

{"id":527,"date":"2015-06-22T10:46:01","date_gmt":"2015-06-22T10:46:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/topic\/?p=527"},"modified":"2026-03-19T10:24:04","modified_gmt":"2026-03-19T10:24:04","slug":"10-most-common-reasons-for-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/10-most-common-reasons-for-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Reasons For Divorce: Top 10 Reason Why Marriages Fail"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-61250\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/most-common-reasons-for-divorce11.jpg\" alt=\"man and woman angry on bed away from each other\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know things are not going well for you and your spouse. Your partner seemed stern, aloof, and resentful that last time you spoke to each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like always, you expect them to come around, let go of the steam and become their normal self with time. Instead, one day, you come home to find their clothes missing from their cupboards and a piece of paper on the dinner table- a divorce notice.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-causes-divorce-in-marriage\"><\/span><b>What causes divorce in marriage?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Infidelity,<\/span><\/i> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/3-reasons-why-a-lack-of-communication-in-marriage-can-be-detrimental\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of communication<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, financial troubles, and lack of sex and intimacy are some of the most common reasons for divorce.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Austin Institute for The Study of Family and Culture, using data from 4,000 divorced adults, identified the top reasons for divorce to clarify why people break up in the United States. These reasons include infidelity by either party; one spouse being unresponsive to the other&rsquo;s needs; incompatibility; spouse immaturity; emotional abuse, and financial problems.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why-do-couples-divorce\"><\/span><b>Why do couples divorce?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/TkyW7qGlrN8?si=gUE6I1FgBlgJeLte\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribeYT_highlight\"><div class=\"subscribe_channel\">\r\n            <div class=\"subscribe_text\">Join millions <span class=\"sub_text1\">building healthier, happier<\/span> <span class=\"sub_text2\"> relationships.<\/span><\/div>\r\n            <a class=\"subscribe-btn-in-content\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Marriagedotcom?sub_confirmation=1\" target=\"_blank\">\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/youtube_icon_small.png\" class=\"icon-left\" alt=\"YouTube\">\r\n            <span>Subscribe<\/span>\r\n            <img src=\"\/images\/bell_icon_new.svg\" class=\"icon-right\" alt=\"Extra Icon\">\r\n            <\/a>\r\n        <\/div><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are some traits in a partner or circumstances- the divorce causes which might force partners to seek a divorce.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can no longer cope with your partner, and divorce is perhaps the best option.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When couples feel like they have given their relationship all they have, they can ultimately come to the conclusion that it&rsquo;s time to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/ending-a-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">end their marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you think this scenario could transpire in your life?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s not uncommon that couples start to fight and make up until one day, they fall apart for good. Don&rsquo;t neglect your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/solutions-for-8-common-relationship-issues\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationship issues<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You never know, your relationship could be treading towards rocky roads too!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-are-the-top-10-reasons-for-divorce\"><\/span><b>What are the top 10 reasons for divorce?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here is a list of commonly observed grounds for divorce, coupled with reasons for divorce statistics. If you identify any of these in your relationship, you must get conscious about where your relationship is heading.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This will help you understand what factors are associated with a higher risk for divorce and take the necessary actions to avert further damage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Let&rsquo;s look at the 10 most common reasons for divorce and understand whether or not your marriage is salvageable.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Infidelity or an extramarital affair<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-61251\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Infidelity-or-an-extramarital-affair-is-the-common-reason-of-divorce1.jpg\" alt=\"sad and angry husband sitting on bed\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When one person goes outside of the relationship to get their needs met, whether it is physical or sexual, this can doom a relationship.&nbsp; It is very<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-repair-fractured-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">difficult to get trust back once a partner feels betrayed<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Extra-marital affairs are the number one reason for divorce and responsible for the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/signalscv.com\/2019\/11\/research-how-many-marriages-end-in-divorce-because-of-infidelity\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">20-40% breakdown<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of most marriages that end in divorce. This is one of the most common causes of divorce. The <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/the-illness-of-cheating-why-do-people-cheat-in-relationships\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reasons why people cheat<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> aren&rsquo;t as cut and dry as our anger may lead us to believe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/anger-and-resentment\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anger and resentment<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are common underlying reasons for cheating, along with differences in sexual appetite and<\/span><\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/repairing-emotional-intimacy\/\"> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of emotional intimacy<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Infidelity often begins as a seemingly innocent friendship, says cheating expert Ruth Houston. &ldquo;It starts as an<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/top-10-signs-of-emotional-infidelity\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emotional affair<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> which later becomes a physical affair.&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Infidelity is one of the primary reasons for divorce. It is also one of the legal divorce reasons, besides living apart for more than a year and subjecting your partner to cruelty (mental or physical).<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Trouble with finances<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-61254\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Money-issues-can-strain-a-marriage-to-the-breaking-point11.jpg\" alt=\"couple fighting over finances, snatching money\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Money makes people funny, or so the saying goes, and it&rsquo;s true.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a couple is not on the same page about <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/8-key-questions-on-managing-marriage-finances\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how the finances are going to be handled<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it can lead to terrible problems.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why is divorce so common due to financial incompatibility? According to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marketwatch.com\/story\/this-common-behavior-is-the-no-1-predictor-of-whether-youll-get-divorced-2018-01-10\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">divorce statistics<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a &ldquo;final straw&rdquo; reason for divorce is a lack of compatibility in the financial arena, which causes almost 41% of divorces.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everything from different spending habits and financial goals to one spouse making considerably more money than the other, causing a power struggle can strain a marriage to the breaking point.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, differences in how much money each partner brings into the marriage can also lead to power plays between a couple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&ldquo;Money really touches everything. It impacts people&rsquo;s lives,&rdquo; said Emmet Burns, brand marketing director for SunTrust. Clearly, money and stress do seem to go hand in hand for many couples.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Financial troubles can be categorized as one of the biggest causes of divorce, following infidelity, the number one reason for divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/manage-financial-disagreements-in-marriage\/\" title=\"6 Key Ways to Manage Financial Disagreements in Marriage\">6 Key Ways to Manage Financial Disagreements in Marriage<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><b>3. Lack of communication<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communication is crucial in marriage, and not being able to communicate effectively quickly leads to resentment and frustration for both, impacting all aspects of a marriage.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/good-communication-basics\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">good communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is the foundation of a strong marriage. When two people are sharing a life together, they must be able to talk about what they need and be able to understand and try to meet the needs of their partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yelling at your spouse, not talking enough throughout the day, and making nasty comments to express yourself are all unhealthy methods of communication that need to be ditched in a marriage.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Besides, when couples stop talking to each other, they can<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/married-and-lonely\/\"> feel isolated and lonely<\/a> and stop caring about one another altogether.&nbsp; This can lead to the breakdown of the relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/4-reasons-and-remedies-for-poor-communication\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Poor communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is one of the biggest reasons for 65% of divorces.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/communication\/mindful-communication-as-the-foundation-for-a-happy-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Practicing mindful communication<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to change age-old marriage mistakes can be hard, but it&rsquo;s well worth the effort to improve and save your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Constant arguing<\/b><\/h3>\n<pre><\/pre>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-61255\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/constant-arguing111.jpg\" alt=\"couple arguing and pointing fingers\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From bickering about chores to arguing about the kids; incessant arguing kills many relationships.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples who seem to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-to-solve-repetitive-marital-conflicts\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep having the same argument over again<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> often do so because they feel they&rsquo;re not being heard or appreciated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many find it hard to see the other person&rsquo;s point of view, which leads to a lot of arguments without ever coming to a resolution. This can ultimately be a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4012696\/#:~:text=Overall%2C%20the%20results%20indicate%20that,and%20domestic%20violence%20(23.5%25).\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cause of divorce for 57.7% of couples<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Weight gain<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may seem awfully superficial or unfair, but weight gain is one of the main reasons for divorce.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may seem odd, but weight gain is also one of the leading causes of divorce. In some cases, a significant amount of weight gain causes the other spouse to become less physically attracted to the other, while for others, weight gain takes a toll on their self-esteem, which trickles into <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/intimacy\/common-intimacy-issues-in-a-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">issues with intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and can even become a cause of divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Unrealistic expectations<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&rsquo;s easy to<\/span><\/i> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/counseling\/managing-expectations-in-your-marriage\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">go into a marriage with lofty expectations<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, expecting your spouse and the marriage to live up to your image of what they should be.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These expectations can put a lot of strain on the other person, leaving you feeling let down and setting your spouse up for failure. Faulty expectation setting can become one of the reasons for divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/expectations-in-relationship\/\" title=\"5 Glaring Facts About Expectations in a Relationship\">5 Glaring Facts About Expectations in a Relationship<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><i><\/i><b>7. Lack of intimacy<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/emotional-intimacy\/having-trouble-feeling-close-and-connected-find-out-what-to-do-about-it\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not feeling connected to your partner<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can quickly ruin a marriage because it leaves couples feeling as though they&rsquo;re living with a stranger or more like roommates than spouses.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can be from a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5016345\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lack of physical or emotional intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and isn&rsquo;t always about sex. If you are constantly giving your spouse the cold shoulder, know that it can become the ground for divorce over time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often, couples struggle with different sex drives and different sexual appetites. This is the beginning of the troubles and can really plague a couple as they try to get their needs met.&nbsp; In addition, at different stages of life, our sexual needs can change, which can lead to feelings of confusion and rejection.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ignoring your partner&rsquo;s sexual needs is being called the number one cause of divorce in recent times.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Making your relationship intimate and special is the responsibility of both partners. Practice little acts of kindness, appreciation, and<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">enjoy physical intimacy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> as much as possible to sweeten your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-61256\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Lack-of-intimacy-can-quickly-ruin-a-marriage11.jpg\" alt=\"dissatisfied husband on bed\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Lack of equality<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lack of equality comes closely behind the number one cause of divorce, lack of intimacy, in recent times.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When one partner feels that they take on more responsibility in the marriage, it can alter their view of the other person and<\/span><\/i> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/tips-to-prevent-resentment-from-destroying-your-marriage\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lead to resentment<\/span><\/i><\/a><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Resentment often snowballs to become one of the reasons for divorce. It is a leading cause of divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Every couple must negotiate through their own unique set of challenges and find their own way of<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/what-exactly-is-an-equal-relationship\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">living together as two equals<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who enjoy a respectful, harmonious, and joyful relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Not being prepared for marriage<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A surprising proportion of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4012696\/#:~:text=Overall%2C%20the%20results%20indicate%20that,and%20domestic%20violence%20(23.5%25).\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">75% of couples<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> of all ages have blamed not being prepared for married life for the demise of their relationship.<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Divorce rates are highest<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> among couples in their 20s. Lack of preparation is one of the most common reasons for divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Almost half the divorces occur in the first 10 years of marriage, especially between the fourth and eighth anniversary.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h3><b>10.&nbsp; Physical and emotional abuse<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-61257\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/The-Vital-Signs-Of-Domestic-Abuse-Checklist1.jpg\" alt=\"husband hitting scared wife\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical or emotional abuse is a sad reality for some couples and contributes to<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4012696\/#:~:text=Overall%2C%20the%20results%20indicate%20that,and%20domestic%20violence%20(23.5%25).\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> 23.5% of divorces<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn&rsquo;t always stem from the abuser being a &ldquo;bad&rdquo; person; deep emotional issues are usually to blame. Regardless of the reason, no one should tolerate abuse, and you must remove yourself from the relationship safely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check out this video to understand the signs of an emotionally abusive relationship when you want to be sure about leaving the relationship:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8vhx2hlko28\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">&#65279;<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What-percentage-of-marriages-end-in-divorce\"><\/span><b>What percentage of marriages end in divorce?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The picture of what percentage of marriages end in divorce might seem predictably low, but the reality is that approximately 50% of marriages end up in divorce in the United States.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not just this, according to statistics, couples usually divorce in the first seven years of marriage. So,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/what-year-of-marriage-is-divorce-most-common\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">what year of marriage is divorce most common<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is said that marital satisfaction increases as the couple moves toward their 10th anniversary.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you think you know why people get divorced or<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how many marriages end in divorce<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you might not be wrong, but there are certain reasons to get a divorce that you could never have guessed.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED READING : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/divorce-pros-and-cons-decide-if-you-are-ready-for-divorce\/\" title=\"Things to consider before you Divorce: The Pros &amp; Cons of Divorce\">Things to consider before you Divorce: The Pros &amp; Cons of Divorce<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Are-there-%E2%80%9Cgood%E2%80%9D-reasons-to-get-a-divorce\"><\/span><b>Are there &ldquo;good&rdquo; reasons to get a divorce?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might question yourself, &ldquo;Should I divorce my spouse or stick in the marital bond?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, the answer completely depends on your experience in marriage. Every relationship is unique, and it&rsquo;s on the couple to decide how they want to proceed in the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Besides, if you feel the relationship is serving you no purpose and it is only giving you suffering, it is a good decision to walk away from marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are still unsure, take this quiz and find out the answer:<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wporg-box\"><div class=\"\"><span class=\"wporg_heading\">RELATED QUIZ : <\/span><span class=\"wporg_title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/quizzes\/should-you-get-a-divorce-take-this-quiz-and-find-out\" title=\"Should You Get A Divorce? Take This Quiz And Find Out\">Should You Get A Divorce? Take This Quiz And Find Out<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-couples-therapy-can-salvage-your-marriage\"><\/span><b>How couples therapy can salvage your marriage?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are experiencing one or more of these <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/8-common-problems-in-married-life\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">issues in your marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you may be having a pretty tough time right now.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&rsquo;s the good news.<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/therapy\/couples-therapy\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples therapy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can really help with any or all of these issues.&nbsp; Typically couples come to marriage therapy seven to eleven years after problems have started.&nbsp; That can make it seem pretty hopeless that things will ever get better.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, if both partners are committed to making their marriage better, a lot can be done to improve their life together and help them<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/save-your-marriage\/8-easy-tips-to-save-your-marriage-from-divorce\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">save their marriage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Frequently-Asked-Questions\"><\/span><b>Frequently Asked Questions<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In cases where divorce seems on the horizon, here&rsquo;s what you should know before moving forward:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>How to file a divorce<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first step to filing a divorce is initiating a divorce petition. This leads to temporary orders that are served to the spouse, and then you await the response. Next, there is a settlement negotiation, after which the divorce trial starts. To know more, find here<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/separation\/steps-for-legal-separation\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> how to file for a legal separation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>How long does the divorce process take?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Divorce is carried out with the mutual consent of both parties. In such cases, the divorce timeline is nearly six months. However, a petition cannot be filed within the 1st year of marriage. Also, the first two motions require a six-month gap. The court also holds the power to waive the cooling-off period. To know more, read an article on<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how long the divorce process takes<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>How much does a divorce cost?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The cost of a divorce has a wide range between $7500 to $12,900 as it depends on various factors. Check out this quick guide on how much does a divorce cost.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>What is the difference between legal separation and divorce?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Legal separation gives a lot of space to the couple for settlement and to get back together. Divorce, on the other hand, is the final step after which the reconciliation is out of the legal books. Here&rsquo;s an article for you to understand the<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/differences-between-separation-and-divorce\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">differences between separation and divorce<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Do you have to disclose all of your finances during divorce?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While going through the divorce, the partners must disclose fully to each other and discuss their assets for a fair settlement. Read this article to get answers to the question <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/\">of <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to achieve a fair financial settlement during a divorce<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>How do courts divide property in a divorce?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the case of the division of property, mutual understanding plays a big role. In most cases, the courts consider the division based on who is the legal owner of the property. Also, if the couples agree on their own adjustment, the court does not object. Check out the article to know more about<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how property and debts will be divided in divorce<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>How to find a divorce lawyer<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you understand that divorce is on the horizon, you must find an attorney to represent you.&nbsp; It can be wise to consult with three different attorneys. Discuss the issue with each and decide which one will be able to help you best. Read this article if you need help in<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> finding the right divorce lawyer<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>How to obtain a divorce certificate<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For obtaining the divorce certificate, you must contact the court clerk where the divorce proceedings took place. Obtaining the divorce certificate can only be done by either party or their lawyers. Check out the article on<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to get a divorce certificate<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Who initiates divorce more?<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no definitive answer as to who initiates divorce more, as it can vary based on individual circumstances.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Historically, women have initiated divorce <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thejimenezlawfirm.com\/why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">more frequently<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but recent studies suggest that the gender gap is narrowing. Factors such as cultural shifts, evolving gender roles, and individual motivations all play a role in divorce initiation.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3>How do you know it&rsquo;s time for a divorce?<\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Knowing when it&rsquo;s time for a divorce and why are divorce rates so high can be subjective, but some common signs include constant arguing, loss of trust, emotional or physical abuse, lack of intimacy, or when both partners feel unhappy and unable to resolve their differences despite efforts to communicate and seek help.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li>\n<h3><b>Getting help from divorce therapists<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A person going through a divorce can go through various emotions of guilt, anger, loneliness, etc. At such times, they might need a professional to help understand their problems and also so that they can tread on the path of healing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Divorce therapists help people<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/divorce\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cope with the stress of divorce<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and guide them toward a more peaceful life. In some instances, they also help couples analyze if they are sure of the divorce.<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/experts\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Find the right therapist<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> based on what your core issue is.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Takeaway\"><\/span><b>Takeaway<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No marriage is easy. How many marriages end in divorce varies depending on various factors such as geographical location, cultural norms, and individual circumstances.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even couples with the best intentions are sometimes unable to overcome their challenges and end up in courtrooms. That&rsquo;s why it&rsquo;s important to address issues in your relationship early on; don&rsquo;t let them become one of the reasons for divorce. Don&rsquo;t wait until they are beyond fixing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try your very best before you decide that things are beyond your control; there are too many reasons for divorce, and you may be able to spot these reasons before it&rsquo;s too late.&nbsp; If you catch issues early, you can work on resolving them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That way, you can have the peace of knowing you tried all of the alternatives before the big step. Divorce is one of the worst things you can experience emotionally, but sometimes, it&rsquo;s inevitable and for the best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Practice kindness, make intimacy a priority, go on holidays, and seek marriage counseling (even when things are fine) to preserve the health and longevity of your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know things are not going well for you and your spouse. Your partner seemed stern, aloof, and resentful that last time you spoke to each other. Like always, you expect them to come around, let go of the steam and become their normal self with time. Instead, one day, you come home to find their clothes missing from their cupboards and a piece of paper on the dinner table- a divorce notice. What causes divorce in marriage? Infidelity, lack of communication, financial troubles, and lack of sex and intimacy are some of the most common reasons for divorce. 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