{"id":485,"date":"2015-06-22T04:55:53","date_gmt":"2015-06-22T04:55:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marriage.com\/topic\/?p=485"},"modified":"2023-06-11T07:15:45","modified_gmt":"2023-06-11T07:15:45","slug":"marriage-and-finance-dont-let-money-hinder-your-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/finance\/marriage-and-finance-dont-let-money-hinder-your-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Marriage and Finance: Don\u2019t Let Money Hinder Your Love"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Finances are a huge part of marriage. Marriage and finance can be a touchy topic and as a couple you need to understand the nitty-gritties perfectly because not everyone can guide you with perfection in these things. This is something for the two of you to figure out and manage.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deciding to build a life together involves money and if the topic of money is not handled correctly it can become problematic and cause tension between partners.<\/span><\/p>\n

You do not have to be wealthy but you do have to manage money wisely and most importantly, learn to manage it together. <\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>Finances and marriage: the statistics<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

According to a <\/span>study related to marriage and finance<\/span><\/a> conducted by Ramsey Solutions (on 1,000 U.S. adults), for married couples money is the number one issue that causes conflict. In fact, consumer debt is one of the major points of argument for 41% of the couples.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>The Basics of Marriage and Finance<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Prepare<\/p>\n

So how should married couples handle finances? In order to avoid finance caused friction, start talking openly about money<\/strong>. If there is an issue, talk about it. Have a few goals in mind for the future? Talk about them. Have a concern? Talk about it! This helps to<\/span> balance marriage and finance<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Without open communication married couples risk running into problems down the line.  Aside from communication, begin managing the money together. Both parties should be actively involved in some aspect of the finances. Working as a team is what marriage is all about.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>Establish Goals<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Spouses must establish clear and concise financial goals. Knowing where you and your spouse are going with marriage and finance is the only way to get there. Whether a couple has been married for a few months or 5 years it is never too late (or too early) to<\/span> start setting financial goals<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

This can include buying a home, purchasing a car, managing finances for travelling, handling medical expenses, spending on skill-building courses or starting a college fund for the kids. (Learn how to set <\/span>money expectations in marriage<\/span><\/a>)<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>Develop a Plan and Implement It<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

After taking the time to establish goals, the next step is developing a plan. Goals are great but without financial planning it is hard to turn goals into accomplishments. Work with your partner, review the finances and come up with a clear plan. Even if you have to consult a professional, make sure to do it together. <\/span><\/p>\n

A plan is nothing if both parties are not working harmoniously to manage marriage and finance. Here’s a handy <\/span>financial checklist<\/span><\/a> for the same.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>More tips to handle marriage and finance<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Finance<\/p>\n

“When poverty knocks on the door, love flies out of the window”<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

This popular proverb actually sheds a light on the dark side of relationships. No matter how strong a relationship is, tiding over a tough time financially takes a toll. But if both of you know how to manage finances in a marriage then things turn out way better, especially if kids are involved. (Also read about the top <\/span>money mistakes to avoid in a marriage<\/span><\/a>)<\/span><\/p>\n

So how do married couples handle finances? Do they suddenly become adept at managing finances after tying the knot? What’s the secret to handling finance in marriage? The answers are actually simple.<\/span><\/p>\n