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Perfect fun date. Intense chemistry. <\/span><\/p>\n You both feel strongly for each other. Both of you feel relaxed in each other’s company. Compatibility seems perfect, which you will know better once you meet each other more often—and now looking forward to the next meeting.<\/span><\/p>\n But what happens instead? One person suddenly pulls away without any warning. Does it sound familiar to you?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Well, that can happen for several reasons. Many are overlapped and inter-related. <\/span><\/p>\n For example, some of the reasons, among others may be: <\/span><\/p>\n I will address ASBS(Always Something Better Syndrome) here in this article. <\/span><\/p>\n If you are the one with Always Something Better Syndrome:<\/b><\/p>\n When you are constantly looking at the images of happy, love-smitten couples, their adventures, their vacations, and all of those well-curated photos, it will make you think and <\/span>compare yours with others<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n In this day and age, with numerous online dating sites, it is unsurprising for people to have Always Something Better Syndrome. <\/span><\/p>\n Technology gives people a lot of options and possibilities to find someone better, which naturally can get tempting. <\/b>There is always a curiosity about a new person, a new experience. And it adds to the confusion.<\/span><\/p>\n Yes, there will always be someone “Better,” someone taller, someone more talented, someone more powerful, someone fitter, someone more beautiful, someone with more similar interests, someone smarter, someone wealthier, someone sexier, etc. <\/span><\/p>\n It is all relative to what you already have and what you can live with.<\/span><\/p>\n If your past experiences keep surfacing in your head, you cannot move on even though you feel you have. It stops you from making decisions. <\/span><\/p>\n Now you tell me, is that working for you? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n If not, then you need to do something.<\/span><\/p>\n Because this fear leads to <\/span>fear of commitment, <\/b>let us say you meet someone close to <\/span>everything you have ever wanted in a relationship<\/span><\/a>, and who also wants you. <\/span><\/p>\n Feels good, right? What happens then? Why do you leave? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Your old experiences of feeling trapped re-emerge. You start to doubt and lose confidence in yourself, and all kinds of “What ifs” start playing in your head.<\/span><\/p>\n Do you feel, “I keep looking for something more?” Here are a few tips to help you:<\/span><\/p>\n Learn from past mistakes and move on. <\/span>Do not fall into scorekeeping<\/span><\/a>, trying to determine who was at fault. Instead, learn what each of you could have done better. <\/span><\/p>\n When people are aware that long-term relationships\/marriage get into a rut at some point, they make sure to add playfulness. They constantly introduce new things in their lives to keep it exciting and refreshed in addition to pursuing their own interests on separate occasions.<\/span><\/p>\n They commit to themselves that they can and will resolve any conflict they <\/b>face as a team<\/b><\/a> and stay positive. <\/b><\/p>\n You can make a list of traits<\/span> that you liked in your previous relationships and what traits made you leave. <\/span><\/p>\n Then honestly assess what you are looking for that is different from what you might have in the past? <\/span><\/p>\n<\/span>What causes Always Something Better Syndrome?<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>How to get out of the Always Something Better Syndrome?<\/span><\/h2>\n
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