

{"id":53210,"date":"2020-07-21T05:36:52","date_gmt":"2020-07-21T05:36:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=53210"},"modified":"2025-10-02T23:07:27","modified_gmt":"2025-10-02T23:07:27","slug":"how-to-stop-cheating-your-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/how-to-stop-cheating-your-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Stop Cheating on Your Partner: 15 Effective Ways"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-71723\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/cheating-guilt-signs-you-cant-miss.jpg\" alt=\"Cheating Guilt Signs You Can't Miss\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is easy to judge cheaters, especially if you were hurt by your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/how-to-deal-with-a-cheater\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner&rsquo;s infidelity <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">before. However, cheaters are not necessarily bad people, although they have made decisions that end up hurting their partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They might not know why they did it, which makes them ask how to stop cheating and break out of the cycle all the more difficult.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cheating is quite common. A<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/today.yougov.com\/topics\/society\/articles-reports\/2015\/06\/02\/men-more-likely-think-cheating\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> found that one in five people admits to being a cheating partner. That number is probably higher since people can be reluctant to admit to doing something socially unacceptable. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The number is very high, and so is the impact that it may have <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on people<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/silvana-mici\">Coach Silvana Mici<\/a> highlights,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cheating can cause severe emotional and psychological harm to the betrayed partner. The feelings of betrayal, heartbreak, and insecurity can lead to long-lasting emotional scars. The impact may extend beyond the relationship and affect the betrayed partner&rsquo;s overall well-being and future relationships.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many of them are probably wondering how to stop cheating, yourself included.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-is-cheating-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><strong>What is cheating in a relationship?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rXnrXPlSO9k?si=MCNUGaNrCpi0UBHL\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribeYT_highlight\"><div class=\"subscribe_channel\">\r\n            <div class=\"subscribe_text\">Join millions <span class=\"sub_text1\">building healthier, happier<\/span> <span class=\"sub_text2\"> relationships.<\/span><\/div>\r\n            <a class=\"subscribe-btn-in-content\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Marriagedotcom?sub_confirmation=1\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/youtube_icon_small.png\" class=\"icon-left\" alt=\"YouTube\">\r\n            <span>Subscribe<\/span>\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/bell_icon_new.svg\" class=\"icon-right\" alt=\"Extra Icon\">\r\n            <\/a>\r\n        <\/div><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/causes-of-infidelity-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cheating in a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be subjective. For some people, just talking to someone you may be romantically interested in can count as cheating. For other people, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/stages-of-physical-intimacy-in-a-new-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">physical intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or sex may count as cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cheating in a relationship is defined as being physically or emotionally cheating or being unfaithful to your partner. It is not following the terms of the relationship, as decided by the two partners in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Causes-of-cheating-in-a-relationship\"><\/span><strong>Causes of cheating in a relationship<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are some cheating motivations that we end up overlooking? To understand the causes of cheating better, watch this Ted Talk by Esther Pearl on Why People Cheat.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/P2AUat93a8Q\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are the reasons that people cheat in a relationship? Do you often wonder why your partner cheated?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There can be several reasons why people cheat in a relationship. Anger, revenge, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/being-unsatisfied-with-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dissatisfaction in a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, low self-esteem, and abuse are some of the common reasons why people end up cheating on their partner, emotionally or physically.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Read more on the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/causes-of-infidelity-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reasons for cheating<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in this article.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"15-ways-to-stop-cheating-on-your-partner\"><\/span><strong>15 ways to stop cheating on your partner<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-70369\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/things-to-say-to-your-cheating-husband.jpg\" alt=\"Shocked Student Finding Her Boyfriend Cheating in School\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have been unfaithful to your partner and want to make amends, read on to know the 15 ways to stop cheating on your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Identify why it happens<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As with any problem in life, understanding the reason for cheating is crucial to eradicating it. Ask yourself, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;Why am I tempted to cheat?&rdquo;<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> What precedes cheating behavior patterns? To stop infidelity, you need to comprehend what leads to it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are not sure, consider cheaters&rsquo; behavior patterns and see if you recognize yourself in any of them. Cheating can be a way to:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoid becoming intimate or dependent on someone in a relationship,<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To punish your partner,<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/types-of-bad-relationships-you-need-to-get-out-of-now\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Escape from a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you are not happy in anymore or<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feel the excitement.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h3><b>2. Understand what you want<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to stop the cycle of cheating? Understand what purpose cheating has in your relationship. If you wonder how to stop adultery in my marriage,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sophia.stkate.edu\/cgi\/viewcontent.cgi?article=1688&amp;context=msw_papers\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">examine your marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The most challenging question is not how to stop being a cheater; instead,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why am I choosing to be a cheater?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does cheating help you stay in a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/save-your-marriage\/7-signs-youre-in-a-loveless-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">loveless marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or is it a step towards leaving it?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is being addicted to cheating a way to stay and not change anything in the marriage itself, or is it a way to show yourself there is more to life and leave more easily?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you doing this to punish your partner for cheating or something else, or doing this to get something you think is inaccessible in marriage?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to stop cheating in a relationship?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take a good hard look at these questions, especially in the case of repeated <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">infidelity in marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. When you understand what you desire, you can try to achieve it another way instead of cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Address the problem<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you figure out what you desire from a relationship, you can start working towards it. Understanding the cause will guide what steps you take next in your journey on how to stop cheating on your wife or husband.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are angry with your partner, you need to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/o.b5z.net\/i\/u\/6076626\/f\/EFFECTIVE_COMMUNICATION_IN_A_MARRIAG2.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">communicate<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and work through resentment. Start sharing more and talk about the issues. Your desire to punish your partner through cheating won&rsquo;t disappear unless you address the core of why you wanted to punish them in the first place.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to leave and can&rsquo;t see yourself in the relationship anymore, start thinking about approaching the subject. Why didn&rsquo;t you have the nerve in the first place to end things and opt for cheating?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you decide to stay in the marriage and need to know how to stop being a cheater, work on understanding what is missing in your relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talk to your partner so you can both commit to making your relationship better. Address your problems, work on conflict resolution, and introduce more excitement.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Working through communication problems, intimacy issues, and introducing more <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-bring-passion-back-into-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">passion into the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We are not saying it will work 100 percent, but it gives your marriage a chance.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Stop with behavior patterns leading you to cheat<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Different people consider cheating various things &ndash; texting, sexting, kissing, sex, etc. Where do you and your partner draw the line? Knowing this can help you avoid not just the act of cheating itself but also the paths leading you to cheat.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Say that you and your partner don&rsquo;t consider flirting to be cheating. Although that is true for you, have you thought about how it plays a role in cheating? It might ease you into adultery the same way <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/how-to-sext\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexting <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">would.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Crossing one boundary makes it easier to cross the next one, and before you know it, you might not know how to stop cheating. Be mindful of each step you take towards an affair so you can learn how to avoid cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b>Related Reading:<\/b> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/why-you-should-not-cheat\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">15 Reasons Why You Should Not Cheat on Your Partner<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>5. Consider working with a professional<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you think you are addicted to cheating on your spouse and wonder how to stop cheating in marriage or relationships, consider psychotherapy to deal with cheaters behavior patterns. A trained professional can help you uncover the root cause patterns that lead you into cheating cycles and help you figure out how to avoid cheating.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you want to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/reasons-to-be-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">stay in the relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or leave it, having a therapist work with you will make this process easier and more productive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Furthermore, if your partner is aware of the affair and wants to stay together, couples counseling is preferred to individual therapy. Although you can both have your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">therapists<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it is advisable to have a couple&rsquo;s therapist help you deal with the affair&rsquo;s emotional turmoil.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They can help you manage the crisis infidelity provoked, facilitate forgiveness, understand factors contributing to infidelity, and bolster intimacy through communication.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Change yourself to change the situation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no single answer to not cheating. If it were that simple, no one would be doing it. Furthermore, learning how to stop cheating is a process that requires several steps and time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understanding why it happens is often the first and critical step towards stopping cheating. It is also essential to know what you want from a relationship and whether you can get it in your current one. What is the affair helping you accomplish? Should you stay and fight or end the marriage and move on?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you decide to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/heads-up-for-men-eight-tips-to-improve-your-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> improve your marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, communicate with your partner, and involve a professional therapist.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are no simple solutions, but if you do the work needed, you can uncover why you are tempted to cheat and how to stop cheating now and in the future.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Communication<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the main reasons relationships fall apart and can lead partners to cheat is the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/3-reasons-why-a-lack-of-communication-in-marriage-can-be-detrimental\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of proper communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talking is not communicating &ndash; and this is an essential realization for partners to have. Talk to each other about your individual needs and expectations, and you will find yourself in a better space.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Be spontaneous<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another common reason<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/why-do-people-breakup\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> why relationships break<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and end up in cheating is when they stop being fun and exciting. Bring back the fun in your relationship or marriage by being more spontaneous.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Prioritize your relationship<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you or your partner have cheated and want to give your union another shot, it is essential to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/physical-intimacy\/prioritize-your-relationship-partner-and-sexual-connection\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">prioritize your relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Put your relationship over everything else at this point and work towards building a stronger foundation.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Surprise each other<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stop being your mundane self and surprise each other, whether sexually or by doing something totally out of your comfort zone.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b>Related Reading: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/surprise-your-special-someone\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">10 Ways to Thrill and Surprise Your Special Someone<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>11. Step out of the parent role<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you have kids, you stop being a girlfriend\/boyfriend or husband\/wife to your partner but end up only being a parent.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That can cause the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/keep-your-marriage-exciting\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">excitement in your marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to fizzle out and can eventually lead to cheating. You can still work on your relationship while being a good parent.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>12. Avoid being paranoid<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cheating can be challenging to deal with. However, when you decide to give your relationship another chance, avoid being paranoid about your partner cheating on you or you cheating on them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Constant calls or messages to them can reflect your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/8-signs-you-are-insecure-in-your-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">insecurities <\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and cause them to steer away from you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>13. Come clean with the other person<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is very important to give proper closure to the person or multiple people you were cheating on your partner with. Come clean with them, tell them that you do not wish to be in touch with them and are giving your marriage or relationship another fair chance.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>14. Recreate your memories<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you remember when you first fell in love with your partner? Remember your first date? It may be a refreshing change if you both recreate those memories to remind yourself of the good times and feel in love with each other once again.<\/span><\/p>\n<pre><b>Related Reading: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ways-to-create-memories-with-your-partner\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">15 Awesome Ways to Create Memories with Your Partner<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/pre>\n<h3><b>15. Give each other space<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with cheating yourself or the fact that your partner cheated on you can be challenging. Give yourself and your partner the time and space needed to deal with this information before deciding to do something about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Bottom line<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-70037\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/how-to-forgive-yourself-after-cheating-.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like anything we want to improve or strengthen, consistency is critical. If you choose to stop cheating on your partner, the points above can help you build your relationship again and better this time around.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Using her own professional experience and academic learning, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/silvana-mici\">Coach Silvana Mici<\/a> states that,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a licensed psychologist I always advise that in order to preserve the well-being of both partners and the relationship itself, it is essential to address the root causes of cheating, seek professional help if needed, and work towards rebuilding trust and open communication. Recognizing the impact of cheating is a crucial step toward creating a healthier, more resilient relationship.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is easy to judge cheaters, especially if you were hurt by your partner&rsquo;s infidelity before. However, cheaters are not necessarily bad people, although they have made decisions that end up hurting their partners. They might not know why they did it, which makes them ask how to stop cheating and break out of the cycle all the more difficult. Cheating is quite common. A study found that one in five people admits to being a cheating partner. That number is probably higher since people can be reluctant to admit to doing something socially unacceptable. The number is very high, <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":626,"featured_media":71723,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[23],"tags":[2689],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53210"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/626"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=53210"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53210\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":112975,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53210\/revisions\/112975"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/71723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=53210"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=53210"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=53210"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}