations. It shows his <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/exploringyourmind.com\/commitment-relationships\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">commitment<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to spending time with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>24. He has a sense of humor<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he consistently tries to make you laugh and hates seeing you sad, you should know he&rsquo;s serious about his intentions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>25. He has a protective nature<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Checking on your safety and well-being reveals a genuine concern for you from his side.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some more signs by life coach Matthew Hussey to look for in a guy to decode his intention:<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8uoowLe1whk\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Commonly-asked-questions\"><\/span><b>Commonly asked questions<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maintaining and navigating a new relationship is not easy. Here are some commonly asked questions about this sensitive topic.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>How do you maintain a serious relationship and keep the spark alive?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To maintain a serious relationship and keep the spark alive, prioritize open communication, quality time together, mutual respect, continued growth, surprise gestures, intimacy, shared goals, and nurturing individual interests to foster a healthy and exciting connection.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><b>Is it possible to become serious about someone just after a few dates?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, it is possible to develop serious feelings for someone after a few dates. Strong connections can form quickly based on shared values, chemistry, and deep emotional connections that may indicate the potential for a serious relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Hope-you%E2%80%99ll-decode-his-feelings-now\"><\/span><b>Hope you&rsquo;ll decode his feelings now<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are in a relationship, it can be challenging to determine whether your man truly loves you or not. There are some serious relationship questions you must ask yourself and your partner to determine if the relationship is for the long haul.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t stress over &ldquo;Is he serious about me?&rdquo;. The above-mentioned points will help you find out whether your boyfriend is serious about you and the future you both may share.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Men aren&rsquo;t always adept at expressing feelings of love towards their partners. Consequently, it is tough to tell the difference between a guy who wants to take the relationship to the next level and one who is just going with the flow. If you are wondering whether your partner is serious about you, studying his gestures and attitude towards you can settle the turmoil in your head. There are some evident signs a relationship is getting serious.&nbsp; Recognizing the signs he is serious about you will help you take the next step in the right direction.&nbsp; What does it mean <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":777,"featured_media":57822,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2498],"tags":[2585],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57821"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/777"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=57821"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57821\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":109895,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57821\/revisions\/109895"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/57822"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=57821"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=57821"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=57821"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}