

{"id":44285,"date":"2019-12-20T12:16:49","date_gmt":"2019-12-20T12:16:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/?p=44285"},"modified":"2023-11-03T08:03:23","modified_gmt":"2023-11-03T08:03:23","slug":"how-do-you-keep-a-long-distance-relationship-steamy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-do-you-keep-a-long-distance-relationship-steamy\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you keep a long-distance relationship steamy and exciting?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-46241 size-full\" title=\"How do you keep a long-distance relationship steamy and exciting\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/How-do-you-keep-a-long-distance-relationship-steamy-and-exciting.jpg\" alt=\"How do you keep a long-distance relationship steamy and exciting\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are committed to a long-distance relationship, well, kudos to you! You definitely deserve a standing ovation. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For those who have been in a relationship with someone who is located far away knows how hard it is to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/how-do-long-distance-relationships-work\/\">long-distance relationship<\/a> steamy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aside from the regular challenges of any relationship, there is the challenge of not being together and this is very hard for any relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, just how to keep a long-distance relationship spicy? Don&rsquo;t worry, we&rsquo;ve got you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Steamy-LDR-%E2%80%93-Is-it-possible\"><\/span>Steamy LDR &ndash; Is it possible?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With a long-distance relationship, not only are you and your partner putting in that extra work every time or every day, but you are also being tested with temptation and not to mention misunderstandings.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, the question here is <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to spice up a long-distance relationship<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and keep it steamy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The fact is, it&rsquo;s hard not to be able to consummate your marriage, it&rsquo;s very hard to not to be able to hug and kiss your partner and to cuddle when you have had a rough day. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, sex is not the only thing that is at risk when you are in this type of relationship.&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Misunderstandings and drifting apart from each other is as scary as well. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All in all, being far away from your partner is hard. So, can we <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep a long-distance relationship steamy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The answer is yes! Of course, it is possible!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Couples in long-distance relationships will have <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/infidelity\/long-distance-relationship-cheating-and-challenges\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">challenges<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> but it&rsquo;s nothing they can&rsquo;t handle. As long as you and your partner are willing to try ways on how to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep long-distance relationship steamy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and strong, then this will be beneficial for you and your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, it can even strengthen your bond even if you are miles apart.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Questions-to-ask-yourself\"><\/span>Questions to ask yourself<b><br><\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do you think, asking yourself these questions are important? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Long-distance relationship sex ideas <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can be hot, sometimes too hot to handle!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Without a clear understanding of how it should be done and how you will do it privately, there can be consequences that might compromise your privacy and your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before trying any of these sex tips and ideas to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep a long-distance relationship steamy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, ask yourself the following things first.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Am I open to trying out <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kinky ideas for long-distance relationships<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is our communication strong enough that we are able to discuss fantasies and even use adult toys?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are we both comfortable in doing this via video chat? Via Skype and through phone calls?&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do we have a clear understanding of the things that we are doing and how it will affect our long-distance relationships?&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How-to-spice-up-a-long-distance-relationship\"><\/span>How to spice up a long-distance relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, now that you are ready, let&rsquo;s check out the ways on <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to keep a long-distance relationship hot<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and steamy!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Go-for-a-masturbation-session\"><\/span>Go for a masturbation session<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-46242 size-full\" title=\"Go for a masturbation session\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Go-for-a-masturbation-session.jpg\" alt=\"Go for a masturbation session\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, that is correct. We all do it, some more often than others but most of us masturbate. It&rsquo;s a natural thing so why not use it to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep a long-distance relationship steamy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talk with your partner and once you feel the fire burning, once you feel turned on, continue until you are doing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/truth-about-phone-sex-fantasies-as-told-by-the-people-who-create-them_n_55d4934de4b0ab468d9f1dfc?ri18n=true\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">phone sex<\/a>. It&rsquo;s actually a fun way to keep connected with your partner, even if he or she is far away. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use words, moan, be descriptive, and most of all, enjoy what you are doing and it will be so good.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Steamy-emails-or-texts\"><\/span>Steamy emails or texts<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sex through the phone isn&rsquo;t the only thing that you can do with your partner. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep a long-distance relationship steamy <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">by keeping constant communication with your partner. Aside from the usual greetings and asking about day to day experiences, why not try to send sweet and sexy texts or messages?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Write-your-own-sex-stories\"><\/span>Write your own sex stories<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love writing? Do you have a fantasy and you want to tell it your partner? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, use your imagination and create your own steamy sex stories. In fact, you can even use your own names and it will be so fun to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep a long-distance relationship steamy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Top it up a notch and do it per chapter. Send it every day so that your partner will look forward to seeing something every single day. Plus, once you see each other, you can make this story come true.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tease-your-partner\"><\/span>Tease your partner <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-46243 size-full\" title=\"Tease your partner &nbsp;\" src=\"https:\/\/image.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Tease-your-partner-.jpg\" alt=\"Tease your partner &nbsp;\" width=\"804\" height=\"350\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the best things to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep a long-distance relationship steamy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is to tease your partner. Nothing beats teasing when it comes to sexual intimacy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It drives our hormones crazy and makes everything alive and exciting! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wear sexy lingerie and send it to your man. Wear a sexy boxer and create a short clip of you dancing for your woman &ndash; now that&rsquo;s teasing.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Leave-a-surprise\"><\/span>Leave a surprise<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are able to visit each other, make sure to leave sunrises for your partner. If we can suggest, you can leave sexy lingerie under his bed or pillow. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&rsquo;t forget to spray your favorite perfume on it so that he&rsquo;ll think of you as soon as he sees it. We&rsquo;re sure that he&rsquo;d want to see you as soon as possible after this. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Use-teledildonic-toys\"><\/span><b><\/b><b><\/b>Use teledildonic toys<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you familiar with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/sex-toys-every-couple-should-try-once_l_5e1f748fc5b673621f6fb295\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex toys<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? How about teledildonic toys? Did you know that this is one sure way to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep a long-distance relationship steamy? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We are so lucky to have this technology today. Now, you don&rsquo;t have to be in the same house or room to have sex and to sexually stimulate each other. It&rsquo;s now possible using teledildonic toys, with the use of technology, your partner or you can control the adult toy via an app.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, your partner can stimulate you even if you are miles away from each other. This is such a great present for your partner that both of you can enjoy!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, is it really hard to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">keep a<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/distance-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder\/\"> long-distance relationship<\/a> steamy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? It depends on the couple. If you and your partner both have an opened mind, then trying these tips would be easy for you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are both willing to try different things then you will never have a boring relationship and you will always look forward to seeing and talking with your partner.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Watch this video:<\/strong><br><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/j1CQTSC7ctU\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false,"raw":""},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you are committed to a long-distance relationship, well, kudos to you! You definitely deserve a standing ovation. For those who have been in a relationship with someone who is located far away knows how hard it is to keep a long-distance relationship steamy. Aside from the regular challenges of any relationship, there is the challenge of not being together and this is very hard for any relationship. So, just how to keep a long-distance relationship spicy? Don&rsquo;t worry, we&rsquo;ve got you. Steamy LDR &ndash; Is it possible? With a long-distance relationship, not only are you and your partner putting <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":675,"featured_media":46241,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2502],"tags":[2607],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44285"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44285"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44285\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":90864,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44285\/revisions\/90864"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/46241"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44285"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44285"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44285"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}