

{"id":50888,"date":"2020-05-26T11:49:58","date_gmt":"2020-05-26T11:49:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=50888"},"modified":"2023-07-06T05:32:38","modified_gmt":"2023-07-06T05:32:38","slug":"raising-kids-and-staying-grounded-during-coronavirus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/parenting\/raising-kids-and-staying-grounded-during-coronavirus\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Parenting Tips on Raising Kids During the Coronavirus Crisis"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-50892\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/essential-parenting-tips-on-raising-kids-and-staying-grounded-during-the-coronavirus-crisis.jpg\" alt=\"Top View Of Cute Little Girl And Her Beautiful Young Parents Looking At Camera And Smiling While Lying On The Floor At Home\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many articles are swirling around the internet talking about <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.who.int\/emergencies\/diseases\/novel-coronavirus-2019\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">COVID 19 &ndash; CoronaVirus<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and how to support children at home now that they transitioned to virtual school for a few weeks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most articles I have read provide practical tips to work with kids, keep them on a schedule and busy with different activities that can break the day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some positive parenting tips on raising kids by talking about Coronavirus in a way to help your young kiddos deal with their feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&rsquo;t have to scare the kids away. But, under parental guidance, it shouldn&rsquo;t be a problem to talk about specific virus facts for kids, that can cater to their potential of understanding.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1-Manage-your-anxiety-and-model-self-regulation\"><\/span>1. Manage your anxiety and model self-regulation<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anxiety runs in families, partly due to genetics and partly due to the modeling that occurs between parents and children.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Kids do learn through observational learning and, in many ways, copy their parents&rsquo; behaviors. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They also notice their parents&rsquo; feelings, showing them &ldquo;how to feel about a situation.&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Therefore, if you are anxious about the virus, chances are your children are, too. They are getting the &ldquo;vibes,&rdquo; even if you don&rsquo;t want to worry about them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/mental-health\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">managing your anxiety<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you are modeling that it is ok to feel nervous about the situation but that there is also space for reassurance and hope!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2-Practice-good-hygiene-with-your-kids\"><\/span>2. Practice good hygiene with your kids<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-50894\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/practice-good-hygiene-with-your-kids.jpg\" alt=\"A Cute Little Girl And Her Mother Are Washing Their Hands. Protection Against Infections And Viruses.\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Children learn from what you do, not what you say.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, while raising kids, discuss, teach, and model hand washing and practice other healthy behaviors during the self-quarantine. This includes taking a shower daily and putting on clean clothes even when you are not going out.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3-Limit-media-exposure\"><\/span>3. Limit media exposure<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are raising kids, it&rsquo;s essential to limit media exposure and provide your children with facts about the Coronavirus that are developmentally appropriate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Children&rsquo;s brains are not fully developed and might interpret the news in ways that are counterproductive such as worrying them or increasing <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthychildren.org\/English\/health-issues\/conditions\/emotional-problems\/Pages\/Anxiety-Disorders.aspx\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anxiety and depression<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to limit what they see and hear on the TV, social media, and radio.<\/span><b> Kids don&rsquo;t need to be updated daily on the latest developments of COVID 19 <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or know rates of mortality and the lack of treatment for those who are sick.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They can understand tips for prevention and how we can contribute to protecting those who might be at higher risk, such as their grandparents.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4-Teach-your-kids-compassion\"><\/span>4. Teach your kids compassion<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use this global crisis as an opportunity for raising kids. Try to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/parenting\/\"><b>teach kids about being kind<\/b><\/a><b>, loving, and serving others by staying at home<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can also encourage them to use healthy prevention practices, and motivate them for calling and making cards for their grandparents, those who are sick, and people who are in isolation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Teach kids to be generous by putting together care packets for neighbors or those in need, sharing what is available for the benefit of everyone.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5-Practice-gratitude\"><\/span>5. Practice gratitude<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During difficult times, we can learn valuable lessons. So, while raising kids, it&rsquo;s important to elucidate them on the benefits of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/parenting\/how-to-develop-the-feeling-of-gratitude-in-children\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">practicing gratitude<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gratitude helps to improve our mood, increases our sense of well-being, and helps us to stay grounded.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When we cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes our way, we are more open to what is useful in our lives, our awareness tends to increase, and it becomes easier to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/power-of-positivity-in-a-relationship\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">notice the positive things<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> around us, especially during this time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch this video to understand the importance of practicing gratitude:<\/span><br><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/UtBsl3j0YRQ\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6-Teach-your-kids-about-feelings\"><\/span><strong>6. Teach your kids about feelings<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-50893\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/teach-your-kids-about-feelings.jpg\" alt=\"African American Mother Talking With Her Daughter Indoors\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is an excellent opportunity to offer the space to check in with each child individually or as a family and talks about how each of you is feeling about uncertainty, the virus, self-quarantine anxiety, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Connect feelings to sensations in their bodies and identify ways to support each other.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, when you are raising kids, normalizing talking about emotions helps <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">increase connection and family cohesion<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7-Spend-time-together-and-apart\"><\/span>7. Spend time together and apart<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes! Give each other breaks and practice identifying when it is time to spend some time alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Teach them how to be present to their feelings, honor their needs, and respect yours. <\/span><b>Healthy communication and boundaries are critical <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">during this time!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8-Discuss-control\"><\/span>8. Discuss control<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/parenting\/how-to-talk-to-kids\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talk to your children<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about what we can control (i.e., washing hands, staying at home, participating in family activities) and what we can&rsquo;t control (i.e., getting sick, special events being canceled, not being able to see friends and go to places they enjoy, etc.).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Fear often comes from feeling out-of-control or not knowing the difference between what we can control and what we can&rsquo;t.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Knowing that we have some control over a situation helps us feel empowered and calmer.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9-Instill-hope\"><\/span>9. Instill hope<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talk about what you wish for the future. You can make a list of activities to complete with your children when the self-quarantine is over or <\/span><b>create signs of hope to post on your windows<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having a sense of active participation and hope for the future will help <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/power-positive.html\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">increase positive feelings<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and a sense of community and belonging. We are all in this together.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10-Be-patient-and-kind\"><\/span>10. Be patient and kind<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Teaching kindness and compassion to your children will require being kind and compassionate towards them and others, but especially towards yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you are raising kids, you will make mistakes as a parent. How you deal with stress and mistakes will make a difference in your child&rsquo;s connection to you and how they learn to express their emotions and deal with stressful situations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you have an infant or a teen, your children need to see you acting on the values that you are teaching them. <\/span><b>You need to be their champion and role model for healthy behaviors, and emotional regulation.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The unknown can be scary, but it can serve as an excellent opportunity to teach kids incredible lessons and resilience. Take this time to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/parenting\/how-to-connect-with-your-children\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">connect with your child<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and make the most out of this challenging experience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stay Safe and Healthy!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many articles are swirling around the internet talking about COVID 19 &ndash; CoronaVirus, and how to support children at home now that they transitioned to virtual school for a few weeks. Most articles I have read provide practical tips to work with kids, keep them on a schedule and busy with different activities that can break the day. Here are some positive parenting tips on raising kids by talking about Coronavirus in a way to help your young kiddos deal with their feelings. You don&rsquo;t have to scare the kids away. 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